Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 23 May 1949 — Page 10

He Loves Her But LE Doesn't Trust Her

BEAR | MRS. MANNERS: © DO YOU believe ‘a boy could love you and not trust you? Hare is why he doesn’t. I've been married and have two chiland I talk to men I work with, in the open. I don't drink, and 1 haven’t run around since I met him, Older people tell him things. Maybe I have been too friendly, but can’t a girl who's been married look at anyone? People sure make it hard on a divorcee whén the ones who are married do lots more stepping They don’t notice she never opens : husbands. out. on .. their her mouth Without me STIaur. aging her. end up sounding me = La give > gu boy like a magpie—and she ends up to give up everything for| "1th all the attention. , I've I'd like to go out some nights He's and be quiet, but someone has never been married, and he|to keep the conversation going doesn’t ‘cars for friends. and she certainly won't. You'd Why won't people trust a|think men would notice who is woman after she’s been married responsible for getting them, and when she tries to do right? Some-{MY girl friend, talking and maktimes I get sick over things peo-|ing an evening fun, How can I ple say to me because you can’t|Zet her to share her load of the make a move without older conversation? 8AL. - women talking about you. Some Save your conversational enday it could happen in their! ergy for your dates when you homes because they have daugh-| get them alone—and don’t ters and sons. overdo it then. Don't worry aleve TouTe se Jost undes- about your girl friend—she apn I've ever known. t! 1 h A WORRIED WIDOW, City, | Purently does all right. You The man could love you, but with you needing assurance as you do you'd better find an understanding man. Any man who loves you, as well as people looking for gossip, won't he favorably impressed if you're friendly to a noisy degree, or 1 youre Srogast became YO" | one in a strange group, but it's Often we're talked about for | easier if everyone offers somethe same reason we slip in | thing. marriage — we too much Let Mrs. Manners and readthinking about ourselves, The | ... ¢ the column share your

people who listen to us talk 5 Shout ourselves: naturally are | problems. Write in care of The

going to listen when someone Be Optimistic to Reach

else does. Does All the Talking YM WORN. ott. trom doing the 100, Says Centenarian talking for my girl friend. MALDEN, Mass (UP) — Live She's very pretty and she hasiright and look on the bright side nice clothes, but she leaves alliof iife. the talking to me. I'm getting| That's the way to become a tired of it and am beginning to|centenarian, says Mrs. Hannah lose all my feminine qualities Holt, 103, who was born in a log and become unpopular, cabin in Maine the same spring The men we go out "with like{that the United: States declared her looks, but I'm not bad myself. war on Mexico.

men otdmarily don’t like incessant chatter, Timid people don’t realize it, but they're a little bit lazy, don’t you think? Everyone owes some contribution to a conversation. Making with the chatter is hard for most any-

Mother-in-Law Is No Joke; |

and his mother, in turn, offers

{to her for such counsel. may be talking too much, and |

following a lifelong pattern-— seeks or accepts parental advice -—~the other is apt to regard him with disapproval.

Your Marriage by Samuel and Esther Kling—

She Can Be a Real Threat

Q—Which tala causes tho most friction In marriage? A~The mother-in-law, who apparently causes

by in-law trouble accounts for about 60 per cent of all in-law The reasons are not hard to find. 1t is the mother who is the dominant influence in a child's life-—from the moment he is born they feel the couple are not mauntil the time he is married. It joe saough 19 manage successis she who nourishes him phys- own, {cally and spiritually—who takes| Second, the youth of the couple care of his needs and wants, |0ften makes them unusually While the father is more taken Sensitive to parental suggestions. up with earning a living and with|They rebel at being considered outside interests, the mother cen-|{nd treated as children instead ters host of her attention on the|0f 8s mature, married people. child. ie Fhe other Band, the more Inevitably, a deftnite pattern apt they Jarines aie, he are is formed whereby the child interference, Being older and prelooks to his mother for security sumable wiser, they are less likely to flare up at criticism, By. the such security. How, then, can we expect such (fame token, even when such a a pattern—built up pe many |Couple reject advice, they will do years—to vanish with the wed-|S0 more gracefully and with less Sing ceremony} i studies indicate that What happens, usually, is that : the ap Da Ys offer|€n and women who marry at advice and her child, though|the age of 24 or over gut slong married, often continues to look best with their in-laws

Mr. and Mrs. Kling éounsel their newspapér readers only through The Times. If you have a question, address it to Samuel ©. and Esther B. Kling, in care of The Indianapolis Times.

Unfortunately, mates don’t appreciate all this, They consider their in-laws’ advice as interference and regard it with hostility. Moreover, when ohe mate

Much mother-in-law trouble YOUr Job —

would be ‘avoided if, first, the mother would understand once er Sn’ re and for all that her child is on

his own and that he should be let

would understand the pattern a mother-in-law follows and make allowances for it. Q~—Does a couple's age at marriage effect the way they get along with their in-laws? | A-—Yes. ' The younger two people are when they marry, the longer it usually takes them to make a satisfactory in-law adjustment. In the first place, parents are more likely to offer advice and to

alone to work out his own salva- < i tion, and second, if more couples ; | ar !

Has Worked 25 Years in Factory

My father does not know what to do. Can you help him? He was raised on a farm and has always wanted to live in the country. For 25 years he has worked in a factory. He makes good money. But now he has a chance to take over

marriages.

bIGARETTE

his uncle's farm. We do not own our own home. We could have a nice house on the farm without paying any rent and could have half of all we make on the farm. My mother, my brother and I want to go to the country but my sister does not. We all are in high school. My father is afraid he could not make as good a living and that we might be unhappy.

By JAMES GRAYSON

interfere in the more youthful They do this because

your father’s problem that must be considered. Do you children plan to be at home for some time so that all the family can help earn a living? If so would there be enough work on the farm to keep you all busy? Has your father had dirt-farming experi-

farming? Could he stand to do outside work?

Consideration needs to be given

his present position. Has he ever|

in care of The Times.

Is he eligible for a pension? If 80 when? If he were to be retired or laid off could the rest of the family bring in a living income provided you stayed in the city? No mention was made as to the location of the farm, its size,

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Aussie Airline Pats Own Back

Times Special Writer MELBOURNE, Australia, May 23--Australian National Airways bosses are* indulging themselves in a bit of back-patting. ANA, they announce, has set a British Empire record. It has carried 3 million passengers and 100 million pounds of freight. Furthermore, it is the only empire airline to have flown 1% billion passenger miles. | To commemorate its achieve- | ment the ‘airline gave a gold watch and $300 worth of luggage

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