Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 16 August 1939 — Page 10

. ~All Roads Lead to Culver

"For Relatives of Graduates

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annual Commencement activities of the Culver

. Summer School will take precedence over most social activities this week-end as parents and friends of boys enrolled take over all available accommodations. Events

‘were to begin| today and will close with exercises at 3 o’clock Saturday morning on the knoll overlooking Lake Maxinkuckee and the Culver Athletic Field.

Admiral Hugh Rodman, U. 8. N. retired, director of the summer session, will distribute diplomas. Included on the commencement program are the Woodcrafters’ Council Fire tomorrow evening; a

formal dance tomorrow night and an informal dance Friday

evening.

Big Day for Rybolt i

Mr. and Mrs, T. M. L,....., their daughter, Dorothy Ann, and Miss Sylvia Ruland of .White Plains, N. Y., were to leave today for the academy commencement program. Harry Hamilton Rybolt, the Rybolts’ son and a junior lieutenant in the naval battalion, will receive his certificate of graduation. Miss Ruland, Miss Rybolt’s roommate at Randolph Macon School in Lynchburg, Va. is a house guest at the Rybolt home, | Mrs. G. H. Lilly was accompanied by Miss Florane Mouch when - she left today to attend the exercises as the guest of her son, Jack, also an officer in|the naval battalion. Mr. Lilly will leave tomorrow for the academy. Miss Mouch" will take part in. the rehearsal tomorrow afternoon for the “Officers’ Figures” grand march which will be a feature of the annual formal dance. She will be Jack’s guest at the dance.

Parents to Be |Son’s Guests

Robert N. Dedaker Jr. will entertain his parents and sister, Miss Georgianna, at the festivities. Bob is commander of the drum and bugle corps and will be graduated from the Woodcrafters’ division. Mr. and Mrs. Walter R. Mayer and daughter, Mary, and her guest, Patricia Henderson of Columbia City, were to leave today for the commencement events. The Mayers’ son, George J. Mayer II, will receive his gold “C” in the exercises Saturday morning. Miss Henderson and Miss Mayer were campmates this summer at Camp . Kosciusko. | 2 | Mrs. Louis H. Trinz is to leave Saturday for the commencement of her son, Howard Trinz, from the Woodcrafters’ division. C. Perry Griffith, son of Mr. and Mrs, William C. Griffith, is to receive his certificate of graduation from the Woodcrafters, as well as several honor awards. His brothers, Walter and Billy, also have been at the camp this summer, ’ Vonneguts to Leave Friday

Mr. dnd Mrs. Ralph C. Vonnegut will leaye Friday to bring their twe sons, Ralph Jr. and Walter G., back to their home after being enrolled through | the summer as Wecodcrafters. George C. Weaver, who has been four summers af Culver, spending his first two periods as a Cub Woodcrafter, will return at the close of the activities with his mother, Mrs. George M. Weaver, who was to leave today for the complete program. Woodcrafter awards are to be made at the council fire tomorrow evening. Mrs. Weaver also will bring back Richard Hennessey Jr. : Pa Another of the younger Woodcrafters, Philippe Moore, will return with his father, Dr. Robert M. Moore, who will leave to. get him

LTHOUGH a little far removed from Iidianapolis,

Attendants for Wedding Chosen By Mary Wynne

/ From now until Sept. "16, Miss Mary Elizabeth Wynne, daughter of

Mr, and Mrs. Thomas Neil Wynne, will be the central figure in an exciting whirl of prenuptial events preceding her marriage to Donald A. Morrison Jr., son of Mr. and Mrs. Donald A. Morrison Sr. « Miss Wynn of her bridal party and several social events have been planned in her honor. Her sister Jane will be her maid of honor and Mrs. Will H. Hays Jr., matron of honor. Bridesmaids will be her sister Martha; Mr. Morrison’s sister, Mary Ann, and Annamay" Reid, Martinsville, a cousin of the bride-to-be, and Martha Moore. Lewis Morrison, a brother: of the bridegroom-to-be, will act as best man and ushers will include Thomas Wynne Jr., Miss Wynne’s brother; Robert Mueller, Alex Clark, Amos Lowles of Cleveland, and George Aschauer of Springfield, Ill. Miss Moore has planned a party for Aug. 26 at the home of her parents, Mr. and Mrs. W. J. Moore. Margaret Lee Riddell will be hostess at a house party for the bride-

has chosen members

to-be and her riance the week-end of Sept. 9 at Lake Wawasee., Several other parties have been planned but the dates have not been set. :

|Employed Gurls 1

Honeymoon Trip

Times Special KOKOMO, Ind., Aug. 16.—Mr.and Mrs. Robert A. Powell are on a wedding trip < following their recent marriage at the First Presbyterian Church. Mrs. Powell is the former Miss Lois June Myer, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Dale I". Myer and Mr. Powell's parents, Mr. and Mrs. John Powell. . Miss Mary Elizabeth Sawyer, Indianapolis, was maid of honor, and

bridesmaids were Miss Margaret

Robert A. Powell And Bride Take

|Butler Co-Eds

List Program | For Rush Days

low With All Campus Groups Taking Part.

Rush Week, Aug. 27-Sept. 1, followed by Freshman Week, Sept. 610, will inaugurate women students’ activities of the fall semester this year on the Butler University campus. Members of Women’s honorary groups are to assist during Freshman Week.

Miss Doris Brown, president of the Pan-Hellenic Association, will . address sorority rushees at the opening compulsory meeting of Rush Week at 1 p. m. Sunday, Aug. 27. Teas, parties and calling by the sorority members will be included on the program for the remainder of rush week.

Campus Groups to Assist

All campus organizations will assist entering freshmen and beginning upperclass students during Freshman Week. Prof. Clyde L. Clark is general chairman of the period. Women’s honorary groups which will assist include Scarlet Quill, senior women; Chimes, junior women; Spurs, sophomore women, and the Y. W. C. A, an all-co-ed organization. The Freshman Handbook, which is to be given to each freshman student, has been compiled by the campus Y. W. C. A. Members of the Y. W.- also will be in charge of the second annual freshman party at 8:30 p. m., Thursday, Sept. 7, in the Butler Fieldhouse.

1. Miss Bonnie Moore, daughter

Cal, will be married Sept. 2 to George Beard, son of Mr. and Mrs. H. O. Beard, Grand View. (Ayres Photo.) 2. Mrs. Arthur H. Hall was Miss Shirley Nelle White, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Howard White, before her recent marriage. Mr. Hall is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Fred T. Hall. (Dexheimer-Carlon Photo.) 3. The engagement of Miss Nelda Damm, 3828 Ruckle St. to.

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of Mrs. Leslie Montgomery, Fresno,

— | Women of Moose To Give Benefit Bridge:Fuchre

Paul A. Walk, son’of Mrs. Flonnie Walk, has been announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs. C. W. Damm, Brazil. The wedding will be Sept. 10. (Block Photo.) ; 4. Mrs. Herbert S. Wolfe was Miss Anna Mae Jones, daughter of Sam R. Jones, before her recent marriage in Long Beach, Cal. The bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles P. Wolfe. 5. Mr. and Mrs. Joseph H. Foley have announced the engagement of their daughter, Marie Josephine, fo Jack William Ferguson, son of Mr and Mrs. William A. Ferguson. The wedding will be Sept. 2. (Kindred Photo.)

meeting and an entertainment by a novelty band are planned by women’s lodge organizations for today, tomorrow and Friday. :

a benefit bridge and euchre party at

Rush Captains Listed

Theta Sigma Phi, journalism honorary for women, will be active during the second week of school in the publication of the Collegian, campus daily newspaper. Miss Ann Logan, Anderson, is president of the organization. } . Rush captains of the vations Sos Gi : Yass rority chapters are Miss Margare Several card parties, a business Kayser, Alpha Chi Omega; Miss Miss Eileen White, Delta; Miss Margaret Lorenz, Delta Gamma; Miss Joan Piarrer, Women of the Moose will sponsor | gaykan, Pi Beta Phi, and Miss Elnora Hartman, Zeta Tau Alpha.

Freshman Week Will Fol-

Ruth Read, Alpha Omicron Pi; = Delta Delta

Kappa Kappa Gamma; Miss Dina. -

Saturday. Mr. and Mrs. M. Crosby Bartlett also will leave Saturday to bring back Yoh son, Jimmy, who will have completed his first year as a Woodcrafter. . :

2:30 p. m. tomorrow at Moose Hall, 135 N. Delaware St. Mrs. Pearl Hull, publicity chairman of the lodge, will be in charge.assisted by Mrs. Cora

+ 6, Miss Marie Ernst, 4109 Boulevard Place, will be married Saturday to Robert William Angell, son of Mr. and Mrs. James A. Angell. - Announcement of the engagement was made by Miss Marie Ernst, an aunt. (Platt Photo.) ;

Phelps and Miss Virginia Sawyer, Indianapolis. Lynn Fieger, Gary, was best man. at

Of Y. W. Plan

New Crusaders

Murrays to H ead North

Lockefield Visit

James Murray Jr., who has been in his first year of the naval battalion, and older brother, Ensign William Murray, an ‘in-

Mrs. Powell was graduated with honors from Indiana University in 1938 and is a member of Alpha Chi Omega. The bridegroom is a grad-

Blue and Mrs. Esther Hansford.

7. Miss Genevieve Jatho will become the bride of Harry M. Carr Jr., son of Mr. and Mrs. Harry M. Carr, 1634 N. Tacoma Ave., on Oct. 15.

are to meet this afternoon at the

Meet Monday,

Members of the library committee

_ Miss Jatho is the daughter of Mrs. Grace E. Jatho, New Augusta

Showers Hold Old Popularity Among Fetes Being Arranged For September Brides-to-Be

Brides-to-be who have chosen wedding dates next month have started in on a round of showers and parties that will keep: them busy until the day of the wedding. - In. many cases, luncheon-bridges and dinner parties replace the prenuptial showers, but the showers, in

structor in the battalion, will go on to Pentwater, Mich., to join their mother and sister in the Murray summer home after the close of the summer school. Ensign< Murray was graduated from the Culver Naval Battalion two years ago. Fred Flickinger, in his first year at the school, is expecting his parents, Mr. and Mrs. Dan W. Flickinger, Saturday. Among last minute reservations for the luncheon bridge party today at the Indianapolis Country Club are those of Mrs. Frank Ramsey, whose guests will be Mesdames Joseph Todd, John Waldo and John McConnell. Mrs. V. M. Ray, who was to be a guest of Mrs. Sheldon Sayles, decided to take a table of her own and invited Mesdames Logan Scholl, Robert Blackburn and Charles Kottlowski. - Other guests of Mrs. Sayles will be Mrs. James R. Coryell and Mrs. Irvin: Wesley. Mrs. Walter Howe will be hostess to a table of four

home of Mrs. Nellie Powell, chairman, at 1431 N. LaSalle St. Mrs. Kathryn Hansford, leader of the Kitchen Band of the Moose women, will direct the music at an entertainment this evening by the band for all residents of Ft. Friendly.

Visits to Lockefield Gardens and the Temple of the Indianapolis |Hebrew Congregation are planned for this evening and tomorrow night as this week’s trips for employed girls of the Y. W. C. A. Members of the employed girls group will hold a supper meeting at 6 o'clock this evening at the Y. W. before their trip to Lockefleld Gardens. They will be conducted through several of the apartments by Lionel Artis.

Exchange Gitts

uate of Kemper Military Academy.

Theta Sigma Phi

Conclave Opens

A White Elephant exchange will be held at the meeting of the New Crusade Youth’s Temperance Council Monday evening 2 the Soe of Members of the General House Miss Mary Gross, 1134 S. Richlan committee of the Women’s Auxiliary St. Mrs. Charlotte Davis will lead to the Sahara Grotto will be enter |4€VOLODS. tained this afternoon at.the home| New officers who will take charge of Mrs. Clifford ‘Plake on Road 20{at the first meeting next month are near| Five Points; Mrs. Leona Rich-|Miss' Catherine Boothe, president; ardson will present the picnic. Mrs. Mildred Sullivan, vice presi-

Several Indianapolis’ members of Theta Sigma Phi, national honorary and professional journalistic sorority, will attend the annual convention opening tomorrow at North-

and Mrs. James E. Curtis will entertain 12 guests.

Sorority Alumnae Will Fete

rospective Coeds of State

Prospective foeds at universities of the state are to be honored

this week-end the city. Active chapter members the parties. All Indianapo girls who are planning to enter DePauw Uni-

versity next month have been in-|

vited to the annual rush luncheon of the university’s| chapter of Delta Delta Delta Saturday afternoon in the Columbia Club. | Mr. J. M. Off, president of the Delta Alpha Club of Tri Delt, is. in charge of alumnae plans and Miss Anne Combs of the active chapter is chairman of arrangements, asgisted by Miss Betty Beem. : - Out-of-town .dctives ‘who will at-

: fend include Miss Peg Hornaday,|

Lebanon; Miss Jean Woods, Evansville; Miss Betty Hubbard, Monrovia, and Miss Ruth Ritz, Royal Center.

| Alumnae| members of Zeta Tau Alpha will] be hostesses to rushees at a tea Suncs afternoon from 3 | | a

rush teas given by sorority alumnae organizations of

will assist with arrangements for

until 5 o'clock at the Marott Hotel. A program is planned Tor the afternoon.

Members of the Indiana Beta|

Alumnae of Pi Beta Phi, assisted by active members of Beta Chapter at Indiana University, will fete prospective students: of the University Friday afternoon. Mrs. Russel S. Williams, 4747 N. Meridian St., will be hostess for the tea from 3 until 5 o'clock. Miss Betty Higbee, rush captain of the active chapter; Misses Phyllis Landis, Vera Judd and Anna K. Wells will assist with plans. The four young women recently completed a rush tour of the northern part of the state. oo

JANE JORDAN-

EAR JANE JORDAN—I am having serious domestic trouble

1 J mostly on account of child, and mother comes first at all

my mother-in-law. times. She comes into my home

I married an only

whenever she gets ready and tells me just how it should be run from

children to husband. What she tells me

to do she would not stand from her own hus-

band whom she rules-with an iron hand. She thinks she is an

fob could on bringing up children,

but as she only had one, and the

ob could not have been Worse, I don’t like it.

| My husband drinks, runs

in debt, spends money meant for the

bills and won’t let me manage the money which his mother thinks

is all right, although

she does it in her own home.

He is cross and

finpatient with the children whom he whips brutally, and he even

trikes me.

But I think things would be better if his mother would

Tomorrow hight they will meet at 6 o'clock for supper at Prime's Restaurant and at 7:30 p. m. will assemble at the Temple on N. Illinois St. Rabbi M. M. Feuerlicht will speak on “Jewish Culture” and will show them through the Temple. Next week’s program includes a garden party on Wednesday, Aug. 23, and ttips through the ‘Scottish Rite Cathedral and Station WIRE on Thursday. Thursday's outing will. be for the young women’s escorts also.

Alpha Chi Omegas

Are Holman Guests

Miss Rosalie Holman, daughter of Dr. and Mrs. J. E. Holman, is hostess to members of the Indiana University chapter of Alpha Chi Omegy for a house party that began yesterday at the Holman cottage on Lake Maxinkuckee.

Among those who were to attend are Miss Elaine Stevens, South Bend, rush captain of the chapter; Miss Jessie Boswell, Anderson; Misses Madeline Spencer, Marguerite Cox, Frances Shropshire, Peru; Miss Betty Ann Tillman, Bloomington, and Misses Rosamond Schlaegel, Marietta Wood and Rosemary Miner, Indianapolis.

Lohrman Reunion Set Members of the Lohrman family will hold their 24th annual reunion Sunday in Christian Park.

EAR MRS. H. C.: You poor dear, worrying about your baby refusing to go to bed without one of his shoes in his hand.

. 3 I think you must have been

western University in Evanston. Convention sessions are to continue through Saturday. 3 Among those attending will be Mrs. John Kleinhenz of the Marion County Mail, executive secretary, who left yesterday; Miss Ruth Marie Price, delegate from =the Indianapolis Alumnae Chapter, and Miss Ann Hall, an alumnae. Miss Margaret Millikan, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. L. H. Millikan, will be initiated in a model service Saturday preceding the annual Matrix Table banquet. Miss Millikan, a member of the Butler University chapter, is a guest at the home of Mr. and Mrs. R. Miles Warner; Winnetka. After the convention she will leave for a visit with friends in Muncie. Speakers will be Joyce Fenley, fashion editor of the Chicago Evening American; Miss Nell Snead, woman’s editor of the Kansas City Star; Martha Dalrymple, staff member of Time, Life: and Fortune, formerly of the New York HeraldTribune and United Press London Bureau; Mary Pentland, assistant publisher of Parents’ Magazine; Catherine Dines Prosser, woman's editor of the Denver Post; Virginia Huss, editor of the Modern Beauty Shop Magazine; Mercedes Hurst, advertising department, Commonwealth Edison: Co.; O'Grady, advertising manager, Mandel Bros.; Irna Phillips, radio script writer; Dorothy Misener, woman’s editor of the Gary PostTribune; Margaret Weishaar, copywriter; Winifred Wise Graham, author, and Constance McClure, reporter for the Milwaukee Journal.

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Kathleen |

their varied forms, continue to be most popular with hostesses.

A bride-to-be who is being feted extensively is Miss Mary Kathryn Campbell, who will be entertained tomorrow at luncheon by Mrs. D. I. Smith at her home in Anderson. Mrs. F. C. Kroeger, Anderson, will give another luncheon for her there Friday. She was honor guest last night at a dinner party with her fiance, George T. Hitz Jr., at the home of Mr. and Mrs. T. C. Fisher, Anderson, oi Miss Campbell, the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. A. E. Campbell, 2344 N. Capitol Ave. will be married at 4:30 o’clock the afternoon of Sept. 9 at her parents’ home. Mrs. R. H. Rhodehamel entertained at a tea and miscellaneous shower for her Saturday afternoon. 2 0» ” 3 A series of parties and showers has been announced for Miss Louise Brandt, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Charles C. Brandt, whose marriage to Henry Lee Moffett will be Sept. 16 in the Broadway Methodist Church. : Miss Marjorie Hennis and the Misses Barbara and Marjorie Zechiel will give a shower for the bride-to-be on Aug. 25. Miss Margaret Wells will entertain for her Aug. 28 at her home, 3129 N. Delaware St." Miss Mildred Scales’ party will be a luncheon on Aug. 26 at Horuff’s and on Aug. 31, Mrs. Fred Crosstreet will be hostess at a linen shower at her home in Carmel. Mrs. Ralph Coble and Mrs, Arthur Wilson will entertain at a miscellaneous shower Sept. 7 at the Wilson

home, 1629 Gerard St. Mrs. Gordon

What if Baby Takes a Toy to Bed?

F. Cantelon, Evanston, Ill, who will be matron of honor at the wedding, will give a kitchen shower Sept. 8 at the home of her mother, Mrs. Thomas Elder, 222 Blue Ridge Road. Miss. Brandt was honored yesterday at the first in the series of her parties when Mrs. Raiph Brafford, Mrs. Dudley Hutcheson, Anderson, and Miss Jane Cooling, entertained

home, 5636 Washington Blvd. Guests with Miss Brandt and her mother ‘were Mrs. T. D. Moffett, mother of the bridegroom-to-be; Mesdames Pgake A. Cooling, Jack Morgan, Wilson, William i Ralph Brandt, Melvin Mace, G. Hunter, Coble, Raymond Hiatt, James Moffett and Crosstreet; the Misses Rebecca Blackley, Hennis, Scales, Betty Wangelin, Wells,| Mary Jane Schaffer, Kay Smith, Jean Lou Foley, Marjorie Zechiel and Marion Blackley. 8 2 F

Several additional parties have been planned for Miss Marjorie Case, daughter of Mr. and Mrs, Fred WaiCase, 4363 Park Ave., whose marriage to Donald Blair White, son of Mrs. Donald B. White, Albion, Mich., will be Sept. 9 in the Tabernacle Presbyterian Church. Miss Jane Pfeiffer will give a bridal party and linen show for the bride-to-be on Wednesday night, Aug. 23. Mrs. Frank C. Ayres is among hostesses who will entertain at a luncheonbridge. Her party will be Aug. 31 at her home in Carmel.

Mrs. Hulbert J. Smith will entertain at another luncheon-bridge Sept. 1 at the Meridian Hills Country Club. Mrs. Ralph Coble’s party will be Sept. 5 and will be in the form of a bride party and miscellaneous shower. Mrs. William A. Wagner, an aunt of the. bride-to-be, will give a tea for Miss Case at her home, 1311 College Ave. The - bride-to-be’s mother will

chairman of arrangements for the card party which the Auxiliary will sponsor ‘at 1:30 p. m. Friday at the Citizens’ Gas Co. -

to the South Side Turners are to entertain at card parties at 2:30 p. m. today and at 8:30 p. Sunday at the South Side Turner Hall, Mrs. Anna Kernel is chairat a silver shower at Miss Coolingg ma .

the Daughters of America will sponsor a public card party at 8:30 p. m. tomorrow in their hall at 512 N. Illinois St. : -

Alpha Chapter, Omega Kappa. 8

Alpha, Chapter, Beta Chi Theta. 8

Lloyd Tanner, assistant. Alpha Chapter, a Delta: Thurs.

Woman's Athletic Club. Tonight.

St. Patrick’s Social Club. 2:15 p.m.

re ; : dent; Mrs. Davis, corresponding secMis, Harpy. Halter “Is ; genefal retary; Miss Esther Swinford, recording secretary, and Mr. Zack Sullivan, treasurer. Mrs, Mary Mendenhall is outgoing secretary. Several members are to attend the 17th annual state convention beginning next Wednesday in the First - Christian Church at. Peru. The conclave will ‘close = Friday, Aug. 25. ’ Local members attending will include Mrs. Mendenhall, state president; the Misses Boothe, Mary Ellen Buhmiller, Louise Clager, Swinford and Mrs. Sullivan. Mrs. Elizabeth T. Stanley, state president of the W. C. T. U.; Floyd Sonafrank, Mrs,

Members of the Ladies’ Auxiliary

The Capitol City Council 53 of

retary, and Mrs. Mendenhall are to be convention speakers. Program features will include a Pearl Medal contest, a “Rainbow” banquet, candlelight installation services, music, playlets, a visit to a museum and a picnic supper. Richard Bateman, principal of Peru High School; is to talk on “After the Rainbow, What?” at the banquet. A Loyal Temperance. Legion demonstration will be presented and a Spiritual Skylines talk will be: given. Discussion subjects will include- social problems, liquor control and effects of alcohol on the human

-| system.

Pettijohn Program To Be Given Sunday,

Miss Mildred Pettijohn, music instructor, will present her summerf pupils in a recital Sunday afternoon at her country home in Arcadia. Included in the program will be selections from “The Wanderlust,” composed by Misses Mildred and Janet -Pettijohn. Miss Alma Roush, vocalist, will assist on the program. Students who will appear include Carol Hodson, Sharlene Hammer, Donna Hadly, Janice Hammer,

EVENTS

SORORITIES

p. m. today. Hotel Lincoln. p. m. today. Miss Helen Reddick, 2053 Bellefontaine, hostess. Mrs.

eve. Y. W. Denny and Miss hostesses. - CLUB

A. Mrs. Merle Helen Reith, co-

Roof of Hoosier Athletic Club. Card party at 8 p. m. and dance at 9:30 p. m. Members and guests invited. LODGE : ; Circle, Myrtle Temple Pythian Sisters. Thurs. noon. Mrs. Mattie Jenkins, 1536 Olive, hostess. : : CARD PARTY

Thurs. School Hall. Mrs. Joseph Madden, chairman.

W. R. C. Unit to Meet

Bernice Addison, state general sec-

PPE

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Marilyn Jacquier, Carolyn Jacquier, Ned Hodson, Frieda Sexton, Jerry Lee Ammerman, Marjorie Donald-

.Members of the Past Presidents’ Council, Unit 1, Women’s Relief Corps: 10, were to meet for lunch-

have a trousseau tea Sept. 7 at the Case home in honor of ‘the bride-groom-to-be’s mother. The spinster

reading some of that old advice to young mothers warning them not to allow any fixation on any

leave us alone. : : | She spends all her spare time with us until I am a nervous ck from her interference. I can’t talk it over with my husband

for he thinks she is always right, I have thought of a separation, go uld get along if she would let us alone. . | e is jealous of my family. I don’t see why for they do not

bother us:

'I often have wondered if he made them feel unwelcome

because he did not want them to know his faults. The one who

she is is just a boss. I hope you appeal to mother or son.

2 8 = 1

ses the most trouble is his mother and he doesn’t realize that all cases can’ tell me something for there is no

TROUBLED. 8 5 =» :

Answer—First of all let me admit that you have a tough prob-

fem for will ‘have pat y must oppose your ‘above all not

which I have no easy answer. To deal with it at all you to be a tower of strength, a pillar of wisdom, a model of with -almost super-human qualities of endurance. You learn to stand your ground without losing your temper, to mother-in-law’s rule with courage and kindness, and to take your anger and irritation out on your husband.

What would happen if you confronted your mother-in-law with

a firm refusal to do thin, ‘about yourself, coldly ner a storm and

her way and told her a few painful facts without anger? At first there would be your husband would line up against you. Instead of ; for remarks to cut him to the quick, what would happen

it you turned your attack on his mother into a complaint to his

masculinity? ; Simply say child when he make

can ing ‘his pride useless, but so hat are for 1 know

In eo and may surprise you ; be a battle.

{ that you resent the fact that she treats him as a is se capable of running his affairs for himself, You him aware of his problem if you will refrain from woundin his ‘own masculinity. To scold, nag or condemn is build up his belief in himself, and to make him feel him instead of against him, may be more effective i

it a strong-willed, self-controlled woman could whip Try never to say a spiteful or an untrue thing. Do , Simply marshal your facts and when you state a immovable and unemotional as the rock of Gibraltar. mother-in-law is bound to realize that she has met

by her acceptance of the fact. JANE JORDAN,

toy. : ‘Of course a shoe is not a toy. But actually it would not matter if Johnny took a stove lifter to bed. Wh-: he wants to cuddle his cheek against is something that ties him to daylight. a Think about yourself. What do you take to bed with you? Habits, of course. Maybe you want a particular kind of night gown. Maybe you like a book just within reach, whether you use it or not. Perhaps you have a way of draping the corner of the sheet over one shoulder. It may be that little children fear the loneliness of sleep. They are alone in that dreamland

| where nobody can follow. They

say, “Now 1 lay me,” and talk of dying. What a pity that little plea cannot be changed to something more cheerful. * + A shoe is" significant, to get down into the depths of psychology.” It means readiness. So stop worrying. Maybe Johnny just “loves those shoes. They probably represent some very happy experience he has had in them. I would not let him get too “fixed” on you. That is natural, too. But the truth is that 8 child too dependent on mother, the token of comfort, may take it on to adolescence and maturity.

“He should be able to see you

The Teddy bear that a

‘ |Preston Woolf, Clyde T. Bowers,

loves to take to bed with him is

“something that ties him to daylight"—for “little children . . . fear the loneliness of sleep . . . the dreamland where nobody can follow.”

Mother fixation, more likely to happen to boys than girls, is a f real trouble. I

do it. - Not common, bu common os

| bride-to-be and her mother will in-

dinner, already announced, will be given by Miss Barbara Jean: Holt the night of Sept. 7. Miss Holt will be maid of honor at the wedding. The bachelor dinner will be held the same night and the bridal dinner will ‘be given the next evening in the Propylaesum. Mrs. I. RichWagner entertained yesterday afternoon at an apron and handkerchief shower at her home, 4949 | 14th St. | 88 8 Mrs. Richard L. Bearss will be hostess this e at a miscellaneous shower for Mary Beth King at her home, 5740 Guilford Ave. Miss King, and Mrs. Clarence H. Sutherland Ave. d George tin Ferry, Hartford, Conn., will be married Sept. 7 in Hartford. Guests at the shower with the

clude Mesdames T. B. Noble Jr,

Maurice Fogarty and the Misses Helen Leppert, Marty Catherine Markey, Cecilia Drew, Mary Louise Drew, Betty Jean Balz, Dorothy Keene and Margaret Koesters.

——| nounced by her parents, Mr. and mn- | Mrs. Joseph McGinty, ‘to

|J. Hahn, son of Mz. and Mis, John

eon this afternoon at 1 o'clock at the home of Mrs. A. J. Reichman, 26 S. McKim St.

son, Rosemary Ross, Phyllis Ross,

| Marcella Overdorf and Milo Sexton.

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