Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 16 July 1948 — Page 6

in Love, Won't We Due to War Wound =" TM IN LOVE with a man in his late 20's and think he § Joves me. Due to & wound received while in service he is afraid of marriage. He has a fragment of a shell near his “heart. It may never bother him, and again it may just be ~days or months until it does.

* How can I make him understand that we could haves

“some time together and be happy? We certainly aren't happy now. | “He asked me to write you and a lot depends on your answer, - WORRIED, NORTH SIDE, Be SURE that the man loves You. Few men refuse to marry because of ailments. Let the advice of the Army doctors who have examined him guide you. 2 You'll need a strong character to keep him from worrying tek about the fragment if he is frightened now. You'll need fo plan ; } for security and perhaps give up activities that you'd enjoy. f

Mother Destroyed Her Love

TO THE WOMAN who wrote that her mother is her problem —

people never realize that physical child bearing won't, in make a real mother. worry incessantly because I don’t feel as I should to my . She abused and despised me as a child—she told me so. is a devout church worker like your mother. Now, in my i maturity, I regret I can't give her my complete love. t I'm happily married and have two lovely sons, but my husband, a model of neatness outside, is sloppy at home and his manners |= ‘are atrocious. He is a factory worker, but was well reared. He |S resents me correcting him on details that make daily living pleas-|s ant. Can you suggest a cure? REDHEAD, CITY. You've both changed for the better. Your mother has for- _ given you for the trouble you probably caused her when you were & child. Be forgiving enough te forgive her. * Let your husband forget your arguments over his manners, and then up to him. Praise his courtesies and neatness and teil him that his good rearing shows, for he really knows his way . around. Give him the job of training your children at the table. “Make home meals attractive and conservation interesting—have company and ge out often. ? Friend, eto, asking legal questions—Talk - with your lawyer or the Indianapolis Legal Ald Soclety, Ind. To 3. h. Atking about heeoming 8X. 8 a VU. 8. Immigration Federal belding, second floor.

{iY RS. MANNERS. | | | Sneaked Out, Expect Baby

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. PVE HAD fun till now. My parents were strict and 1 guess I sorta eut loose and sneaked out on dates. I'm a high school freshman and now think I'm going to have a baby. I don't know boy is. My parents want to take me to the doctor because I feel bad, but I'm afraid for them to know, I've thought of . mmning away, but I'm afraid to. * LT. You'd just get humgry, and hurt your parents more if you ran away—and yon couldn't stay away. Your lfe isn't over if y mistakes, J. op Suing, the Family Service Association, 307 N. Pennsylvania St, would talk to you confidentially. Visit them.

Argue About Mae West's Age VE. HAD a big disagreement in our family about the age of Mae West. H. G. AND B. D, CITY.

for own soul. He won't let you down. We all have our faults and that may be one of your mother's faults, criticizing others. She may not like the things the new generations do and

1 . A faults are about all T handle. I know what you mean.

War Brides Survived Hardships T0 “YOUNG AND BITTER” bemoaning the lack of a house— your letter made me boil, If you'd go “stir crazy” in furnished Jootng it ¥ qond thing You dian's foo that Juin you dein te when he We wives who did follow know about all kinds of housing shortages—some of us lived in garages and chicken coops to be near our men, Ie to face lite and marriage you should |S

' of crying about them and you'll be much happier— #0 will your husband. People, in my opinion, don't go to the “dogs”

to. : My. husband and I were married when he was 18 and In our four years we've had many things to contend with. Hard ships only make true love grow stronger. ape YOUNG AND HAPPY, City. © "Yeung and Bitter” doesn’t know that she'll be as fortunate 38 350 Jave Seen. shraugh hardships, You didn’t know you be so lucky and se wise in handling your marriage. ‘The same things won't work for everyone and not everyone has your

Laments Loss of Boy Friend _ THERE HAVE been so many times I've wanted to call the boy 1'like just to hear his voice and I've a strong feeling he still likes E me but has too much pride to crawl back. I haven't seen him for a= he doesn't live far from me. I know now but didn't|=S that I like him better than any boy. I've been told he liked me. I'm sure it's the real thing. Please help me get him You

HEARTBROKEN REDHEAD. don’t need to apologize because yon had other dates, you weren't engaged, but you should apologize for unkindness. ple—write him that you're sorry but let the mext

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