Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 11 May 1949 — Page 4

1st scheduled with a collec-

—Adirected by Walter Goldmann, the [Will be presented by a choral in

Miss Kipnis is in this country Kirsh-{for the first time and has ap-

program n ton of folksong, and a cantata, A gle Mrs. Manners— :

‘Gl Joe’ Encounters * Smpetah Stu TA Potsdam at Home

native] Leo Selig is general chairman was so dependent on him for companionship and guidance that it appear on theffor the Israeli Day celebration. Dear Mrs. Manners: made him Iniseraple, . WHAT can I do to make tour people who love each other happy Though Mrs. B. raised no objections to his going out alone for|

along.

last forever. My father and I agreed never to take sides, and we haven't, We decided to take our wives out on different nights to allow privacy to both families, and we have. My mother always wanted a daughter and she welcomed my wife like a daughter—until we lived together, My wife's mother died years ago and she was glad to have a second mother—until we lived together. ‘I'm not tiled to my nother’ apron strings, My wife admits that. My mother isn’t bossy—my wife admits that, too. 1 can't see why she could get . along living with my folks when 1 was in service but not now. How can I keep my wife and mother peaceful? G1 JO A wife will put up with a pretty bad house and with being broke IF her husband pretends with her that things aren't so tough because they're together, and that they'll get better. Your wife thinks you're failing her by slipping into the easy way of living with your parents. She thinks you owe "her married privacy—the same privacy that your mother is used to, and deserves. Your parents are used to your faults, but they aren't used to your wife's. She probably didn’t show them when you were in service for you were her major worry. She temporarily replaced you in your parents’ lives, but she can’t do it now that you're home. There's just one answer— move. You're still the most im-

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Much in Love THE boy overseas I'm engaged to*believes I step out on him, but

it isn't true, I'm.very much in . love with him, but somebody x iwrote him that I went out. How | A [ can I make him believe me? I'm - na E 186. REDHEAD, CITY.

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1 admit our situation tsn’t the best. We're living with my folks of town on business, she wotla/ because of the housing shortage and shortage of funds. It won't

worry is when he gets bighearted and urges you to have

fun, Write him regularly and affectionately, and don’t overdo explanations, or he'll think you're covering up.

He Got Bossy Tm a boy, 18, and love a girl

almost 18, but I broke up with her when I started getting bossy.

THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES

Your Marriage: By Samuel and Esther Kling

Wife Who Leans Too Much -|On Husband Cheats Her

Q—Can a wifs become too dependent on her husband? A~—~Yes. Mr. B. came to us with the complaint that his wife

under one roof? I don't see why my wife and my mother can't get/an evening, he Knew that she was “lost” without him.- And on the Mr. and Mrs, Kling counsel |e

occasions when he had to go out;

go about in a state of suspended, their newspaper readers only animation until his return. It had through The Times. If you have reached the point that he felt| a question, address it to Samuel guilty every time he had to leave| G, and Esther B. Kling, in care

her, for she had no interests aside from him. of The Indianapolis Times,

was not a healthy state of affairs other, it’s always a mistake for and suggested that he send Mrs. {one partner to go to extremes. B. in to see us, {It weighs the other down with a When we saw Mrs. B. we found sense of responsibility that can her to be a pleasant, attractive Only cause unhappiness. At the woman in her middle thirties, Same time, being overly dependent Ti% Discussfon revealed that before On soraeone ‘t detrimental to one's

Now I find I'm very much in love her marriage she had held a re-0Wn personality growth,

with her and I think she loves me. Because I'm working nights and plan to join the Navy when I graduate, she won't go with me. She now dates an older boy and I know he does not love her. I'm more than willing to take orders to get her back. VERY UNHAPPY D. That older boy probably bosses the girl more than you ever did. But his years of experience have taught him how to make her like it. Dates with lots of girls would do the same for you. There's something wrong with your line or she'd walt for your free nights. Unless you do something about it, you wouldn't stand a chance at holding her after you're gone. You teen-agers really get on one track. You don’t give yourselves time or opportunity -to look over the field and find the right person, when you're old enough to marry,

She Believed

I DIDN'T tell a man’s wife 12

was having a baby for him, but! my ‘husband suspects him. IIS

sponsible position and had en-| We explained that it was im{joyed an active social life. She lportant to to cultivate other inter{readily admitted that she now ests and activities which would lived only for and through her deflect some of her absorption in {husband whom she adored. {her husband and make her life We told Mrs. B. that while it meaningful even when he wasn't was natural and desirable for there; We suggested further that

We agreed with Mr, B, that it/partners to be dependent on each

sional 71D WUbost oat And by all to begin making! on matters

an occasional without her partner

more selfmeans, she w

report that the “change her marriage is all for the better.

marriage y really te want it to. If the uncertainty and the emotional eonfusion of i persisted after marriage, the chances are you wouldn't be happy. As a matmarital

ners’ attempt to duplicate their courtship days. But some of the elements of & courtship - romance, optimism, and galety—can and should remain, Where they do, the maririage is tremendously enriched.

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think maybe it's the married man & the woman signing her letter S “Two in Love” wrote you about./=

I love this man, but what

chance is there for me if he tells|=

the same stories to everyone he goes out with? 11 believed him. Now he is chasing his neighbor's wife. Should I tell his wife about im? L. Answering a letter like yours won't help you——or my disposi tion. Of all the dirty tricks— making a wife unhappy because & man you had no business see .ingi’'is walking out on you! : There's no chance for you with “anybody until you pick up some "morals.

Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column -share your problems and answer your guestions. Write in care of The Times, 214 W. Maryland St.

Suicide Is Fourth

In Brewing Family ST. LOUIS, May 11 (UP) — Charles E. Lemp,

th menibet of ‘the famous g

Yemp Brewing family to die by suicide, authorities said today. Lemp was found dead yesterday in .a bedroom of the ancient family mansion on St. Louis’ south side, now an

ea. 2 | A" 38-caliber revolver lay on | Lemp's chest. | self in the head.

He had shot him-

Lemp’s father, William J. Lemp, | 8r., shot himself to death at the home in 1904. Another son, Wiltam J. Lemp Jr., shot himself fatally in the same house in 1922. A daughter later committed suicide at her home in

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