Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 16 May 1949 — Page 18
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Who could be jealous over someone like that? My husband] was insulted that I thought he was so dumb as to go for A woman like that. He said if she had
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« building me up, but he broke off with her before I found out. SKIPPY. A woman doesn’t actually save her face by giving up a man who gives her up femporarily for a little fling, does she? She isn't very brave if she can't face gossip for a while, knowing ome person's fife tsn’t important enough for Jbivers to concentrate on for
What if he did build you up «you've built him up and butit yourself in his opinion so that ‘he belongs to you—as long as you work at it. i
Loves Married Man
I AM 18 and love a married man in his 40's, with one child, -¥ am desperate for him to pay attention to me. He leads me on ane Py him, but I know n 8 love y no' we hopeless, His wife knows it, but it mmkes no difference. The inh have told me to forget him, but it's no use. 1 dréamn of him Syety Bight, Please help me. DESPERATE, Southern Indiana. The wife knows how you feel, and she knows something that you don't know. She knows : thet the first sharp boy your age who is attentive will make forget all about her aging
i Boys aren't Hikely to loiter if they think you've fallen for a married man who probably laughs at you, or pities you, at
the breakfast table with his ‘wife. Girl friends tell boy things, know. Pretty so Jour - will be out Quits Going Shady ° 1 LOVE a fellow I work with gud ot Tors fun with me than he did with his buddies. + But. ‘one came to me and sald he 't want to go
she isn’t good looking—|
an Wreck Her Life | ¥.Z. wanted to hriow what a single girl expected to get out :
a ‘married man. I think some don’t expect anything evening because they're man-crazy, and their morals
who dated my husband may have thought she had a Airy after awhile she knew the score. If her morals}
your first choice. Let him wonder,
‘Acting Like a Man’
DON’T feel sorry for yourself “Waiting, West Side” (the “other woman” who won her man, but can't -hold him).
broke up his former home. He is not running around still trying to find the “right” woman, as you think. He's running around because he's a man.
A married man is the easiest creature in the world to attract. He is flattered by the woman who
has is hers. He's again the gay young man of affairs, having fun while his wife sits home alone. Every woman goes through this and, keeping in “style,” goes through it again and again. You will say, Mrs. Manners, we wives should find out what's wrong and keep the darlings from getting bored. Usually nothing Is wrong but the wife's head. She should be examined by a mental doctor for ever getting married. Wives get bored, too— bored with “loving” husbands coming home late, shirts covered with make-up and lies and all the foul things a ‘great, big wonderful man” gives to his wife. ANOTHER FOOL.
It still isn’t too late to see a psychiatrist, and it's a good thing to seek consultation when you think a whole race of men ~=0f women--is wrong.
Sure, day after day, a woman goes through the fight to keep her husband interested. Marriage is a job, When he appears contented and naps or reads in his chair she isn't happy. The married men easiest to attract are the men who#e wives sour on the whole world and convince them théy aren't attractive.
Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column share your problems and answer your questions. Write in care of The Times, 214 W. Maryland St.
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David Askrew, 16, Columbus, Ind., has been ising $rem his
home for 10 days. son of Mr. and Mrs, Alva Jackson, Columbus, he failed to retum home after wrecking the family car on May 3. Southern Indiana and Kentucky police are searching for the boy at the request of his parents.
Your Job—
Laid Off First Because of Injury
Ruptured Man Seeks New Work
My husband was ruptured and taken back on the job when able but on the lay-off was one of the first to go. He has good recommendations but eannot get the kind of a job he wants because of injury. The places that do pot require a physical don’t pay enough to get by. He specializes in turret lathes, has followed his liné for over 20 years, and has been a line foreman and set-up man. ~ How can he get a job at a living wage?
By JAMES GRAYSON Why not accept the best job available and then see what can be done to enable him to passa physical examination? A small income is better than none at all
get another one easier than if he had none at all, It is possible that after he has worked awhile he can get more money where he is, provided he - 4f yor have-any personal job problems, write to James Grayson, in care of The Times.
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know of some possibilities he has overlooked. Z When talking with prospective employers he should have his
so that he can give them all the jobs he has had. This will help
Drive Set June 6
Seek Research Aid in Children’s Diseases state-wide campaign to
the Riley Hospital will open June 8, Perry W. Lesh, president of the Riley Memorial Association sponsors, sald today. More than 90 district and county chairmen and members of their campaign personnel, all volunteers of the movement, began preparations for the opening of the fund-raising effort after the annual meeting of the association recently. Speakers Announced Speakers at the meeting were Mr. Lesh, who presided; Dr. Amos Christie, noted research worker and head of the department of Pediatrics in Vanderbilt University, Nashville, Tenn.; Herman B Wells, president of Indiana University, and Dr. John D, Van Nuys, dean of the university medical school. Volunteer workers in the regular research fund set-up will include members of the Riley Cheer Guild, Indiana Farm Bureau, Indiana Congress of Parents and Teachers, Loyal Order of Moose, and Kappa Kappa Kappa sorority.
2 Husbands Try But Fail to Save Drowning Wives
KENNER, La., May 16 (UP)— Two young husbands who swam away and left their wives 100 feet from the bank of a pond told today how the women became terrified and drowned, clutching each other in a death grip. The wives, Mrs. Emmitt MecFerrin, 19, of Bogalusa, La., and Mrs, Tillman Stogner, 22, of Kenner, were sisters. Their hands were clasped when state troopers raised their bodies from 12 feet of water.
” " H MR. McFERRIN, 20, and Mr. Stogner, 23, told officers they decided they had had enough swimming and warned their wivel that “we're going to swim out and leave you out here.” They looked back when they reached shore, they said, and saw their wives locked in each other's arms, thrashing about in the! water, The men tried to save the women, they said, but they could not break the sister's death holds. State Trooper Charles Cole said the drownings appeared to be accidental. ;
Claypool Schoolgirl
Dies on Student Tour
PITTSBURGH, May 16 (UP)— The parents of 16-year-old Norma Creakbaum of Claypool, Ind, were en route here today after receiving word of her death while on a nine-day eastern tour with a group of high school students and teachers. The girl died yesterday of a lung congestion, She was the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Edward
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Q—Are some wives overly con-
children? A~—Yes, and they only succeed in making everyone miserable, themselves included. There are some women who fret every time their husbands come home a little late. Letting their imaginations soar, these wives picture all sorts of mishaps: Their men were run over by an automobile; they were stricken ‘by some fatal illness; or at the very least, they were held up, beaten and robbed. When the husbands finally do arrive, sound in body and limb, these women keep harping on how worried they were. Naturaly, their partners are made to feel guilty and uncomfortable for having caused this mental an-guish-—althougheactually they are not at all to blame. 3 The over-anxious
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