Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 30 December 1947 — Page 2
Ask re Ars, Manners:
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Dear Mrs, Manners: WHAT SHOULD A WIFE and mother do in this situation? My husband has been unfaithful for many years. It now is-«common gossip and our ghildren know it and are humiliated to death that their father whom they had ona pedestal and who was set up by me as an ideal for them has fallen off “ker-plunk” and is just another “chaser.” He is really very sorry and has given her up but she is hounding our home night and. day, bombarding our grandchildren who answer the phone to oi; grandpa” to talk to her. He is so repentant that it real ly is pi Qur -home was always very beautiful and he now sees what havoc ht into this lovely place. Should I help him by forgiving
rate?
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‘hith or I It is a bad. sifuation for when TI look at him I am thinking * ‘You cad, vou ‘hairsbrain,’ lock what you have done to yourself, your home and family so emotionally shocked that we are {l1."” 15 it worth it for me to go on? Financially, yes, but what about the other angles? Can I ever look at him again in confidence admira1? Please help me as there are so many lives tq be affected by my lon. Ther no one here to whom I can freely go for advice, MRS. A.B. C
but Grandpa's. sorry. Arthritis
and
Grandpa has been pretty silly may help you keep him home, For the pleasant life that you had and for. the children you love, try to forgive him. You won't keep him home if you keep mentioning his mistakes. You'll convince him that the woman is alluring if you act jealous. If you stay, you're literally telling him that you'll try
to forgive. Do try:
‘Why Can't | Have a Night Out, Too?’
AFTER READING your reply to my inquiry on the subject of why my husband objects to me going to a movie, ete, the same night that he attends Elks Club meetings, I feel that I should have given you a little more on the subject. He 15 a veteran of the last war, discharged because of poor health He works steadily and very Jong hours and constantly complains of being tired. I have tactfully suggested that he see a doctor and change jobs, but so far he hasn't. I naturally knew he was not real well when he came home and wanted ‘him to take care of the health he does have Is that wrong? I certainly am In favor of him having a night at his know this Is good for Kim, bwt I do not think it Is good for out until 2 or 3 o'clock in the morning and then get up long day. : Another thing, I'don't wear, 8 “long face” and tell him I'll get home “somehow” like you sald. I'm just not that type person, I never him to take me downtown the same ‘time he goes, and don’t expect it, Ido not mind riding the bus and he knows this, but it 1s his » take me down-—80? 1 do not ask him or expect him to leave his meetings to meet me unless he offers which he does occasionally, Sometimes TI take the bus home. Either way is all right with me I don't give him “instructions” about his night out. He's I do ask him about what time he will be home thing and I certainly don't resent it Now with this further information can you point out any reason why he objects to me going out the same night he goes of 5 oo me
club, as I him to be and work a
no child,
Don't you believe that you're making your problem bigger Fo it is? Why don’t you ask him why he objects to you taking a night out the same night as his? You should know this man you live with well enough to talk to him, Maybe he likes to have you there when he comes home—and a compliment it is, too. Of course he's a litle selfish but you should have expected that you'd spoil him. when you started coddling him, He's unhappy enough about being unhealthy without having vou let him know that you consider him frail. You sound like a pretty fair woman—I'm glad that you wrote again, .
She Needs a Three-Room Home
I WAS LEFT a widow at 38 with six children and twins born seven months later. I have kept my children clean and taught them good manners and honesty, They are nice looking. Four have and thildren of their own. One twin died
Auge from the Welfare Department until I had only. three children at ome
Greek: Base Besieged By 3000 Guerrillas
Rebels Seek Seat for Newly Formed Communist Rule Near Albanian Border ATHENS, Dec. 30 (UP)—The Greek army threw all its available rescources today into an effort to relieve Konitza, key base of Spirus.
homes
The base is under fierce siege by manded by Gen. Markos Vafthiados. Albania, Konitza cut off completely by the guerrilla siege. Its garrison peals for reinforcements Radia reports 1d ment battalions still the Greek flag flving town's main buildings guerrillas The guerrilla forces, fighting for Konitza {1 Konitza as a seat for their newly ¢outh proclaimed Communist government,’ et had inflitrated the town. The re- captured and lost repeatedly,
3000 guerrillas comIt is on the border of
said the had captured the Grambala
tal of Spirus, Greek army
Meso-
WAS
heights between and Konitza,
number of
vind and Tsouka
that
moved overnkeeping over the
sent urgent ap-
city and had
two inio a villages
outh of the Bourazani
They told of str
were bridge ng attacks by the late vesterday against north, west and and said that in fierce bayo-
fighting heights were
m the
several
Falls Off Pedestal, Shames: Family
{lead my children by the
I ralsed my family with assist- ° :
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I need three rooms : two boys, 19 and 17, and girl, a student at a fresh air school. “Binice Algist Tve been a shrve for an -unappreciiative ‘older sister; in her honfe. If only I could find a place. I will take care of old folks—1 Jove old people—or children of working parents if I can have an apartment. I had three sons. in service, kept two grandchildren, worked in a defénse plant, and gave four pints of blood to the Red I don't drink, smoke, dance, swear or play cards. Thank God for people like you : . M. I'll mail you the letters if people offer help. You're right to leave your sister. Try to forget your grudges and become friends after you've moved. Avoid arguments now,
She Wants to Meet a Lonely Boy I READ YOUR COLUMN every day and enjoy it very much. 1 saw an artlele written by a lonely boy. If he 18 near my age I'd like to correspond with him as I'm a very lonely girl. ‘My age is 23. MISS L. 1 don't réveal names. Men are available, Go places—cultivate recreation to pass your time and win you friends.
Cross
I'm a very nice girl and am looking for my ideal man.
A Brunet Can Look Young, Too
AN ARTICLE in your column caught my eye, It's nice to know a blonde ean bear six children and still look as young, attractive and unmarried as she says she looks. ‘Maybe if she had an invalid daughter she wouldn't feel so young and carry herself so well after nights with no sleep and 12 rooms to clean. 1 want my children to be nourished, not fed on balony This blond sounds as {if her _whele life |
hand.
based on her (body), 1 I am not afraid I won't carry myself well—they come first I often wonder how long 1t beauty contest month candle to this blond any time,
takes to peroxide her hair, ago but I'm a black anywhere, with my six children, My husband says hell stick to the “blackhead.” MRS. L. M, I can't have you girls uprooting your “upsweeps.” You might like each other if you were acquainted. I'm glad to know that you can be beauty queens as well as beaming mothers and proud housewives,
I won a
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Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column share your proplems and answer your questions, Write in care of The Times, 214 W. Maryland St. :
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— Speedway Lodge 4 s No Joke, Son—Price Bill Vanishes Into Thin Air . .". White House Thrown in Turmoil; Duplicate Signed, Becomes Law
WASHINGTON, Dec. 30 (UP)—The White House put™federal kleuths today on .
To Install Powell
During public ceremonies to be in the Masonic
{held Saturday Temple of North Park Lodge, Ham-
{fiton Powell will' become Worship-
ful. Master of
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to be installed include Evan
(Hughes,
warden; Dickerson, urer;, Bamuel Parke, a past master, secretary; Evan Chambers, senior Ernest Roller, junior Cieorge Anderson, chaplain; Harold Douglas, Senior steward; Floyd Beck, junior steward, and Charles past ‘master, tyler,
Hamilton Powell
deacon; deacon;
Dancing will moines,
Gates Rejects Appeal To Relax Truck Laws
Gov, Gates today rejected an appeal from Michigan Gov. Kim 8igler that tractor-trailer “trains” be allowed to use Indiana highways. Gov. Sigler had asked Gov. Gates to relax the Indiana law so a critical shortage of gasoline in Michigan could be relieved by tractor units hauling more than one trailer of gasoline.
follow the cere-
person in Indiana has the authority th, waive the laws on our statute
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. the trail of the Republican anti-inflation bill which disappeared mysteriously ‘before | President Truman could sign it.
Mr, Truman wanted to sign the hill yesterday. But he couldn't.
into thin air.
The only answer was to prepare a duplicate. | dent H. Vandenberg (R.
Mich.)
| and flown during the night by a
special Army plane to House Bpeaker Joseph W. Martm Jr, in
Dedham, Mass. Speaker Martin |
signed it without comment and a White House courier rushed it back to Washingion. u The President 2 od the duplicate while agents of the U, 8. Secret Service tried to track down the person responsible for the dgriginal’s disappearance. The bill in issue was the Republican substitute for the President's 10-point program to contro} inflation. Mr. Truman Sunday night expressed bitter disappointment over what he considered "the bill's “feeble” provisions to cope with the high cost of living. But he said then that he would sign it Monday because it was better than nothing. » n TIME CAME for the signature yesterday, The President had his
«pen all ready despite his intense | dislike for the measure. Gov, Gates replied that “no one
the desk of Clark M. Clifford, Police captured three others a¥%' venile Aid authorities.
But the bill wasn't there. The last time it had been seen was 5:30 p. m, Sunday afternoon on
{ White House since the McKinley
|tempting different burglaries.
It had vanished ¢
It was signed here by Senate Presi-
Mr. Clifford was at a loss to explain. Secret Service agents were summoned. The: White House a 5 0 was searched. Domestics who THE MAN who discovered that | clean the offices were questioned. the bill was missing was Maurice | Not a trace was found.
fice is no more than 50 feet from that of Mr. Truman,
| counsel to the President whose of - |
C. Latta, who-has worked in the a 8.08 THE HECTIC news was given the President. He picked up his | private telephone and asked for | Sen. Vandenberg and Rep. Martin, “Judge,” as Mr, Latta is called, | Then arrangements were made for knew the President wanted to | getting their signatures on the sign the "bill yesterday morning. duplicate copy of the bill,
administration. Mr. Latta, venerable expert on White House paper work, is pushing 80.
When he went for it in Mr. Clif- The whole business, said White ford's office, the bill had van- | House Press Secretary Charles G, ished. Ross “is most mysterious. »
Eight Boys Jailed In Three Burglaries
Police broke 'up a petty crime they attempted to enter Ettinger's wave last night with the arrest of Market, 601 S. West St. Although eight ‘teen "agé boys caught at- one of the boys was acting as a (lookout, while the other two re= moved boards from a rear door,
| Three of the boys w h ; ee Be boys were caug bi police managed to surprise them,
“red-handed” as they attempted Two other boys admitted rane to enter Good's Market, 1154 S. sacking the office of the Midwest |Capitol. The three had broken the Heating & Service Co., 774 E. Ohio {side door glass and were trying to 8t., shortly after their capture last {remove the ‘inner screen when night. [police nabbed them. { All eight were released to Jue
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