Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 24 November 1941 — Page 12
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ap, in butter cakes and
- THIS COUNTRY IS shipping great quantities of American cheddar cheese fo Great Britain as part of oir national policy of strengthening that democracy in the war. Therefore we are urged Cottage cheese is” an excellen
to use more cottage t and inexpensive
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£ cream areisteady with a boy of 18 vo other forms of milk importantimonths. We got along swell at first}
but lately all we do is quarrel.
DEAR JANE JORDAN-—I am and have been going for 11
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«i 1ickbreads, except popovers. For|date nights. I do stay home as he "very cup of really sour milk use wants me to but he meets the boys ‘, teaspoon of soda. For milk just he runs around with almost every
Left alone, Sonny likes spinach, His mummy “eating everything on your plate.” disturb his all-powerful mother.
- i.avor, bad odor and a yellow color.
“ sginning to turn sour, use % tea“oon for every cup. Soda fur-
: :an that needed in the recipe,|them and this makes me feel very “ke up remainder with ‘bak-|funny. Don’t you think he should ... & powder. go home after our dates, anyway?
” ” # . IT'S BETTER to use too little - da than too much, because too wich gives your baked product bad
night and they all go out together. He never tells me when, where, -'shes leavening power equal to|or anything else about it. I don’t {cur times its measure of baking|mind this so much, but even after + ywder. If. more leavening power he leaves me he goes out with
I told him about it and he said that what he did after he left mej was his business. I don’t think he is doing right, do you? : PUZZLED.
Answer — What you instinctively
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Problem Parents Make Problem Children Says Authority
By PEGGY POOR ° ; Times Special Writer ; NEW YORK, Nov. 24.—Problem parents make problem children, believes Mrs.-Anna W. M. Wolf, senior staff member of the family consultation service of the Child Study Association of America.
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' .i cups sour cream.
“tix soda with the dry ingredients,
feel is that the boy is more inWhipped sour cream is the basis|terested in running around with a
. rr many salad dressings. Keep it|gang of fellows than he is in you
":5ld while whipping. Whip ‘until|and his behavior indicates that this {st smooth and somewhat stiff.|is true. Actually it is none of your Jong overdo the beating or youll business what he does after he ‘1 ve butter. Whipped sour cream seasoned of his business what you do when Jemon Be 1s not itl vc bub slready ig "’ lice and vinegar is extraordinarily| The young but alr ; : od as a dressing for cabbage, |Shows signs of becoming one of cicumbers, and lettuce. Drop a|those men who expects a woman to ::=am atop a bowlful of cream of The chances are that he will inter- * ‘a, bean or beet soup. pees shy Lin terms x hs Mots make cream who alway: me when he w gTo Four ¢ gravy; add her but who leaves him free to wander when and where he will. I trust t you see the handwriting on the wall. You have gone steady long enough, too long in fact, . and it is high time that you looked : yn for someone else. You are entirely “he Question Box oo young ientine youssdlt to one y. Now you have begun to Q—1I notice that the raisins served |quarrel your cue is to break off and
: .1ed ham, veal cutlets, chops, pantablespoons of flour for every
leaves you, but conversely it is none {lished
“The best thing a child can do for himself is to choose his parents wisely,” she smiled. por magazine articles on child care and
Mrs. Wolf has written numerous The Parents’ Manual: A Guide to dependence and responsibility, is Mrs. Wolf’s contention. But don’t
the Emotional Development of Young Children was recently pub- : challenge a child with too radical choices such as: “If you don’t go outdoors and play like a nice boy Father won’t take you to the circus tomorrow.” Restrict the decision to be made by a small child to such as: “It is time to go out now; do you want to take your skates or your scooter,” she admonishes. “Of course, not all the neurotic disturbances and faults of childhood can be blamed entirely on parents, but on the whole it is true that children who are not adjusted to the demands of living are found far more frequently in homes where there is adult maladjustment than in those in which the atmosphere is harmonious.” 3
“A child has a right to expect a pretty high standard of behavior in his parents,” said Mrs. Wolf, “Yet, if it is unfair to demand perfection of a child, perhaps we should not demand it of ourselves either. A child might as well find out that we, too, are human. However, no instructions in good manners can ever be a substitute for experience and observation. : 3 2 2 “BUT THE MOTHER who wants advice about a problem husband who habitually refuses foods he does not fancy or leaves most of his portions on his plate, all this behind a propped-up newspaper or book is, in
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. “ough, and makes them attractive .or use in salads or for garnishing.
_ : uch treatment causes the skin and ~ vhile still damp and then allow -=1ake it until its original fluffiness . filly with a coarse comb; then
~ dampen the surface slightly and ~ cossible after the watting, other-
~tump. How is it done? A—Cover the raisins with boiling vater, put a lid on the kettle and
-elps to prevent them from going > the bottom of cooky or cake
Q—I have a new and rather ex~z3nsive fur coat that I want to give
3% wet with snow: and rain, what <10uld I do? :
“re: Never hang it near a fire, ra- : iator or other heating unit to dry.
aair to become brittle and to break cr wear off easily. Brush the fur
i. to dry slowly, away from intense zat. Later, when thoroughly dry,
t 2s returned. If the fur has become matted and tangled, comb it care-
Lrush. Start treatment as soon as
wise the fur may curl and be difficult to restore.
Q—Several of my neighbors called *o express their condolence when ‘my brother died recently. of them I do not know very -¢ am wondering whether ‘I should ceturn their calls. In the neighbor‘rood in which T live social formali-
A—Visits of condolence are never returned. ,
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DEAR JANE JORDAN — I have gone steady with a young man for one year and six months. We are deeply in love with each other and have made many plans for the
future.
another. girl,
other or not.
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Recently he went to college and found out that he had a date with He hasn’t mentioned . 1e best possible care. If it should |it to me nor have I mentioned it to him. We see each other every week. Do you think that having a date now and then will lessen his love
standing? So far he seems to love me just as much as ever. JULIA. '
Answer—In my opinion you should encourage the young man to have other dates in college and you should exercise the same privilege yourself. I do not know whether this will lessen your love for each
The only way you can find out is to put your affection to the test. If it holds out against the competition of others, well and good. If it does not, then you are lucky to have discovered this fact in time to make another adjustment. JANE JORDAN.
problems in a letter to Jane Jordan who will answer your questions in and | this column daily.
Phi Delta Pi to Meet Alpha Chapter of Phi Delta Pi will be entertained at 8 7 m. Wednesday by Mrs.
+ They tub as easily as hose and, | the ¢ . need no ironing! Fine trico knit rayon : ~~ * intearose, navy, brown, black, white. ! PARENTS who follow all thes rules in the hook for scientific up-
a way, a problem parent herself. She is making their children the butt of a private quarrel between her husband and herself .which really should have nothing to do with the children. ~ ) “A mother can always tell a questioning child. ‘You can’t do everything Daddy does, because you're not grown up yet. You can’t stay up as late as he does, you can’t have a cocktail, and he can.’ A child accepts those things and also will be reasonable about eating food that
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“TO A LARGE exfent children’s
eating habits “are the product of 1 1% their mother’s wisdom—or lack of plugs 3 it. ‘The goal is not ‘to get food in’ IESE but to foster whatever leads to rE pleasure in eating. Nato “In an experiment several years RFS bf ago to determine whether very HX £3 $2 young children if given altogether oe 1H free choice would select for them- 15S selves the right kind, of food in the : EER right quantities babies, who up to HE He that time had been only breasi-fed,| JIL Ie i : were * presented trays con A do ! many types of food with all the pos- 3 Se ; sibilities for a balanced diet. They| J SHI 1ASE were left to make their own choice. | S=t=4 § SE 2H I It was impossible to predict what prob
would be eaten at any given meal, but the children loved to eat, were free of digestive disturbances, and at the end of the six-month experimental period were in excellent health and spirits, normal as to; bone structure and gemeral physical development. One child, bro t in with evidences of rickets, helped himself freely to cod liver oil.
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«I BELIEVE this experiment is a definite lesson to parents. It cer=tainly suggests that most children are more likely to develop satisfactory food habits if left to their own devices, not driven to eat when they're not hungry. And children should not be bribed any more than forced to eat. ! “parents’ greatest mistake is to make an issue of anything. Don’t iet a child feel that what and how he eats is important. Avoid scenes and you avoid trouble,” Mrs. Wolf
summarizes. “Enjoy your children!” is her favorite advice to parents. She believes it is the most valuable thing they can do for their children. By that she does not intend children fo be a “free show for the grownups’ entertainment.” She does insist that love and understanding are as essential to a child as food and water, that effective sympathy produces better citizens than adherence to rules for management. : “jt is not what parents do so much as what they are that counts in the Age of children,” said Mrs. Wolf. many problem parents as there are
le.” et the general categories Mrs. Wolf lists the excessively fussy mother, the one “io 4 continually nagging: “If you don’t wear y sweater youll catch cold!” d right there Mrs. Wolf warns mothers against calling “Wolf, wolf!” The
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Wedres
A general meeting day will be
Society of Christian Service of Meridian Street. Methodist Church. The executive board will meet at 10:30 a. m. in the pastor’s study and luncheon will be served. at 12:30 p. m.‘ with members of Sec-
D. Armstrong and Mrs. Kennedy Mrs. T. Baxter Rogers will lead
pastor, talks on ‘What It Meant 32 Run a Session of the Indiana An-
held Wednesday by the Woman's)
Play ‘at School A one-act. comedy, “In the Fountain of Youth,” will be presented by the Mothers’ Chorus of School 69 at
8 p. m. Friday in the school. In the cast, directed by Mrs.
Clark Hardesty, Howard Garnett, Albert Emrich, E. C. Zaring, Henry Weiland, Eugéne Theurer, H. E. Gratner, ' Ralph Quigle, Clarence Hutt, Richard Clark and Willtam Hampton. }
Forced, Sonny frowns and is finicky. He has found a way he can
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By JANE STAFFORD Science Service Writer
WHEN YOU PUT your baby to bed at night or for his daytime naps, be sure he is protected from the danger of smothering, which each year kills about 1000 babies in the United States. : Most of these tragedies occur during the first six months of infancy,
life insurance statisticians report. The deaths are largely due to smothering by bedclothes, to adults rolling over on infants and to, the infant sleeping with his head buried in the pillow. : Experiments both with babies and laboratory animals show that it is impossible to smother a normal child under normal circumstances with a pillow or bed clothing when the muffling is attempted abruptly, Dr. Jesse L. Carr, of the University of California and the San Francisco Coroner's Office, reported to the American Académy.of Pediatrics. Under sudden muffling, babies and children will struggle and scream and usually release themselves. During sleep, however, they breathe into pillows, mattresses bed clothing or other structures and in rebreathing ir own expired air gradually build up a concentration of carbon dioxide and nitrous oxide sufficient to cause partial suffocation and anesthesia. During this period, with vitality
Ldefinitely lowered and the ability to
use their muscles reduced, Dr. Carr explained, suffocation and death oc-
Sor bed coverings, pillows and the
a J 2 2 BABY SHOULD sleep in a bed of his own. The mattress should be firm and he should not have a pillow. Young babies should be kept up long enough after feeding to make sure they have finished “burping,” or be put on their sides or stomachs, with head turned to the side. Each year a certain number of babies die shortly after feeding, Dr. Carr reports, because: they have regurgitated their food and then sucked it into their breathing tract instead of- swallowing it when lying on their backs. _ Sleeping bags for small babies should fit snugly at the neck, so there will be no danger of baby’s head slipping through the collar into the bag. Many mothers use the kind of sleeping bag which fastens by tapes under the mattress, putting any extra blankets needed inside the bag, to keep the covers from getting over baby’s face.
|'Fifth Column’
Will Be Topic
, “The German Fifth Column in
| America” wil} be the subject of Ger-
hart H. Seger when he speaks at
p. m., under the sponsorship of the Women’s Division of the Indiana Committee for National Defense. Mrs. Felix Vonnegut is division chairman, at
tee on foreign relations, has lectured extensively in this ntr
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RCC. -_— MESS |ior's Island. And similar mass blindmealtime a pleasant occasion with no issue of
looks — pile into” jovernment
- Ruth Millett
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chance on-romancs. Some of the girls who sign up for army dances, of course, are just interested in an evening’s fun. But others are hopeful of finding lasting romance, Those who are hopeful of turning a blind-date into a “boy friend” should remember that there sre definite rules for dating blind, such as: : 1. Take /the conversation lead when you are introduced—as girls gre usually better than men at raaking small talk. But don’t hang on to it too long. Once your young
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‘Has it an obnoxious odor?
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Does it taste like cabbage, perhaps?
Seems to have all the symptoms of a drink chilled with Switch to cubes made from crystal-clear, hard-frozen Polar ICE,
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to talk about whatever is mind—unless, of course, it’s back home.
what you are really like,
4. Don’t arrange to meet
when he does introduce him
advantage so far as bac
soon as possible.
man js at ease, give him a chance
2. DON'T, TELL him all about yourself, Mike him work to find out
3. Let him think the idea of a second meeting is something he thought up but hasn’t occurred to you. Then he’ll feel that he’s pretty Ss lucky when you agree to if. ‘; : 4 )
a restaurant or movie, or offer to pick him up in your family’s car. Let him come to your house, and
member of your.family. Remember | a girl on a blind-date is at a disis
concerned. And so if she wants the blind-date to turn into romance, she should establish her background as
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The girl who follows these. rules will steer ac straight course even though she is dating blind.
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