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Mothers Are Urged to Develop Outside Interests ~~ Holiday Party By ELIZABETH TOOMEY blamed both schools and commu- an interest in music, to volunteer, Communities could provide a ole , United Press Stal Correspondent | nities for the dilemma of the ‘or civic committees, or even t0|few hours of child care in weer For Aux lia jn ng Way: Cary, a comb NEW YORK, Dec. 18—"Too mother, [a0 Part-time typing to make, 4" onters tor any child, Mrs.|

3 dt } ‘ enough money to hire someone to| { out and run it through your [many omen pen he last 30'Solves Own Problem {take care of the children a few Gruenberg suggested, instead of! wMrs, Marshall Raber, 3033 hair every little while. !years of their lives being ex-| -

sociation’ { |Washington Blvd., will be hostess ' “ ‘By Association Work ours g day. reserving .the child centers as a| g ‘ : . Right Way: Don’t comb your | A pave M a joni '“The schools fail to teach girls| “Being a 24-hour-a-day mother | “charity” for working mothers, /{oF the annual Christmas lunch air'in public. ’ 4

» | a eon of the ! urer on parent-chil . how they can use their training is too much for any woman,” she And. wherever possible, mothérs| 4.9 jig Lect ny nil; 38 lafter they're married,” Unit, American

SUNDAY. DEC. 19, 1048 . Ask Mrs. Manners— « :

Be Honest, Sisters Reminded, And Tell Your Fiances All About Your Father in Prison

10, 1048

YOUR MANNERS—

Situation: You are a girl who likes to look neat and wellgroomed at all times.

Wrong Way: Carry a comb |

A ———————— art, 1317 N, 8; Mesdames : L. DeSpain, 1 and Burt s. Christmas 1ds as guests;

Robison-Ragsiale

Pp. m. ' Mrs, Legion ary,

i J ; : p » / she ex-'stated emphatically. “Every wom-| Y . . , 5, 965 Lesle. Deception Isn’t Fair or Practical Situation: You drop sdme- [!ationships. plained. “And the communities an needs to get out once in a with specialized training could be at 12:30-p. m. Thursday, : Ys : ly rector ofthe Child Study} ts for ed 0. Wilson # Th B 1a. * .+| thing and your escort péaches | As director of the Child Study ig, 15 ‘make use of the woman- while and enjoy herself with 8iven a chance to keep in practice,| In charge of arrangements fo P. Brady, ase » ree etrothed Girls Are Warned to pick it up for you.” Association of America for more power outside the home.” friends her own age. Both she either through part-time jobs or the event is Mrs. Emmett Mar-

than 20 years, Mrs, Gruenberg has

d to th ds of shall, program chairman, assisted |talke 0 thousands of mothers.

4 Inusic, Mra, by Mrs, Don J. Smith. The junior

5 -8tory, Mrs,

DEAR MRS. MANNERS: | Wrong Way: Say, “I'll get She solved her own problem by and the children benefit." [volunteer work. SHOULD WE three sisters tell our boy friends about |

t"’ i ee fh e | @ SS r= z 1 or y yo, E : | and _retr eve dt befor he I-Yoo Many of en Sess Deisig Work With the Chiia Srusy Assst Mathers Could Band, Boel ges Wahie ho Patents members will be honared with a our father who is in prison? We don’t know what to tell Right Way: Let him pick it [peop j# remarked, “and when Panded as her children needed her| Together to Help x yer of eet, Fav. Liruen TOIRRY ary he DAY them when-they ask us-about our family. 4 up-for'you dud then thank him. ine {ime comes. that the children less. Each of the seven women | ' Mry, Gruenberg believes women 5 Said she was convinced her Th Jusiors will meds. Tuehlay n—12:30 p, m., My twin sister, our other sister, who is 16, and T plan“to get! ," 7 ws, + no longer need them, they have no Working in the offices of the a8s0-/could band together to heip each ‘0°28 would create more families afternoon io the horie of MBE ark, German married in the near future, | Arrives Wednesday outside interests to turn to.” ciation is. a mother. - Schedules pther. They could pool their cars Who sincerely enjoyed each other Susanne Sertell, 3834 Guilford ostess, Gift I'm 18 and have gone out several vears, but I need advice. | Charles Deardorff, Tulsa, OKI&.,| Mrs. “Gruenberg, “herself the Dave been arranged: so that theiis take the children to and from --as people. ’ |Ave., to complete a calendar proje tmas music; My father was always thought well of. A lot of our friends will arrive Wednesday to spend mother of four children and the mothers with young children can|gchool, and they. could take turns) “Parents continue to be men and ect for veterans at the Cold think he was unjustly ‘sentenced. Should we tell the boys about{¢thristmas with his brother and grandmother of eight, admitted SPend time with their youngsters.|with the youngsters to give each women long after they cease to be Springs Road Hospital, p. m. Wool. him, or let them believe my mother is a widow? J. M., CITY. /|sister-in-law, Mr. and Mrs. A. A.|that she had found no general] In other cases Mrs, Gruenberglother a chance to pursue an out- full-time, practicing parents,” shel They will sing carols Thursday

n. Christmas

pitch-in” buf-

wlan 4 Those. boys will be marrying into your family—they shold | They‘ll be trusting their happiness to you,

know what it's like.

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Deardorff, 2734 N. Talbot Ave [solution to the problem. She urged young mothers to resume side interest.

wdded. night for shut-in members.

AY and to find happiness they need faith in you. They need to be OR NO SV SRR NOS “12:30 p.m happy to make you happy. : BO ———— : AEROS ) 5240 Broad. Deception isn’t fair—or practical.. The boys will“hear about ——— . : rs Rebekah your parents, and they'd better hear your story. I wonder if

tant. “Christe bland,” Mrs, Ift exchange;

) 5:30 P. M.

You're really in love, or if You're trying to find security by running away from your present surroundings. Unhappy new surroundings don’t clear up the old problems. You know the good things about your father—keep thinking about them. He won't think he has failed completely as a father if you live up to what he wants vou to be. He wants You honest, and the boys” want You honest.

| He may say he thought he was |

| too old for you, and he is—but

he still tried to. win you-—he didn’t try to protect you. He shouldn’t be hard to forget. The boy you're supposed to marry has served his purpose. He is proof that you're attractive to single men and he’s proof that decent men exist. You shouldn't marry. though. Being turned down at

him, .

21 won't. be nearly as hard on

him as marrying him and mak-

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ing him unhappy would be. Forget marriage for a while, v but remember what you've learned when you're ready for it. x

Local Young Man Raps Made-Up Women

Advice to Mothers From Suzanne MOTHERS, take heed. Don't heap youmg girls’ shoulders with a greater load than they can bear.” A man who truly loves a e : girl will not have to be forced WHY DON'T women let themto marry her. Sometimes, adop- Selves be What God made them? tion of illegitimate babies $s bet- If He wanted them to have ter. Then we young girls have a curved eyebrows and smeared up fair chance to work out our ad- lips ‘and cheeks, don't you think! olescence and find a man who is he would hav de th that more interested in marriage and N¢ Wou ave made them tha a home than in that first puppy way”? You get on -a streetcar love we outgrow so rapidly. and see women putting on lip- ‘ When 15 I got in trouble with stick and powdering their faces.' a bey, 7, wy my mother was ad- you go to a restaurant and see vis 0 send me out of town un- . til the baby came. Our lawyer the same thing, plus smoking. said there were too many broken Look at the elderly women who homes and unhappy children from didn't ‘have make-up wnen they! forced marriages and - that - the were - young. Their comgiexions. §. baby should be adopted. But I'are beautiful. By the time women thought I wanted the man. Now!of today are 50 do you think we have dnother child. We fight they'll" have pretty complexions? terribly, and tHere is scarcely. I'm 21 and not old-fashioned, enough income to keep us in food and I like girls very much, and clothing, and not enough to though I haven't run across one get a divorce. I want to marry. I think a little

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As liberal as government

regulations will permit,

So many people who have been powder and natural touch of married -a long time wnt to lipstick are all right.. I'd like adopt babies. They've proved S0me other. men's opinions. their compatibility and they're

financially able to care for them. , | A friend of mine. let her baby We ve made some improve--be adopted and now she's work-| Ment since the fig leaf days. ing-and settled down. Her friends. Maybe we've lost part of our treat “her nicely, and she’s en- evebrows but we've covered our

gaged to a man who knows of figures. We had to do some- ‘ : i . 2 : To "her mistake. They're saving for thing when you shaved off , ii ; 7 CoE . ( \ furniture and will begin life with Your long beards. - 4 : L148 L i a clean slate. When you find that girl you : ¥ LP if \ REPENTANT SUZANNE, + ont mind . the lipstick. Of ; cori ep bl -§ a . “~

course you'll plan to change ber when you marry her—and trouble will start.

‘Made-to-Order Shoes

WHERE IN Indianapolis are ‘shoes made to order? My doctor told me to have them made to order,

City. The family name isn’t always ~~ ~aaved--with--the marriage of pr the daughter who has made a mistake, is it? A bad marriage and unhappy children don’t clean the slate. Mother and Dad may sigh in relief when their daughter marries so that their grandchild wilh have a name But the same club women Mother has tried to hush and the same business associates Dad is trying. to impress will wonder Wants to Help abodt their “judgment ‘if - the I'M SO grateful for finding a - marriage fails. Those parents’ '1ice house to rent that I want to ‘Sighs of relief may change to give needy children some odde sighs of sadness when they pull and ends of jewelry etc. I have away" from their daughter's | know you'll be able to tell me home. where to take them.

Southeast Miss HAPPY TENANT Love arri M Take them to the Juvenile , $ M . ed an Center, 2401 N. Keystone Ave., EM. SUPPOSED. to. marry. -my corto Juvenile Court,” 138" E.* first love. who is 21. but I love Market St.) Those children deanother. man... nearly -40.- whem ‘tained at the center, waiting |

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