Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 12 May 1949 — Page 24

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Your Marriage: By Samuel G. and Esther B. Kling -|

Love Takes on New Aspect After First Child Arrives

Q—Does the arrival of the first child eall for new adjustments between husband and wife x ad

A—Yes, Where before the partners held undisputed first claim

Wife's Club Nights

Dear Mrs. Manners:

1. FEEL that a woman who

fulfills her obligations as a wife

i | and mother should be entitled to four nights out a month at women’s n club meetings. It isn’t much fun when my husband stays awake! | and resents my going out. I'm usually home long before midnight, {but when we women drink coffee I don't get home until later,

My husband admits I'm a good wife and mother. As for ex-

| pense, the clubs cost me just 10. {cents a night, and $3 once or {twice a year when I entertain.

My hushand can go out any

‘night except my club night. But;

Men |

column, K. R, OUT-OF-TOWN, Aren't you just a little bit flattered that your husband misses you? Don't you enjoy pretending to the women that |

We women seem to be the happiest when we wrestle with a problem, maybe to make us feel important or intelligent. The trouble is we often find a problem that wasn’t big until we went to work on it. Go to your club meetings but

home. Your husband will be satisfied if he thinks you're his big interest. Joining him in activities of his choosing could convince him that you enjoy his company.

I “accuse him of jealousy, he'll

sulk worse If I fell him his in- looked because she simply doesn’t husband will go out alone to some feriority complex shows, he'll feel have the time, rather than be-/ club meeting, for some sport, or like a weakling. What can I do?

NEW WIFE, Putting up with his babyishness won't get him over it, or make either of you happy. But maybe, very unwittingly, you've selfishly annexed his friends,

Both a husband and wife |

have to work toward each other's popularity, It takes them both to make their {friends think of them as “Mr. and Mrs. Smith,” not as “Bill Smith” or “Mary Smith.” Flatter your husband and include him, publicly, and compliment him on his ability to mix, after you've gone home, Get him working on the things that give him a complex, maybe by suggesting you feel you're slipping on the same thing. Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column share your problems and answer your questions, Write in care of The

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lon each other's attention and affections, the arrival of the baby di-/ {vides the interest and makes readjustment between the partners’

ecessa st The husband, for example, must be ready and willing to sacrifice; {become accustomed fo sharing his some freedom. Neither should iwife’s love and attention with the have to make all the sacrifices.

child. He must realize that some| gon otimes the ‘two will stay. iof the little things his partner! ‘now fails to do for him are over- Dome fogether. Sometimes the

{cause she no longer loves him. {just to be with the boys. But! | The spoiled-child type of hus- just as often he will stay in so. jpand refuses to accept the situa-ithat his wife can go out and keep, ition and. sulks when he doesn't yp some of her outside interests. | get his wife's full attention, or| Ang it’s important that the two rebels by seeking other women arrange to get out together reg-| {who “understand” him better. lularly. This ought to be man-| The wife, for her part, must be aged at least once a week, with! careful not to neglect. her hus-'either a paid sitter coming in or| {band because of the child. Some some relative or friend. {women become completely ab-| When the needs of both part-| a.

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question of priority in affection, The child must be taken up into the ldve which each has {for the other, and should be re-|

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