Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 9 May 1949 — Page 8

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DEAR ry MANNERS: 3 MY trouble fs no fellows want to go out with me because of my baby. They want single girls or girls with no responsibility. Could I join the WAVE’s and leave the baby with my folks? 1 get a divorce this week and now live with my mother. I ® thought I could live with my husband until the baby was older, but I got tired of him coming home and beating me up and then going out for the evening by | cessful marriage have given himself. | are more important than select~ ‘It ‘wasn't so bad awhile be- ing one boy friend right ‘now. cause I could hit back, but he

on toe tack a nankTes Asks About Spars

our son in the face as hard t WHERE CAN 1 obtain infor he could and knocked him clear! mation about the women's amxill-

across the room. That's when we ary corps, the SPARS in particu-

parted. { MON ROVIA TEENAGER,

{Outgrow Position "(To Get Better One

Your Job—

Fermer Executive Seeking to Adjust I am having difficulty " adjusting myself to my job. I work in the paris department of a small manufacturing concern, counting parts ‘received and keeping track of those issued to the different departments. I was an é ve for many years in a similar business which had to fold up at the beginning of War IL. How can I work myself up in this organization?

By JAMES GRAYSON You are not alone in this sort

He lives in this neighborhood | 2 and I see him with other girls. : .He has boasted that I can't get. ot Jie. SPARS arens TSCIUling anybody. He used to tell me I was| © PIoReitie Dov S08 (ar PATS | ugly but everybody says. I'm| P ri) os . Cl oast Guar pretty, though I think they're recruiting office, Cincinna ! Other branches of service are located as follows: Women's

making fun of me, I came from a respectable home and he didn't, | Army Corps and Women's Alr | Forces, 342 Massachusetts Ave.; |

but I didn't know that until we, were married. I'm 20 and he’ 8 28, | and I was married when Ijwas 17. von ou. or Wt Ottics e've separated a Jot of times.! .We never had a happy marriage. | Room 401, Post Office Bldg.

"We had an argument the day was LOWered Her Voice |

married. People said before I married th LOTS OF you women could get! ey never saw-me with i oftener with your husbands,

out 1 gt a smile, but now they ReVeriit you sat down and figured out

see me with one, Do any fellows have anything! what about you bothers the men.

{You can learn a lot from those fo do vith Firs ma A tow remarks your husbands make

* about other wives. The WAVES are out. You You can tell if they're having can't join if you have children (fun laughing about your hats, or under 18, regardless of their if they really mean it. You can legal custody. Running out on tell if youre monopolizing the; your son wouldn't bring you [conversation talking about house- | _boy friends, amyway. Though |keeping—or just talking too much, they often discover a stepchild | Like most girls after a man, is quite expensive, they won't |1 was very demure before I was think of the burden If they married. I never raised my voice, | love you. and I let the man I married do A job, where you meet people, {most of the talking. After 1 got | and some improvements to get | him I started talking—and shrilly, | you over that complex that [for my voice is naturally high, your husband and an unsuc- Soon my husband was. eating

Your Marriage: By Samuel and Esther Kling

Joint Bank Account Is Good If Mutual Confidence Exists

Q~Is it advisable for a married couple to have a joint checking account? . A--It's a highly satisfactory way of handling the family finances if the husband and wife are equal to it! The joint checking account, to which each partner has free access after all regular monthly. expenses have been allowed for, gives the Fajr complete equality | ates that there's no Bs to syoceed, Pleasing them. Sometimes they however, there ‘must be: mutual have unreasonable - prejudices nfidence between the partners, which shouldn't be allowed to inco niigence | Y : rate it terfere with your happiness. Ocan e income 18 modera'e It ., ionq1ly, they met their hearts calls for self-restraint as well. If |,» nurviourar prospect and re“7 ygneither husband or wife is a spend-

of a predicament. Many men, who have had better jobs in the past, are now doing routine jobs when ithey are equipped by training

‘and experience to do bigger {things. Working up “these days isn't) always as easy as it once was. As you say, there are some ‘people

{not want to. do any more work |

[fast and reading—when 1 wanted |

Marines, (in every organization who do

to talk—I1 was staying home|

alone. All in the world 1 did was “shush” some and lower my voice. Maybe that didn't do it, but he’s around now and he's taking me out. but it’s worth it. I did it once ~~] can keep on doing it. MRS.

8. GABBY. That's the trouble in many marriages, isn’t it? Couples

hide their faults while single, but expect to get away with bringing them out after the honeymoon, Most shrill voices can be improved with a little concentration and with the aid of training given by Tech High School's Personality Clinic, speech clubs

and high school and college

. public speaking courses. Pleasing a man in choice of hats is practically impossible, though, don’t you think? We get very little encouragement from those critical male eyes. We're pretty nice about it, too, not looking too awed by the pink shirts.

Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column share your problems and answer your questions, Write in care of The

Times, 714 W. Maryland St.

IT'S TIME TO SHINE WITH

THE SHINE THAT

thrift, the method: fails. fuse to consider any other,

tent of drawing a large check gyeinle youn £ man who wanted! when the account is low ot with- marry her. The girl's parents,

out Asking the other whether hey waver, will have any heavy Or Unusualigng wed the son: of their best SXpense Suing She month, the|sriend, Under her parents’ conpian 20. CO lapse. stant pressure the girl's resistance

ful in the handlia of mone have a healthy 8a 5 ed resist

other's needs, the joint checking Q—Should You marry to please your - family or yourself? ' no valid objection to of your choice, and you are old|usuall yourself since you, rather than|if careful consideration convinces

person chosen,

We know of one case where a If either is selfish to the ex-! |girl was in love with a perfectly,

were determined that!

But if both partners are biorhi finally broke down -and she marv, Flea fhe bey of their choice, with extremely unhappy results, Inand are conatderate of - each deed, the union has since ended

in divorce and she is now married account can rove a oon, indeed. |t; the man she originally wanted, It's always wise not to dismiss ‘ your parents’ displeasure lightly, Where your parents haveiand to try to understand the to the person|basis for, it since parents are y good judges of whether enough to know what you really or not their children are making want, you should marry to please the right matrimonial choice. But

they, will have to live with the|you that their objections are unreasonable or superficial, you Sometimes parents set such may well proceed to follow the

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