Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 18 October 1948 — Page 10

Ask Mrs. Manners— = Man Falls in Love ™

With Wife of Another

: ’ 1 HAVE FALLEN IN LOVE WITH another man’s wife, and she with me, It didn’t happen on sight, but over a period of a year, by daily contact. She is the finest person I have ever met, and we both fought against falling in love, : 2 © Tve been married six years. The first three years were ial, and then my wife became dissatisfied with everything. I've never denied her anything<—we have all the modern electric ces. I've tried to be affectionate, but she was cold and indifferent until I didn’t care. Now she. can’t understand what is wrong. She liked to drink and insisted we have drinks in the house all the time. I got to the place whére I also thought I had 10 have my drinks every day. ~The woman I love has been married many years and has heen forced to live a rather secluded life because her husband does not associate with people. She has put up with a lot from him, At one time he drank to excess, Another time she stood by him “wduring a sickness and mental ilinezs brought on by his own lust, Another time he had an affair with another woman that brought tragedy to him. Now he tries to hold his wife by making threats on his own life.

that to find complete happiness one must forget the past and look only to the future? G. E. P, City, It's true you have to look to the future to be happy—when You've done all you can to make the past right. Maybe you're trying to bring about a past you have a chance to do something

A mangle makes a woman feel a little tender toward a stack of shirts, but it can’t put its arms around her and tell her the “nothings” she likes to hear. Those are yout jobs, and you can’t do them half-heartedly and infrequently and convince her that you love her. She Isn't completely indifferent—she actually wants another chance, with your help. Talk things over. Cut down on that drinking, both of you—too niany hangovers don't work with marriage. other woman's husband isn't completely bhad—people Just aren't. He's weak, but he feels some love and gratitude toward her or he wouldn't want to hang on to her. Both of you would do better marrying a person who had made a marriage successful: You, particularly, don't know

wanted to be happy, married again. Loneliness draws you to

this other woman but that isn't binding enough to keep you a oy

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EVER SINCE I can remember everyone ‘has shunned me. be-

I took a business course, and have a ve : y ry good office job. I notice that the office force shuns me and I lunch by myself quite often, ‘ah

says I'm slow and lazy. .the men will ask me for dates. when I mention marriage and a family. beneficial to me?

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NKY a dentist and a skin specialist, and then get interested In people and their activities. Check with the Civic Theater for acting or backstage work, and look Into church dramatic programs, ok The following might interest you: YWCA Drama Class meet- _ Ing on Tuesdays, 7 to 9 p. m., and the YWCA Personality Inventory, Tuesdays, 7 to 9 p. m.; Arthur Jordan Conservatory private lessons in drama; Butler's Play-acting Class, 4:15 to 6:30 p. m. on Thursdays; Manual Training high school Adult Speaking Class, Tuesdays and Thursdays, 7:45 te 9:30 p. m.; Marian College's three-hour Dramatics Course, Tuesdays, 1 to 3 p. m. and Wednesdays at 10a. m. .

Training in Floral Decorations

¥ CITY READER. Inquire about a two weeks’ course in floral design by writing Tommy Bright's School of Floral Design, Harrison Hotel, Chicago, Colleges offer courses, and garden clubs supply help on floral decorations.

Reveals Real Names of Actors

play in “Backstage Wife"? . MRS. E. P., City. Za The Nobles privately are James Meighan and Claire Niesen,

ask her for a date though she's “cute and has cute ways." Keep on’ having other dates, but don't always have that girl friend along when he's around. Give him a chance (that he doesn’t know about), to ask you for a date. ) You ean tell what he likes by watching him notice girls in your crowd. Of course you'd look ridiculous acting helpless when " he admired a little demure blond, if you're a wholesome brunet. You'd look foolish acting brawny if yon are sweet and fraile. Men, whether they admit it or not, like combinations, so sthe wholesome brunet could learn a little, maybe mentally, and the fragile gal could learn one sport and be informed on a. lot of them.

. Calling Just Isn't Ethical

1 do it just isn't ethical for a girl to call a boy for a date. : MIXED UP E. C. 1 sure do. You can make him feel important in ways other than calling Mim. Compliments usually are successful. And you know how to look into his eyes,

Kate Smith's Whereabouts WHERE IS Kate Smith? MRS. F., City The “Kate Smith Sings” program over Mutual Network begins at 11:15 a. m., week days. .

To W. R. B.—I'd have to know more details before guessing if your friend is sincere. MRS. MANNERS.

Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column share your problems and answer your questions. Write in care of The Times, 214 W. Maryland St.

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You're counting on each other to supply all the happiness. |: cause I have buck teeth and a pimply skin. I feel this is no fault. of mine, and I see no reason why everyone should pick on me.

The boss’ secretary calls me “stinky”. and a hook-

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I've been dating a fairly nice looking hoy and wonder Why I don’t please him. He gets so distant

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COULD YOU tell me where to obtain training in floral decora- :

WHAT ARE the right names of Larry and Mary Noble who

To “Doubtful” writing privately that her favorite bay won'f] =o wom.

MY STEADY boy friend can't understand why it's against my|

principles to call him. Here is my plight. He hasn't called me until} 5 | ) late and sometimes not at all, saying it's my turn to call him.| Can you imagine? ° . ! , What can I do with a guy like this? I don’t want to quit him|

and 1 don't think he wants to quit me, but you know as well as

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