Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 5 December 1939 — Page 13

TUESDAY, DEC. 5, 1939

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THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES

BEAUTY

RIGID, STARVATION DIETS are a great mistake, as any doctor or reputable exercise salon will agree. The smart woman manages to lose a few pounds without endangering her health for a second, or, for that matter, without being continually hungry or causing herself actual discomforts or boredom. She simply eats minimum amounts of the high-caloried, rich foods but adequate quantities of the low caloried, more or less non-fattening ones. She doesn't eliminate any particular type of food. She just consumes a little less of evervthing at each meal. For instance, she stops indulging in second helpings. When she has had one medium-size portion of everything on the menu, she stops eating. And that is that. If she gets hungry between meals, the nibbles fruit or celery, raw tomatoes, carrots or cabbage, instead of pastry or sweets. If she feels that she must go on a diet, she knows that the light breakfast, light lunch and regular dinner diet is a good one to follow.

By ALICIA HART

THIS ALLOWS FOR FRUIT, one slice of lightly buttered toast and a hot beverage for the first meal of the day; a light soup or vegetable juice, a large green salad with precious little dressing. one slice of toast and a beverage for lunch. For dinner, one portion of everything on the menu. No second helpings, of course, and no dessert at all until salad has been eaten. Only fruit is allowed between meals or hefore going to bed. : Once she has lost the desired amount of weight, she tries to get a little more exercise each day. She walks to market a couple of times a week instead of driving the car or taking a bus. Or she finds time to do a few special waistline exercises every other day. Exercise keeps the lost weight from reappearing all too quickly, of course.

JANE JORDAN

DEAR JANE JORDAN-—Could you give me an answer to the following problem? Why should a small boy, aged 12, be a pathological liar? He is weak, undersized, of poor family, anti-social in regard to children his own age, preferring to wander around by himself or spend much of his time with adults. He frequently runs away from home without telling his people where he is going. He has given his grandmother several bad scares when he didn't come home all night. His mother died when this young fellow was 3. His father is a truck driver and his work takes him all over the country. When the boy's mother died, the father turned him over to his grandparents. The grandfather is almost totally deaf; the grandmother is German and speaks English very poorly. I can understand Why this boy would be full of complexes, but I should like to know a resonable psychological answer for his lving. He doesn't only make up wild tales to excuse his escapades, but constantly has some vivid story of pure fabrication to tell. However, on some occasions, when he has gotten himself into some small mess, he has been known to tell the honest truth, blaming himself if he was at fault. Can you tell me whether this is a form of escape from reality, or just what? AN INTERESTED NEIGHBOR.

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= Answer: You have answered your own question. Reality for this boy is extremely unsatisfactory. He feels unloved at home and this is why he runs away. The loss,of one or both parents is particularly serious if it occurs before the age of seven. The little child learns to love the parent of the opposite sex and to control his jealousy of the parent of the same sex. When either parent is removed during this period it interferes with the child's psychosexual development. This child lost his mother at the age of 3. He had no oppor. tunity to attach himself to his father as a substitute satisfaction because the father's work takes him away on long journeys. This I am sure he interprets as a desertion. He might have been able to transfer his frustrated love on to his grandparents, but their handicaps in speech and hearing made it difficult for him to establish a relationship with them. Actually the boy has no one to understand and love him. ‘ In the face of such a cold and drab reality, what can a child do except to substitute fantasy? All children lead a life rich in ‘fantasy, but give it up in favor of a satisfactory reality. For this child there is nothing to take the place of his imaginary inventions. It is encouraging that he still can tell the difference between fact and fiction as is evidenced by the fact that he tells the truth at times even though it will bring blame upon his own head. The fact that he is weak and undersized adds to his personal insecurity. The nature of his lies would be extremely instructive, A good guess would be that thev deal with physical prowess and provide an outlet for the hostile feelings harbored by every unloved child. If you would try to interest this bov's school teachers in his predicament, something might be done for him. A friendly visitor from the child welfare society could help him. You could help him yourself by taking a friendly interest in his affairs. He has learned to love no one because no one really loves him. He doesn't know how to make friends with other children. His real life is unhappy and his happy life is unreal. JANE JORDAN,

Put your problems in a letter to Jane Jordan whe will answer your cuestions in this column daily.

THE QUESTION BOX

Q—How can the cdor of fish be removed from dishes? A—Wash the dishes in a strong, hot solution of salt in soapless water.

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soft, then press through a fine sieve. Add '; cup sugar and & teaspoon of salt. Stir until the sugar is dissolved; then chill. Just before serving add !; to 1 cup of ginger ale. Q—How may cod-liver oil stains| Q-—Is there any way to make custbe removed from clothing? lards quickly? A—The stains should be removed! A—Scalding the milk first will as soon as they are made, or at j : : 1asten th Ing. least before laundering. Place the| © baking stained portion over a pad and] . Ww apply carbon tetrachloride liberally! @—Flease give directions for to it. Repeat this process until the cleaning copper, brass and bronze. oil is removed. While the carbon! A_If badly tarnished, wash in

tetarchloride is still in the article’ we ; ; wash it with soap and water, giving Soda soivtion remove grease gpecial attention to the stained Cl®an with a metal polish or the part. Old stains are almost impos- | following homemade solution: 2 oz. cible to remove, although stains in diluted oxalic acid (1 cup), 1 box white cotton and linen may some- | otro silicon: 14 wood aleoh times be removed by boiling the |S tC oo + * cup woog alcohol, garment in a solution of 1 gallon of (1 pint of kerosene. Add the acid soap suds to which 1 tablespoon of [to the water, instead of water to peroxide has been added. Let the!acid, to avoid sputtering. Mix the suds come to a boil before adding recipe by putting the silicon in a the peroxide. Repeat the process if |bottle; acd the alcohol, oxalic acid necessary. {and kerosene, Shake well each time | before using. For ordinary cleanQ—Please give me a recipe for ing use dilute oaalic acid, or strong cranbarry cocktail. {lemon juice ~r vinegar, and fine A—Pick over 2 cups of cranber- abrasive; wash in plenty of water. ries and discard all that are with- Polish with rottenstone or metal ered or specked. Boil gently in 2 polish. Wipe dry with clean soft cups of water until the berries are "cloth.

Luxuries Just Outside Regular Budget of Recipient

Or ‘Hobby

By MARTAN YOUNG | NEW YORK, Dec. 5 (NEA) — |Regardless of its size or price or | whether it is a familiar object or a {unique one, the gift which he wants | {but simply wouldn't think of buying {for himself is the ideal luxury pres- | ent for any person on your Christ-| {mas shopping list. | Mention of luxury gifts conjures) {up visions of fabulous jewels and] {lavish furs, of course. And, to the! woman who has everything, these] {are the only items which will seem { luxurious. To the average woman, | however, anything which is slightly] |out of the price range her budget | {allows will be considered a luxury| {indeed. The same holds true for her) {husband and other members of the| family. Evening Wraps Popular

The man who travels infrequentlv and, consequently, never has bothered to do much about the luggage situation might be pleased with

get along with a single evening wrap certainly would be happy to have another one. Among the luxury gifts which are sure to delight any woman on your list are: pure silk handmade underwear, finished with finest lace or embroidery; a quilted satin negligee, cut like a housecoat; an evening bag —very small but equipped with change purse, comb and cigaret compartment as well as regular makeup items. Muffs are fashion news this winter. If she has a fur coat, give her a muff to match it. If her winter coat is untrimmed, choose an enormous muff of silver fox, mink, bea-| ver, Alaska sealskin or some other luxurious fur. Or you might give] her a fur-trimmed bag or gift order for a fur hat.

Coat Gadgets Smart |

Also luxurious for women are: | Velvet house slippers with gold kid] heels and pipings; heart-shaped earrings that cover the bottom of the ear but do not dangle and which] may be made of diamonds and] rubies or brilliants and garnets, de-| pending on your pocketbook; an| evergreen tree-shaped lapel gadget | from which dangle assorted gold | charms; a quaintly old-fashioned, | long-sleeved nightgown of heavy) white satin with chiffon inserts around the neckline. For man or woman, monogrammed stationery and monogrammed handkerchiefs and scarfs are luxurious. Simple monograms are smarter this year than intricate

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a handsome bag of finest leather.| The woman who feels that she must]

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to further enjoyment of his hobby. However, unless your own hobby happens to be the same, don't rely entirely on your own judgment in choosing gifts for a man in this

category. Consult an authority on the subject. For the young girl, beautiful accessories, a new party dress, handknit sweaters, evening stockings, pastel suede gloves or a makeup kit are acceptable luxury items. For boys, consider sports equipment of all kinds, evening jewelry, monogrammed pen and pencil sets, furnishings to make his room seem more truly his. Finally, if you get stuck for an idea, solve the quandray by remembering that every woman considers a bottle of perfume a luxury, no matter how much perfume she already has.

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Christmas Luncheon Held by Heyl Club

The Heyl Study Club held a Christmas luncheon today at the home of Mrs. George Horton, 3833 | N. Meridian St. The program included a gift exchange and the singing of carols.

CHILDREN

DEAR MRS. FREY:

In this article I am using your real name, because the lovely little prayer you say I may quote, should have your own credit line, I certainly agree with you that the little lines of “Now I Lay Me" may worry some children. I can well remember that when I said them beside my bed, I used to think it was quite likely that I should die before I awoke, and I didn't like the idea at all. Before I go any further, I shall copy your words:

“This night when I lie down to sleep, I pray the Lord my soul to keep; When in the morning I awake, Help me the path of love to take And keep it, Lord, for Thy dear sake.”

I receive other versions of the famous old prayer from time to time. This is why I believe so many mothers are interested in ime proving it. WE MUST NOT TRY to change that sacred classic, “The Lord's Prayer.” But this other is a traditional one, improved, like many of the hymns we sing, by a layman, There is no sacrilege in changing it, or even making up a prayer of our own. But little children learn by repeating a set stanza. What they learn at this time provides a way for longer and more difficult prayers. It is essential to the child’s religious life for him to learn quite early the habit of the nightly praper,. It is very hard to change tradition. “Now I lay me” probably always will be the child classic. I do not think it has done much real harm as far as putting fear into hearts of children goes. But when a mother thinks it wise to substitute other words, or change the entire context, she can do so without any twinge of conscience. Your little prayer is happy and uplifting. That is a note in all religious life that I believe needs to be stressed. Indeed it is the thing most needed in all life today.

Yours sincerely, * OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON.

By OLIVE BARTON,

Snowy white lapin fashions this smart evening wrap with attached hood. It's the perfect luxury gift for any young girl.

elaborate ones. Streamlined, modern! nishings store, sheer wool hose, a! \ motifs and plain block letters take! windbreaker of softest suede and a| first place. |top hat are among the luxury gifts Dress shirts, fine doeskin gloves, that are one hundred per cent sure raw silk sports shirts in natural|to please men. color, cashmere sweaters, a generous| The hobbyist will quite naturally | \ gift order on his favorite men's fur-! appreciate the gift which will add|\\

EVENTS |

SORORITIES Zeta Chapter, Theta Phi Alpha. Tonight. Miss Marie Bagnolia, 5029 Kenwood Ave, hostess. Anna Rose Kimple, Mt. Vernon, Ill, national president, honor guest. Alpha Chapter, Zeta Beta Chi. 7:30 p. m. Wed. Hotel Lincoln. Prof. George Schumacher, chapter director, to speak on “My Winter Garden.” Illustrated talk with motion pieture, | Eta Chapter, Phi Theta Delta. p. m. Wed. Mrs. Francis Keller, 36 N. Linwood, hostess. Three pledges to be installed. CLUBS

Alta-Vista Club. 1:30 p. m. Thurs. | Mrs. Elmer Griben, 425 Centen-

Butler U.’s Social Calendar For Month Filled as Vacation Is Scheduled to Begin Dec. 20

Numerous activities have been scheduled by organizations and clubs on the Butler University campus for the December social season. { The Butler Independent Association Mother's Club will hold its | monthly meeting tomorrow afternoon at 1:15 p. m. in the recreation room |

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An inter-fraternity dinner and| smoker will be sponsored by the Butler Y. M. C. A. chapter for] By MRS. GAYNOR MADDOX WHAT MAKES A luncheon? We might ask soda fountain menu-

Club. The Y. W. C. A. doll show also is scheduled to start on the same day according to Miss Margaret Brun-

nial, hostess. Mrs. John Kastner | son, general chairman of the show. assisting hostess. | Funds from the sale of the dolls will

hi eta Social Cl f Christ be used to clothe a child. Oe ns at wo wed.| The Butler Math Club will hold

pledges of the five fraternities Monday evening at the Campus makers. They serve so many Americans during the noon hours, their

hints to women who must feed

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MRS. EDWIN D. MACKEY 929 E. Sumner Street

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Parish house. Mrs. Charles Aus- | its annual Christmas party Monday termiller to preside. evening at the Delta Delta Delta

| Sororit se. Deb-U-Trampes Chapter Suly-Deis| SOOHty house. | 15 members of

Club of Technical High School. Thespi " : ints : : : spis, Butler dramatic society, : Tonight, Miss Wreatha Gill, | «in present “The Fool.” a four-act Fountain Magazine, makes these

hostess, | play, at Caleb Mills Hall, Shortridge [suggestions based on long experiJoan Stoelting, president. Plans for High School. Frederick Winter and ence. “Business men and women Christmas party to be discussed. |Miss Mary Lou Over are directing jike this mend—baked lima beans S. 1. S. Chapter of Sub-Deb Club. | the production. Ds : Tonight. PMiss Audrey Dietz,| The Butler German club will hold | Vth bacon, stewed tomatoes, cabhostess. Wiener roast, its annual Christmas party Dec. 14 bage salad and baked apple with Y. A. M. Club of Shortridge High at 7 p. m. in the recreation room grapejuice. If there's a little more school. Tonight. Miss Jane Of Jordan Hall. On Dec. 15 the cash in the pocket thevil order inPalmer, 3251 Broadway, hostess. | Women's Faculty Club will hold its| dividual chicken pie, stuffed pickled Amica Club. 2 p. m. Wed Mops | Annual dinner. {peach salad with coffee, tea or Roy Egbert 2601 ROOSEVEIt AVE. | 4alliStmas vacation will start Dec. milk,” he says. hostess ’ ? £4 for students of the university,

from school hungry as lions.

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FRANKFURTERS, STUFFED with cheese and wrapped in bacon, broiled and served in buns is another soda fountain favorite. Hot {roast beef sandwich with gravy, shredded carrots in lettuce and date-orange whip is popular, too.

LODGE ing. Trials for non-payment of A large ham sandwich served with George W. Everett, worthy patron. Friday at Ayres auditorium under| Soda fountain menu-makers always | {cheaper foods, they can serve more ‘officers and the performance of an by Hugo Wolf. The§ will include| Vell to the family menu-maker’s | ARRIUS COURT 5 OF THE BEN accompany Mr. Jarvis. the election of officers Dec. 12. Miss Louise Swan and Mrs. James I. Zeta Chapter of Sigma Alpha Iota, {which will follow the business ses-|“Zigeunerweisen,’ by Sarasate,|

Golden Rule Chapter 413, O. E. S. 6:30 p. m. Fri. Masonic Temple, North and Illinois. Called meetdues. Stated meeting at 8 p. m | O Sing Friday Degrees to be conferred. Mrs. £, Helen Ruskaup, worthy matron. = na Se : : y A 1! potato salad, w apricot meringue o Edwaia Jarvis, baritone, Willand coffee, tea or milk is a good in- ~~ be guest artist at a recital at 2 p. m. expensive luncheon. | Ben Hur Court [ie sponsorship of the a their luncheons sround Joods ys . | Matinee Musicale. Mr, Jarvis is a|in Seasonal abundance and there- / | . With these W ill Pick Slate member of the faculty of voice de-| orc least pice {partment of the DePauw University land charge less, making everyone | School of Music. | happier. That's a thought to reAn election and a nomination of| He will sing a program of songs Member because it applies equally ‘old ritual are on the |“Fuszreise,” “In der Fruhe,” “Der budget. » program or in gs DP \ ss Der i : ‘ Musikant, *Gebet” an “Der lodge groups meeting tonight. | Freund.” Henry Kolling, pianist, will | U \ t ¢ M k HUR LIFE ASSOCIATION will| Musicale members who will take hold nominations of officers at 8 part in the recital are the Misses : o'clock tonight in preparation for Imogene Piersorm, Marion Laut, Its Founding Naidine Basey is chairman of the agner, ch committee for the entertainment Biss Drarson wit resent Me fo) | lowing selections on the marimba:|,. tional professional music sorority sion. She will be assisted by Miss| “Traumerei,” by Schuman, and | °f the Arthur Jordan Conservatory Mary Seigler and Clarence Mills, | Fleht of the Bumble Bee,” by|of Music, Will observe its 25th yeat | Rimsky Korsakov. Mrs, Wagner will} with a Founder's Day dinner and a

BROOKSIDE CHAPTER, OE. § Accompany Miss Pierson at the | musical program 6 p. m. today at will be honored by the Past Ma- Pano. . | the Propylaeum. trons and Past Patrons Association! A tWwo-piano program will be pre- Appearing on the musical pro-

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of Marion County at at a meeting tonight at the Brookside Temple, E. 10th and Gray Sts. Members of |

sented by Miss Laut and Miss gram will be Mrs. Carl B. Moore, Swann. Their numbers will include | vocalist, accompanied by Mrs. T. M. “Praludium” (from First Partitia),| Rybolt, and Mrs. Eleanor Beaus-

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‘the Association will present ritual- Bach-Heinze, arranged for two pi-|champ Smith of Horse Cave, Ky, istic work of the order as it was in| 2nos by Miss Swann; Allegro in G| pianist. Mrs. Smith is a former 1870. Minor, Bach-Berkowit's Valse by member of the conservatory faculty. Harold Triggs, Tango by Albeniz-| Table hostesses will be the MesNORTH PARK CHAPTER 404, |CGodowsky, all arranged for two pi- dames Frank Hunter, W. A. Devin, O. E. 8, will hold a meeting at 2008 by Miss Laut, Sherzino by | Harold Sweeney, Charles Martin, D. 7:45 p. m. today at the North Park Homer Simmonsa and “Parade” by Q. Snyder, Natalia Conner, Roy Temple, Clifton and 30th Sts. Abram Chasins. Pile, H. L. Barr, William D. Sparks,

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P Blake, H. H. Arnholter, Miss Roberta UNION VETERANS OF THE CIV- * Trent and Miss Bernice Church, IL WAR, will hold annual roll call ersonals pn x

and election of officers 8 p. m.! Mrs. F. B. Gill, 340 N. Audubon | |today at Ft. Friendly, 512 N. Illi- Roed, entertained at luncheon yesnois St. |terday for Mrs. Eva Turpin who is {leaving for residence in Woodward, | BE GMITLE SYLVIA RE- Okla. Guests included Mesdames | Will meet 8 p. M. Harry Holler, Everett Carden, Rus-

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Lions Women Plan Party! Indianapolis visitors in St. Pet-

|ersburg, Fla, include Frank P. Bai5 E. Wash, St.

The Women's Lions Club of In- ley, Mr. and Mrs. O. L. Fulton, the] dianapolis will hold a Christmas Misses Helen and Jessie Ingersole, | party at 12:30 o'clock tomorrow aft- Mr. and Mrs. M. M. Sallee, Edward | ernoon at the Hotel Lincoln. A and Dorothy Sallee, Mrs. Elizabeth!

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|bride and gift exchange will follow Singleton, Mrs. George C. Terrill luncheon, ” land Mr. and Mrs, Bert Walton,

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