Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 27 October 1948 — Page 4

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Way to Halt Divorce

A + I'M A DEVOTED HUSBAND who thinks our difficulties are insufficient for divorce. My wife says she never loved me, or anyone else, and wonders why we married. She has left and sued for divorce and I'm worried—not from pride. - I'don’t believe in divorces until all efforts have failed. 15 attempted reconciliation twice, by telephone, but she seems g = 2 E

incredibly busy. She calls people saps for marrying. §he always looked on the "fark side of marriage. I contend if you say a thing over and over = you eventually believe it,

My wife now lives with a cousin who has helped her think a is unnecessary, that one prevents a woman from enjoying = lite. “This cousin, who is 45, divorced once and now married to an = man with a pension, has never liked me. a We grew up together and have been marcied 12 years. Sne , 33 and I'm 34. We've worked in an office all during our marriage 3 d have eaten out.. While I was In service she moved to this usin's house and was treated as a long-lost child and os for room and board. We moved back home when I reed, having normal fusses, We'd pout and not speak for days. e can't have children and wanted to adopt one—I said I was Es but we've had different views on so many things. We dn’t enjoy ourselves like we should, partly because I had to work nings. What is your answer to our problem? = DEVOTED HUSBAND, = I like your honesty about having been neglectful-——you have g been. I like your willingness to make amends, but flowers and a { note, almost Saying, would have been better than pleading over ia telepho I don’t like that pouting from either of you, or your * “neutral” Women like forceful men~they want them interested, not indifferent. Tell your wife you love her and need teher, over and over, while she “thinks you over.” Don’t be matter-lof-fact about keeping your marriage together. She might quit | {:$hat Job YOu seem to object te If she regained faith in your mar- = She might get”over her babyhiteds it you didn't show 3 E I= =

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“We don't let our elders starve. There's old age assistance “from the Marion A Soun r Department of Public Welfare, Social lr alo at 65, and ald: township trustees. The Department ; Education Vocational Rehabilitation Division In the Board of oa 36 Bunting looks out for employable handicapped persons and | the State Employment Service, 257 W. Washington St. tries to ! place the Sed Who are able to wark. : All of us should remember our banks and our insurance companies, and pian for “social” insurance by finding hobbies fo keep us interesting. . Elderly who stay Interesting are just as | ‘ Intstetting to persons with similar tastes as théy were in their

Lonely Widow Wants Companionship

i. I'M A WIDOW, 60, in fdir health and don't expect to marry ‘again. But I do desire companionship and haven't found a suitable pal in churches, lodges, etc. I want SUIMSORE who enjoys a good , Ame‘thont incivaing quéitionable 4 amuse: ! A LONELY crry WIDOW.

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