Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 25 May 1949 — Page 14

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DEAR MRS. MANNERS: 1 TOOK

Scorns His Stepda

a heating from my present husband over my little

daughter by a former marriage. I can’t have her with me because Saughie he isn’t keeping another man’s child. He knew about her arried.

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talk with him? WORRIED SOUTH SIDE MOTHER,

How you people get together when you can't talk to each other and how you expect to stay together without understanding each other haffles me. Yon, a parent, should have had several talks——more talks than star-gazing. You're as much to blame for your unhappiness as the man you assumed would accept your child. Instead of keeping your children out of sight or coaching them to he angels and help you impress their prospective stepparents, you should let your children and the suitors get acquainted. They should become so well acquainted they

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husband doesn’t treat her right when she visits me over the weeklends. My mother keeps her and

get on each other's merves, as they're bound to eventually. Have a talk with your husband, but don’t make it an issue. A man resents little talks. He feeis like a whipped boy, and those boyish characters are just what you don’t want In a husband, Make your husband feel sure of your love. With enough aflection and contentment, he won't mind sharing you with your child.

Wife Can't Forget I CAN'T leave my husband for my children would die. ' They think their daddy is all of it, and s0 do 1. But you see every two weeks he gets to drinking and sometimes stays out all night, He has two-timed me, too. He comes right back to me and I forgive him, but I can't forget. ”

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I wash my husband’s hair and treat him like I do our children and we never have a cross word until he stays out all night. Then we say awful things to each other, I've struck him over this, but he never hits me. I've cried and I've knocked him around—I've tried everything. I helped him build our home, and I'm a nice housekeeper and keep myself neat. He can bring his beer home, 1 was a nice girl when he married me and always have been true. I think I'm too good to him—in fact, I know I am. He doesn't dress up when he goes out, or spend much money, and he's a good provider. His brother was with him one time when he was with a woman. Could he be the trouble? My husband quite drinking once, so he could do it again, Please help me. - WORRIED WIFE, City. Tugging at your husband's coat tall won't keep him pure. He'll get away, if he wants to. A night out often softens a man toward a woman's bossing

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nagging, but g - tions with him won't bring home mellowed. 1 can see why you'd to

flick a few suds in his eyes and douse him enthusiastically in the water, but vielence and upsets won't keep him home, He thinks those women you say he went out with un him-—but he'd rather you did. Make him think he has freegon Let him plan your evegs out, together, and some of his at home. Telling a man he can’t do something is a challenge he finds hard to ignore. :

Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column share your problems. Write in care of The Times, 214 W. Maryland St

Your Job—

Mother Considers Outside Work

Needs More Money To Make Ends Meet

I am the mother of two children, one twelve and the other nine. My husband is an office worker and makes a fair lve ing. But with prices so high we are always pinched and cannot have the extra things we would like te have. I have often thought that I should go to work so that we could have more mogey. I was married at the end of my first year in eollege and have no special training, I have never heen employed. What would you advise me to do? Could I make enough to have somedne stay with the children and have some money left?

By JAMES GRAYSON Much depends on the kind of work you prefer and that for which you are fitted as well as what jobs are available. Unless you have good companionship for the children youcan't be free from worry. Never

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better for the pair separation. : In this modern age there is no stigma attached to any woman

no man need feel that his wife's ‘working is a reflection on him. * Whether a marriage of this type will be successful, however, depends largely on the attitudes of the husband and wife. If the woman is going to taunt her man with the fact that she helps support the home, and so. embarrass and humiliate him, the marriage will probably fail. “If the husband, for his part, expects his wife to shoulder two jobs—one outside the home and one inside—without lending a helping hand, he is placing an unfair burden on his mate. Where both the husband and wife work outside the home during the day, both should work inside the home at night. It isn’t fair to expect the woman who puts in a hard day's work at an office, factory, or store to come home and clean, cook, serve meals, and do everything else that must be done. The husband whose wife must work should be prepared to shoulder some of these household duties. If a man is unwilling to assume part of the household burden, he should certainly not marry without first making it clear to his fiancee that she will have two jobs to handle alone. Of course, if she is willing to marry under such circumstances, that's all right. The pity of it is that most brides-to-be think they can cope wtih any and all responsibilities. It's only afterward that they become bitter and disillusioned through overwork and fatigue.

» » # Q-—What else should be considered before taking the plunge? A—Whether or not the couple could manage without the wife's! working, if it became necessary for her to give up her job. t There is always the chance that! she may become {ll or pregnant.

having been employed you would make. If it were necessary for

have to adjust yourself to conditions, But I wonder if you would be happy in a full-time job at the expense of your home interests.

If you have a personal job problem, write James Graysen, in care of The Times. . If you plan to work why not give consideration to a part-time job to begin with? In the summer, however, there

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