Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 11 October 1948 — Page 14

— — EE Hubby Goes to Tavern; | Sally Weeps at Home

YOU'RE GOING TO TELL me — improve my looks, to keep my husband out of the taverns, but he knew I wasn't! beautiful before we were married. No matter how geod I. Jook he doesn't notice, The only reason I can see he does things he's doing is that he doesn’t love me at all. I'm the unhappiest maryied woman in the world to be married to a man I really love. We've been married 10 years. - He' tells me he loves me, but goes to taverns and drinks all the time. He won't let me go with him, He tells me if I want to go some place and drink by myself he'll give me the money. ‘ When I.ask him for a divorce he says he loves me more than anything. I do know he goes with other girls, I know there could) never be anyone else in my life; Can you help me? { TRUE BLUE SALLY. | I'll: bet you're working on the wrong angle, Sally, You may act as out of place in a tavern as your hushand would act | at a sewing circle. Get together on something you enjoy. Your | life isn't full enough If you have no interests outside your home. | i

You're probably a little bored from lack. of Interests, but you think it's because your husband doesn’t act attentive, Men dislike unhappy women, though they may be respon. | sible, and they don't like possessiveness. They want some privacy | and, of course, they want companionship, too, Companionship { in your husband's opinion, isn’t talking about your new set of dishes. Keeping a husband in love with you and making mental | and Huica) improvements are constant jobs,

o R. 8. ele, asking about qualified seaman training in the | v. 5 Maritime Service—Write to the U. 8, Maritime Service En- | roliment OMcer, Room 110, U. 8. Customs House, 423 Canal St. New Orleans (16). MRS. MANNERS.

_ Says the Salesman Is a Heel : THE SALESMAN WITH the good wife and three children who “Indianapolis Reader” sald she was dating sounds like the sales man I dated two years. Their lovely home is provided by her ‘people—so are their food and clothing. He draws a good salary | but spends it on women, drinking and obscene pictures. I found | out about him too late, I loved him and let him cry on my shoulder, but in my trouble he turned his shoulder on. me. 1 blame myself for what I've done, ’ You told her you wished his wife would tell her the true story | about him. This one’s wife told me plenty. | Why do we women Tall for men like that? I wonder if he'll ever get what's coming to him? INTERESTED CITY READER These cases Involving married men are all very similar, The unhappy hysband doesn't want to share his shoulder—it isn’t broad enoufh——he wants to lean. He doesn’t want to share anything. He wants everything for himself—the family funds, his freedom and his fun, = > He hasn't given anything to his wife and he won't give anything to thé girl he is dating. Making him happy, under normal circumstances, would be impossible for he, wants happiness handed to him,

om to Write to Radio Stars

. WHERE OOULD I write Steve Wilson and Miss Kilburn on the “Big Town" radio program and “Mr. District Attorney?” GIN, City. Write them in care of the National Broadcasting Co., 30 Rockefeller Plaza, New York © ity. -

To Meg (South Side) asking priv ately about an organization: Ordinarily, membership is by inv itatiop, For details eall RL 1177. . MRS; MANNERS.

* Wants Boy Friend—And His New Car

A BOY I LOVE talks to me but never asks me to go riding in| his new car. When he had his old car he always stopped by. He , Bave me a record that I play all the time, but he likes another " girl. I dream -about him often—I can’t forget him, How can I get him back? DOWNHEARTED. Making ‘& boy think. you enjoy being with him regardless of the car he drives or the price he pays for gifts Is smart manuevering. You don’t dare overdo it, though, and cheat yourself out of his periods. of prosperity. I'd be indifferent to him, but not Indifferent to how I looked. Look better than that Other Lod and pretty enough to ride in any car.

_ Drive-in Kiss Angers Her Lover Sh RNR EIEAS BOY. Rt a driven so_my lover could see and he.

trying to get this hoy I love, He. doesn't pay much atte th TA but I know he still loves me. He tells her he lo - Wwe ‘compare. HEARTBROKEN JUDY. “1 didn't exactly have in niind a' Romeo-Juliet scene at a drive-in when I said to worry a boy friend. Your act was pretty obvious and rough at the edges. You want him to find you attractive partly because other boys think you are, but I. doubt if the public love-making impressed either boy. I'm mot going 40. worry. about you, though... The last shoulder you'd soh on Would be the shoulder of the girl competing Tor your boy. Iriend.”

- Searches for Wartime Sailor Friend

* I FELL IN LOVE with a sailor during the war and He was| called back to his base the day before our blood test came back. | Our letters were mislaid, I had a baby. I've never asked him for| help but I've tried to find him for three years. I know he'd help! if he knew it. It's hard for a girl alone to support a child and I don’t want to ask for charity. My whole lifé is a wreck. I can't make up my mind about, marrying someone else when I know I couldn't be happy. My baby | is at the age where he wants to know about his daddy. I know! the sailor loves me—he told everyone he did. Do vou think I! should write to Washington for his address? { WAR MISFORTUNE, City. You could tell us a lot about the trip to the doctor—alone— going to _the hospital-—alone—the return of your letters to the sailor—job hunting and explaining that you aren't married—the |

approaching ordeal of telling your son. Believing that the man loved you hasn't eased the heartbreak much or helped buy baby food, has it? It hasn't bought you pretty clothes like the other girls wear. It's been heavy payment for a big mistake, but 1 think you've tried. Talk. with your local Red Cross. Your case Sounds serious enough to write the Commandant, U., 8. Navy, Washington (25), | D. ©, asking that your letter be forwarded to the sailor's last known address. ‘

Asks Information About Tim Holt

IS TIM HOLT married? SUE, City. { Tim married Alice Harrison June 24, 1044.

Let Mrs. Manners and readers « of the column share your prohlems and answer. your questions. Write in care of The Times, 214 | Ww. « Maryland St. |

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