Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 29 April 1949 — Page 14

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' DEAR MRS. MANNERS: z . 1 MARRIED for spite. Now I

my husband. my husband I went with a boy for

out with-him once since I've been . married. My husband knows this, for I told him the next day. For . the last two months we can't seem to get along. . Should I get.a divorce and let my husband be free? I feel I need help badly. T. N. CITY.

Your husband might be the man you'd rum to you divorced him and married the old boy friend. Sdon you'd diseover that fighting with the ex-boy-friend wouldn't bring happiness —excitement, sure, but not contentment. Your husband thinks your marriage has a chance— and so do. I—becausé your hus“band loves you and because you are honest with him. Give your husband some thought instead of living for yourself. Natural 1y, he won't have a perfect disposition when he thinks he’s | losing you. > Marrying too young probably” | caused -you more trouble than

and this ex-boy friend argued | because you weren't mature; and two immature people wouldn't “make ns good marriage. You're

Married fo r Spite, o Can Aid Man of 55 Trying to Excite Jealousy on vie Soe sve | Now She S ; Sorry . : I Bows May Be Able to > tr your husband will react if you try to arouse his jealousy. ‘m sorry. I'm still in oe with |

my old boy friend. I have been a good wife even if I don’t love

I'm 20 and have been married for three years. Before I met last 10 years have worked for a | dence in’ himself 1o such an ex-

Re hn a ex-boyfriend and|¥ords 0 Make } leave. Should I am considered an all round |'he damage to his personality. |ongangering the marriage itself, Chestef St, Indianapolis, and think he still loves me. I stepped t have falth Inter Forel | Mechalie byt 1 Toul that ote | Mr. and Mrs, Kling counsel | > hes a Ba Miss Thelma Maria Carrera of meation -w Pp Q—Does quarreling indicate a; 500mala City have been

> i lable d your choice of husband. You OES 399 to Meet able and who want to prepare for they think their husbands

(will have a stated meeting and ing how lazy most people are. ana] { Mother's Day program at 8 p, m, Some mean to get ready for _hig- a course you would like to'take. { Monday - In Veritas Masonic | ger jobs but never get around Then look around and find where!

, a grownup: hus- J dusky to have a grownup: Lodge, Adams St. and Roosevelt to it. iyou can get it. You will be pleas-| 5 Ave. Mrs. Lois Hipkine is worthy, If you find that the boss is inlantly surprised to find out how! . matron and ishel Jackson sympathy with your idea, get'many places there are ‘in which| ¥ : & ; | : Asks Travel Questio worthy patron, {busy and think out what kind of!you can get training. | : =] : 1 A os h mre : .

ATR te A AR THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES _____ ee : : ET au amiage By Somued and Etherlng [fF ad oe ep rege. JY yma Ask Mrs.- Manners— More Education : Wife ‘Can Make Bad Error ner had tor the cinr, © - WHITE z vo : SATURDA

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reling wife may soon discover that her husband is losing physical interest in her. =

Q—Should you try to make your husband jealous? _A--No. Since different men react differenily, there's no telling

; .. a \ One man we know wis deeply hurt by his wife's behaviour. os ap : uw Cy vin Suggest Training ¢ He had trusted her implicitly, never suspecting that shé could ve Win $800 Fellowships By JAMES GRAYSON interested in other med. This husband was 6f a rather shy and Gi ML A : : — ~ i iv | I am 55 years old and for the sensitive nature. He brooded aver! But Jealousy is not the best an en Annudlly by Uv the whole thing and lost confi: ’ * Times State Serviee swer to any of this. There are BLOOMINGTON, Apr: 29--Miss

two years. I think my husband small manufacturing plant | better methods which will give : : ems ————————— mpl pee | which makes automotive paris. jtent that it took years to undo more satisfactory resultswithout Fimie Rose - Jernukian, 32 N._ .

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‘It you're seriois about econ- | my job in event that our work- { their Aewspaper readers only married couple is drifting apart? sidering that - fortune telling | ing force had to be reduced. I | through The Times. If you have A--Not ‘always. Some quarrels business the way you use your | mever went past the .second 3 question, address it fo Samuel guid be expected and, if they American fellowships offered each

is causing your trouble: Con- | would you advise? | of The Indianapolis Times. tle” need leave no scars. the Indiana Federation of Wom-| sult reputable scalp specialists, | i : ” es . T Where marital unpleasantness en's Clubs. - and make better use of the | You are correct in thinking Another man ‘we know, of & — - ee re moonlight than visiting grave- |{hat more education will help you. more suspicious: nature, lost all . 5 = ae yards. ¥ {Have any suggestions been made| confidence in his wife after her Bo = 3 to you by the management as .to attempts to maRe him jealous He |

P 1 Jere bigger BX ve . Bl Ha at ho {what you might-study? Have you Wouldr’t allow her to go out.

girls might not motice if your {felt the need for moretraining of|alone any pore. He cut off her|

in specific sort? Are there one or personal allowance to curtail her dod personality were what it should in . &. > | ’ | f . more sulijects that yéu would like Independence, This wife lived to; : | be. Youre probably blaming er ) regret her mistaken notion that| complete al | 0 stud TS

awkwardness and shyness on | ; the best wa i } A — “ he bes y. to handle a husband that one little trouble, If It If you have any personal job (was to make him jealous. §: welun's Sandiufl, Jt would be | problems, write to James Gfay- | In another- case, tou, the wife's ir ins Sn iin J 2am, 1a are of The Times, attempts to arouse her husband's learning and conversation. | ‘Why not have a talk with the JeRIOUSY boomeranged. Fe ured Inve |big boss, if you know him well her flirtations’ as an exuse for Let Mrs. Manners and read- |enough, and find out what he arting out oI B rea) Sing of ins ers of the column share your thinks of y@ur idea. He will be ow in ure age:=—has sites problems and answer your ques- Nappy to know that you want to ' ¥ a yur Tien improve yourself. Maybe he will. Women Jometimes try to arouse Times, 214 'W. Maryland St. have.a suggestion for you. Jen iaysY Tough. ihe mistaken 3 “ Good workers who are depend- notion that they can so stimulate. TE —— their husbands’ interest in them

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1 WISH TO contact several steamship lines but don’t know names and addresses, Can you help me? J. G,, NORTH BIDE, Inquire of travel bureaus.

» . * Parents Dislike Friend HOW CAN I make my parents know and like my boy friend better? They don't want me to

out-of-town. 1 have friends who know his family and say they are nice: I recently quit going with = boy who was very well liked by my parents. 1 quit partly because he stepped out on me. Then I started, liking this other boy who is 16. ao SWEET 186. We adults are a little stow, You get us acquainted with a boy and a week later we're © supposed to understand » brand new boy friend. By that time : we decide you aren't really In love, so we don't take you * seriously. Ask several boys to your parties. Break them all in - with your parents, You may - be going with any one of them - next week.

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