Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 20 January 1948 — Page 2

Ask Mrs. Manners— Two. Girls In Love With Married Man

Manners: : We ugreed that he: would yay sil vile susis te tent. lod wd Dear WORK IN AN OFFICE and there fell in love with a|insurance and bank as much as possible. I am fo buy my chs, help with food bills and pay my insurance and book club dues. mmied. man-with two children. I didn’t know if, but the| After Christmas I decided to start an account of my 8 and girl who sits next to me whom I will call “Tizzie” is in love| you can't know just how proud I'am of thai little red book.” with him too. This causes . a Jot of hard feelings. So 1 something frivolous I can buy it and if the money was in IT 1

account I might want it with all my heart but wouldn't feel free to| gathered up all my will power Ra tried to forget this man. purchase it. I don't intend fo be wasteful but it's money I earned

I talked with the husband of “Tizzie” and he was also |% ¥ Saiuk ! should spend it as I see fit without feeling guilty. very unhappy. He and I are now madly in love but she won't give him ease don't get the idea that my husband wopld refuse me or up just for spite. ‘She is the boss’ favorite and makes me do all her begrudge me if I asked for money or object if I went ahead and| but the boss doesn't see it. checked some out. I just want my own account to do wi with as 1 see am very unhappy. What should I do? I am 23, and have. a {fit. I never before had a bank account and I imagine I'll be" worse husband and a baby. MRS. K; than a miser when it comes right down to it. I'll hate to write a You're unhappy because you aren't playing fair. "You can't cheat Sheek, My husband is going to buy a home and I'm beginning to save for furniture.

make marriage successful. Why do you object to working and

Work for the paycheck and fondness for your job—or else stay home and out of trouble. ear Gut wi eonictes and our conncicnos walks un, Jt Bas

your hushand wanted to stow his savings away separately. You're doing your share in paying expenses—but also do your share in saving. Your husband probably didn’t demand that yeu

¥ re. work, H ight fer to ha tay home and ‘manage a house. Hoe S | i e might prefer ve you stay and ‘mai a 40° I- u cl hes Let Mrs. Manners and read ers-of the column share your problems ers e umn IS THERE any place in Indianapolis where one cold sell good | and answer your questions. Write In care of The Times, 216 W. Mary-| . used clothes? land St.

How would one go about getting children to Sot peissy Wades. ei ———————

te os cin cole remass l DE Judge Scores Delinquency groups, shops. C¥Ue Your name in offices of public and parochial schools to find ‘Among "Overprivileged' Wife ‘Won't Talk to Me TE ‘Keep Adolescents’ Mental Processes on Right

I'VE BEEN MARRIED 27 years and for the last four or five years Track,’ Miami Juvenile Expert Urges JF WHE Seldom Bales 10 we She Sita ub home With; 4 Jgasine. When| \raMr Fla, Jan. 20 (UP)—Dade County Juvenild Court Judge a ao Tow wt it m4 Water Mi. Beckman: sxid-todaythat “delinquency. of the overprivileged". lke she-won't take time to talk to me. ug seems i; 5 more serious social problem than the petty crimes of underpriviI get the “blues” sitting at home with nobody to talk to. I used lleged children who may be driven to lawlessness by force of circumstance. | to help around the house. Seems like I don't y pout d |. Judge Beckham, whose rulings involving 20,000 children never have care about doing any-|peen appealed, said he was particularly disturbed by the wanton vandal-

There is a place Saturdays after 8 p. m.—the Widows, Widowers, Maids informal court sessions in his sev- u t crime. nd Bachelors Lodge. They dance and play cards at 17 W. Morris oor “0 | =e Dade Coun-| © © mieract the Jure of cr

Elderly people are welcome. ty court house, said the best cor= I hope this will help some lonely folk. MRS. 8. | UIT bOM for juvenile dein. Promoted in Germany | Thank you for your interest. Your letter may change the life quency is “to keep the adolescent's Charles L. Murray, son of Mrs.

Hos » lonely person. : | mental, processes on the right gima Murray, 1319 Ringgold Ave. 3 Has Ban Account Problem Too much of our welfare work, has been promoted to technitian £ SHOULD I HAVE a separate bank account from my husband? he said, is concerned with helping|fifth grade. He is assigned to the |

cepted my reasons, but I don't think he fully understands. -I am you can't darce, feed or play a quarters in Heldelbe rg, Germany, working with him and we don't have any children, so I see no reason Youngster io nein Soud,® he uag-|wiiere his duting are message cen-| ed. ter clerk.

our number one to for spring

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THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES

in Rome Under

regulations. The embassy telephone.

at marriage and make it a good one. No one pleases you because you 1 do think you give the best of advice. MRS. C. ling: \ . a haven't bus "You ean’t live completely for yourself or within yourself and “Caution, All telephone lines can, ou haven any ness falling in love—you're married and so be tapped. Do not discuss classified

‘sre the ‘men on whom" have designs, Gather your will power. yoy - saving together? You're being downright selfish. You'd howl Mr

He feels I shouldn't and when I explained why he good-naturedly ac- the delinquent physically. “But|/First Constabulary Bridgade Head- |

“U.S. Embassy “gid Watch

Virtual Wartime Security Invoked

By JOHN A. THALE Times orrespondent ROME. Jan. 20 The American 'embassy in Rome is operating

lin red ink on the cover this“warn-

matters. over the telephone.” : For some time visitors have beéi’ required to get a. pass before vis-| {iting the offices in the 80-year-old} \palace, formerly owned by Queen |Margerita. | / Names in Register Their names are inscribed in a \permanent register and on’ their pass is written the name of the {official they are to visit and the uime they come in. GOOD BOY — James C, Petrillo, president of the American | On Joaving. 36 Sisal sen ie Federation of Musicians, hooks his. thumbs in his vest and smiles | triumphantly after his acquittal in Chicago's District Court. He

rture. Visito t t this pa by yeh, Pog Raho) the! was tried on a charge of violating the Lea Act, which Congress. building. | passed in 1946 to curb his power. It was the second time the

An embassy. spokesman says the government had sought and failed to convict the AFL union boss.

| regulations were in line with the neral secu Sh G ild to Hold rpm, oe of lr Siricker HRas ond sane Meeing

The monthly meeting of the Annual

Under the proposed new scale, the basic pay and allowances of major generals and above their equivalent ranks in the Navy would

{be boosted. from $10,740 to. $13,320

annually. A major general, if he had 30 years of sepvice, would draw an | additional $2160 in longevity pay

{to give him a-total of $15,480 in pay

and allowances,

| The proposal would give lieuten-

|ant generals an additional $90 a | month, generals $210 and generals {of the Army $420 in personal al. |lowances. This would apply also to [their navy equivalents, Here is the proposed pay scale:

NACA Chapter to Hoar SOCIAI SEIVICE Unit soi SE = dil op, He art i

any more. We don't step out with anybody. I don't like to ive that way. Can you advise me? prominent Tames. children of |=, » effort to halt the spread Howard Greer: Tomorrow, Dr. Edwin W. Stricker, pastor of oll Tolow a Rorvaldo St. Card games will Joo Brig. Gen Te Sn up ni We TIMES READER MORE THAN 24 YEARS. |” pio referred to & group of teen-/of juvenile delinquency in Miami, Howard C. Greer will talk to fhe! , the Central Avenue Methodist) = Proceeds of th 0 to| Co-op to Te 1% les 4 Yours is ay unusual case—most men think (heir wives talk too Indianapolis chapter, National As-| 5 01 the meering will go [0}1:.o a |agers ri recently wrecked parked Judge . Beckham has organized a ~ ©. = of. Cost- Accountants. at a| Church, will serve as chairman of the organization's fund for the Cmdr... 380 5160 130 150 @ Co GAY De ‘good company: with Aha “blues Get aver. them. . ie foil AU. . or} juvenile counet! ‘to “co-ordinate” the reeting to be held tomorrow iii’ the the" Church Federation's. Social, Shriners’ -Hospital - for - Crippled Li" Cmdr. ne su 4 i 4 By becoming busy. It doesn't matter ‘much what worthwhile thing had | WOK of the: CIty'S YOUTH eTube, ‘Ye&! Lingoli Hotel.” He" 1s" vice" ‘president: Service Department... He... succeeds. (Children. Mrs. Ken Keeney is the Tapr mt" . that yuu do Just so You 40. It snthusiaatisally. In hecoming interested, |, “rc” vent d + Sun Jutivuial anid wellare Tie orother and general manager of Kingan & ine Rev. Ralph L. O'Dell, who re- THpHAT SHA HE Tee ek wm 4 you'll become more interesting. has inaugura .:" er, Co. Officers Urge Increases p § : i ' Attitude nat | 3 what & 1 special priv-land sister” plan. . | Mr. Greer will speak on “Budget-| “enHY moved to New Mexico. Plans J Anniversary Fete Afny 4 role out tbat Seek lace © ntertainmen lege 8 8 y wha y pleased,” Under the plan, court-approved ing Management Performance.” The executive committee of the,” o Charter members, 25-year mem- they will lose thelr war-time $1500 PEOPLE WRITE and ask about a clean place of entertainment. "* 1 The soft-spoken § atist. who olds) jadutte vnalictally opt the dein) Charles R. Israel will preside. 7} federation, in addition to Dr. [bers and past matrons and patrons tax deduction at the end of 1948, their counsel SE Stricker, has elected the Rev. Wal- will be guests on honor at the 31st say some increases are necessary.

NYC Auxiliary to Meet ter A. Laetsch, pastor of the Gar- anniversary meeting of Golden Rule] They say the proposed new pay Ladies’ Auxiliary of the New York field Park Baptist Church, as de- Chapter 413, OES, to be held Fri- scale compares favorably with the Cental Railroad weFe to meet at|PAFUREDt vice president. Mis. Met- day, Gladys Iverson is worthy ma-| pay scale of Industrial executives. ton Good, chairman of christian tron and James E. Berry is worthy) Mr. Forrestal recently expressed

Le» . today in. the central social relations of the Council of | patron. Churchwomen, is recording secre-| tary, and Dr. Grover L. Hartman, 'DUVeW UNIT TO MEET

concern over the large numbers of high caliber men the Army has lost to private industry because of

Social Committee Maels executive secretary. Catherine Merrill Tent 9, Daugh- higher salaries,

The Sahara Grotto uxiliary | The department, a member of the, ters of Union Veterans of the C social committee will Y tonight

At Similar pay increases and adcommunity fund, links the Protes- War, will hold a public apron “ard justments are proposed for enlisted

lat 8 o'clock in the home of Mrs.| tant churches with the social agen- party at 1:30 p. m. Priday in ‘he men but the schedule is not avail-

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Out-State In a state-wide the standards of ¢ the" aged, the Ind of Licensed Nurs conduct a two-da the Claypool Hots 9 a, m. tomorrow. Progress made | years by the Ind has attracted the a “service workers of delegations from Illinois and poss states will attend In letters sent t executives, Mrs, N | 402 N. Holmes Av the Indiang associa that the conferemn to exchange ideas standards of privat and discuss plans similar groups in « Discussion at the pe led by William torney for the asst eral chairman; Ot Public Welfare De)

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