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A MAN WHO sometimes says we will be married seems to think : : HE Ammorian cits I should be waiting when he takes a notion to come back. It hurts i i > ; so Cr me 80 the way he treats me I can hardly stand it. : . : - : . message - give I'm a widow and have a small farm and a house and lot in : : ? - : . Shy . Rumpler who town, and I own half of where I live, But I haven't much money. - 5 n ; . . ‘fore the Ind All my money is tied up in my property. I've gone with this man : : z - . > ; \ and really do think a lot of him.|™ or er . : : : . a Repuijcan Cl

"I'm a little mixed up. Why I've had chances to with others, but I don't ar ane put| 40 You want to break your enhim. 2 gagement with the Marine, you Though he really has treated. apparently lov, {0 any » oo} & me awful, it would nearly kill me YOU dont love: Jou hon i I had to give him up for good.| Sure what you an to do At times he seems to think a lot| 1°r® You do it. There ars many times in marriage when you

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erty may impress that man = where ciin 1 enter automobile! when he’s feeling practical and maior school in Indianapolis? | looking for security. Maybe he | Am 1 gtili eligible for training

JOUee waldiag. - ogy | VEIDET. 1948. | g down to a man Isn't | 1 think ‘your column is won-| the kind of flattery he needs. qorty] for helping people. » He wants the flattery of hav- WEST SIDE READER Ing the company of an attrac- | ’ " ! . tive, Interesting voman who is For Institutional training,

appealing to other men and ask about suta mechanics’

who sees ihsee other men (sometimes when he wants to see her).

courses at the city school office (LL _ 2381). Regarding on-the-Job training in approved shops

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likes your cooking, and your ,n4er the GI Bill” I've been out, >» , a : « thrill over nis presence. He does o¢ thy Army four years and out L ws- 88 he pleases because he knows ,¢ the Army Reserves since No-| . eta I'M. 20 ‘and thought ‘T could 34 S. Pennsylvania St. Apply never love any man but my hus- far schooling hefore 1951 at band. I was wrong. I'm in love that same office. aT with another man and am sure he . loves me. He is 27 and married, wa y Notary Sharad Ad Sy jos. Hu wile knows about 1 apply within four years after . : Bk she ‘is woncerwl an ® their discharge or after the end

are, the best of friends. They - ‘ ; 7 of the war {officially listed as | want me to come’ and live with July 25, 1947).

them. What should I do? A : CONFUSED STEADY READER. : LT Either that man and woman Traces Poem lacie Squarauses, good sats and | WHERE did Grace Coolidge’s the wife wants her husband 4 (Me My Son, Have Shown see you as she Joey you: f | FRANKLIN READER, course yon may very young | and imagine this man is at- | aan posts appeared in. Good tracted to yom. 2 onsekeeping, October, A # and the Literary Digest, Oct. : Et 19, 1929. ‘It was entitled “Open Boy Friend Jealous Door.” ; : +. I AM a young girl (not tod young) in love with a Marine who \A J wants me to:marry him when he Worried About Kiss { . comes home, which will be soon, I'M A teenager and I, as well He told me not to stay in all thelas my girl friends, wonder time so I go out a little, with one whether a girl should kiss a boy + boy who is very fond of me. He is/goodnight on the first date, We nice, but that's as far as 1t goes. know all the boys well before we He wants me to go with him and/go out with them but still, is it 1 hate to let him know I'm onlproper? I hope you can help us. e verge of marriage. . My Marine boy friend is jealous THE CUTIES. of me and flares up when I speak] Those boys might be mere to boys, but we make up with a/ Mkely to come hack If they kiss. Should I marry him or break| thought you girls would like our engagement? I think I could, that goodnight kiss but didn’t be happy with this other boy, take It. though I don't love him. He is in . love with me and we enjoy our-] Let Mrs. Manners and readselves. Would our marriage work? ers of the column share your - I'd make either one of the men problems and answer your ques- = the best wife I possibly could. | tions. Write in care of The PUZZLED Times, 214 W. Maryland St.

Your Marriage: By Samuel and Esther Kling : Men, Too, Undergo Changes As They Advance in Years

Q—How does “change of life” affect a hushand?® — — > A—Too many husbands and wives fail-{o realize that men go ’ through a change of life similar-to that experienced hy women. —Of course, they don't. have the same disturbances that women do. But men experience some of the same physical and mental upsets which, while less severe, are probably more prolonged than their wives’, Change of life applies to those | "=~ ~~ rmtmm—— : par Es o = : years in which a person's repro-| Mr. and Mrs, Kling “counsel | ! : : : 2 o ductive function diminishes, And their newspaper it ha only rine : just as women lose their ability through The Times. If you have . : to have children. so men lose thelr) , o ection, address it to Samuel : 4 : = reproductive abilities, | & d Esther B. Gi 3 ; . hy ". Both husband and wife can rec- | i ™ Indi a oli pss in care T ognize certain signs of his change °' 'Ne-Indianapolis Times, of life if they know what theyi,, cuit. Realizing that it 1s are. BOF oe hing. there 18 & pon natural and inevitable, a gaia ecrease in the man’s\p,.hand and wife should accom-| Ye |modate themselves to nature's; A wise wife will not ridicule her | demands, and find other outlets mate because of these signs. Bhe for their emotions. ; will be tactful and considerate] If they do this, their marriage, and will not make unreasonable will continue to be happy and demands. And she will turn his! worthwhile. “attention to other interesting and absorbing activities so that he

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A few cynics may say that “fashion is spinach.” But what about the people to whom fashion is bread and but-

THE TIMES NEW LOOK

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