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‘My Husband Chases After Other Women’
En AS LONG AS MY HUSBAND was home nights and lived in the same town everything seemed fine. We've been married 17 years and have twin girls and a boy. He seemed to worship us. He's a wonderful provider. But he’s home only on week-ends. Last month he confessed that he’s been
chasing around with other women. He says there's absolutely nothing wrong with me and he doesn’t know why he chased. He doesn’t want to give up any of us. I've suggested selling our house and moving closer to him. I've a car so I can get out and get this off my mind. He wants to keep me right here where I'm at a big handicap with the children. How am I going to live down this hurt and still live on with him when every day I'm afraid it will be the same thing over? I'm 36 and try to keep neat and my home in order. MRS. F. M. R. Honestly, men just don’t “curl up” with a good book and a plate of fudge. You wouldn't want them that way. Could you and your husband become interested in bowling or some recreation that would keep him busy when he is away? I'm angry with your husband, too, but his confession indicates that he is reformed. You'll forget In time—you’ve only tried a month—and you're not a woman who lets herself brood. Flatter him—flattering a husband isn’t nearly as deceitful as telling a friend that you like her hat—when you don't at all—and it's much more profitable. You should be living together—keep working on that plan.
What's Wrong With the Hoosiers? MY HUSBAND AND 1 came to Indiana from Montana six months ago and we're ready to go back. What's the matter with people in Indiana? Hoosiers seem to have lost their desire to talk or live. In Montana everybody is friendly and not looking for wrong-doers. I've never seen people so jealous of each other in all my travels. Do the people here seem unhappy and dull to you? 1s it a crime for a married woman to speak to another woman's husband? Must she turn her back and keep quiet so she won't be considered bold and too happy for the Hoosiers? PUZZ You expected a stranger to understand you—to conform to your way of thinking—but you didn’t try to understand the stranger. Maybe she had husband trouble. I've always thought that Hoosiers were talkative and trusting and I don’t find people dull unless I'm feeling dull myself. 0 Maybe — just a little homesick. Toss away that “chip” and be pleasant to a different wife each day. Win the trust of women, their way. Join church, the Newcomers Club; participate in community center, Red Cross, and social agencies’ activities. : Returning to Montana might be disappointing. You'll be surhow quickly you lose out. Haven't the letters from “home arriving less frequently? fT » » = Thank you, E. N., for the cook book information which other kind readers had supplied.
How Can | Teli If He's Serious?
HOW CAN I TELL if my boy friend is serious, or how can I get him serious? He showed me a diamond once, but that is all. I'm 17 and in love with this man, 30. We know there's a big difference 4n our ages and have broken up several times. He hasn't gone with anybody else but I have. Yet I know he is the one I want. T'm settled for 17 and work. I know how to cook, keep house and follow a budget. We have the same ideals and we don't argue. We've dated several months, =” He has told me he loves me, he gives me gifts and he acts like he likes me a lot. He said things would work out for themselves in regard to engagement or marriage. Do you think he is playing me for a sucker? D. L. It would have served him right if you'd made a quick tackle and grabbed that diamond-—but I'm glad that you didn’t. The man is too sure of you. Remember, when you're only 25 he'll be almost
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| Releases Blast | HELSINKI, Mar. 5 (UP)— | Three political parties took firm |stands today against all or parts lof a Soviet proposal for negotia{tions on an alliance with Fin{land. Committees of the parlia{mentary delegations of the Coniservative, Agrarian and Liberal {parties called on President Juho |K. Paasikivi and tendered nega{tive recommendations. The Conservative and Liberal] | committees recommended rejec-| |tion of the whole Soviet proposal to negotiate. The Agrarian group sald it could not accept any| Finnish-Soviet pact on the pattern of Russia’s agreements with Hungary and Romania, which (are strict military alliances.
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posed pact as an instrument] s » Tuarding Finland against the re-| To “Madame X” writing privately—Could you persuade you ‘rth of German aggression. extravagant husband to let you budget the money? I know men but he sounds good-natured. If he agrees, don’t be too gradually. Neus of you realize the other's down the figures out arguing. The Mgh cost. of is: striking disastrously at marriages, the Family Service Association reports. : . Some of you GI's came home feeling extravagant. How did you curb your extravagance—how did you GI wives cope with the situation? “Madame X” is married to a GI and saved his money during the war, She is working again, against his wishes to | their debts. I don’t think that he’s spending money to spite her } she works—he just seunds irresponsible. She doesn't sound like a nagger. Can't we help her?
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AMA Prods Sleepy Doctors Who Dodge Calls at Night
Medical Journal Urges Them to Set Up
A Physicians Telephone Exchange
CHICAGO, Mar. 5 (UP)—The American Medical Association, acknowledging that “many physicians do dodge the making of calls on patients in late hours,” asked doctors today to improve emergency medical service at night. An editorial in The Journal of the American Medical Associa tion suggested that one way for physicians to meet the problem of emergency calls is to set up a telephone exchange. | The journal said that some’ {county medical societies maintain | such an exchange which takes| | the responsibility for locating | physicians if .the regular doctor | doesn’t answer his home or office
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U.S. May Enter War on Rats Here
The Federal Government may enfer the fight against rats in fanapolis. Secretary of Interior J. A. Krug ha. sent notice to Mayor Al Feeney that the U. 8. Fish and Wildlife Service has increased its field staff for the duration of a national campaign against the
The service is already co-oper-ting with rat control authorities in the City Health Depart ment and the Federal drive is expected to bring in some additional funds to be used to publicize a city-wide campaign.
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Because: of a quick-thinking, quick-moving rajlroad engineer, a 3-year-old boy is alive today, In the early dusk of Yesterday, J. W. Haney, R. R. 15, suddenly threw the emergency brake switch on his New York Central freight train. : It wasn’t any too soon for 150 feet ahead, caught in the glare of the headlight, toddled Johnny Wurtzbaugh, 1628 W, Market St, The train screeched to a halt, Mr. Haney got out of the cab and took the child to a crossing flag. man. Mrs. Leona Wurtzbaugh claimed her child whom she thought was at her sister's next door. 2 : The mother and child figured in the news recently when she gave him away because she “couldn’t afford to keep him” Generous citizens aided. the re. turn of the child then. . po eiom—————
CAR VICTIM DIES WASHINGTON, Ind, Mar. 35 (UP)—Eugene - Osgathorp, 67, Winslow, died at Washington Hospital yesterday of injuries re. ceived when he was hit by a car on Indiana 56 near Cato, Ind,
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