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ES Swe SL BU Ss / Dear Mrs. Manners: I'm s0 Ti ks bi nefyous and have Jou. wo. aie weight, Please help Schedule Arranged i : ; . a s loo nd of on paper uth: 4 . : : CAN A MARRIED. Ww OMAN “ of 40 start a new. life? we y pape A STEADY READER. For Holidays gig 2 ; , : | Next I've never had a life of my own—my thoughts and doirigs| “Your husband sounds perfectly normal, but his eyes rove in re- | Christmas programs in most of the | always were for somebody else: Something happened five! verse to the manner of most men. If you're jealous, don't show it, {city's community centers .and ‘teen | years ago and I woke u BTL Perhaps that has caused you trouble before—you may be imagining | canteens have been announced -by, Amal ' % D. cia la eh | infidelity. |K, Mark Cowen, city recreation t I've always been ambitious. I love art, nursing and sew-| "Don't worry so much that you lose enough weight that he won't superintendent. Invite ing. As a girl 1 wanted to be a nurse but Mother took sick| “leok".at home. : Beginning Priday there is a full By and I Jeft school-when J was 13, T stayed home and kept house for pad oe ot Jealous—But . .. {program of dances and other en- The Tin raising my youngest brother and sister. ‘Time went on, and so did m I'm Not Jealo : r itertainment for the Christmas which attri work. When I was 18 my mother died.e’ I continuéd to keep hone I AM WRITING to you to see if you can solve my problem. I'M gohool vacation. el to the Fai there were no good times. |16 and my boy friend is 20. I love this boy and wish he'd ask me p... Genter will have a Christ- year, again to marry him... My girl {friend and her boy friend go out with us | rd A ruary At 10.1 met a man nine yedrs my senior. He was good to Dad and mas party Friday’ for the junior A ” some times, At first it worked all right. Now it seems that my boy { Plans for the “Kid” brother and sister—that pleased me, He claimed he wor- = |canteen, Shag Shanty. In charge friend pays more attention to her than me, { th will be Robert W duction pre shiped the ground I walked on, so T thought myself in love. We married ‘ : ” lof the party eist, : I'm not jealous and I don't want to break friendship with this ers have-be In a year our fitst baby was born and I thought I was in Heaven, Jean Brodie, Norma Riley and Al- e girl, but I do wish she would stop, going out with us. Could you lan Germaine. Miller, man I knew before our marriage this man loved to play cards and he suggest something for me to tell her to keep her from going with us? " Mr. Mille played them, many nights all night. We quarreled but it never amounted A READER. | Party at Schools 21, 38, 39 ule 10 perm to anything because 1 thought all responsibilities were still mine. 1 Dispensing with this one girl won't end competition, or win you | Alo 6n Friday a party and open h- perhaps du had two more children. Life went on and "I was just another house- : oulds’ the &irl, | ouse will be held in School 21 in ; hold item. “a proposal for which you're too young. I w n't oust the girl, [charge of the boys and girls clubs. | school Chri but I'd outdo her, She Is good for you, provided you let her make you |, {ll be held Friday night in| Mrs. 1 have tried to be a good mother and a good wile, giving my hus- “keep on your toes.” : | ances wi ay nigh n| band the love and attentions a mgn likes—but my hfisband hasn't been | Be so attractive that you don't act or look defeated. | Schr and 39 Wy ve Haven Mrs. Nort tender or appreciative. I see how much I missed in life. an ch canteens, ody Manor For Travel _ Special acti Five years ago my husband made it clear that he married me sus Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column share your problems Will have a dance that night in the ° 5 and recreat because T was a good cook. We never go places together—but he goes.!and answer your questions. Write in care of The Times, 214 W. Mary- Brookside Center, / been name [4 I Have tried to talk him into letting me go to work but he “raised the land St. Saturdsy night there will be a Koster has roof.” I know I need a vacation and some loving, and I need to 80 dance sponsored by Buzz Bucket in «ss For Lounging O-Rama sl places and do things. 3 {In The SOrYico=— the canteen, 2500 W, Michigan St. - ; presented. If you don't love your husband do you have to live with him? Where, There will be a party Sunday Every am do I go from here? A GOOD LISTENER. Lt. Oo bh k CC ! } afternoon at 3:30 in Lockefield Gar- | vited to tal You've always served—you wouldn't be happy. otherwise. thats | ver oC om £2 es dens for children of the neighbor-| . parts for why you aren't happy now-—-po one needs you. Stari serving. You T “ T } J hood. | tiniest you really can't blame your matter-of-fact husband for being lacking | raining rip [0] amaica On Monday, Christian Center will |. BToUD ” as ‘eb

have a Christmas pageant, carol sing and open house starting at 7 p. m In the afternoon from 3 until 5 p. m.| there will be a party for children

in romance—you didn't marry him for romance—you didn’t express need of it as long as your children occupied your time, You can't expect a man, particularly one older than you, to suddenly become

+ Lt. (jg) Stanley Overbeck, 3612 N. Chester Ave, has completed a naval reserve training cruise to Jamaica aboard the USS Rochester Lt, Overheck was one of 49 reserve officers who made the cruise. He is

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romantic, ' You'd feel like “another household item” with any husband, jemployed by the Loan Guarantee Besuon of | the Indianapolis Veterans under 8 in charge of Mrs, Carl Lee. by Vani Fai 1948 Ice-O-eventually—you'd feel like part of the office equipment on any job. A ninisurg on. . employed “by the Phillip Carey| Teenager Dance y Vanity Fair A Why not offer your serviees in art, nursing and sewing to the | Pfc. John C-Patton, 3862 Milburn rob gacturing Co. in Cincinnati.| Tuesday night Christian Center! Committe Council of Social Agencies Volunteer Service Department, the Red St. has been promoted to corporal. yi, yoo veteran of the 70th Infan- will sponsor 4 dance for teenagers. mediately o Cross, and the Family Service Association? “Substitute mothers” are He is serving ith the 163d Airways try Division which fought in the The committee includes Vera! effects, cost sought by the Family Service Association for homes where mothers And Alr Communications Service piineland Central Europe and Ar- Hirschburger, Maxine Seddam, Pat! Wonderfully lightweight, details to pr are dead or ill. Your husband might not object to a non-paying job. Sg In Sap Sout: Guatemala. 4.1 nes campaigns. | Virgin, Barbara Waggoner, Jeanne, ' colorful tha Suggest it to him nicely, not coldly and belligerently. Pfc. Geno M. Floreancig, son of Culp, Ann Robbins, Janet Lowe, | . Ticke He may have been angry when he said that he married you just Mr. and Mrs. Anton Floreancig, — Kenneth Bk Coleman, gudgh. a Minnis, ’ packable TOYOn [38Y . + + §O Hg for your cooking—you probably said mean things yourself. You DO 1024 N. Holmes Ave, Is serving wilh 5404 \wegtview Dr., has joined her, Northeast Center will present a There wil need a vacation—what Is helding you? If you took one he might the 24th Infantry Division in Kyu- husband, 1st Lt. Kenneth R.-Cole- Christmas play Tuesday at 2:30! trimly tailored to fit beautifully skaters whe discover how much he missed you and would take you out occasionally, shu, Japan. Mr, Floreancig, who oo. "0 ‘aiiosang Japan. Lt. Cole~ p. m. Southside Center will give a : the show. If you acted as if you enjoyed his campany. [Sm on ey Octet, man is serving with the 610th Air- party for the neighborhood chil-| «.. 50 welcqme on Pullman trips, dianapolis T ‘M Husband Looks at Other Women’ . Ibis Ver. craft_Control and Warning Squad- dren at 8 p. m. with a magic show, | tryouts at v y | y ron as a 8 radar controller. {caroling and a Santa Claus. The! be selected. I'M A MARRIED WOMAN of 30 and I Ipve my husband very much Lt. Col. Lennard C. Sorensen, son RE Rhythm Rogues orchestra will play in the dorm, at home! Forest ) Solo skats This is his third marriage and my. second. He has three children and of Mr. and Mrs. R. Ludvig Soren- ‘or a dance in the School 21 au skati 1 I have three. I'm not happy. He's good to me in a way but he lies sen, 2110 E. 65th St. recently as- Harry E. Reid. Promoted lorium from 8 until 11. Leal onC Loot. shets ng Shu to me and that has Ed me to {ose faith tn him, |sumed the duties of ordnance ofi- Harry E. Reid, son of Mr, and Mrs.| on Dee: 27 the Hornet's Hut will i eaf or. Copper Leaf, sizes 32 y Spo He has a way of looking at other women--not one woman but all cer for U. 8. Constabulary and Sec- John Reid, 2327 Capitol Ave, has ha a holiday dance in the Pleas- cy po of them. He starts at their head and goes down to their feet. This ond Military District Headquarters been promoted to the rank of tech- ont Run Clubhouse. The commit- to 38. 10.95 On Stal fsn't imagination, either. I admit all men look at other women but |in Heidelberg, Germany. Col. Sor- nician fifth grade. He is assigned (ee includes Carole Davis and Irving not like he does. |ensen was commissioned in the to the headquarters company of the Thomas. Icy spots We have been married three months, Maybe you can Bold, I've been | Officers Reveres’ Corps in 1032 and 822d Engineer Aviation Battalion, al Southside Center will sponsor a Vanity Fair Lin erle ported toda thinking of leaving him but this being my second marriage I'd like was called to active duty in 1839. unit of the 316th Bomb Wing, now “jam session” Dec. 29 to benefit the, ! # ’ Wayne, Crs to make a go of it if possible. I've spoken to him but he just gets mad. Before going on active duty he was on Okinawa, polio. fund. + Second Floor Sod JistHo -— Sy a Mo . a . v A “pr ported som

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