Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 11 May 1948 — Page 4

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Ask A WhyCan’tHeTrustMe?’ WhyCan'tHeTrustMe?’ MY HUSBAND sits around like he's guarding me and suggests going places only when I'm ill. I try talking to him when we're out but he answers with quick grunts. ‘When we get home, he says every man was staring at me, though, following your advice, I'm careful not to “overEo t cook and keep f ything I do except cook an Bo Pen i ar and join a YWCA' sewing club, but he gets angry. He belongs to the YMCA but never goes, He doesn’t have men friends and I have only a few lady friends. He helps me-entertain until the husbands come. along. Then he takes

his special seat and is quiet, or starts reading — they don’t come ny ask him to take me places I think he’d. like to go, but that

doesn't work. . 1 trust him. Why can't he trust me? We've been married two years. MRS. X

Treat him pleasantly but ignore his sulking. | Be natural te him when people are around, but don’t give up your friends. Let. him choose his own friends. He may not be much of a talker— to men or women—and that's no crime. Reserve special attentions for him. Don’t act impressed by the men in your crowd aor compare them with your husband, to our husband. Keep each other up-to-date with full share of thinking, nofivities and hopes. # So

Seeks Location of Uncle MY UNCLE at Springfield, Mo., has tried to locate me and I've tried to locate him. Can you help? W.E.M. Send all details possible to the Springfield police departmen

Happy Young Bride Gives Advice PLEASE, BRIDES-TO-BE and “hope-to-be-brides,” don't place too much importance on sex life in marriage. I probably am too young and newly married to be paid too much attention to, but my hugband and I list the important factors of marriage in this order: financial stability, common interests, even temperaments, equal-in-telligence, same backgrounds and satisfactory sexual relationships. Married couples should indulge in the privilege of marital relations, accepting them as a gift of God. With this one high e in mind, Pm sure the ha t day of their lives will be when they Jearn they are to become parents, I'm éxperienced in this matter because we're to be parents in September. I'm only 19 and have been married only seven months, but I'd like to help girls my age and older who contemplate matrimony. 4 : Le. : JENNY D. don’t compensate for serfous-

ties, do they, Jenny?

Wives Must Fight for Their Rights : IF MORE WIVES would fight for what is rightfully theirs— their husbands—there wouldn't be so many broken homes. If I were “Destitute,” wondering if her husband should divorce her to marry another woman and mother of *his child, I wouldn't step aside. This woman knew the man was married. Let her take the consequences. He may have to support the child, of course,

DISGUSTED Fighting with wisdom and charm, not with words and demands, often saves a marriage.

What Is Test of Boys Love? : HOW CAN I TELL if my boy-friend is in love with me? I'm 19 and he is 24. Everyone says he loves me and he says he does, Dut he doesn’t act lke it, = WORRIED GIRL wr He may love you now but I-doubt-if he will continue to love you force him to tell you constantly, Men like freedom, You may expect too much attention. If his attentions unsatisfactory now and you're wounded, you'd better not marry him. Romance may fade somewhat after marriage,

Career of Children Poses Question I'M 25 AND haye been married over four years. I've always worked and have built up a wonderful business, My friends all tell ‘me I should quit work and raise a family, but my boss tells me I'll be sorry if I leave the business world. In my type of work, it would be almost impossible to do both as my hours are . My husband is a wonderful man but isn't too fond of children.

and feel if we never have children we won't miss them ‘re older. Should I listen to my friends or to my boss? ' Si L.B. 8, Don't listen to anyone except your husband—and your honest “However, T hope the readers will writs some opinions: living usually. shows, and you can become self-centered it, as a couple and as an individual.

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who can’t afford families have them. You can afford to educate and train children the way they should be edutrained for the kind of nation we all want,

® Girls, One Boy.. What to Do? 4 . END likes me and my girl-friend and I What should I do? My girlfriend knew him before I did and liked her but when he met me he changed his ind and bs Mikes me. She said ise didn’t care and that she'd ) Says now she can’t forget him and tries to . - back. He said he didn’t care about her but she blames Fe : i J A WORRY WART : She'll po uy Jose him, 3, if you girls don’t stop discussing him. over him when another interesti Give her Tull sway over the oy A Testing boy comes Along.

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