Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 8 December 1947 — Page 2

PAGE 2 E INDIANAPOLIS TIMES MONDAY "1. es STRAU Ask Mrs. Manners— | ps SAS: She's Waiting for Her Lost Dream Man ar Mrs Yi ere . ? {about him. I am.s worried person, “Déyou think. 13 years difference in cy We oy . ‘ages is. too much? 2 ; EVELYN, o | aL AM A WIDOW, just past 40. During the war I met a Don's be dishénest and marry ‘the older man bechuse someone, | man and ddmired him very much. We warked together sometime, ‘will replace the GI fn your heart. You won't want to iy | miss him. oe six nights a week. ‘ey You don’t owe the older man an apology for your past loves—he I am so lonely: I have tried goirig out and meeting| 4, piles had some himself. You do owe him honesty. Tell him that other nice men but I'm just a bore. I would rather be alone you're too young to decide on martiage and top young for him, which | ; i Yi sn wbal “ta ifferent. likes niet | is true. Your fondness for him might develop inte love but it might not. until I,see this certain one.. He is so diff a Y: do 3 Jule Don’t hope that you can win the boy who married someone else, | evening. and doesn't run around and STR ike most men ' elong even if he doesn’t love her—and DON'T write to him or see him. You | to three lodges, and 1 have a small restauran walt ll the ond of don't have to retire from the “field” if he gets a divorce—but don’t sit I have almost promised myself at Ie KADER City around and wait. He evidently didn’t like your type—improve it The TC time for this man A Se live tl a intelligently If he ever is a free man—and have plenty of other dates. FOURT A good business woman like you shou vis aii-conililante and to If he drinks heavily he's a bad prospect. You really don't know feature: as you work. You're in a grand place to gain self- him well enough te determine whether you love him. BUDDY mix with people. . 4 shur Mayhe you need a vacation. If you take one, don’t keep hunting. . on Maybe yu seed vauatlou. 11 vou fhe oie; dog's kes) pouting She Wants to Enlist in WAVES eo Likely he's changed—haven't you? You wouldn't remember him so COULD YOU PLEASE give me some information on joining the well if vou crawled out of your shell. Living within yourself is why Navy? Do girls have to be older than 17 to join? Would I have to go and the you're lonely to the same place that boys go to join? EDINBURG READER. PLAYS! Dr. FE. Stanley Jones, former missionary to India, writes In The Navy isn't enlisting for WAVES at present. During the last }

“Abundant Living”: Self-centering works havoc on the very self recruiting period girls were required to be 21 years old. upon which we are centering. Every self-centered person Is a self-

disrupted person. Whether you center upon yourself for artistic, Caught in Daily Whirl of Time Clocks

religions » Snaneial resiohy 0 Jor Just purely selfish reasons, the MY HUSBAND and I are typical products of this modern age. We result is the same. " So ,, are both 27 and have two sons, 7 and 2. We are well-educated and : “These Who _Genier upon Hieiweives a have hind way. Sons financially are doing well, But we feel that now is the time for us to like their way; they do as they like, and then don € what they qecide what we are to do with our future, do: they express themselves and then find the self that is expressed We seem to be caught in this dally whirl of time clocks, paychecks souring on their hands. This disruption doesn’t stop with the soul and ‘the usual city way of living. We would like the chance to work but extends into the nerves and tissues and poisons them with® dis- and create together for our future. We would like to start again where ease, functional and structural. we could plan and build by working together, thinking that a couple | =

Says Neighbor Neglects His Family could realize more happiness materially and spiritually by building with

ISN'T THERE SOMETHING that can be done about a man who ‘heir own labor what they desire. just won't support his family right? There is a man in our neighbor- We have talked of Alaska and the West to try our experiment. Do

hood like I dedcribed. He can afford to drink and run around but not YOU have a place to suggest? We want to escape the boredom, the to feed and clothe his family properly restlessness and discontent that have overtaken so many of our friends. It 15 a very large family and they live In an awfully small house. W® want to “strike out” for a complete new future, It isn't a revoluI hate to see childrer» abused. They are practically barefooted all the tionary idea, but our families and friends think we are crazy and tell time WONDERING, City. U8 80. What do you think? MR. AND MRS, Oity. | An Interested party can charge the man with neglect of his chil- I don’t think you're “crazy” but you're very brave. Explain your dren in juvenile court. The wife can charge her husband with non. | Unhamed qualifications and desires in a letter to Mrs. Jean Chapple, | support and neglect of children in the same court. representative, Office of the Secretary of War, 1420 Adams-Franklin |

. Bldg., 222 W. Adams St, Chicago (6). She can explain foreign pros‘Wants to Get Married—l! Don’t Love Him’ pots. : | I'M 20 YEARS OLD and am going with a fellow 12 yedrs older, He! Regarding jobs in the West write Civil Service Offices in Denver, | treats me swell and loves me very much. I am very fond of him. He and San Francisco. You might contact local employment agencies. | wants to get married and I told him T would. He tries-to give me any- Read travel books and pamphlets at libraries. I wouldn't go at this thing I want, and I like all his people, | blindly--particularly with two children. I want to get married too but there is a boy I love very much. ~ ’ — j He was tn the Army-and-married..a- foreign girl. My cousin tells me | Let Mrs. Manners and readers of the column share your problems he does not love her. We never were together often because the boy! and answer your questions, Write in care of The Times, 214 'W, Maryused to drink a lot and “Mom” wouldn't let me see much of him. 1 land St. : : think he loved me once for he wrote to me awhile and said so, but : = I'm afraid fo say for sure. I told my cousin I loved him which I wish Producer's Council, Ine, [Fo%: Waiter L. McFerran and Fred 1 hadn't done. : . _ How can T forget this boy? I want to. I want to marry the fellow To Elect 1948 Officers oem to ee au I'm going with and be happy and I want to love him as much as he. The Indiana Chapter of the y loves me. If IT could just forget this boy and be sure “K" does not know Producer's Council, Inc, will hold Meeung of the chapter. about him. T am afraid if “K"” learns abouf him he will not love me annual elections of officers at 2 NYC LADIES PLAN PARTY

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