Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 7 August 1941 — Page 17

THURSDAY, AUG. 7, 1941

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J. Ralph Fenstermakers to Leave Saturday for Son's Wedding In East

MR. AND MRS. J. RALPH FENSTERMAKER are leaving Saturday for Beechhurst, Long Island, N. Y., to

attend the marriage of their

son, John Ralph, to Miss

Vesle Stadstad on Aug. 16. Also making the trip with

them will be the prospective

bridegroom and William

B. Fenstermaker, who will be his brother's best man; Miss Mary Eleanor Fenstermaker, who is to be a bridesmaid, and James Fenstermaker.

Miss Stadstad’s other attendant Loeser of Beechhurst.

will be her cousin, Miss Alva

At the ceremony at 4:30 p. m. in St. Michael's

Episcopal Church in New York, her uncle, Judge C. Raymond

Cavanagh, will give her in marriage.

Ushers will be John Ray

Newcomb Jr. of Jacksonville, Ill.; Wilson Robinson Isert, Louisville,

and Jack Norman Stadstad, brother of the bride-to-be.

Following

the ceremony a reception and family dinner will be held at the

Hampshire House in New York.

Mrs. Ole Stadstad, mother of Miss Stadstad, will entertain at

a bridal dinner for the attendants hearsal Friday evening, Aug. 15.

and families preceding the re-

Other guests from Indianapolis

at the wedding will include Mrs. Hugh Baker and David Baker, who will fly East for the ceremony next week. Mr. and Mrs. Hugh J. Baker, who are in Ithaca, N. Y, visiting Mrs. Baker's parents, Dr. and Mrs. L. T. Genung, will go to New York for the wedding.

Preceding the rehearsal tonight for Miss Mary Ellen Foresman’s and Myron Harrison Green's marriage on Saturday, Mr. and Mrs. William B. Foresman will give a bridal dinner at the Indianapolis

Athletic Club for their daughter and her fiance.

The ceremony

is to be at 3:30 o'clock Saturday afternoon in the Propylaeum. Guests with the couple and the hosts will be Mr. and Mrs. Myron R. Green, parents of the prospective bridegroom; Miss Gloria Ann Foresman, who will be her sister's only attendant; Thomas E. Green. his brother's best man; Miss Ruth Rehm and Jack Curry.

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Miss Barbara Remy will return tomorrow to her home in Evanston. Ill. after spending several days as the guest of Mr. and Mrs. Herman W. Kothe., Her engagement to Shubrick Thompson Kothe, son of Mr. and Mrs. Kothe, was announced recently, The wedding

will not take place until next year.

The daughter of Mrs. Victor Remy, Miss Remy was

from Wellesley College last June.

graduated Mr. Rothe is a graduate of

Harvard University and has completed a year's study of law at

the University of Michigan.

Highland to Have Style Show

A STYLE SHOW, presented by L. Strauss & Co.. will be a feature of the monthly buffet luncheon at the Highland Golf and

Country Club Wednesday. Mrs. Gene Trago hea by the Mesdames R. C. Randall, Hamill, John Kennedy, Carl Weyl,

ds the arrangements committee, assisted Robert N. Dedaker,

James T. Albert Uhl and L. C. Burnett.

Models will include the Mesdames Howard Williams, M. Crosby Bartlett, Merrill L. Thiesing, Robert Emrick, C. E. Rimp. Michael Duffecy Jr., Thomas Umphrey and Trago.

Personal Notes

MRS. A. KIEFER MAYER and her daughter, Elizabeth, will re-

_ turn to Indianapolis Sept. 19 after a on Walloon Lake, Mich. Another family to return from

Mr.

summer at their vacation home

Michigan next month includes

and Mrs. Ralph G. Lockwood and their daughters, Peggy,

Nancy and Nina, whose summer home is at Lake Leland, Mich. Peggy was graduated in June from Tudor Hall and plans to go either

to Smith or Vassar College.

Her sister Peggy is a 1941 graduate

of Bennett Junior College at Millbrook, N. Y. Dr. and Mrs. P. E. McCown and their daughter Nancy will be home late next week from a vacation trip to Indian River. Wis.

Wy-Mo-Dau Literary Club's Study for the New Season

Will Be Canada

A President's Day luncheon Sept. 16 at the Marott Hotel will open drink really influences them in the!

the Wy-Mo-Dau Literary Club's series of monthl

Following a message from the president, Mrs. year will be launched by Mrs. John W. Thornburgh land drinks during his stay.

Let Us Visit Canada and Our Northern Neighbors.”

program: for the ith a talk on Mrs. Thornburgh is chairman of | the program and yearbook commit-|

tee which has just released plans] for the club season. Her assistants are Mesdames Harry A. Burkart, | Emory W. Cowley, Jacob L. Jones | and Jules G. Zinter. | First paper of the year will be | presented at the September lunch- |

eon by Mrs. Burkart, who will talk |, Pershing Ave. {marriage of their daughter Margaret |

on “The Unfortified Boundary Line.” Mrs. Lena B. Ebert will report on | “Nova Scotia” and the music com- | mittee, composed of

and Environs

Toy Grocery Is Outs

We, the Women

Don’t Mask ‘Bad Habits’

Before Mama

By RUTH MILLETT

“I CAN'T smoke when Mother comes to visit,” I heard a woman say regretfully the other day. The woman was 40 years old—and the mother of a family herself. That's an odd situation—but not an unusual one. There are lots of parents who continue to try to influence their children’s behavior long after they are grown men and women, with minds and judgment just as sound as those of their parents —or sounder. It's a big mistake for parents to make, for there a f € enough natural obstacles in the path of congenialty between the old and the young without the old thinking up artificial ones. No wonder it's not always an unmixed blessing when Mama or Papa writes a young married couple or a working son or daughter that “I'm coming for a visit,” if Mama or Papa is going to object to the way things are done in the child's heme or bachelor’s apartment. The best way for a parent who wants to be truly welcome at any time to behave is to accept his grown child's way of living without criticism, whether he secretly approves of all the “goings on” or not. It’s not as though the parent who has a fit if his daughter smokes or

Ruth Millett

y luncheons for 1941-42. least. C. Frank Albright, the the son or daughter give up cigarets,but most of

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his son or his son's friends take a

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IF A PARENT manages to do he should know that the son or daughter will draw a sigh of relief when the visit is over and he can relax into his few “bad habits.” Of course, the child is as much to blame as the parent when he

Mr. and Mrs. John J. Schoen, 27 puts on a false front every time

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announce the his parent comes to visit.

Once a child is out on his own, earning his own living and lead-

to Merrill Glenn Sullivan, which jpg his own life, it is his right to

Laura Craig Poland. Earl R. Leon- the West Washington Street Meth- |

berger and Edward C. Wischmeier.| '.... church. The bri degroom is

will be in charge of a musical pro-

gram. Prince Edward Island and New Brunswick will be described by Mrs. |

Cowley and Mrs. Frank R. Stewart, poy Harley L. Overdeer before

respectively, at a meeting Oct. 21 with Mrs. Albright and Mrs. Homer | Hill as hostesses. Mrs. Poland and |

van, 5465 Julian Ave.

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Mesdames took place Friday at 7:30 p. m. in decide for himself what is right

and what is wrong, what is harmful and what not. When he’s made up his mind,

|the son of Mr. and Mrs. A. E. Sulli- he should simply have it out with]

his family once and for all—and

The ceremony was read by the get things on an honest footing.

and close friends.

‘members of the immediate families aple to i

Mrs. Cowley will entertain club Guthrie, sister of the bride, and Mr.

members at a Thanksgiving pro-| gram Nov. 18 including papers on | “Gaspe” by Mrs. Edward A. Mur-| phy and “Labrador” by Mrs. Charles | H. Barclay.

song and story program arranged !

Guthrie attended the couple, A ception at the Schoen home lowed the service.

Mrs. Sullivan is a graduate of) i Mrs. Annah E. Core’s talk on Butler University and a member of Quebec” will share honors at the | 7eta Tau Alpha Sorority. Mr. Sul-| Will have its annual fall dance toDec. 16 meeting with a Christmas j,van attended John Herron Art (n- {morrow on the Hoosier Athletic

stitute.

Then he can whole-heartedly enjoy his parents. Hell never be

f he has to mind his p's

Mrs. John K.!and q's whenever theyre around

him,

wo Phi Chi Epsilon Will

Dance Tomorrow Mu Chapter of Phi Chi Epsilon

Following a short wedding Club Roof Garden. Dancing at the

= th 1c 3 > by the music committee. Mesdames trip they are at home with the formal event will be from 10 p. m.

Wischmeier, Murphy and William J. Kramer will serve as hostesses,

To Elect Officers

Election of officers will take place at the first 1942 meeting Jan. 21 when hostesses will be Mrs. Ebert and Mrs. Charles H. Barclay. Mrs. | Zinter will discuss the province of | Ontario and Mrs. Hill will tell of the matural scenery in Manitoba.

The tour of Canada will continue Feb. 17 with Mrs. Poland’s paper; on Saskatchewan and a talk by Mrs. | Earl R. Leonberger describing Al-| berta. Mrs. Stewart and Mrs. Jones! will entertain the club. | Guest Day March 17 will be a! musical tea in the Banner-White- | hill auditorium arranged by Mes- | dames Zinter, Thornburgh and El- | mer C. Klinge. A guest speaker will describe “Baffin Land” and Mrs. Zinter will pay a Memorial Day tribute, “In Flanders Field.”

To Talk on Hudson Bay

Following the April 21 discussion of “Northwest Territories” by Mrs. Kramer and “Hudson Bay District”

by Mrs. Jones, with Mrs. Leonberg- |

er and Mrs. Laura Werst as hostesses, the club will hold its final meeting of the year on May 19. Officers will be installed following papers on “British Columbia” by Mrs. Wischmeier and “The Yukon” by Mrs. Werst. Mrs. Burkart and Mrs. Core are the hostesses assigned to the meeting. Officers of the club, in addition to Mrs, Albright, are Mrs. Barclay and Mrs. Zinter, vice presidents; Mrs. Core, recording secretary; Mrs. Hill, corresponding secretary, and Mrs. Stewart, treasurer. Special committee heads are Mrs. Zinter and Mrs. Barclay, Seventh District Federation of Clubs delegate and alternate; Mrs. Core and Mrs. Wischmeier, Indianapolis Council delegate and alternate; Mrs. Ebert, parliamentarian and eritic; Mrs. Barclay, historian; Mrs. Leonberger,

good cheer chairman; Mrs. Burkart, publicity chairman.

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On Sorority’s Program

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Miss Betty Jean Bleeke (left) and Miss Ruth Ann Parrish are among junior members of Alpha Omicron Alpha Sorority, who will present a program at the 21st anniversary celebration of the organ-

ization Sunday at Whispering Winds,

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Voice Is ‘Must’ In Selling Your

Personality

Today's guest columnist for vacationing Alicia Hart is beautiful Rise Stevens, Metropolitan opera star, who is now making a movie in Hollywood.

By RISE STEVENS

VERY FEW women nowadays need to be reminded about the importance of good grooming, artistic | make-up and becoming coiffures,

t hem overlook the role played in feminine charm by the | speaking voice. | No woman can | win friends and influence people with a voice that is whining, (shrill, monotonous, hoarse or nasal. The secret of a good speaking voice lies in resonance and proper breathing, and these can be acquired by any woman if she will only devote a little time and effort to) her speech. Proper voice placement | is essential for resonance and for proper breathing, relaxation of jaw and throat muscles is necessary. Correct speech demands the blending of these two phases so that the voice rides on the breath unimpeded. There is an extremely simple way of checking on placement. Close up your ears with your fingers and | hum a scale, going up and down in the pitch range that is normal for you. You will find one particular level at which sound seems to fill the entire head. This occurs when the entire tone is localized at the resonance center. Technically this is called frontal placement and this is correct for your voice,

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2 = 2 THERE ARE a few simple exercises which improve breath and dia- | phragm control and help to make | the tone rich and round: One is a variation of the old familiar improve - your - posture - by- | standing-against-the-wall routine. With your back touching the wall at all points, especially the shoulder blades, hold your chest high, and the abdominal region in. Place one hand, palm down, over the] stomach directly below the breast bone. Exhale as much as possible,

permitting it to sink or collapse. Take a deep breath slowly, making sure that the resulting body expanSion opin under the palm of your and.

2 2 2 TO RELAX throat and jaw muscles, try this: Yawn and shake your head until your jaw is so relaxed | that it moves freely from side to side. Then, continuing to shake it, |

e in quick succession, keeping the; | breath in a steady stream so that | the tones ride on the breath. It must be remembered that diction and. distinct speech play an important part, too, in the make-up of your speaking voice. Even a vocalist with a naturally beautiful singing voice must learn to speak lines clearly, distinctly and with effectiveness before singing them. If your vocal personality is on the dull or uninteresting side, don't think that attempted vivacity will do the trick. It won't. It will merely His your voice and lower your ap-

Directors to Report

Department directors will present annual reports at a business meeting of the Central W. C. T. U. tomorrow at 2 p. m. in the World War Memorial. Mrs. F. A. Durnell

THF INDIANAPOLIS TONES. tanding in Exhibit at Children’s Museum

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Articles From Victorian Era Are Featured

By ROSEMARY REDDING Little ladies visiting the Children’s Museum these days are cast-

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; ing envious eyes at a small bisque ; doll although she is only one of i many items on display in an exhibit . of toys, china, books and dolls of , the Victorian Era.

What really catches their fancy

i is the extensive wardrobe which

- goes with the doll,

toy from the 70's.

There are 10 in the trousseau of this It even includes

dresses

' gloves, fans, combs, corsets, bustle,

i letter

* miniature.

paper, postage stamps, a lorgnette and other items—all in They are gifts of Mrs. Frank N. Lewis, Southwest Harbor,

E © Me, formerly of Indianapolis.

dresses in her trousseau.

On-Ea-Ota Club’s Luncheon Today

The On-Ea-Ota Club was to meet today for a 1 p. m. luncheon at the home of Mrs. Everton Burke, 2234 Waterman Road. New officers of the club are Mrs.

Estle Strong, president; Mrs. Homer Kivett, vice president; Mrs. Glenn Hefferman, secretary: Mrs. Robert Frame, treasurer, and Mrs. Fred Hite, charity fund treasurer.

Names Festival Assistants

Lawrence J. Moran, chairman of the annual Garden Party of Our Lady of Lourdes Church, tomorrow and Saturday, has announced the following additional committees: Ice Cream Booth — Mrs. Peter Specht, chairman; Mesdames Charles Spotts, James Norris, C. K. Moore. George Stahl, Carl Bender, William Hilbey and C. O. Nelson.

Decorations—Mesdames Lawrence F. Paetz, Joseph Kernel, Beverly Brown, Caroline Haunss, Charles Bender, John Vestal, R. T. Mortlock, George Heidenblut, John Troxell and C. A. Milam. A fish fry will be a feature of the party. All Jone parishioners have been invited.

Mrs. Keith Johns Luncheon Guest

at noon today with luncheon and bridge party at the Indianapolis Athletic Club for Mrs. Keith Johns. Among her guests dames Clay Mitchell,

were MesMerritt

Thompson, George Barrett, Elmer |

An even older doll, cuddled by some little girl as early as 1840, is the gift of Miss Helen Smith, Crawfordsville. A lavish black gown covers its kid body. Its hands and feet are fashioned of wood. And the girls as well as boys are “all eyes” for a toy grocery store in the exhibit. It is one imported late in the Victorian period by Charles Mayer & Co. from Germany for the daughters of Mr. and Mrs. G. A. Schnull, now Mrs. Daniel Glossbrenner, Mrs. John G. Rauch and Mrs. Bertha Schnull Fauvre of Wellesley, Mass. The store, a three-sided miniature building of wood is topped by a sign reading Schnull & Co. The walls are lined with various and sundry kegs, drawers and boxes, In the center stands the old type scale for weighing out the goods. On the topshelf is stored a box of snuff, one labeled “crackers” and another “stove polish.” Also on the top shelf are rows of cones of sugar. The German name for them was Zuckerhut, meaning sugar hat, because of their similarity to dunce caps. '

Toy Banks Shown

And mamas and papas of the bygone days must have had a pretty easy time getting their childfen to bank their pennies. For the local kiddies are quite intrigued with two banks on display. One has a large eagle perched on the side of her nest. A penny is inserted in its beak and then it bends over to feed two little eaglets and the coin goes in a slot just in front of them. Another is a donkey which kicks when the coin is inserted. But for all the intriguing features of the toys, the little Victorian lads and lassies must have had a hard time with their reading. Judging from the children’s books on display at the Museum there was no fiction for children as children know it today. All the books had an emphatic moral tone and some often dwelt on rather morbid subjects. The better way of life was always the “pointed theme.” For example, one is entitled “The Way to Be Happy”

Mrs. Wayne Warrick entertained |, «Willie, the Gardener Boy.” Ana surprise other is called “Friendship’s Jewels.”

One of the most valuable in the collection is a New England Primer. Several “chap hooks,” scld on the streets by venders, are in the group.

Sub Debs to Meet

Ittenbach, John Kelly, B. M. Angell, | The D-D Sub Deb Club will have Verlie Newcomer, C. C. Mathews, (a business meeting following a

Maurice Ent, Rusie, Thelma Lushbaugh, Ross Campbell and Dorothy Ellis.

Reba Buck, Helen|swimming party, at the home of

Miss Eileen Drew, 109 N. Gladstone Ave., Saturday.

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If he thinks he is pretty good there’s no reason why he shouldn’t be, his thoughts help him to get on with the work, for while he measures and beats and mixes he entertains himself by anticipating praise and compliments from family and guests around the festive board. That's the opinion of the Mystery Chef, who, between radio food talks across the years, has taught many a lawyer and business executive the arts of saucepan and skillet.

Famous Men Who Cooked

“There’s nothing modern in this masculine flair for cooking,” he said. “Plenty of famous men, past and present, especially those with

and pleasure in cooking.” He named Hume, the philosopher; Whistler, the artist; Steinmetz, the scientist, and added that a list of prominent men of today who could get up a grand meal “would reach from here to yonder.” Justice Charles Evans Hughes tops his list. He told about watching eight utilities executives preparing a five-course dinner, “All I did was to provide the makings and give each man a recipe for the dish he was to prepare after they had drawn lots,” the Mystery Chef said. “Every course was perfect. It upheld my argument that cooking is not difficult; that if good recipes are followed good meals will result, whether the cook be a child of 10 or a grandfather who never was any use in the kitchen.” Ham Roll With Apples The utilities executives’ main dish was baked ham roll, prepared this way: Have raw ham cut in thin slices. Spread lightly with a mixture of mustard and vinegar, one teaspoon mustard to two of vinegar. Cover with apples, sliced very thin. Sprinkle with brown sugar. Roll, starting with the fat side, so fat will be in center. Skewer firmly, place in a baking pan, with a few dabs of butter on each roll. Bake in a moderate oven (375 degrees) for 25 minutes. Spoon the pan gravy over rolls several times while cooking. The Mystery Chef said Le was past 40 when he started cooking his own meals at a time when he couldn't afford to eat at the best places and didn’t like the food at cheap places. He found cooking so easy and so delightful that for years he has been trying to debunk the subject for other ambitious neophytes.

Trained to Accuracy

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Why Do Men Like to Cook’? It’s Recreation for Them

Says the Mystery Chef

By GAIL GARNER Times Special Writer

NEW YORK, Aug| 7.—One reason why business and professional men like to cook is because of a natural urge to do something with their hands after using their brains in the office all day or all week. Unlike those women who regard cooking as drudgery, the average man amateur, getting up a Sunday meal, goes at it as if it were recreation.

at rustling up savory dishes, and

creative minds, have found pride !

Howard Chaille Is Married in Eastern Rite

The marriage of Miss Naomi Hardwick of Lexington, Okla., and Howard Chaille Jr., son of Mr. and Mrs. H. T. Chaille, 932 N. Campbell Ave., took place Sunday in Wash= ington. Mr. and Mrs. Chaille Sr., Miss Eva Mae Chaille and Robert Phelps were Indianapolis guests. Mrs. Chaille is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. H. M. Hardwick of Lexington and is a graduate of the University of Oklahoma and Columbia University. A graduate of Indiana University, Mr. Chaille is a member of Delta Upsilon Frater=nity. After Sept. 1, the couple will be at home in Arlington, Va.

Mrs. H. S. Teitel Is Legion Candidate

The candidacy of Mrs. H. 8. Teitel for secretary of the Indiana Department, American Legion Auxe iliary, has been announced by Mrs. Teitel’s local group, the Hilton U. Brown Jr. unit. Her name will be on the slate at the state convention in South Bend on Aug. 19. ’ During the last year Mrs. Teitel has served as southern state vice president and this spring was general chairman of the first Indiana Girls’ State held on the Indiana Central College campus. She was general chairman of the 1938 state convention here and was a delegate

“Anybody can cook,” the Mystery Chef repeated. He makes that statement every few minutes

whether the subject happens to be fish, stew or cherry pie. “If men seem to be better cooks when they go at it in earnest, that may be because their minds are trained to accuracy. You put certain ingredients together. To these you appy certain heat for a certain time. A child, a college president or an experienced cook should get the same results if the rules are follcwed. Gigantic powers, silent and unseen, are working behind all this.” When asked to tell the name of the man who works behind his writing and radio nom de plume the Mystery Chef, showing a stranger around the terrace of his sumptuous E. 75th St. penthouse, stepped aside and began weeding the geraniums. “My name is Mystery Chef,” he persisted. All the same, his cook books are copyrighted by John MacPherson,

to national conventions in Los Angeles and Boston. : Mrs. Teitel has heen an active member of the Hilton U. Brown Jr. Unit for 16 years, serving two years each as president and as secretary. She was president of the Twelfth District Council in 1939-40. Other lical orginzations she is active in are the Indianapolis Council of Women and the Indiana Indorsers of Photoplays.

Officers Installed By Kappa Sigma Chi

Kappa Sigma Chi Sorority will meet at 6:45 p. m. Friday at the home of Mrs. Isabel Bolt. Newly installed officers of the sorority are Mrs. Aimee Rabourn, president; Mrs. Ethel Yager, vice president; Mrs. Thelma Riebe, corresponding secretary; Mrs. Irene Schuster, recording secretary; Mrs. Isabel Bolt, treasurer; Mrs. Grace Rodkey, chaplain: Mrs. Ruth Young: sergeant at arms; Mrs. Selena Mad=

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