Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 2 May 1949 — Page 11

§ MONDAY, MAY 2, 1040 8B Ask Mrs. Manners— :

Loves His Wife But ~

_ |Your Marriage: By Samuel and Esther Kling *

Happiest Couples Agree

will find it easier to compromise LIKE COALS TO NEWCASTLE] your differences and embark on| LONDON, May 2 (UP)~—Pak-| the right course with such expert istan opehed a campaign at the! help and guidance. British Industries Fair here to-

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no ® © » \ i Doesn't Like Fights Eficiency Rating On, Child-Training Method | 25 =m vo 0S SEE pp i ly : Q—Does failure to agree on your child's traning affect your| Attending lectures on mm E . ? ” A E DEAR MES. MANNERS: : Various Methods of Cl on the care and discipline of the children an intellivent Sffort to Laren os 3-Day Service MY WIFE and I had two fights and I left her because I hate] Study Suggested

is’ fundamental to the happiness of a husband and wife.

A study of over 500 young couples reveals that the greatest number of very happy couples and the least number of unhappy ones were among those who always agreed on the children's up- Mr. and Mrs. Klin bringing.

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to fight. But I came back, thinking we could make it. . I told her we were going to get along and that I wan't going to leave her anymore, regardless of what happened, for I love her and our baby. But we don’t seem to get along. I don’t run around or stay out late, throwing away my maoney. I bring it home, pay bills and buy :

child training get the most pleasure from their children, and promote their own happiness as well as that of their youngsters.

counsel

focd and clothes for my family. I ‘work every day.

Asks State” Flowers

their newspaper readers only

Where there waz agreement! through The Times. If you have

t of the time, there were : WHAT ARE the flowers and you are sure that you would ™o® h a question, address it to Samuel My wife tells me she doesu'tisongs for Delaware, Washington, really read and study there is|'*Wer WIV happy couples 82d and Esther B. Kling, in care love. me any more. Whenever she Iowa, Texas and Tennessee? much to be learned in this way. .

does wrong I try to show her

right, and~we usually end up| -

arguing and fighting.

method is that of attend- AT ALL STORES : peach blossom — “Our Del- |ing late and where there was agreement only(he pleases by running to one 3 ot Te) Eo a ari 5,1 Sets ted, ne TO SAT ht tn pn hn Sen

leave.

MRS. N., SOUTHSIDE. They follow: Delaware—

8., EAST SIDE.

senting that attitude.

~your mother

away from her.

. You sound pretty critical and set in your ways, Mr. 8S. —Maybe a little older than “your wife. Men have a habit of expecting their wives to know that they love them, without telling them about it— and women have a habit of re-

Your wife may not cook like r run your house on the orderly basis you have in mind. You don’t do everything right either, you know. I doubt if she tries to

(and your own way) don't make you happy when you're You'd better

dendrum—no song; Iowa-—wild rose—“Iowa”; Texas-—bluebon-

net—no song; Tennessee—iris— no song.

Bashful Boy, Bashful Girl

I LIKE a fellow well and think

ful, Can you give any suggestions how we can get over our bashfulness and understand each other better? B. J. J, CITY.

Remember your first éay at school, when you were just a little girl, B. J. J.2 I'll bet you

It's the same now. . You two are embarrassed because dates, like school, are

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PLANT

is the word for PEANUTS

Rf didn’t want to go steady when

u$| Times, 214 W. Maryland St.

=A (him among the all-time great «vty |Americans.”

§ there is another boy I like? |

J. L. Of course you did right, J. L. Wait until you run into a boy you want to go steady with iny stead of deciding you want to go steady and hunting a man to fill the bill. There's no reason you must go steady. You think you'll learn to love those boys after you've gone steady a while. - You, probably never will, so why waste all that time? MRS. MANNERS.

‘Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column share your problems and answer your questions. Write in care of The

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The ex-President will receive a

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he likes me, but we're both bash-|

silver plaque and a $1000 cash \\ award. :

The least number of very happy| of The Indianapolis Times.

marriages and the greatest num-

ber of unhappy ones were found|part, learns that he can do as

That failure to agree on child/the other. 3 training is a major cause of fric-f Q—What can parents do to

will be glad to help you. Take|tion in marriage is shown byimake agreement easier?

your problem to them. They will

If you have any personal job problems, write to James Grayson, in care of The Times.

recommend a reading course broad enough to cover one or a series of subjects.

help you with a specific problem or in a specific course. Both of our state universities

and colleges offering day and night courses.

.Correspondence courses are

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A tutor might be obtained to a

several studies. One, of over 400| A. The joint. reading of some older couples, placed child train-/worthwhile books on child care Ing next to sex among problemsiang training will help put you on which the couples had never|qpn the right track by giving you reached satisfactory agreement.|gome standard for judging your

Another study of young couples y showed. that ‘diagreer tite re own opinions and attitudes. You

children ranked next to in-law and money troubles in causing iscord.

What form do these disagreements take? Frequently, one parent — usually the father —

One believes in training by reasoning with the youngsters. The other expects their instand obe-

mines the authority of the other, making it difficult to handle the child in the future. Each also incurs the other's displeasure and the two are apt to quarrel, especially in front of the child. The youngster, for his

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have extension classes—both day Each were as shy as could be, Hke thinks the other is spoiling the Plain Garments tell you how to fix your car or | the other youngsters were, [80d Jighbin, various centersichjigren. Or one parent—general- n S$ handle your job. Besides, you | After mixing with the other |OVer the state. ly the mother—complains that the DRESSES, SUIT love her and all your orderliness | children, you felt at ease. There are also private schoolsoiner 15 too severe.

. ANY TWO stick around and stop fussing. | new to you. You wouldn't |aVailable through the state uni-ijience without question . She can’t argue without help. | have overcome your bashful. (Versity and through private cor-| (Ope wants to iio rigid Be anapols. A ot BY ge ness in school if there had been [fespondence schools. schedule. The other doesn’t think of DAISY really doss 8 J65 FOR but ome other student. You ; Once you Bet started in a Sal it necessary. : < poking on ofl of wn won’t get over being bashful (Improvement program you likely! A sommo £ vor 3 K now if you limit your dates |Will want to keep it up. There is|,ne mon ist po iu ime for 8 weal TO SERVE YOU BETTER to ome boy. = so much to be learned—and 80|other's orders. Father tells Billy you will roulty oslo : — few who really want to learn. it's time to go to bed, but mother We're Open gach Dey Going Steady Problem |, .; ox siniin won [says he can stay up, When this CAM todiIs PM "DID I do right telling a boy I happens each partner under-

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The gas properties were acquired with Revenue Bonds . . . which are

NOT an obligation of the taxpayers, nor can a single penny of tax money

ever be used to pay them off. 4 2 There are no stockholders, the law states clearly that earnings can be

used only in one of three ways: to pay off indebtedness, to improve plant

and equipment, to reduce rates.

Indianapolis has grown by leaps and bounds . . . over 12 million dollars have gone into extension and plant improvement in the past 13 years, yet

taxpayers’ money.

YOU PAY LESS FOR GAS TODAY THAN YOU DID IN 1938.

Instead of touching your pocketbook, the Gas Utility has helped with your taxes. It has paid the Civil and School City sums in lieu of taxes. In 1948 this payment amounted to over a third of a million dollars: §

Under a careful business management operated within legal restrictions set up by the Indiana State Legislature, the Gas Utility is paying for itself out of the money it makes . . . without touching a single penny of the