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Dear Mrs. Manners: «= Agk advice from the volunteer service department of the Council | ’ y y {of Boclal Agencies, Room 1036 Lemcke Building, That group is in| I AM A GENTLEMAN of 60, but I do not act my age. ouch with all community organizations and with cultural groups, | I'm not ready for the wheel chair yet—and I don’t show my| Franklin D. Roosevelt didn't give up because of a handicap—he
age. Now P have been seeing a girl 20 "years old. She became President—and helped others who were handicapped.
thinks I am 43—that was her guess—I never told her dif- Has Heart Trouble, Can't Get Job ferent. : | I HAVE A PROBLEM which has bothered me for a long time, in I am retired as far as real work goes. Iam well off so it fact ever since I have been old enough to have gotten a job and ’ : : couldn't, It isn’t because I am lazy or don’t want to work—it is isn't necessary to continue working. . because I have had heart trouble ever since I was born-—but it isn't My companion and I enjoy the same sports—our activi- | fatal ® $ y 8 8 com i it | 1 have been looking for a job for a long time, but no one wants ties are about the same. My problem is do you think Me hire any one with heart trouble, I am very handy with my hands would be wrong to marry for companionship’ land like that kind of work. I learn very easy. 1 once worked in a WILLIE, City. film studio, but the work slowed down and I had to quit. I don't Companionship Is a good reason for a man of 60 to marry—but want any office work as I don't believe I could handle it. T am 18 not good enough for a 20-year-old girl. You shouldn't "be dating her, years old. UNLUCKY GUY. { even if you were as young as she thinks. Appear at ihe offices of the Marion County Society for the CripA wheel chair wouldn't be ton bad if your wife sat in one next to | pled (TA. 2482) for an interview. You will be interviewed and trainyou. You'd find one disheartening pulled up alongside a jitterbug ing in facilities will be provided If necessary. sontest arena. If you don't need direct therapy for physical building you'll be | The girl would tire of a fatherly husband—and you wouldn't like | referred to other agencies Including the State Employment Service | to think Rt she felt like Jaf iy wan It's fine not to look your | handicap division and Goodwill Industries, Ine.
age but not to act with dignity is silly—and dangerous. The more 'Forced to Move Fears Broken Family | » u probably appear. | AEs You preiend do be (ne vider 4h § y Pe 1 AM A WIDOW, 34, with three children, 14, 13 and 7. My hus-| Jack Comes Around on Friday Nights [band has been dead for six years and was down sick six years before I HAVE A PROBLEM which T cannot seem to solve. T wish yoir'd| he passed away. All the raising of the children was thrown to me. For \ ’ ; : y three years I lived with my people, | help. My boy friend comes around every Friday night but he never makes dates. Jack never wants to go places or do anything I want to Pive months ago my mother moved out and gave me the furnido—vet 1 think an awful lot of Jack. He is in college and we are both ture and the chance to rent the apartment. I signed the lease. While old enough to know what we want. ‘mother was gone I cared for my two brothers. One*worked but I kept | I always go with Jack because I am lonesome without him. I can't the other one myself. My mother has moved back in and the brother]
{ t for five months has ordered me out. | win him over like I have always wanted to. Bhould I just put my foot I kep wl down, do what he wants to do (which isn't what I think is fun) or just I care for two children to make up for what I lack on my mother’s
tell Jack we can't make it? I do think lots of him and I like to be with (aid check which is $63 a month. him even # he is around only on Friday nights. Please help me. | I have to move now by Jan. 1 and have no place to go and no A FRIEND. {furniture. Would like to rent five rooms, modern, with nice yard so I j lean continue to make my living by caring for others’ children. If I| 't be can't find a place I'll have to break up and put my children in a home. My boy is at the age where he can help me some—and does.
P. 8-1 8lso have other dates. Jack might come around every Friday night—but I wouldn around. Accept some of those other dates on Friday nights. You're oo City right—you're both mature enough to know what you want. Jack v dae Oy, . evidently doesn’t want you enough to show consideration, | Maybe you can make an arrangement with some landlord with | If the romance develops you'd better assert yourself. It wouldn't | children—you care for his children in trade for a place to live. Letbe fun to be married to a man who did as he pleased constantly. | ters with ideas or quarters for you, will be sent to you. Maybe some other girls with selfish boy friends have solved this prob. | lem and will write to us. If he wonders why you didn’t walt for him tell him sweetly that |
he hadn't sald he'd be around. | . > . RC os " Brood" [Engineers to Hear Dr. Barnard Note fo L s Buck Up, Don ! Broo | Dr. Daniel P. Barnard 1V, asso- research at the Whiting, Ind, reTO “L,” requesting that his letter be withheld: We all want| ' ‘ ' | things we can't have. Our adjustment lies in learning and AGSepUng late | | those things which are available to us, Standard Oil Co. of Indiana, willl «Your handicap may erase all resemblances to Clark Gable, but| ..v at a meeting of the Indiana Degrees to Be Conferred
you can drain off your energies by engaging in activities With people... ion of the Boclety of Automo- By Brookside OES i: resident; Mrs. Leatha Prather instead of staying home brooding. You might even obtain the love|, ineers tomorrow in the! . Saha a Grotto Auxilia pres ' . : y » ive Enginee : | Brookside Chapter 481, OES, will r VY fret vice president; Mrs, Nell Em-
relation of the intensity that Vou desire through wholesome activities Antlers Hotel, | sorter desress on cabiiiiates in: 2 | and hobbies. ; He will talk on “The Contest fOr meeting at 8 p. m. Tuesday. » # Names New Officers |... second vice president; mrs. Sundays will continue to be . “funeral” day for you as long asf. Middle of the Barrel” OES choir will sing during the New officers of the Sahara Grotto Gayle Steele, secretary; Mrs. Lil-! you continue to retreat into self-pity. Dr. ‘Barnard, who has written Christmas ram to follow. (Auxiliary were elected at the 1ast|ljan Jones. assistant secretary: Mrs. | Join groups of handicapped individuals—you might find a wife. [0,0 articles for professional and Jrog | ) y: Mrs. Make these people like you by centering your interest in them and not} ..4e publications, joined Standard Matron, and George R. Ash I det yourself, You'll become happy yourself in making others happy. Oil in 1925 as assistant director of Worthy Patron.
(Write problems, questions and comments to Mrs, Manners, The Times, 214 W. Maryland St.)
| Mrs. Goldie Saylor was elected Olga Mish, second guard.
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WEDNESDAY, DEC. 10, 1041 Banking Parley Scheduled Here Junior Officers, Key =
Employees to Meet
More than 200 junior officers, department heads and key employees of Indiana banks ‘will convene tomorrow and Friday for the bank operations conference of the Indi‘jana Bankers Association in the Claypool Hotel. i The conference will be directed by J. D. Barnette, president of the First Bank & Trust Co. South Bend. Included in the two-day meeting will be shop talk sessions, informal luncheons and displays of the latest banking equipment, The conference will open tomorrow with talks at a luncheon by R. D. Mathias, president of the Indiana Bankers Association and the Old National Bank, ‘Evansville; Evans Woollen Jr., vice president of the American Bankers Association and president of the Fletcher Trust Co. here, and Clyde D. Harris, chairman of the ABA country bank operations committee and president of the First National Bank, Cape Girardeau, Mo.
Preston E. Reed to Talk Following the luncheon Preston E. Reed, executive vice president, Financial Public Relations Assoclation, Chicago, will discuss “Public Relations in Banking,” and Floyd C. Ruch, cashier, State Bank of Nappanee, will speak on “Country Bank Operations.” At the afternoon session on Fri day, delegates will hear a talk cone cerning “Safe Deposit Hazards” by Dominic Scanlon, assistant secretary, Continental Illinois Safe Deposit Co., Chicago. The convention will close Friday evening with a panel discussion’ of
FOR RELIEF—About 20 tons of clothes, collected here for distribution abroad |*‘feamlining methods and pro-
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loaded into two trucks by 29 ministers and laymen. They include (left to right the [the panel will be a. B. Gray, vice Rev. Stanley R. Woltien, the Rev. Herman R. Rose, Charles McClury and the Rev. |president, Lafayette National Bank;
director of research for nery. | William“O. Breedlove. The drive for the clothing was sponsored by the Church Fed- |g. Tewksbury, comptroller, Ft.
[Wayne National Bank; Robert
eration. Foster Freight Lines donated the trucks to carry the clothing to Church World ‘|Mosshurg, cashler, Citizens State Service, Dayton, O., for processing and distribution abroad.
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|Bank, Hartford City, and Blaine H. | Wiseman president, Old Capitol {Bank & Trust Co., Corydon.
| MONFORT, Wis. (UP)—Thieves YULE PARTY MONDAY NIGHT Eastman-Cart-| Irvington Chapter, OES, the lodge
hold ‘a joint Christmas party “at.
Mrs. Nettie Fleehearty is Worthy|meeting called by Mrs. Leola Florence Showalten, treasurer; Mrs. Fubbed it in. They left a penny in go" Monday after a short busi \Lula Berry, first guard, and Mrs, each compartment of the €Om- ness meeting. An apron and gift: pany’s cash drawers.
{sale will be held wi.h the party.
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There are over 50 toys in our Santa Claus Land Booth in Toyland . . . to be ordered ond mailed from Santa Claus, Indiana. You'll find an electric stove that really cooks, a washing machine for dolly's clothes—and even an electric train! Each package will be giftwrapped —will bear the cherished postmark, "Santa
Claus, Indiana.” Orders accepted until December 13.
Ayres’ Toyland, Downstairs Store, West Building
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Mailbox —they'll receive the Santa Claus, Indiana, postmark! The greefings should be stamped and addressed in full: ‘name, street, city and state. Mailing
service ends on December 18.
Twin Dolls. Set, including postage, 4.13
Dump Truck, including postage, 3.43
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