Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 7 November 1941 — Page 26

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Informal Baked Bean Supper Makes

Gay Holiday Party for Younger Set

v+ THANKSGIVING HOLIDAYS are short and crowded. You'll be sure | to make a hit if you can get up a tempting feast at short notice after the | girl or boy home on vacation has'made a telephone check-up of dates and plans and has managed to corral the crowd for an impromptu |party.' Bureau.

.A baked bean supper is sure to please and it’s easy enough to get ready in a hurry. You can make flavorsome fish balls ahead of time and keep them in the refrigerator ready to fry a crispy, golden brown. Beans, too, from a can or home baked, can be ladled into individual beanpots after the guests arrive and reheated in the oven; and be sure to count on an abundance of de-

caffeinated coffee so everyone can

gossip until early morning over second or third cups without sleep-

| ing problems later on.

nBe generous with olives and celery, relish and catsup and be sure to. serve your party buffet style, so that young guests can help themselves in. the gay, informal fashion they enjoy most. HURRY-UP BAKED BEANS & 2 medium-sized cans (1 lb. 12 0z. each) baked beans 1 cup brown sugar, firmly packed ou teaspoons Worcestershire sauce i 2 tablespoons vinegar 1 5 tablespoons catsup

Mix together baked beans, brown sugar, catsup, Worcestershire sauce, and vinegar. Heat thoroughly in tep of double boiler over | rapidly boiling water. Place in greased bak-

ifig dish or individual bean pots. Place under low flame for a few niinutes to brown the top.

" BUFFET PARTY COFFEE

Use 1!4 heaping tablespoons decaffeinated coffee, regular grind, to each cup (i. pint) water. Make by boiled or percolated method. If percolated, “perk” 18 to 20 minutes slowly and gently, or longer than ordinary coffee. Have ready a pot of hot milk. ‘When serving, pour mflk and coffee together into cup equal amounts., If using de-

caffeinated coffee, drip | grind, measure well-rounded tablespoon instead of heaping tablespoon, and make by the drip method. Top with teaspoon of unsweetened Whipped

| cream.

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THE PROBLEM of keeping the provision shelf well-stocked will be # solved for the housewife who has | & reminder board tacked up on | the wall. Painted on it are lists of | kitchen staples and after each item | a little hole is bored. to receive a peg when the larder gives evidence of a shortage in that particular | food. The purchase price will re- | | iove but 50 cents from the pocket 00)

Robert Geren To Take Bride

A reception af the home of the bride’s ern Mr. and Mrs. V. R. Laughner, 412 N. Fenton Ave, will follow the wedding of Miss Imogene |}, Laughner to Robert E. Geren this evening. The ceremony is to take place at 8 o'clock in the | First United Lutheran Church with ‘the Rev. Arthur L. Mahr, pastor, officiating. The altar is to be decorated with palms and ferns and a basket of fall flowers. Miss Pauline Roes, organist, is to play for the ceremony. The bride, escorted by her father, | will wear traditional ivory faille taffeta in bouffant style with long tight sleeves and a romance neckline. An orange blossom halo" ‘will hold her three-tiered veil of illu-

sion and she will carry roses and pompon chrysanthemums centered with lilies. Her attendants will wear bouffant faille taffeta frocks. Miss Mary Hill, maid of honor, will wear three shades of rust and will carry bronze and yellow chrysanthemums. Shades of maple leaf green will

be used in the, bridesmaids’ dresses |:

and they will carry bronze chrysanthemums. Misses Lois Frisbie, Betty Carson and Doris McDermid and Mrs. William Sharp are to be the bridesmaids. . Attendants of Mr. Geren, who is

the son of Mr. and Mrs. Harry|:

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Catholic Group | To Elect

Officers

Candidates for the various elective offices of the Indianapolis District Council ‘of the Indianapolis|Diocesan Council, National Council of Catholic Women, have been submitted by the Council’s nominating committee. Election of officers will take place Nov. 17 at the Catholic Community Center - during the

fourth quarterly meeting of the dis-

trict. . Mrs. Thomas J. Murphy is unopposed for ‘re-election as president. Others named are Mrs. George E. John Gallagher, Indianapolis, first vice president; Mrs. A. E. Deupree and Mrs. C. R. Bartlett, Bloomington, second vice

president; Mrs. Lillian Fisher and|

Mrs. Anna Long, Richmond, third vicé president; Mrs. Joseph Conley and Mrs. Charles Spotts, Indianapolis, recording secretary; Mrs. William Ankenbrock and Mrs. Addison Coddingtop, Indianapolis, treasurer, and Mrs. Bernard Burk-

lart and Mrs. William W. Miller,

Indianapolis, auditor. McDermott to Speak "At the session Russell W. McDer-

mott, executive chairman of the lo-|.

cal committee of the United States Defense Staff, will speak. “Child

{Welfare and Foster Home Care”

will be the title of a talk by Miss Marion LeRoy Griffin, case work director of the Catholic Charities

“Highlights in Conference” will

| be presented by delegates from the

various Catholic parishes in Indianapolis who attended the Midwest Regional Conference of the N. C. C. W. held recently in Springfield, Ill. In the cast are Mrs. Elmer Johnson, Cathedral; Mrs. Mary Beikes, St. Philip Neri; Mrs. James McCaslin, Holy Cross; Mrs. John Sahm, St. Catherine; Mrs.

bella; Mrs. Frank Gumble, St. Francis De Sales; Mrs. Charles Thaman, Little Flower; Mrs. Ed Kearns, St. Joan of Arc, and Mrs. James McGinley, St. Roch. A report on the priests’ meeting at the conference will be given by the Rev. Fr. August R. Fussenegger, spiritual director.

Accessories

Geren, 211 Good Ave. will be Don | i

Myers, best man; Eulis Carroll, Ralph Pruitt, Carl Rasmussen and Pauk. Beaman, ushers. : Shoulder corsages of . ‘red roses will accent the costumes worn by mothers of the couple. Mrs. Laughner will be in soldier blue trimmed with Dubonnet beading apd Mrs. Geren will be in navy. As the couple leaves for’a short wedding “trip eagt, the bride will wear a blue tw suit, brown accessories and a corsage of rubrum lilies. After Monday they. will be at home with the bride’s parents. Mr. and Mrs; C. E. Hull and family, Washburn, Ill, and Mr. and Mrs. James Urmston, Middletown, 0, will be guests at the ceremony.

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This earnest young sharpshooter may be & “problem child, may just be having boyish fun. But naughty boy or “angel.” he needs parental love, watmth and understanding.

Old-Fashioned Common Sense Can Be Overrated in the Rearing of Children

‘The article below is typical of the realistic, down-to-earth approach to the problems of child raising which has made Anna W. M. Wolf an outstanding authority in the field. A mother herself, she js director of the parents’ guicance and consultation service of the Child Study Association of America. written exclusively for NEA Service and The Indianapolis Times, is the last of three

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on “Your Child and Tomorrow.”

By ANNA W. M. . WOLF

«NEW YORK, Nov. 7.—A great deal has been said about the necessity of common-sense in getting along with children. Again and again we hear reiterated, “Alk a child needs from his parents is old-fashioned : | common-sense—all these fancy psychologists do more harm than gi There is of course much more than a grain of truth in this. “= | so-called “problem” children turn out to be unloved or mismanaged | children who respond eagerly to someone who treats them with warmth These things are fundamental to success with

children. Yet good as it is, common-sense has been vastly overrated; especially, it should be added, by persons who possess it least. It is not a remedy that always works. Common - sense has limitations; there are some children, without being physically ill, who are so unhappy or so out of tune with theig ‘world that only special knowledge and treatment . by experts with scientific knowledge can get to the bottom of the difficulty. 2 8 8 : IF PARENTS have children who puzzle them because they are timid and shy, who are disobedient and willful, who are bored in school, who can’t take responsibilities, who are jealous, who are bullies and can’t get along with other children, who

tell lies or are generally antagonis-|

tic to reasonable suggestions—of course they should try to help them overcome these things * "by every common-sense method. Children, even naughty or ‘“difficult” ones, need affection and rea chance to “grow out of it” in their own way and time. They need opportunities to develop skills and capacities that build selfesteem and friendships that satisfy. Yet, not all children “grow out of it.” Sometimes they do and sometimes they don’t. Parents use this phraSe too freely as though it were inevitable. They use it to avoid facing responsibilities for problems that may really lead to serious handicaps. There are “problem” children and it is not always the parents’ fault either. Parents should, however, feel the responsibility for doing all in their power to insure healthy character «development, just as they feel this responsibility to their child’s physical health. ~If they are in doubt as to whether a character trait is likely to come out in the wash or remain a fixed handicap, to. consult a child guidance expert, any more than they would hesitate ,| to cgll a doctor when" they fear: illness. There should be no more sense of failure and disgrace in one case than in the other. : 2 i” o : DURING those months of won.|dering what to do, ask yourself ; |these questions: 1. Are you the kind of parent who is so nervous and anxious or both-

|) ariel to o> Gity. 0. Tox Tonight at Propylacum

The marriage of Miss Dorothy Jean Benson, daughter of Mr. Mrs. R. C. Benson, to Guy Orman Tex, son of Mr. and « B. A. TH will be, solemnized ‘in the Propylaeum ‘this evening at 8:30 lock, & Rev. W. C. Ball will officiate. The cefemony will be performed before a large hd window, decorated on- either de, by seven-bran sandelabia and banks of white chrysanthemums, palms and forms.

Before the ceremony, Mrs. Myron Rodeburgh will sing “I Love You|hair and carry & shower bouquet. of yellow pompons and Talisman roses.

Truly,” accompanied by Miss Roberta Bland, “arpist, who also willl Al] attendants will wear pins, gift from tne bride. 4

play rkial airs. father MiG 4 Ting with ner. la maid, little Ruth Mes Benson will wear a gown of white Ls Soyer in in Roy taffeta and slipper satin. fashioned with a carry a basket of rose ils sweetheart neckline, fitted basque, ‘will wear her gift locket. long sleeves, pointed oer the hands Ral and lace ipsertions fr g the ph. skirt and train. Wide lace will edge man her two-tiered veil of illusion, which will fall from an orange blossom} cotonet. Her shower bouquet of white roses will have a gardenia | center, i. ‘The bridesmaids, Mrs, Ralph Car-| roses. Se using | Dine, sister of the bridegroom, and; A setoption at the Propylaeum 4 | |in 13 and 14-year-old children |Mrs. Harry McCrady Jr, cousin of | gil follow the ceremony, aften | § | spending a couple of evenings each [the bride, will be in matching which" the couple will leave on a dresses of autumn green velveteen, | wedding trip. The bride will trave

S k kissing ‘each oth ther : : I ie on SF when >| With full skirts and scalloped bo-|in & plum colored chiffon V

boy’ Hn {years ‘old, ‘a freshman in high séhool. He always has “been quite a sensible child until starting. to high school. The group he |is. with now wanfs to party every Friday and Saturday night. The | young people meet at one: or an{other of the girls’ houses and spend -| the evening>playing kissing’ games. I have told him that I can't ge why children of such ages can’t muse: themselves in some more fwholesome way. I have asked him to have the -group ‘at our house ; some, Friday to pop corn and make candy: but he doesn’t seem inter-

sabes. husband thinks, it all rather amusing, but I see nothing amusing

3 ‘other things to do. 1 I appreciate any. suggestions, dices. | They will wear matching| dress with matching accessories-and. ; MRS. AD. bows in their hair and carry shower a gardenia corsage. Mr. Tex abe | a dln bouquets ‘of :rust pompons. tended Butler University. fics 2 Mrs. Carl A. Hamilton, will be her| Out of town guests will be Mr.

‘Answer—So your son is sora! Good. His interest in kissing the

sister’s matron of honor, She will have a rust velveteen gown, styled girls is right on time. If it didn’t e those of the bridesmaids. She wake up at the ages of 13 and 14 will Wear a matching bow. in her | Tex.

you would have ample cause to > worry. Any day now he won’t need the excuse of a group game to bolster up his_ adolescent, courage. He’ll kiss on his own! initiative, There is nothing unwholesome about kissing. It is the normal expression of a normal emotion. Are you Sure you can’t imagine why , children want to kiss, and can re«8 = member nothing of those first stirrings of love interest in the opposite sex? Are you really so old and inhibited that you can’t recall any ~| of the thrills of puppy love? What

and Mrs. H. G. Scott, Los Angeles | Mrs. Elizabeth Cost, Chicago, and Mr. and Mis, George Tex, R :

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a pity. When 8a boy begins to kiss the girls it is a sign that he is trying]

to break the emotional tie to his _ | mother and center his affections on a girl. This presents the mother with a problem of renunciation. She has to give up her baby and find other forms of emotional satisfaction. The ‘unselfish mother encourages the break and sympathetically follows her son’s development. The selfish mother is unwilling to relinquish her hold and hides her jealously under moral injunctions. She cares for her children only as »1long as they are dependent upon her and cannot find satisfaction in any other type of relationship with her son. You didn’t try to prevent your son from learning to walk. Why interfere with the first awk-

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