Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 27 May 1949 — Page 8

Sorry Now She Broke Engagement to Man’

Nother Now Free To Seek a Job

- DEAR MRS. MANNERS: . 1 broke my engagement to & man to find out if I really loved him, but I soon realized my mistake. I started chasing him as I said I'd do if I changed my mind. We had wonderful timed, even just walking the streets. I had hurt him, for he started drinking terribly. * .~ He said he always loved me and always will, and wanted to talk He said he had to get marHed for contvibuting > ihe ae. |wallet home, he cant find dad linquency of a minor. He said, and me, or he wants to buy us he would marry the girl to give Ipresents and won't get his allowthe baby a name, and that he ance in time. would help them. But he said Couples in our crowd have been Be didn’t love the girl and!friends for years. We're fond of; wouldn't live with her. He begged each other's children and I want me to wait for him. Jour friends i be Jond of our son. Now he's married, and I'm What sha 0? waiting. Nothing can part us, TROUBLED PARENTS. though I. know it's wrong. I've Telling your friends you iried to forget him, but I guess! don’t trust your som would be it was meant to be. Please help exaggerating, wouldn't it? Acme. BROKENHEARTED. tually you find him slipshod

Time on Hands, So What to Do?

I am a married, woman 56 years old and for the most of my life have been a housewife. My children are married and my husband and I eat out most of the time. What kind of a job can I get? I don’t need the money but want something to help keep me busy, By JAMES GRAYSON Working for someone else is not like doing as you please,

if you really know just what is in-

H you have a personal job problem, write James Grayson, in care of The Times.

’ 3 about debts. Saying more might er Lharsied. As long as Be ruin his reputation and the You'd probably be bored if opinion your friends have of this man were suddenly dumped | ¥ u a a parent. 15 with in your lap, You didn’t want ak them to co-opers . him when you had him, so you out the heavy conversation that worked up some excitement, would arouse their suspicions. Being swept: off your feet by Tell them you're trying to get | pe drabbest man in the world FE budget, Suggest Seng enough If you love | 4. to stay right after him for payment. If that doesn’t work, tell him you're going to pay his debts from his allowance, and do just that. ’

There Are Good Ones

I HAVE no problems, but the woman who wrote that husbands were all alike made me angry. {I've been married 18 years, and my husband is as good and kind as can be. I have girl friends who! F. Ihave husbands just as good. Keeping him comfortable In | “Another Fool” had better look boy and girl parties will do [over her own faults and see what more toward drawing him out caused her husband to be what than dragging him off by him- [he is. ; self and having him fidget- | The trouble with a lot of wives ing. Becoming “girl-minded” |is that they marry for a meal is a big change for him. He [ticket and pretiy clothes instead won't notice it as much if the [of love. A HAPPY WIFE, boys he knows are at the samé | “Another Fool” practically parties, going through the same | a4mits she has some pretty bad Fhases and the same ‘“suffer- | faults when she Indicates she

i couldn't get along with ANY Careless With Cash

husband, doesn’t she? Let Mrs. Manners and readHOW CAN I tell friends of my| ers of the column share your husband and myself that my son isn’t to be trusted with money?

problems. Write: in care of The Times, 214 W. Maryland St. ‘He has a way about him of getjing ony Be Soean't need, Hes Dr. Rice to Speak nonin : Dr. George P. Rice Jr., direc{riends, and he's never pald backiyor o¢ the Butler University divithe money he's borrowed from son of speech, will speak on us. I'm sure he won't to others.

“Public Opinion in a Democracy” "He gives them harmless sound- at the Indianapolis Rotary Club

ing reasons such as he left his meeting at 12:15 p. m. Tuesday.

He's Bashful

-MY BOY friend says he likes me as a ‘friend. But he's too bashful to ask for a date. How could I help him overcome his shyness? Should I just wait until he Jets courage enough to na me? 1 have great faith In you asm I have written you before,

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Historical Group Plans 2d Tour

The second tour of the fourth Yiannual Hoosier Historical Instiitue directed by Dr. Ross F. Lock-

iridge will be held June 4 and

{in the Whitewater River area of part of the day. Starting as a southeastern Indiana. part-time worker might be the|

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NOTRE DAME, May 27—Notre Dame graduate students holding the Atomic Energy Commission Fellowships assured the government of their allegiance today.

cent voluntary. “Oath of Allegiance” to the United States Government was signed oy and submitted to the Atomic Bn, ergy Commission and the Con-| gress of the United States by the students in graduate school. Graduate students at Notre Dame were awarded eight out of 44 fellowships made available by the Atomic Energy Commission

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THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES Your Marriage: By Samuel and Esther Kling

Extremely Prudish Person e Misfit in Marriage

eT a Pn At on the Consider the case of Mr. R. who wasn’t sure about going ahead with his approaching magriage. He

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Most Roads to ‘500’ Will Be Open:

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