Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 5 August 1949 — Page 5

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Derisive Wife Criticism

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MANNERS: in our sewing club has us wives at wit's end. She's

him. How can I tell him? ha SHMAIALY talks against her husband and. tolls}

UNDECIDED.

sui Work BAFE “ARASH RAIL he ARS Fun around further adding

or drink. But she indicates he is, - : -- mentally ill; feeding her children when people stop Deing-atten—| tive, we start trying ‘to please.

this pocus so they'll turn to her.| We know there's pothing wrong. Ignore the woman's complaints and insinuations but offer her

with him except she has made| him {ll at ease ro friendship when she’s Pets: an

- Our husbands squirm with discomfort when she talks to them Encourage her to visit her doctor, take a vacation and

freely about sex. When we try to| broaden her scope of recrea-

_show ' sie “doesn’t want to get . “along with her husband she turns! tion. Maybe she has. a. talent F or hobby. One of your husbands

tears. and we're in for| another intimate story. | could make it clear to her, man’ Lonely Hearts her | I'M A widow, 32,

! The we ike her. we. try. to | Jushion. ¥ that running down ugh. | “husband ~~ brings him- “more “avoid her. Is there any approach ‘that might change her? She item-| izes everything she does.to make] =. Jt appear she is a drudge, while! “we take “our househoid chores us’ routine. Her baby is darling and!

smart boy. If he

don't want . Months from now, city apd country a hie 1 things differently if be} found another

till wri 2, that Hens. and

changes. © Getting him to go would be quite a hy fay ov iE an comida

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cism. - : ojo meet people.

Ashamed. of B Boy...

WHILE visiting I met a Yor, |age, just to go out with,

to us would be a delight—but to 18, who wanted me to marry him, All my friends are married and

her it is just one long feeding, bathing. washing -andShe wails she is tied down. though Iways. When he came to the city be the bus is at her front door and I was not only tired of Beeing like me. & new car sits in Ye garage. him "but slightly’ embarrassed at| SOUTH. SIDE READER. A FRIEND, TRA I ecient KA "Allof us like to be popular and ! I told him I didn't ove im and when we start losing ground he was hurt. He wert: home with our friends we fight te 'I was glad. He told me he get It back, if we have per- loved me and when I changed, good, sonality, character and intelli- [to it I do miss him, but gence. We We Hike listeners: and ‘want to » change his hickish ways. |

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I vould like to correspond wit “North Side Career Woman” I'm a. very lonesome single ma of 45, SOUTHERN INDIANA READER

people or promote correspondence (which I can't) I'm afraid

this loneliness you feel? You meet new people but you don’t . know how to become friends with them and stay Until you learn 14 reveal that personality all have, you'll be alone in new crowds,

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ness mans nt and in sumimers have usually had a soft] in nt. How ean I'S of the, workthe plant? The condition ny. father's health makes it y that I make good. | between - parents. ' By JAMES GRAYSON {children feel insecure because of

Being natural is not as easy the conflict in the home, And as it sounds. But that is what here, certaifily,” something can be

| those times than normalty.

you ask. your father... grguments affect impres-

work out in the plant] n start. with... HAIG The same. Slonsble_youngaters, reduc ie . an absolute THIN.

[hams as the owner of the plant ~This puts you on the at all in their éhildren's presence.

I you have a personal “job. with parents’ views. Children |problem, write James Grayson, worried over their parents. not /in care of, The Times. seeing eye to eye with them on « | to issues. This cause of dissatisfacTiminated of eat some of your meals ‘where since parents will have to differ

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in the company cafeteria_eat with ally. them. If they bring their lunches « But if you try to get your chil vou should do this some of Xie dren to’see the reason for your > . . Hime. ating in hive es attitude, it will help overcome —one—of—them and are not high- resentment and make for better 'hatting them. It also gives you. a chance to learn first hand many things which later will be important and helpful to you. . Employer - employee relations children that much happier. are Very Important thmgs. Works=| lls? ing with the men in the plant ~Q—For what other reaso you learn a lot about thé prob- children unhappy in the home? lems Which confront factory A __Quarreling with sisters and worke#s” These problems 100K a prothers, loneliness, misunderwhole lot different when you are standing in the family, quarreling {close to them than they do when with parents, and feeling misun{they are brought in to the front jerstood all affected youngsters “office, adversely. You will make hew and lasting, Other causes of unhappiness friendships by being one of the wére being compared with other |fellows. Act as if you are going children, nagging by parents, and [to be in the department indefi- jack of companionship with parnitely and learn all you can about ants. Being afraid parents would the different duties and tasks geparate. that the father was {the “workers ‘have: to “perform. hard to get along with. and Taek This will give you information of monev were the last three

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