Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 15 April 1949 — Page 26

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DEAR MRS. MANNERS:

- LIKE THE other fellows (egotistical as you say we are) I hope the girl marry wants to stay home and live on my salary. ‘But fe who upheld women with jobs. She sounded like a shrewd, square-shooting woman. I'd prefer to have - a woman openly shrewd than one who plans to urn shrew one

step from the altar.

I figure a girl too sweet isn't Wants fo Meet Boy

going to stay that way. I'd want to see her when she let down before I marry her.

learned something—how to stand ;

on their own feet. I'm for it... Many of them needed to ears 10 | wouldn't look too anxious. act and think fast—it will come, po, gjways gone with boys. in handy. in handling us men and [yo 00 they had a car, or some-| thing like that, but I haven't con-|

Give me the woman who's

doesn’t fumble around about car. How can I get to know him? . what she thinks and. wants. I/We're in the same grade and eat| want her looking, talking and lunch the same period. ved F.

acting like a woman, but I don't! want her whining and babyish or| unbearably sweet. T know under-| neath she has a mind of her own: and I'd expect her to show a temper if 1 deserved it. : PHIL, City. You're practically a museum | piece with that philosophy of yours—and you're so right. The

“mousy little creature who jumps |

at a man's every word very

likely is planning to change his ‘Wants Children

whole life the day she enters it. |

Would Win Heart

years and have gone with dif-

ferent fellows but never consid- cannot have any more. I find|

ered marriage. Then I mét a fel- | myself longing for a larger fam-| {ily. Would raising other people’s|

children be any satisfaction? |

low in a restaurant. He is every-

mannered, same religion. We like the same things. He says he likes me more than .any girl, and has invited me to) his town. I'm not good looking, put I do have a nice personality. How could I win his heart? reson HOMELY. HOOSIER.

You're doing all right if he

“and TRIFONCEs you te his fam: ily and friends. You'll know how well you're progressing if he urges you to set a weddipg date. Your homeliness won't ruin your chances unless you fail to make the most of your best features and the most of | your personality.

Your Marriage... By Samuel and Esther Kling—

Keep in Step With Husband So He Won't Find You Dull

Q—Should a wife try to keep up with her husband?

- As=Definitely!

Many a marriage has failed because the husband has far out- . grown his wife mentally and spiritually. Where the man has ad-| . vanced in his work, broadened his interests, and improved himself culturally, his wife has gone into a mental slump.

Concerned chiefly with the always with those, she neglects all other interests. She no longer

zines, or new books. She is not concerned with new ideas or what is going on in the outside world. Inevitably, she can only talk about what Junior did that day, the price of the lamb chops, or relate some piece of neighborhood gossip. Her . husband, on the other hand, who has kept mentally . alert, finds such a wife impossibly dull and uninspiring. Unable to exchange views and ideas with her, he seeks conversation and companionship . elsewhere, -either with men or with more interest: ing women. - | We know one ambitious man, for example, who has advanced in his job so that he now holds a very responsible civic post. His work is of such a nature that nis wife could easily participate in some of his activities. , ! Instead of sharing his Interests| and helping him in the ways that | she can, this wife is too lazy and indifferent to make any effort. The result is that she is losing him! He now meets with other women who give him the mental stimulation and companionship that he finds impossible to get from his wife. Drifting farther and farther apart, this couple is headed for divorce! : For a wife to be a good Housekeeper is important, but not nearly enough. A nan can get a servant to take care of his material needs. He marries to get a companion and helpmate. When he doesn’t, he considers his marriage a tragic failure. ~Qu=What may be necessary if

lem {8 a matter of life or death, and I'll probably live if I don’t Women working during the war get a date with a boy T like, but

| day. If he talks to you, do a | lot of listening. He'll think

- alist, if he does all the talking, |

{ing near relatives. We now have (a lovely home, after having had I'VE BEEN a widow three living conditions I wasn't used to.|

~dren if you weren't fond of

marriage prospects. = The sales_{mian who finds a territory bad reads newspapers, good MAGA, 4 stay on long. He moves

to greener pastures.

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- ee ? No T ve : For Mrs. Nannie Day :

: 4 : 7 n ade % ~: 3 » * State Rates Shrewd Woman | puis sr pL J Y.. vw! ww - for Mrs. Nannie J. Day, who died 5 Tm ie Rd Sah here yesterday in her home, will| orl a Ch eaay a be lield tomorrow in the Baker ; ove : ousy ype Funeral Home, North Salem. She : rh : vi . 2 was 89. : . 4 ? Mrs. rz daughter, 4 teacher in the Garden City schools many years; Otis Day, Indianapolis, Charles brother, iapolis, and four grandchildren.

Army authorities sald today that nurse,

him -in a way that I last Sunday.

Mrs. Mabelle Perkins, starved to death. The parents, Martin King, 2, oR {agency executives Apr. 27-20 in p.ip with gifts to the building WA. 7976 or WA. 1531 8 |

Day, Ft. Wayne; a inquest Oliver * Flinn, Indian- Gold run

‘CHICAGO, Apr. 15 (UP) — A(C!Y Life Insurance Co. and ® ,jerander Bernard, pastor of the/groups of the new church is

past president, in the National church, 20th and Yandes Sts. toAssociation of Life Underwriters, day mailed canvassing letters' Mo

Starved

|3-month-old girl was found dead : {in a squalid apartment today and ‘ Day is survived by aan autopsy showed that shewill lead the Midwest Manage OVer the city. The letters iment Conference of Je 4 nee MANY persons ,who are not%hem- ilies having discarded clothing to }

two sons, @ roofer, and his wife, Ellen, 37, and were arrested and held for the French - Lick

~ {To Hear Texan

Joseph (French Lick.

‘0. Sam Cummings, Dallas, day started a campaign to set. Tex., general agent of the Kansas| funds for a new church.

Springs berg, said that they were| Mr. Cummings will speak on Court Charges Rent Violations :

ithe subject “A i : |" Ankther bila. THsrens, 4, was|the Subj = lo alysis | Three Indianapolis residents $174 for accommodations at: the SOLDIER KILLED IN AUSTRIA placed in the juvenile home, (ager. He will reveal the results| > J2med defendants in two rent S70 Address, { WOULDN'T say my prob-| VIENNA, Apr. 15 (UP)—U. 8./ A city Health Department/of an opinion poll of representa- Suits on file in Federal court to- Was ; Pvt. John Bernard Dunn, 22, of the a Joundiiive general agents. managers day. i EE Ne ond ; ! Chicago, was electrocuted by a bassinette when she went to the out a ro ey Baxi. [the Park Ave, nen 'd like that date. I'd like tollive wire while playing baseball apartment to investigate reportsitutes the essential functions of Gilbert, 536 E. New Y oy he, Both suits asked for court in- . {that the ¢hildren were neglected.’agency executives. Ing New Fork Bi. of Miaction and Yestitytion of the sl. sl

: SER : : lpr ee = ¥ ) ENNIS —_ FRIDAY, APR. 15, Church Opens Fund Campaign | ct .St. Mark's Baptist Church to-| A goal of $15,000 has

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A series of events including

{ The congregation and the Rev. musicales by various singing juled for the rally period. y through July 18. A rum-| t to mage sale also is“planned. Famibers of St. Mark’s but who may give to the sale are asked to call |

Hotel, | ——mrr . .

Alvin J. Hickman, 727, Park

case with overcharging $97.50 at 3

4 making ov ere h arges totaling! overpayments. 1

jdered whether he even has a

He probably notices you (and | all the other girls), when you lenst think he’s looking. Look vour best and ooze charm every

you're a grand conversation-

prodded by your intelligent questions;

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WE ARE to ourselves, after liv-

We have two children, but I]

JUST LIVING.

Increasing the size of your | family and giving your advan- | tages to children who haven't; had them are wonderful ideas: if your husband agrees and. if | you adopt the children, break- | ing all their. ties. with real parents. You wouldn't want more chil- |

home and children and not

Don't hesitate to do the same! New ST.JOSERN ASPIRIN

St.Joseph

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you are to get & husband? A—You may have to change

your job or move to another com- |

munity! If you work in a place where there are few or no eligible men, it might be better for you to change your position to one where you could meet more men.

And if that doesn't help, you!

might well consider moving to a different city or even a different state where the men outnumber the women and where you can meet a_whole new set of eligible bachelors. The point is that you must do something about meeting good

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