Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 9 December 1947 — Page 5

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TUESDAY, DEC. 9, 1047 NP INDIANAPOLIS TIMES : Ce — Ask Mrs. Manners— | : is 7] nn : Ee TRE pnb Is Girl, 13, Too Young To Have Dates? fo Ee

Dear Mrs. RR variety) with my boy friend. She may try to appear old but she Tr.

: y » herself away with those capers. : i | ” : .’ : : : ti uy HUSBAND AND | I want to thank. you a million | ‘I'd be_nice to her—she is somewhat of an erphan—but I'd stand : J ‘ mes for your answer. You wanted to know why we are’ up for myself. She may envy you your clothes and Southern accent— ; . > happy. My husband and I, we don’t drink or smoke or go out | tell her that. laughingly. ' ; » . : . y. a . Some day you'll laugh about these arguments so remain friends. ‘ : 4 T : y at night to card parties. We just stay at home and mind You don't have to take her every place you go or see her every night.

our own business. We love our little apartment. "| Fxpliin that you have other plans, er say that you must study or ‘do - I'm not jealous of him and he's not jealous of me either.| household chores. { ; »

Now a word to the ladies. I don't understand why you don't get along ¢ 1 : tnt ' with your husbands. Did you ever think if your husbands are jealous Invited Us to Dinner—Didn t Show Up

of. you they would stay home at nights? They Would think you had A WOMAN came to our house and invited my mother and me. to a Si - ¥ - . 3 i / : 8 boy friend. I think they are jealous because they are doing things Thanksgiving dinner. She is a singer, My father is dead, and the din- ? they have no business doing. REE ner was for widows and fatherless children. She praved for us. : My hushand and I never had any trouble since we were married.’ She told us fo meet her at a church on Thanksgiving morning. We . . went there but she didn't come. If it hadn't been for a neighbor we \ er

thing he does is OK wit d t 0 ‘ Any 8 E hyme and anything I do is OK with him would not have had anything to eat. What would vou do? I am a reader of the best paper in the whole world—The In- MISS. C. W. City lis Times—o! ol 1 , . M, y " ah Somme : 5 uF Sova iq AeTICR ape " M. City i Give the woman the benefit of the doubt—maybe she couldn't on’re estey ind ay ns iad or al your t me, aid n notify you. ‘In being revenged you'd be as un-Christian as she was, IF possessing peace of mind and consequently, contentment. I hope that .. joke her word intentionally. Be grateful for the kind person

you have children who will inherit your traits and envy no man. who saved the day and served vou dinner. \ ] 13, And Anxious to Know Age for Dating A Private Message to ‘Troubled’ I AM A GIRL-of 13 and am wondering how old you should be be- To “TROUBLED” writi rivately: A yi fore you go on a date. I have had different opinions and don't know oy can't have A ry have a lot--a husband and :

Which to believe. 1 have read your column for some time and thought child who you love and a husband who takes you out. He should “stand 1 would ask your opinion. up” for you with-the relatives but he wants peace-—give it to him. I am very anxious to find out as I don’t ‘want to go on a date too Meet the relatives’ remarks unsuspectingly and kindly, He grew soon. I am sure all other girls my age are concerned with this question. yp with their faults—yours appear new to him. You probably hid them

CITY READER. {while he .courted you—keep hiding them. J Your parents know more about you than I do. Talk with them— Moving would help. : they will guide you right. They'll be more lenient with you if you | -Hpl t 2 : co-operate with them and Inspire their trust. This is the period for Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column share your problems b you to grow and develop—it's too soon te seek romance. and answer your questions. Write in care of The Times, 214 W, Maryland St.

Your parents can help you avoid mistakes. They know if you're —————————— :

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One high school student tells me that he had te promise his

very young date’s parents he would take her to the movies by trolley, bel tH H S t d : ___mot automobile. He had spent days talking his father out of the car. ee ng ere a ur ay He probably won't ask her again—she was too young. Her parents = : d dable. N had C.D. Alexander, manager of tre] Members of the board of direc'ors didn’t think she was grown up enough to be dependabl 9,9ne Bemis Bag Co and a former presi- are; Gharles E. Hamilton, Muncie,

fun, including the girl. {dent of the Indianapolis Chaiaber Warren D. Miller, Terre Haute;

A Couple of Girls Don’t Get Along |of Commerce, s Wit Speak on “Ameri- Thordas 8. Molla, JLossaspo, .. |canism and the Architect,” at a'and James M. Turner, Hammon i Jay PROBLEM Wh i 1 am in We Bist, year xi nish meeting of the Indiana Society of| Ralph O. Yeager, Terre Haute, Is 4 aor ly Se pr ry ye other virl is around bot when Architects Saturday in the Maro:t regional director of the American wv She ac e She ‘1ee5 me 4. '0 n ne 8 : Hotel. | Institute of Architects of which ihe : &

someone is around she makes fun of the clothes I wear and of the Wives and -children-of memuers Indiana society is a chapter.

way I talk. I'm from the South. dr - 0 When any boy I like comes to my house she seems to get there at will be guests at the meeting. En op 9: to : am

tertainment will include a »siring . ! the same time. She hits him until he starts to fight with her. She iio from the Jordoh Conservatory Club to Soe Movies Lg ; : A

Separated one boy and me. tf Music and Don Daegele .| A meeting for Riviera Camera I don't want to be friends with her but I can't come out and 5 say tan . BEE TI Club members and their guests ‘will

1 don’t like her and I can't quit speaking to her. That won't work— aidan be held tonight. John E. Kieinhenz, M el Th S { d ; a ] she just comes over to my house. aT. eet, Indianapolis Water Co. representa- | | on ay ru a ur ay ’ { She gets mad at the least thing but if she thinks we're going master of ceremonies. tive, will show the movies, “The 8 some place and she might get to go she gets over her mad spell and Officers basides Mr. Harrison in- | Waterway to Health” and “Let's Go Gomes to see me—about every night, clude Gerald C. Brubaker, Elknha:t, Out to the Reservoir.” Do you blame me for not being nice to her? Her mother died last g..¢ vice president; Theodore L. — i ; year. When she is sick I go over and clean up her house and fix her Steele, Indianapolis, second vice! ONE IN 6 HANDICAPPED . ot : dinner. But when I'm sick she comes over and says “hi” and then president: Donald E. Compton, In-|. One out of every six persons in vi ' i leaves. What should I do? DAISIE MAE. |gianapolis, secretary; and J. Lloyd the United States is physically han1 wouldn't worry too much about a girl who wrestles (of the “ring” Allen, 1, Indianapolis, treasurer. dicapped, according to survey.

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