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| ; x J : o : . je £ L : ; : 1949 { Si : THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES i FRIDAY, MAR. 25, — hospitalization. { Of OES 505 Tuesd Ask Mrs. Manners “ i" Baton, bn. . WALL TILE | vestay State VA Care owing number New officers of Lynhurst 22D i p Hi Otic Bundred thitrt lof cases are awaiting hospita KITCHEN CABINETS y-three dis-| — ’ iter 505, Order of Eastern Star; aug er Us es im |admisgion: a One Contract Covers + | pitalization in Indiana because [39: tuberculosis, 1; neuropsychia-| 18 rd B, Tuesday. " lof a lack of VA hospital beds, tric, 93. | Emilie Crouch will NU-WA | > |worthy matron and Howard |, DE. AR MRS, | MANNERS: |abled American Veterans. NEW DELHI, India, Sar 25) Ee co “IKlinger™wfll be installed worthy Since our little girl, was born I've taken the back seat. I'm | The report was submitted by|(UP)—Mrs. Vijaya Lakshmi Pan-| HOME SUPPLY hy Ww : 'Quintus Camp, national DAV of- dit, India’s ambassador to Mos-| Other Tow - officers are "Leefa* ‘honey” that™ ‘But anymore my wife calls me by my first name, : |ticlal, before a Senate subcom- cow, has been appointed ambas-| |{Warriner, associate matron; Wal-| We used to go to church, but now they never ask Pop along. Do 236 E. NEW YORK ST.

; | = ’ througout the nation are-awaiting| Install New Officers Lecturer 133 Gl's Await - Mr, : . mittee that the following mr FLOOR COVERINGS |abled veterans are awaiting Hos- | Bur cal [win be installed at ceremonies at ¢ 3 General, medical and surg a Into the ‘Back Seat’ Fo Etmaes + FHA Toms hEcome jaccording to a study of the Dis-lnamED ENVOY TO U. S. tr t ider and a handy man. It used to be “honey” this and Ss patron. Just a prov e| Jan andy Seq 0 y Phone Rl. 5894 a. ; mittee investigating the slash of sador to Washington, it was an-| - iter Badshaw, associate patron; all mothers turn their love on their children and forget the old

157 Sg |16,000 beds from the Veterans nounced today. She is the sister]

Administration hospital program. of India’s prime minister, Panatt He charged that 16,188 veterans Jawaharlal Nehru.

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Naomi Beasley, conductress, and man? I can see 'why men without patience go out and mn Marguerite Stanfield, associate drinking and meeting blonds who — Conduite, [pag oe rms for Sear Ite. My sister promises to keep an other at first and I want to be Eye os Si gone I. = away, 3 recognized again. My wife used w. It K ov wi * it to be a real fisherman, but now| you keep a shre ey

self and make . yourself. she hasn't time. I never did any-| yours 4 thing wrong t6”turn her cold. I| What he wants—and needs—

you won't have to watch your never stepped But and I don't| } 3 drink as tw ays gave me such| husband. Sleuthing by you and a headache We never quarrel,| Your sister would keep him true: but sometimes I think a good old Couples need time away from | family argument would pep| ®@ch other. It's up to you if | . Mrs. up things. I have a good job, and| he wants to cut that time short | don, we're never bothered by in-laws. an E% you PL ema yon't pity me—just tell me if| Want you Don't pity J acquainted-—he may think you

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Seeking Perfect Mate? Angels in Heaven Only

suppose you wouldn't like to go

fishing” won't do it, nor wjll , sitting silently in the boat if she goes.

She expects you to entertain | her—like you used to—and- to entertain your daughter. If you want flattery and attention, | you'll have to put some out. Patience Is fine, but action is better. I'l admit a woman sometimes deserves to be taken for | granted. “Old Bill” won't take her otherwise when she takes | him for granted, concentrating | on” her home, children and | clothes, and babbling to women friends: on subjects men care A man doesn’t |

| mot listen.

Power of Attorney WE'VE had a big argument about this. Has a man the power (of attorney to sign any business| papers if his wife gives her con-| sent? JUST A READER. . Ordinarily he would have, if | the power of attorney is given in writing.

OUT of the blue sky my husband insists I take our baby and go East to visit his folks indefinitely. ulterior motive, as we just. saw

his folks a few months ago

| you miss affection. Tell her, Ness. | and tell her often. She'll like it. . To In She'll find time for you if We’ re in Love stall Officers you're more exciting than her WE'RE in love with boys 16, Mrs. Lucille Foster will be 1inhousework. Saying to her “I and 17. The only time we ge! stalled as worthy matron of Co-

their attention is when we're with the gang. They only held us once, but then we were dancing Soon we're going to have a “girl ask boy” prom. How shodld we ask them so they'll go with us? JEAN AND JANE, Just ask them, friendly like, as if they're going to accept and be glad they did. Dancing is the best way for you to be held, and dancing with several boys is a good way to learn how to get a hold on one boy.

Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column share your problems and answer your questions. - Write in care of The Times, 214 W. Maryland St.

Q—What three things should

A—What you want, what you need and what you can get. Those who think only of what they want in a mate are very apt to end up with an-unhappy marriage or no marriage at all, for example, who declares that a man must be making $5000 a year before she would consider marrying him. Such a girl is insisting on an income|~

Take the girl,

which is more than she will ac-

I'm sure he has an tually need and probably more Will find other traits more lasting

than she can really get. Or take the boy who says his

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Eastern Star, tomorrow night in Evergeen Masonic Temple, W. Washington St. Other officers installed will be Charles 8. Garriott, worthy patron; Mrs. Gussie Sweetzer, associate matron; Lester Boughton, associate patron; Mrs. Lulu MecDonald, secretary Mrs. Malinda Fowler, treasurer; Mrs. Vera Littrell, conductress, and Mrs. Mrs. Ruby Lester, associate conductress. Mrs. Daisy M. Crist, past worthy grand matron, will be installing officer, assisted by Mrs. {Mayme Butler, Mrs. Betty Marie Ervin and Mrs. Hazel Foley.

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