Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 13 April 1949 — Page 4
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DEAR MRS. MANNERS:
IT'S THE shriveling, unsuccessful man » Who whimpers about his
wife's career. Lack of ambition,
complain. Working doesn't make a woman less feminine or less |
more, and staying home doesn't
T'm the career wife of a successful man who isn't jealous of my job and doesn't need my salary. ra quit tomorrow if he objected. (wives are
Marriage 1s understanding. He] understands I enjoy working—1| understand he wants a home. | Some neglected wives stay ‘home and cry alone. Others bury | “their unhappiness by joining or ganizations. A home is a place to! dress for their next meeting. All| they bring home is gossip, and gossip isn’t “stimulation like al woman gets, and sheds, from a ‘Job she enjoys, A man usually | changes jobs if he isn’t happy-/ why can’t women?
Maybe I can't always meet my!
husband at the front door with a roast in the oven, but I come] home happy. It's my type of | woman my husband talks to in! crowds—and with pride he tells them I'm a success. CAREER WIFE. | A woman won't put a job | ahead of a man she loves—she Just isn't made that way, Most any woman could keep on lov- | ing the man she loved enough to marry if he gave her good reason, couldn't she?
More Drinking MY husband and I got along] swell until he started drinking five years ago. We don't live together because we just couldn’t get along. My girls and I try to + Hve- right. “What could -I-do-about “his drinking? WORRIED MOTHER.
Ashamed of Father
OUR children are ashamed of their dad who started drinking heavily 1 years ago. We've been married 30 yeurd-and have raised four children. it I've pleaded to no avail ried to find out wh drinks, “I've planned t Skis he "bit he won't fall in with my plans. I will drink a beer at home but he craves hard liquor. He won't keep a job, he bor-|= rows money, and he's nasty with our friends. Do you think I could find happiness if 1 left him? I'm in my late 40's and I could
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envy and false pride make him
make a house a home,
Anonymous, Your husband might accuse you of nagging and be resentful if you repeated
presence? A~—It's perfectly natural for
whether he's with his wife or not. That's all right. But some men
overdo it!
{they see, even to the point
turning around to get another
look, and do this when their by their side. Nothing ¢h could be poorer psychology!
| Then there are others who g
{single out some particular wom-
suggestions. In the meantime, 0, concentrating so much atteneliminate all the faults you | {tion on her that she .becomes|
know you have.
‘About the Law WHAT about Michigan sini) {riage laws? B., NEWCASTLE.
| indignation.
{conscious of it, and either re{turns the look or glowers with
Any of this, obviously, has a bad effect on a wife, for it makes (her feel unattractive and un- | wanted, 8he considers that her
With parents’ consent the ‘husband is making mental com-
| man and girl must be 18, blood test Is required and there's a five-day wait for the
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license, but no wait after it's |
issued.
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A parisons between her and the
other woman, to her disadvane. Adding further to a wife's dis{comfiturs is wondering what her |impression her husband's behavior is having on the other
SHOULD I divorce my hus- Woman. No wife likes to lose face
band?
We've been married five in the eyes of another female! Is
\years, and all he does when he's the favored one gloating over home is run around with other having superior charms that at-
{women -and want his own way.
tracted a man away from his
He's overseas now, but I tried a Wife? Or is she pitying the peor
little of everything and nothing!
I've met a nice fellow and have gone with him three months. A WORRIED READER,
Getting even Is no way to
no way to convince your friends your husband is causing all the trouble. Stop seeing this other man until you and your hus band decide you're big enough to make corrections and stay married, or so spineless you'll keep your old faults and take a chance on failing In another marriage.
Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column share your problems and answer your questions. Nrite In care of The Times, 214 W. Maryland St.
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helped. We've been separated gev-| hold her escort's interest? And if eral times. Since he’s been gone | they are in a restaurant or other
public place, what" must the onlookers be thinking! All this can be running through a wife's mind, making .her uncomfortable and embarrassed,
straighten out a marriage, and |oyan when she knows her hus-
band's motives are really quite harmless, Q—Can this have a damaging effect on the couple's life together? A~Yes, where the husband persists even though he knows his wife feels strongly about it.
mine the pair's happiness, Frequently, too, the wife who
unwanted develops an inferfority
There are husbands who always ogle etch and every woman
{sentful - that she will Took
There- is bound to be bickering | and friction which will under- 3
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is made to. feel undesirable andl
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at other women in his wife's a man to look at other women
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on her and her i marriage] relationship, Or a wife may become so i to! other men for the flattery and at-! tention she fails to get from her partner. Sometimes shé tries | retaliate by showing the Same, obvious interest in men that her husband shows in women, Then! he becomes belligerent and the! battle is on! Certainly, a wife is less in-| terested in physical intimacy with! a husband who prefers other women in publie. All this is worth considering, husbands, the next time you feel tempted.
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