Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 17 February 1938 — Page 11

_* Raising a Family—

‘their place in discipline.

Hard Heart Often Helps In Discipline

Unquestioning Obedience |

Is Sometimes Desirable For Effect.

(Sixteenth of a Series) By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON So far, I have been showing why you instinctively step softly at times with your children, mother. You crystallize your thoughts, so to speak, giving you a real and legiti-

mate excuse for letting Kay or Jack |

down gently when they have not

minded too well. ‘Children will be

children, anq you are willing to condone part of their misconduct because something told you they had to learn about life without too much interference. ; But now we come down to cases. Matters have to be faced squarely, as you know. You have to harden your heart sometimes, so maybe it will help you to 2 know why. I am going to give the answer that you, very often, give your own boy or girl when they ask why they must be good. “Just because.” Just because you say a thing should be enough. It boils down to ‘the problem of “questioning” and “unquestioning” obedience, to the good old argument about whether the child should always have to have things clearly

- justified in his own mind before he

does them. Stress Obedience

Reserve the right at all times to say, “Do this because I say so. It is good for the soul and good for character to learn to obey without forever turning the word. Explanation is only half of discipline. - The other half has to be taken on trust by the child. He should always be aware of the fact that you know more than he does, and that all things cannot be debated before snapping to it. This, I maintain, in spite of much new opinion, is the parent’s right. Many. parents, it is true, expect too much. They are impatient about any inquiry on the, boy’s part, or the’ girl's, into reasons. This is wrong, of course. If the child is to be reasonable, then the parent should be reasonable, too. But not all things can be explained in terms the child will understand. And perhaps he needn't know anyway. Maybe you don’t

want him to go to the movies with

Chuck, not because of the quarter it

“costs, but because of Chuck him-

self. Children Are Loyal

For. Jack to know you dislike his crony, you may not think wise, likely, for many reasons. He would not- understand . in the first place. He might then turn right around, and, from a sense of allegiance stick to Chuck closer than ever. You feel that the le less said, the better. “Why can go to the movies with Chuck?” oh not develop into an argument. Simply. say, “I have told you, son,” unless you feel that circumstances entitle Jack to know the truth. The only rule to guide you will be your own judgment. The normal, hearty, sympathetic parent that the child adores and has faith in may umpire without a lot of talk. Both kinds. of .obedience. have Children should learn self-government, .certainly,, but no man lives who is

strong enough to be sufficient al--

ways unto himself. And he learns to A alone only affer his motal muscles have been first helped by a hand along the path. Secretly, it is a relief for children to look to their leader. And not always fo know reasons and more reasons for this and that is also a relief.

Today’s Pattern

compelling simplicity, the effect one of , .

Miss Wendy Iglehart

Welles’ ‘Caesar’ Tops List of - astern Offerings

Brilliant

By HELEN WORDEN : ° Times Special : NEW YORK, Feb. 17.—Orson Welles’ version of “Julius Caesar” has captured the enthusiasm of theater audiences in Boston, Washington and New York. To see the Roman dictator of another age in the garb of his modern counterparts is to see history through the eyes of 1938. Welles’ “Caesar” is g sharp view of Fascist philosophy with not too many Shake-

Day. and" night, ‘round: the clock, goes [as show, with smart society folk unconsciously “modeling” clothes

snow-bound Northerners.

After a morning dip in Florida's warm wa-

ters; Mrs. Al Davis is snapped under a shower, which doesn’t at all detract from the beauty of her daring two-piece swim suit of striped cotton. Post-luncheon golfers throng the links, among them Mrs. Grover Loening, in a sweater of correct casualness and neatly pleated skirt. For a late afternoon stroll, Wendy Iglehart chooses a very : simple all-over print. When the sun sinks and evening clothes blossom, , Mrs. Barclay Warburton creates quite a stir in flowered chiffon under ° a rich silver fox cape. Mrs. J. Huntington Hartford, center, above, seated beside Herbert Bayard Swope Jr. in a swank supper club, contrasts a black velvet ribbon around her neck with the sparkling. ‘White

fox cape about her shoulders.

Reception Arranged By St. Rita’s Group

The Sisters of Providence of St.

to hold a tea and reception for patrons and friends from 2 to 4 p. m. Sunday. The school, formerly known as St. Bridget’s, has recently eer

Rita’s School, 813 N. West St, are |

modernized and partially .refurnished. The building contains a new chapel, living accomodations for the teaching staff and four large school rooms. The reception will be held in ‘the convent parlors and the Sisters are to be assisted by the St. Rita Guild members. An entertainment will be preseni2d followed by an inspection tour of tte building.

‘Hall, morrow night. Degrees will be conferred by Mrs. Kathryn Bortsfield,

Mrs. Al Davis

"Officers to Advance Officers are to be ‘advanced in their stations at a meeting of Naomi Chapter 131, O. E. S. at the Masonic North and Illinois Sts, to-

. | ter: of sauces.

Mrs. Barclay Warburton

worthy .matron; Walter L. King, worthy patron; Mrs, Ida Wilson, associate matron, and Mrs. Bessie Wikoff, conductress. Mrs. Genevieve Bard is the chapter’s ‘worthy matron and William R. Wigal, worthy

Preserves,

Sauce Adds

Right Zest To Waffle

Marmalades Widen Pastry’s Social ; Horizons, By MRS. GAYNOR MADDOX

There's more to a waffle than “good morning.” They show up

1at some of the best luncheons and

go out in the evening ‘with the greatest of ease. It’s largely a mate You must make the waffles fresh yourself, but many of the sauces you can buy, such as Shocolate sauce, strawberry preserves, pecan sauce and various lively marmalades. Debutante Waffles ; (4 four-section waffles) Two cups sifted pastry flour, 4 teaspoons baking powder, % teaspoon salt, 3 ‘egg yolks, % cup cream, % cup milk, 4 tablespoons melted butter, 3 egg whites beaten as stiff as crinoline. : Sift pastry flour and measure. Add baking powder and salt, then sift again. Combine the well-beaten egg yolks with the milk, Add the egg-milk mixture slowly to flour mixture, beating to smooth cone sistency. Stir in the melted bute ter, and then at last fold in the stiffly beaten egg Whites, Bake in hot waffle iron. ’

Butterscotch Sance : ‘(Makes 1% cups) :

Two-thirds cup white corn syrup,

11% ‘cups medium brown sugar, %

cup water, 4 tablespoons butter, % Jeaspoon vanilla; 6 tablespoons heavy :

Boil the first four ingredients Une til sauce reaches heavy syrup cone sistency. Cool. Add vanilla and cream. - If consistency gets a little too. heavy, add more cream. . Another sauce which widens the social horizon of waffles—shave maple sugar and ‘add to lightly

patron.

whipped cream. It’s great eating,

spearean shadows deleted. This season Morgan Farley, formerly of Indianapolis, need not change into costume every evening as he did last year when he played in “Hamlet.” Now he merely walks from his cab right on to the stage of the National Theater in Washington attired in his everyday business suit.

Although Mr. Farley has a studio apartment here he has spent most of the winter in Boston and Washington where the play is being given. I understand the Folger Memorial Library of Washington will soon be presented with Welles’ original manuscript copy of his adaptation of the Shakesperean tragedy. “Julius Caesar” is only one of the shining lights in a brilliant theatrical season. Five new plays are scheduled. for this week alone. Alexander Woollcott on Monday will sally forth to appear in the opening of the Theater Guild's latest, “Wine of Choice,” by S. N. Behrman. Claudia Morgan -and Leslie Banks will also be in. the cast. The Queen of Bermuda -will -set sail March 2 for the crown colony with Mr. and Mrs. William A. Garrigues Jr. and their baby aboard. They expect to pass two months on

the island. Mrs. Garrigues is the

daughter of Mr. and Mrs. H. R. Danner of Indianapolis. She and her family make their home at 300 Park Ave., New York City. : I am wondering if Bermudians’ calculations will be as perfect this year as they have been in the past. Each winter the horticulturists study the calendar and then plant

their Easter lily bulbs so the flowers | top.

will blossom. during Easter week. Last night the Albert Lords, of Englewood, N. J. returned from Georgetown, 8S. C. with their youngest son, Peter, 8. Mrs. Lord is the former Louise Bennet, daughter of Mrs. Harry Bennet, of 4044 Washington Boulevard.

Mrs. Jack Zeller, Indianapolis, mother of Mrs. Jerome McGeehee, 105 E. 63d St., has gone to Plattsburgh, N. J. There she will visit another daughter, Mrs. Page Golsan Jr., until early June.

Size 38 requies 43% yards of 39-inch material, with short sleeves; 3%-yard of lace banding required for neck. To obtain a pattern and step-by-step sewing instructions inclose 15 cents in coin together with the above pattern number and your size, your name and address, and mail to Pattern Editor, The Indianapolis Times 214 W. Maryland St., Indian« apolis The new SPRING AND SUMMER PATTERN BOOK, 32 pages of attractive designs for every size and every occasion, is now ready. Photographs show dresses made from these patterns being worn, a fea: ture you will enjoy. Let the charming designs in this new book help you in your sewing. One pattern and the new Spring and Summer Pattern Book—25 cents. Book alone—

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Smart Women Make Lipsticks Match Clothes

By ALICIA HART

The truly chic woman chooses lipstick, compacts and other pocketbook paraphernalia with an eye to-

they must suit her skin and be made by. a manufacturer whose products] she likes. But she doesn’t carry just any old lipstick in an evening bag, while a handsome, rhinestone-stud-ded number goes to the golf course with her.

One of the smartest lipsticks. for

with a shiny copper base. And one of the most charming evening sets includes two : half-size lipsticks in half-size cases—one of solid ebony, the other of solid ivory—and both finished: with a circlet of tiny rhinestones at the base. The black one is for formal afternoon and to carry when ‘you wear dinner clothes and he wears a black tie. The ivory goes with your most formal gown.

lipstick in a gold and ivory case, shaped like a fluted Greek column. And for the gay and frivolous or for one who likes bright touches with black costumes, a patriotic number with red base, white center and blue

_ With the muted pastel or soft print you're: wearing now under your fur coat, you might consider a fat lipstick with case in alternating stripes of pastel emamel and gold. There are compacts to match these. For the south or to give someéone who likes the south but cannot get there this year, there are sleek enamel compacts and matching cigaret cases with pictures of palm trees, broad expanses of beach and rolling waves in colored enamel across the top. And pretty tortoiseshell catalin ones with shiny gold hinges. These sre transparent, so you always can tell how much powder you have or how many Sigayets are left,

‘Constitution’ to Be

“The Constitution and the Common Man,” is to be discussed by Henry M. Dowling at a meeting of the Seventh District Federation

Hotel. of American Citizenship chairman, Mrs. John Thornburg, Law Observe. ance Division chairman, and Mrs.

Bloomfield Moore, Americanization and Citizenship Training chairman,

The district chorus is to sing.

Special for Saturday - FEBRUARY 19°

‘Fresh Orange Layer

A rich, gold layer

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ward her mode of life and the] ciothes in her wardrobe. Of course, |

Also for afternoon is a fullsize’

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of Clubs tomorrow in the Claypool | Mrs. Frank Symmes, Department | arranged the program assisted by |

sports comes in a solid walnut case |

"OF ULTRA-MODERN <. STREAMLINED TRAINS |

This fleet embodies the v It includes| by far the larg

Here i is the quistanding westem travel announcement of many years! For your pleasure on 1938 California and Southwestern journeys, Santa Fe presents 13 magnificent new trains, streamlined in stainless steel! latest in rail travel comfort, beauty and speed. array of ultra-modern passenger equipment on any American railroad. It adds new dash and joy fo economy travel and de luxe travel ‘alike; IT WILL All BE READY TO HAT INTO YOUR SPRING AND SUMMER PLANS.

2 Sujicc Chiefs Another superb streamlined Super Chief enters regular service FEBRUARY 22nd —thus doubling the trem dously popular service on this extra fare and O SOLID-PULLMAN 39%-hour train between Chicago and California. Twice-weekly departures from Chicago will be Tuesday and Saturday evenings at 7:15 pm; from

‘Los Angeles Tuesday and Friday evenings at 8:00 pm,

6 New Chiefs

it was only fitting that the famous solid-Pullman exira-

fare Chief also should go streamlined in this great

Santa Fe year. Hence our pleasure in announcing delivery of new equipment, beautiful and modern as that on the Super Chief, sufficient to streamline, in stainless steel, all six of the trains required. for this finest. and many. hours-fastest of all California DAILY safvice}

2 El Capitans

* Now for El Capitanf Absolutely unique in the economy new Santa Fe twice-g-

travel field—is this gleami week silver flash to and from California, streamlined in stainless steel behind its Diesel-elecric locomotives!

Here is the ly transcontinental train in America entirely for’ chair-car it will be as fa! between Chicago and Los Angeles! It will combine low fares and low-cost meals with trim beauty and the latest comforts—including deeply cushioned reclining chai lighting, and at days and dollars. El Capitan will leave Chicago Tuesdays and Safurdays at 5:45 pm—ahead of the Super Chief. All seats are numbered and reserved. TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 22, IS THE FIRST REGULAR DEPARTURE FROM CHICAGO. Want fo make that memorable FIRST TRIP with us?

If you're Sapo minded, choose between this new _ El Capitan, ¢ already-famous daily Scout—there IS servicel .

1 Chicagoan -.% Kansas Cityan

8iill they comel ON OR. ABOUT APRIL 15th, Chicago - and Kansas City will have their own gay, swift Santa

Fe Sirsqmiiness. There'll: be two of them—of seven

ers. Believe it or not, t as the Super Chief—only 39% bours

carpeted gisles, broad windows, fine’ ctive dressing rooms. It will save you

MARCH 15th, the shim

‘Fred Harvey meals in its chee

stainless steel cars each; ha on 74-hour schedules. On thesé trains; beauty and roomy comfort will feature the chair cars, with their rotating reclining seats; the combination lounges, parlor observation cars and Fred Harvey diners. The westbound. streamliiner, named the Kansas

Cityan, will leave Chicago 9:00 am, arrive 4:30 pm.

The eastbound train, The Chicagoan, will leave Kansds City 2:10 pm, arrive 9:35 pm. Finer, faster ChicagoKansas City service—more convenient connections at either end}

Now back to California, where! ON OR ABOUT new six-car, stainless -

steel SAN DIEGAN is to link Los Angeles and San. Diego more closely. The San Diegan will make two sound trips daily; on

a 2%-hour schedule; between these great Santa Fe

terminal cities. Beautiful and yltra-modem, with fine lunch-tavemn car, the . San Diegan will bring new pleasure and speed to infer-

city travel, and afford splendid connections with Santa

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patrons for 45 years. The Cire Li Ts

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frons'we promise every comfort and serve

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* @ THIS IS IMPORTANT, TOO. Part of this greas

program has involved improvement of roadbed, Jaying of heavier steel, cutting of grades and straightening of pelea ga dns nh oslo nig. gen iy iet sweep of your train. Last, but not least, a

NEW SANTA FE TIMETABLE, EFFECTIVE FEBRUARY

peri-of the cotmny.