Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 25 November 1947 — Page 2

Ask Mrs. Manners—

if : : ! * } Says 2d Marriage Didn’t Bring Happiness ; ; a i. a A ———————— et 3 A i Ss en rand Ah —————— eo ———————— ‘Dear Mrs. Manners: in ar . i N ~ @e oy . ant ried for 1 was so lonely. He wanted a home--nét me—has always treated PLEASE GIVE ME some adVice I'd so much, appreciate. 16 TEE 2 Nepehiieaios Lean i) oi I have been married two years to my second husband. . My

I never did make-half way of a living until the last few years and

this man 30 years. He is not sympathetic or reasonable, "atural disposition. Others think him a good man and he is; except to " el Le : . me. I sold my home and put money in another place to please him. Bemuch less sociable or a good pyovider. cause I have kept everything in my own name. he is still, pouting and I don't dare ask about his salary-—he gives me a sar- won't go to church or any place, I am afraid to make things Jointly castic, vulgar answer. I get the same allowance'l had two years ago— Recause I don't trust him. He would rusi me out, I know.

: I try hard to stretch $2 a day for two adults. I feel it {5 not sufficient I have no place to go and my health has been bad. I couldn't work

My husband won't talk and tries to do things -I know to keep me upset. He never had anything and is determined to get this home any way he can. I don't fuss with him but if he goes too far I put him in

feels my “eats” are enough, He doesn’t pay for a telephone saying it's a luxury. It's urgent, as I live in a lonely place and since all these

darkness and I'm nervous at night, his breakfast, I never get a kind word—he's absent-minded and says I married the second time hoping for companionship and happiness, a grouchy goodbye. If I go to the grocery with him he won't let me get but get little, : what I want and runs off and leaves me because I can't walk fast, We have a small rent, $13.50 a month, ~'T want to’ rent out a room Oh, T am so fed up, I think I should go to the old ladies’ home, for a couple of nice girls as I feel that would make nry home pleasant don’t you? with sociable folks around. My husband threatened to leave me if I do Your husband might be good to you If you were agreeable and Yet I can't get along on what he gives me. 1 had been able to earn a few trusting since he is good te other people? You get breakfast at 5 a. m. dollars but now have neuritis, Yet I do all my house work, laundry, etc. but if you growl about it you might as well sleep, You should select I feel it best to separate.- I may then be able to get along some- | the groceries, but be economical, how as 1 always kept girls rooming at my home. I have only five rooms Your husband doesn't sound very polite or kind, but things yet I'd be so glad to get a couple to live with me MRS, J, City, may look black because you've been ill. They'd look black, too, in If you mean that you knew your present husband for 30 years I don’t see how you overlooked his unsympathetic and unreasonable characteristics. You wanted companionship—de you give it? Your husband might be more generous if you were more atientive and uncomplaining. Maybe he can't Increase the household budget and is embarrassed. He may be proud and wanis to earn the family living without you | taking in roomers. If he consents to roomers don't live their lives— the roomers AND your husband would object.

If your husband helped buy the house his name should be placed on the deed. I don’t blame you for being cautious about your money If you don’t trust him—but don’t be gloating. I hope that you don't tell him that he's “never had anything.” Why don’t you talk over

your legal problems with the Indianapolis Legal Ald Society, or your lawyer?

Can They Wed Without Parents’ Consent? You shouldn't expect too much when you put your marriage on WOULD YOU PLEASE tell me in what cities a 18-year-old girl such a business basis, and a 19-year-old boy could get married without their parents’ con-

‘Will a Good Siberian Squirrel Coat Shed? en MAGRIIE, SY.

; a Idaho, North and South Carolina and Michigan require that a CAN YOU TELL ME i a good Siberian squirrel fur coat sheds man pe 18 years of age to marry without parents’ consent—but the | some? I have worn it 12 times, girl also must be 18. { Will you tell me what is proper to wear for evening and to what Parents know a lot about marriage—they are married people. places, including hats, dresses and shoes, formal and Informal? What Talk it over with them. ee is the earliest hour one can wear informal evening wear? Would a Mrs. Manners and readers of the column will help solve yeur probsequin front-trimmed dress be proper to wear to the Sonja Henle lems and answer your questions, Write in care of The Times, 314 W. show? The dress is informal, INDIANAPOLIS READER. Maryland St. : Fur experts say {hat squirrel sheds somewhat, n — — - Wear street-length clothes when your escort wears a business : : suit. You may wear a long dress If he wears a dinner jacket. Always Optometrists to See New Equipment | underdress rather than overdress. New developments in optical in- Dr. I. M. Borish, Kokomo: Dr. R.! Choose a simple basic dress—unclutiered and untrimmed—and add struments and supplies will ‘be W. Tubesing, Richmond; Dr. N

start early In that type dress and add accessories at night, Evening hats are worn with ballet-length evening dresses. Association Jan, 18 through 20 in Shields, Terre Haute. Your sequin-trimmed dress is proper for the show if the women the Severin Hot'el, - nmseemmsmtsn { in your party “dress up.” A pretty, casual dress would do as well, Convention committees announced PLEDGES SIGMA CHI The company that you asked about privately apparently has gone by Dr. Roy E. Denny, association Richard JAmes Farrar, son of Mr.! out of business.

‘Should | Go to Old Ladies’ Home?’ I AM MISERABLE. I can't stand him much longer.

We are what you cdll “old people”—married in 1936, widower and Dr. H. C Fahrbach, all of Ind Widow. My twa boys died eight months apart,

1 was left alone. I had a home I rented and kept old ladies and was'waka, Dr. R. R.“Reed, La Porte; ridge High School

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AT HOME IN INDIANA FOR 75 YEARS

" — | getting along fine until I met this man, I thought I wanted to get mar-

first husband passed away seven years ago. 1 had known got this job through my church friend. Bui he's still mean—just his

to live on.” He never takes me places or buys me a pair of hose, He O06 8b # time. Doctor says my nerves are due to the way I have to live.

murders are being committeed I'm deadly afraid, I'd not go outside in his place. I do my own work, keep a roomer and get up at'5 a. m. to fix |

i READER,

{ the old ladies’ home if you thought the other women were disagreeable, | | i

|sian cows from the dairy herd fall, will be eligible to compete for | * owned by ©. M. Bottema Jr, 'one of the 20 new scholarships re- Jewish Center Plans Jewelry and flowers for evening. Wear a simple small hat. You could Shown diiring the 51st annual con- Bixler, Decatur: Dr. Warren ji. Bridgeport, recently completed of-'cently established by Princeton ‘Get- | vention of the Indiana Optometric Miller, Princeton, and Dr. Earl ficial production records in Ad- University. |vanced Registry Tests,

more than 600 pounds of butterfat Student grants to 150. Winners of Sunday afternoons for “junior get-

(president, include Dr. Robert Ledig, and Mrs, Carleton F. Farrar, 5311/20d 18,000 pounds of milk in 365 (Dr. W. L. Van Osdol, Dr. W. D. N, Pennsylvania St, freshman in days. The highest record of the years if they maintain satisfacfer the College for Men at the Univer- three was 693 pounds of butterfat./academic standing. | John P. Davey, Dr, Frank Otiigand sity of Rochester, Rochester, N. Y,,|The testing was supervised by Pur-|. Harold W. Dodds, university meging on. Sundays for cralt shops | an- has been pledged to Sigma Chi Fra- due University in co-operation with|president said, in announcing the SWmming apolis; Dr, L. P. Fishman, Misha- ternity, He is a graduate of Short-|the Holstein-Friesian Association of scholarships, that they would help|Girls, dramatics, Bluebirds and] |America,

POLIS TIMES _

oo TUESDAY, NOV. 25, 1941 Rk | 80 State Schools WN Register for Meet | Will Take Part in | Legislative Sessions | Students representing 86 Indiana {high schools have registered for the {15th anpual Debaters’ Conference

at Purdue University Dec. 5 and 8. [Seventy-seven of the schools will

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CUPID KNEADS DOUGH — Mrs. Marielle Strauss, 28, German war widow, |

watches Fred Lutz work in his bakery in Chicago after she and daughter arrived from [breeders wil n

'session for which Gov. Gates will give the opening address. James M. Knapp, former speaker for the Indiana House of Repre|sentatives, will preside over the student house and Fred Eichhorn, former state senator, will preside over the student senate. | The junior legislators will follow [the pattern set by the regular ses;sion of the Indiana General Assem-

Speakers for the Debaters’ Cone ference will include Maj. Charles T. {Estes, U, 8. Mediation and Conciliation Service; Dr. Rupert Cortright, Wayne University; Dr, Lionel Crocker, Denison University; Dr, Indiana State Teachers College, and Dr. Alan Monroe, Purdue University.

State Poultry Breeders

To Meet at Purdue | Problems of the poultry industry will be discussed by experts during the sixth annual Poultry Breeding School to be held at Purdue Dec. 8 nd 9 in the Memorial Union build

More thin 60 Indiana poultry ear Dr. G, H. Ghost.

Germany. She plans to magry-Mr. Lutz instead of Charles Shumaker of Strong City, |lev. president of the Record Per. Kas., who paid the plane fare-for her and her 10-year-old daughter, Helga. Mr. Lutz |fo'™mance Federation of the U. &.;

has offered to repay Mr. Shumaker. lof Bridgeport Dairy Cows

Princeton Opens New Scholarships

| Dr. A, B. Godfrey, U. S. Department, Agriculture; Thad Macy, Indiana {Farm Bureau; Dr. D.

{ |Creighton Brother's Poultry Farm;

R. Marble;

. ‘Dr. E. A i Set Production Marks | Youths from Indiana and Michi-|of Princeton as a national uni- £ E. Schnetaler, DeKalh Hybrid

Three registered Holstein-Prie-'gan, expecting to enter college next versity. ’

The new regional scholarships in:1 Each of the three cows produced:creased the number of Princeton

Seed Co. and several members of the university staff.

State Youth to Give

DDT. Demonstration . Ya Together Time's - | thomas Stout. Kendanvile, win The Jewish Community Center, represent Indiana in the Livest«(k |2314 N. Meridian St., has set aside [©0ss Prevention Demonstration con- | test, sponsored by the 4-H club in

he |connection with the ‘international

{the regional grants, value $800 to together time” at the center,

instruction, Control of Flies.

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|Livestock Exposition Friday at the $1200, will retain them for four | Regular activity schedules have Union Stockyards in Chicago. Yibeen arranged with ‘fiew groupsi The Hoosier youth will demon|strate “Proper Use of DDT in the His demonstran the state contest held as part of the 4-H Club [maintain the traditional character friendship clubs, | Round-up at Purdue in June.

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