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FRIDAY, FEB. 25, 1049 Ask Mrs. Manners— fw Fisherman Angles ~ To Save Wife's ‘Face’

"DEAR MRS. MANNERS:

BEFORE YOU rip into me,

blame. For that reason, I want to save my wife from being laughed

at. After 10 years of ma

lake, but apparently the weren't getting all the bait. She hasn't been in a boat since. +1 like my fishing, dogs and peace-—~maybe too well. She likes friends, and her friends don't in: terest me. There's always a party at our house, for my wife is social climber. Lately, the take it for granted I won't stay long. I found another woman who really likes to fish. We've become more than pals, and she’s the woman I think of when I smoke my pipe. As-these things go, our relationship become known, al-

though I'm positive my wife/

doesn’t know. Now my wife has developed an interest in this woman, because of her career, and the woman's friends. It's like a bad play when my wife pushes herself into this group, all enjoying the ugly drama but the woman and me. What can I do to save our faces and keep her out of

- that crowd?

NORTHERN INDIANA READER. You could save three “faces”

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f smoke. She doesn’t y second fiddle to a . Of course she used to get you, but didn’t you some of your own? Didn't You take her places, among people, to please her? You might be surprised could make out and even enjoy Yourselves, if you tried again.

Work Hurts Love DO YOU think the boy I love never takes me out anymore because he thinks I have to work in my parents’ restaurant? (I don’t have to work.) How can I win him back? He is the star of the basketball team. HEARTBROKEN. A boy worth your love wouldn't let your job daunt him. So often you girls cook up weird reasons for your fall ures. You should be improving yourselves. You know where you fail-get busy.

Wants to Drink I WANT to drink—I'm not happy without the stuff. Don’t blame my wife. It dates back to my parents’ home life. I'm not an alcoholic—I can quit when I want to.

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taverns. My wife objected and!

wouldn't go with me, so I went alone and got in bad,company. I spent all my money and we had a hard time, but she was patient and stayed with me though I took my meanness out on her. SHORT STOP. How do you know you could quit drinking?

Spongers Persist WE ARE trying to get shed of a neighboring couple who bother us, but what makes it so bad is that the man is employed with my husband. This man tries to borrow money and my husband tells him he hasn't got it. It's a push for his jaloppy, a ride, or request to borrow some-

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my wife and I began to edge away Wh he! their ne re only from each other's interests. I Jike to fish. She went along before Pecks in that time. When she Th Fires we were married. I tho hopefully asks her husband if he through The . If you have : ught she enjoyed herself out there on the | oR A iuntly brushes her a question, addres 7 $0 Samuel Meetings Listed thing. We've hinted, but -whatiaside with what he. ay regard we -do“without coming out|as a p » NOt polis plain and hurting ne We|man Meng. his wife to toe the| of The Indianapolis Times. mark and to be at his constant beck and call.

itell. me what to do with a husband|

don’t go to their house. JITY READER.

Repeated refusals will do the

cutting, neighbor and fellow worker.

Change of Name

take my second husband's last name without going through adoption? . B. J. H. Secure papers in the Marion County clerk's office and petition for a change of name in circuit court.

Stepped out Once

I'M A gir], 16, in love with a boy, 19, whom I haven't heard from for five months. Something happened and I don’t know what. I remember stepping out on him once, but he got me back. T've asked him why he won't go with me, but he won't talk to me or write. He told my girl friend to ask me to send his picture to her. Should I make the first mofe to get him back and should I keep writing? JK

16 and in Love

I'M 16 and love a man 10 years older than I am. He wants me to marry him and is jealous of me, but I'm pretty sure he steps out on me. I think I should quit him, but I love him. HEARTBROKEN.

Tired of Go-Between

A BOY I like and used to go with says he is tired of me sending someone else to ask him to 80 along with my girl friend and her boy friend and me. * will take your advice ceriously. A FRIEND, Franklin. Let's look at it this way, gals When acquaintances run after You, you lose interest, don’t you? It’s the same with boys. They think you're hard up for dates. Just to humor me, step out again, J. K. Your boy friend likes to work to keep you. i That older man wouldn't think about other women if he were serious, Heartbroken. Has he said anything real definite about rings and things? The time you're spending plotting to snag the boy you should be using to make yourself attractive to boys in general, Franklin Friend. You can’t depend on your friends to hold your boy friend.

MRS. MANNERS.

Stingy Husband

MY HUSBAND is so stingy. He won't take me any place, not even to church. Now Mrs. Manners,

like this. WORRIED NOBLESVILLE WIFE. He likes to’ Impress his friends, but has forgotten that taking you out and dressing You up are important to the impression he wants to create. Maybe, ever so slyly, you could get him noticing other men neglecting their wives. You could mention that the women in your neighborhood comment about their neglect.

Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column share your problems and answer your ques-

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Your Wife You Love Her

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of the many different duties involved in managing a home, No woman should approach the important job of homemaking ‘in

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single | to keep a woman happy it is the assurance that her jiusbang ati} cares for her. And yet this is the one thing most men fail to provide! 1 want to tell you that I'm to We know couples who haven't kissed more than once a year, On

Site, Joitied wots Sian 2 Yeats. Mr. and Mrs. Kling counsel |* hit-or-miss fashion.

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