Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 19 April 1949 — Page 5

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TUESDAY, APR. 10,1040 _____ Ask Mrs. Manners—

Friends Begged

To Give Her a Date

DEAR MRS. MANNERS: ° I LIKE A: boy who says he doesn't like me to other people but ‘ tells me he does. He's taken me out twice in 4 row and has kissed me every time. I let him for fear I'd never get to go out sith him

again. friends asked him to take me out because waey all had boy and I didn’t. At first. he“said no, but they begged and he would. I've liked him a; : Tr he didn't find out until] other-dates so you'll shed some tly. He speaks and smiles at! of your awkwardness: \ all the time in church, which! — proud of. Am I wrong for \\; Beater calling him three times? i ‘ Wife How can I win him over and, I'M 28 and have been married get him to ask me for a date eight years to a man who beats

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Your Job—

Messenger

Urged to Consult Office Mandger By JAMES GRAYSON How can a messenger boy work himself inte a better job? My chief duties are to pick up ‘mall, run errands, and deliver company memos to the various

would ask the

Seeks Better Job

Your Marriage... By Samuel and Esther Kiing— Parents Require Interests

_i their children? 3 A~—For a number of important reasons.

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{ {children leave home, such parents are more likely to, become well-| | offices and departments of our are left “high and dry.” With adjusted adults when their par- | ‘nothing to fill the gap, life for ents are not overly attentive, is |

IF I WERE in your place 1 06 office manager

In the first place, so they'll have something to fall back on when IF {the children grow up and leave home. inferests become overly dependent” on their offspring.

their children serve as the sole

outlet for their emotions. This is

always dangerous. TS 3 For sooner or later, when the

m becomes empty and mean-

gless. Instead of welcoming

without the help of my friends? B. CITY.

church are no good if he does not take you to dances and

me at least twice a week. I have

. black. and blue marks all over Those smiles he gives you at

me half the time, After he"beats me he teils me

ger job in the organization. If you like the company and want to work for it for a long time tell him so. He may sug-

{necessary adjustments, X | - But those who have other in{terests can face the future with

confidence.

{he loves fhe and asks me to forother ou want to | , Sther places Jou 3 wali ho give him. T've forgiven him ever ” , and rushing a boy |*IC® We've been married. Jopul win him. In this mad We have two children and they campaign for a boy you over- {live with his parents because he look the importance of improv- idoesn’t like children. I have no ing yourself in school, through Parents. He never goes to see home training, etc. You meed [OU children and I have to go be{hind his back. I've talked to him, {I have gone places with him and {I've done everything I know to do. Bhould I get a divorce? He

(doesn't drink. WEST SIDER.

He doesn't need to drink with all those contemptible habits | he has. If you're willing to give your marriage a chance, he certainly should be willing to go along with you to the Family Service Association, 1008 N. Meridian St, for some Gounseling. Tell Whatever you're daing is wrong, so get some new ideas. You don’t have to live with a fiend. person he'll change if he really loves- you and fears he'll lose you.

(He Is Evasive

|years often speaks of marriage) THAT'S IT — in a few. words! But 8 trial is worth a million words. You'll find Ex-Lax is everything a fine laxative ought to be—gentle, pleasant and effective! Equally

for children and grown-ups. henNature‘forgets’...remember Chocolated

and our little home, but mever|

love him very much and am pret- | ty sure he loves me. I'm 20 and! {very attractive, so I have been! told. He is 22 and has a good-| EX-LAX ~The {paying job. 5 i - ———| My mother thinks he isn't fit Baked {to marry me because he drinks ALSIDE Enamel |inow and then, though he 14 not a ALUMINUM SIDING |drunkard. One night she saw him Hats’ Soplisets walking down the middle of

him that. |

If he's a well, normal |

are in that department.

[gest that you talk to the em{ployment manager or some one {else who has an overall picture and frustration felt hy less well lof the whole company and who prepared. mothers and fathers,

you might fit and grow.

{knows the spots in it in which

James Grayson, author of The Times new column, “Your Job,” has spent his life trying

. A graduate of Indiana University with a master’s degree | from Columbia, he is a student of economics and social science. For more than a score of years he has been active in personnel and industrial rela- | tions work. {| If you have any personal job problems, write to Mr. Gray-

...son in care of The Times.

iwould like to work,

HE MAY ask you where you If he suggests a certain department you!

{should by this time know some-

thing about the work to be done it may eause nagging backache, rhdumatie

in it,

{ i

tr find employment for others, spring

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SUSPECT CAUSE | OF BACKACHES |

Of course they will miss their children, but they will never know the vast emptiness

There is another danger involved wherever parents are overly dependent on their children. Such parents may consciously or unconsciously hinder their children's chances for marriage. Dreadinggsthe day when their off. leave home, they may frown on any and all prospective mates and keep such a tight emotional hold on their children that all their ‘chances for marriage eventually disappear. Many

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| THE boy I've gone with two |¢ach department does find out by { asking some questions

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ROOFING & {busy street when he was drunk. INDIANA SIDING CO. Tus how tie only time he : al en drunk. He quit drinking 808 8. Ospits) Bl. 1350 after he found out my mother —— didn't like it. What should I do? i E.M. 1, CITY. p { I'd like to think he wants to ‘ALL RISKS a | be sure he will stop drinking — [ before he asks you to marry - IE EAR an \ him, but I don't. He probably (3a isn't ready for marriage and prec 134 “sure that he loves you or he'd snap you up fast. You ask for _. it pays to TU ji | heartaches when you try to 5 | read love inte a boy's wordless MUTUAL ed affection. ¥. 3 Sometimes men make up i | 1 . : their minds in a hurry if other . Grain Dealers men hang around attemtively. Mutual Agency, Inc. Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column share your 1740 North Meridian St. problems ai*i1 answer your quesWAbash 2456 tions. Write In care of The 4 S—— | Times, 214 W. Maryland St. }. y

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