Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 9 August 1949 — Page 4

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DEAR MANNERS: ra . I UR ) my husband’ to play poker on Friday nights with; Job at Night “the boys" —bit-he wasn't WITH “the boys.” He said he stepped out By JAMES GRAYSON

because I was coltkto him. : : Ci "1 got busy and ¢hanged—but quick. He sald the affair was ng Ing wis 1 hag 2 Jood nothing, and ail that that men usually hand out to thelr wives. plants 1am now a cleaning

He said I'd always been the only one and still was, and that as long woman. workin : : . g at night in an ; ed am \Qne . ; as : tay eS ow. * Boy Friend Is Bossy - office building. I would like to even tem . into factory work.

. SJ'M 22 and go with a feliow, et back into ! Tm resentful and have lost A Jo MEE EP BUR FT dont Have you any suggestions?

$0 ne x my Joe nd at ny know M4. I Jove him. He tries to! - As you know, factory work now

“olf €asy and let him taice-me fop-TUR

} E low : oh Om : $0, picks. And tells From your letter I assume’ that pointment. As a rule, courts allo an aly mares NE Te wii me how to dred I'm sick of it. You Worked For one emptoyer between one-fourth and ore: smoothing © : He tells me I'm Tho common. I/only during that period. It is/of the husband's income. If the

go out again.

smart that no one knows it. If

To Factory Work

[their wives to obtain the decree ‘only-with thespritten-understand-[ing thatthe wife will waive all {her rights to alimony and sup-

my life. He tells me whereils ‘not like it ‘was during the war.

Q-—Are wives entitled to alimony under ali circumstances? | . A~—No. To be entitled to alimony, a wife must prove that she {is the innocent party in a divorce action... If her husband obtains a decree, she will not, receive any alimony at all.

While it is true that four out of every five divorces are procured

y ’ | likely that this plant is no longer man makes $100 a week, for ex: It would -tickle me {td see nim, Yat 10 quit Bim, bubGant. dy making the i product it ia ample, the wife may receive becaught~ in an embarrassing time, vet he. has stood me up|then-and-that-it-has no need for tween $25 and'$35°'& week, hardly situation and have to squirm and 0 ties Should 1 take sworkers to do what you did then.'a suni luxurious enough to retire feel ashamed. He thinks he is 1 this stuff he is handing out or’ Had you ever thought of going on.” : find ‘someone’ who is more. con- to yqur former employer and ap-!

had the nerve I'd arrange Aa ......:e» Nothing I do pleases plying~for a job similar to the.ecting the amouitt awarded.’

situation he'd have fo Work to get out of, What he needs is a

him: [one you have now? I you had a Should the husband's earning MOODY, CITY. good work record there, and It Ispower decrease; her income will

g00d lesson so the next.time he “ooo ooo J nan's approval still in their Migs, you no doubt also decrease. If he loses his job,

‘won't be so anxious;

only when he asks you to mar- would get a good interview at she may be cut off without a cent

Is this a phase that women g0 vy ‘him..and marry you soon. least. If you apply™gr the kind for weeks or even months at a throtigh, or am 1 completely out yp je doesn't respect you and ‘of work you are how doing this time, =

of love with him? Am I just-a you don’t enjoy his company, ‘would give ybu a basis “for an mean, bitter woman? I know (....0 Jittle reason to date interview,

Many husbands, again, are of- | ten in arrears in .their payments.

that I should forget and uy 3 him. If 1 thoaght I might be | Working at night now, yoUiQf course, the wife can have her build something worthwhile—but _o jie “common” I'd change, ‘would already be broken in on a former spouse hauled into court i Wonder if he's worth it. Maybe (hather he's around, or not. night job, if this was all he had and thrown into jail, but if she

I do love him but just want to get a the best of him. I've been so’ ut- Why ‘Nice Girls’ Fail to get into an organization and

to offer. The important thing 18 does that she is simply killing:

the

She may even have trouble col- §

* |by women, this does not mean that the husband is necessarily the |wrong-doed. Many men. permit

tion and thus be awarded support

port. {for herself. But since this in-| © ° But even where the wife is en. VOIves considerable expense also, titled to a court allowance, the few wives care to take this step. amount awarded is often\a disap-

To Tell War Experiences

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wife Hay £9 into that state! BA EE. : and have him arrested on the! ground of RON-SUPPOTt Or desers SEES

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Mfe, amd before, tov, that I don’t husbands to women the husbands into a better job, after the exec feel he realizes what he has. It gamit are bad? Why do they lose ives have had a chance to see should mean a Jor Alem WHEN INE TE ANeCHONAte, Toi Th ACTION mm cee have. a. woman he. can. trusi, | patient, agreeable, attractive,’ oo . 11 the time-killin this sordid life is more than I can neat, not extravagant, loyal; you Ne aD ae hectic take. ready to admit faults and make [0 400 vou can appreciate an : WEST BIDE READER. corrections; ready to go out or employer's “reluctance to employ Whether it's our mother In. stay home as wished by the hus- ,,, "ox defense worker. Factory SHAG that makes us feel free iband; when they're fond of their n,sqyction, in many companies, is to dole out punishment for mils- drinkers and smokers, fair house- than it was then. Unless the plant demeanors, or our inability to keepers, good cooks, and em- yo cod records or some forefluff oft our. frets physically, we "ployed through riecessity” man gan remember you, the emwomen are. vengeful. 1. don't | Sometimes the ——— sald f h " ame | " work before he offers you anyie you a bit for being | 1, be bad appears very at- thing worthwhile, That is why I steamed up but the best way £0 | tractive because she's. under- coast janitress work to get you defeat that husband you'll love | standing. She overlooks other i, Then you can gradually work

again Is to stay ahead of him. | people's faults, knowl she into a better job If such is prac- :

Staying ahead - means you has many of her own. AX wife tical,

3 ‘ho thinks she's perf be- . have to act sure of yourself, | “ $ If it is not possible to get back| and to be sure of TAIT you'll} cause Her husband decsn’s hurt with. your old. employer, I suggest!

rm ea . by telling her of her faults have to to the wrong her by telling her |you check the opportunities near het ru on geil mat, 30 ode nome only make yous unhappy. | way——she may be agreeable, e *! but not entertaining. She may

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