Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 20 October 1947 — Page 5

Ask ‘Mrs. Manners— aT | nh % 8 Fears Her ‘Premonition’ of Husband's Death

Dear Mrs. Manners: ; you love him “In spite of all his faults.” Are you the Interesting wife PERHAPS you will be able to ease my mind. that you were five years agd—do you “fit” the larger city?

My husband and I have been married for one year. Be- Visits YMCA, Library—Still Lonely fore our marriage, and ever since, I have had apprehensive! I'm writing because I'm growing weary of spending every Saturday

thoughts of his death at a young age. He is in excellent io), at the Central Library and then wandering back to the YMCA | health as always and I have no reason to feel as I do except to my room. I in on the YMCA dances and they do seem nice but

that the thought has bothered me so often. At first I felt |! don't care about dancing. I can, yes, but I'm-30 years old and Jitterit was the new happiness I found and fear of ever losing it caused these | PUSEINE isn't. my idea of dancing. I've reached the “pipe and slipper

| state and ‘alas, no pipe and slippers. sad thoughts. 1 believe In intuition. eel this might be 3 premonition. I could be accused of having a bad personality but in my home state,

1 have talked to one woman, a widow, who also had the same fear. gaet I did all right. I'm six feet tall and look fairly young and pleasBhe cried the day of her wedding thinking of it, though she had nojant but it's"true I'm not good-looking. I'm not the bashful type either apparent reason to do so. Her husband passed away after they had put somehow I just can't stoop to “mashing”—I never did and wouldn't been together only a few vears. Are there other widows who have felt know how to go about it, t as she did? Is there any way I can push these thoughts away? Please’ I suppose there are lots of fellows like me brought up to good manhelp me find an answer. MRS. E. T,, Indianapolis. ' ners and decent behavior with a healthy respect for social customs that Guard your own health and don't start your husband doubting his somehow came back from a war, restless, seeking change, and find in| good physical condition. Step listening to persons who strengthen your loneliness something they never knew they'd find by seeking that change. | belief in premonitions. Busy yourself in actual work, a hobby or recreation—go to church—particularly become active when you're morbid. Contact lively people. Don’t take a chance damaging your love for your husband or his for you. Make the most of your present happiness. Clinical psychologists and psychiatrists might help you gain self- | confidence. You may need social readjustment—you may have a feel- ! ing of inadequacy that makes you fear yur husband's death—maybe you seek sympathy and show that need through fright.

‘Mrs. Trouble’ Steps In—Happiness Flees I HAVE been advised to write to you about my problem which is not an easy one. I'm a faithful wife in love with my husband in spite of all his faults—a husband who is reckless with money, disregards honest debts, never pays rent unless he is forced to, very wild, wants to show off before his friends, most of them with shady reputations and!

dances, what would you advise, Mrs. Manners—th# Central Library? ‘ LONESOME STRANGER. Stop living on the laurels of your popularity “back home.” You're in the Middle West now and you're older. Life isn't as easy because you're in a strange state, alone, and back from service. It isn't as exciting because you're older and because you don’t go at it enthusiastically. "i You indicate that you want a home but I wonder if a home would suffice. There is more to home than smoking a pipe and wearing houseslippers, That would get tiresome, too. Don't you have talents, hobbies or athletic interests that you could pursue? You're too critical and may be lonely because you've made yourself drab to people. Rejuvenate your personality—exert yourself. Yeu'll find people with good manners and morals wherever you go if you look for them. They'll like you if you make yourself interesting

ts his sizzling especially a woman who is anything but respectable and is causing quite’ {o them. Aren't you too set in your ways? rate fellow,” a disturbance between my husband and me. eer——— eet ———————— i ellower mild- My husband, about 40 years old, should have enough common sense I hi A { . } 0." to realize he owes his wife and daughter respect and consideration, don't on- a 0 ICS re nvi e |

you think? We have been married almost 18 years. I would be content living with him and making a home for him and our daughter if only he would try to act like a married man should act, try to be a companion instead of a complete stranger, This running around started five years ago. When we moved to a larger town he met “Mrs. Trouble” which is a good name for her. Then he went out almost every night and my daughter and I stayed home. He used to be one of the kindest and most considerate men in the world until she stepped into the picture and then our happy home was at end.

To Marian Retreat Oct. 26

| Non-Catholics of the community quaint interested persons with prachave been invited to attend a Day tices of the Roman Catholic Church lof 1 . and to answer questions that may of Recollection, or one day retreat,(, present in the minds of those Oct. 26, at Marian College on the g¢iending.

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He makes good money but I don't get but just a few dollars, He has. The Rev. Fr. Sts. on Sunday at 10:20 and 10:55 d Whiskey ® good time with almost all of it. Vietor L. Goos- a. m. for the college and return at My daughter and I go hungry some of the time. Should we seek $€DS, archdiocesan 5:01 and 5:36 p. m. ew York City employment or what should I do? I am 38. director of the Father Goossens will hold a conWhat can I do to make him regain his senses and try to do what Society for he ference at 11:15 a. m. followed by

Propogation “of the Faith, will be {retreat mas ter. The retreat is

mass at 11:45 a. m. Luncheon will

is right and respectable or should I quit trying and leave him? I hope precede the’ 2:30 p. m, meeting

you can help me with my problem, ANXIOUS MRS. M. You don’t mention your methods to “recover” your husband, or his reactions. Have you exhausted all resources? Love and faith- sponsored by offifulness aren’t enough to keep a man. Be sure that you deserve the '.... of the Inrespect and companionship you want—and keep deserving it if he dianapolis praesigives up the “other” woman. Try varipus approaches—one may work. dia of the Legion

Miss Jessie Mansfield, Wa. 8214, will accept reservations through tomorrow.

[ELECTRICITY DEMAND UP

Fr. Goossens If you've nagged him to death, stop. State your views regarding of Mary. Pr. Goossens is spiritual WASHINGTON—During 1946, ap-

women and money and back it up. You can't go hungry—get a job director of the Indianapolis curia proximately 100 American cities if you can’t get money but don't help support your husband. He’s of the Legion of Mary, {bought or built municipal electric worth working on. Once he was a good man—he may be again—and Purpose of the retreat is to ac- plants.

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LONG-TIME EMPLOYEE— Richard Kremp, president, Von. nequt Hardware Co., presented Harold H. Horn (left), an employee, with a diamond-studded gold pin and‘an engraved watch upon completion of 25 years’

service,

Honor Employee On Job 25 Years

Harold H. Horn, who has comTo those of us who are not forward, disinclined toward churches and pleted 25 years’ service with the Vonnegut Hardware Co. has ceived a diamond-studded gold pin and a watch,

Richard Kremp,

Driver Upholding Law

Gets Parking Ticket

FRANKFORT, Ky.

to enforce it.

Lewis parked his automobile near sive, the court house while the grand jeader Mr. Patel will become prime jury, of which he was a member, minister, it is believed, The jurors delin-

was in session. erated long.

When Lewis returned to his au- Nehry—probably as the lesser of tomobile, he found a ticket fromtw, evils in its choice because the the police department, of which his commies fear and hate Mr, Patel is

brother-in-law, Henry acting chief,

Morrow,

R. C. Clark to Address

Purchasing Agents

Roscoe C. Clark, manager of the Commies are in bad odor in India. public relations department of Eli!

Lilly & Co., will be the speaker

row at 6:30 p. m,

The subject of Mr. Clark's address order. “Patel fills the bill," “The Most Important Man American-educated Indian politi- Cadet Wagoner now has the rank lection of dolls’ to be given to the

will be

‘Rotary Club Jo Hear

I. U. Professor TExcBov,

"Dr. €. 0. McCormick, clinical pro-' A fish fessor of Obstetrics at Indiana ou Talks versity School of Medicine, will| b 5

speak on “Planned Par¢énthood” at a meeting of the Indianapolis Ro-| Credit

{tary Club tomorrow at 12;18 p.m. v ie To Succeed Nehru in the Claypool Hotel. Plans 2-Day A The. first convention of the

mrs ro wm | Dr, McCormick is president of the; (Fourth of a Series) __|Indianapolis Obstetrical and Gyne- gor Association of

By WILLIAM H. NEWTON |cological Society and a member of Credit Companies, Inc., to be held Sctipps-Howard Staff Writer the International Congress of get. 20 and 30, in the Cla ypool

Indian Showdown Seen in 6 Weeks

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firm president, made the presentation. Forty-seven other employes with an average of 38 years’ service are included in the 25-year group, The service award was inaugur-| ated in Oct. 1946. Since that time, more than half of the Vonnegut personnel has received honorable] recognition for long-time service.

(UP)~—Gayle all factions included. Lewis violated the law while trying

at out India in which tens of thou- |» meeting of the Purchasing Agens sans of Moslems were massacred {Association of Indianapolis tomor- has some factions to contend that

CALCUTTA, Oct. 20—Events of Anesthetists, Hotel, will ‘be ET the next six weeks may determine highlighted by an whether the right-wing ‘benevolent address by George

5 Local Student

dictatorship” will govern. India, or H. Earle. whether this strife-torn country Mr. Earle. who will swing still further toward will speak socialism, “Our Answer to

Russia,” is former &

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Five Indianapolis students regis sylvania, envoy 4 tered for the fall semester at Tran- extraordinary sylvania College in Lexington, Ky.

At present India--or Hindustanis being ruled by a sort of uneasy compromise. The cabinet includes both right and left wing members.

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The right wing is headed by Sardar . ‘Austria, minister Vallabhai Patel, deputy prime r Vas Antoun by Raywerd F. to Bulgaria and Georsé H minister. The left wing is headed MCLAn, president of the school. |,0140nal observer *e0FSe E Earle

by Pandit Nehru, the prime min- a i dents. Romane Slavens for the President in the Balkans ister. Hans 5452 University Ave. ‘and and the Middle Egst. He wil Ig While Nehru is & Socialist he is naurice Wesley Kiphart, brother of heard at the banquet the might of by no means a Communist. Both nirs, Nellie Teepell, 5404 Guilford| 2c 3 Mr. Patel and Mr. Nehru are mem- Ave registered as freshmen. | Other to speak during the twobers of the Congress party, the one Barbara Jeanne Burch, daughter 92 program are J. Archer Kiss, major political party in India, of Mr. and Mrs. Donal Burch, ju42 Chicago business psychologist; Dr. Mr, Nehru, observers here believe, Forest Manor, and Carolyn Elser, P+ W. Mueller Jr, head of the desoon may be forced to resign from Chenoweth, daughter of Mrs, ¥, L, Partment of finance, DePaul Unithe cabinet. He is out of sympathy Chenoweth, 2055 Central Ave., reg. versity, Chicago; Dr. George w. with present plans to repatriate istered as sophomores. Starr, director, Bureau of Business millions of Moslems from India to| Betty Lou Schafer, daughter of Research, Indiana University, and {the newly created state of Pakistan, Mr. and Mrs, Ralph A. Schaefer of William L. Schloss, president of the ‘and similarly to repatriate Paki- Lawrence registered as a special Indianapolis Morris Plan Corp. stan’s millions of Hindus to India. Student / Officers of the association are Nehru favors democratic govern- Richard E. Meier, Evansville, presiment, with the representatives o.

UN Association Officer lent; Irvin Weasley, Indianapolis,

Burr O. Welch, Lebanon, and VieTalks Here Thursday tor H., Payne, New Castle, vice-:

James A, Eidridge, Midwest fed president;; Paul Hancock, Indiandirector for the American Associa- apolis, treasurer, and A. J. Sieloff, tion for the United Nations, will Indianapolis, secretary, speak at the Thursday noon meel- -

ing of the Indianapolis Real Estate Speaker Announced

Board, in the Washington Hotel. By Women of Moose

Mr. Eldridge attended Butler University where he majored in international relations and history. He Miss Fern Stover, director of was appointed to the association for homemaking at Mooseheart, in Mooseheart, lll, will be guest speaker in a chapter night program Thurs-

the United Nations post Dec. 1, 1946. A. H. M. Graves, president of th p and Bnd day ‘for Indianapolis Chapter 11, {Women of the Moose,

board, will preside, | Adams, vice president, will present! the speaker, | «Mrs, Mary Helenburg, chairman

srti——— of the Mooseheart Committee of the Local Cadet Promoted !ocal chapter will sponsor the pro-

Cadet Fred E. Wagoner Jr, sun Sram. ‘ il of Mr, and Mrs. Fred E. Wagoner, Two life size oil paintings will be 15430 N. Kenwood Ave. was recently given to Miss Stover to take back appointed company commander of to the Moose Children's |a “strong man” is needed to restore Company M-1 of the United States Mooseheart, The Mooseheart - an Corps of Cadets at West Point, mittee is also sending a large col-

Reds Fear Patel

If Mr. Nehru resigns, the aggres-military-minded, right-wing

The Communist party recently has announced its support of Mr

It is unlikely, however, that the Communists will gain much ground ‘politically in the near future reyardless of which way the pendulum swings. Politically, according to well-informed Indian sources, the

The recent civil unrest through-!

cian told me. children at Christmas.

of cadet captain:

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red or blue trim. Sizes 11 to 17.

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