Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 7 January 1938 — Page 17

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Children Yield When Asked to Decide Problem for Themselves.

By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON A man had two sons. He was telling us about them the other night and explaining some of his methods dealing with them when they were small boys. It began with each of us giving our opinions about discipline, Tomn.y was determined, one day, he said, to go out in bad weather. He had had a cold, Thomas had, and today was particularly damp and dangerous. But in spite of orders, he got his wraps and put them on, It was to be a real showdown His door his

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father followed him to the and talked and talked. But, hand on the doorknob, Tommy was going just the same. Then his daddy said, “Son, in your heart vou know this {is wrong, don’t you? I don't want you to ask me, but ask yourself if you think you have good sense.” There was more of it, and finally the boy said, “I'm not goin’,” flung off his

coat and stayed at home. Quelling a Rebellion

The other boy, Major, by nickname, had been acting up and refusing to obey his mother. He was | a sweet little fellow, his father ex- | plaine? but sometimes he loved a | battle. One day he was very, very | bad. At supper he said he hadn't | filled up the hcle he had dug in the yard, and didn’t intend to. With that he ran outside, back of the garage, and hid, but his father fol- | Jowed with a little stick he had picked up. More talk, and father gaid, "In your heart you know you are wrong, don’t you, Maj? a us and think of vourself. Are you | verv proud of your actions?” Maj thought a long time and ther said sudderly, “I guess I'm | Just a fool.” And he walked over to the pile of mud and began shovel- | ing it back with his hands. Now we may say that the sight | of the rod did the work. But this | is such a gentle old man‘this sons | are grown today) that I don’t sup-

pose the small weapon had much |you niay be even more discouraged |

to do with it. Maj, like his brother, |. had succumbed to moral suasion. Conscience had been troubling | them aad when the burden of de- | cision was laid at their own door, they took it to heart.

Respect for Authority

But I believe there is more here than meets the eye. Mr. Smith! asked both boys to examine their own hearts, but although he is gen- | tle, and probably was 20 years ago, there is a certain positiveness about | him. He would not have allowed Tommy to go out in sleet and wind to die of pneumonia. He would not have allowed Major to get away from his responsibility. Both boys | knew the smell of real authority |* and respected it. It was not con- | science altogether, | Sometimes the appeal to con- | science works and sometimes not. | It all depends. But one thing I} do know, that many times the child prefers to be forced to do what he doesn’t want to do, rather than do| his own deciding always. We are all made that way. We work better uncer some pressure. And we conform more happily | when the decision is not left per=-| petually to us. In short, we like | to be told. Not always, but a fair | portion of the time. Then we av oid | conflicts and the wear and tear of decision. Suppose we say that an even mixture is the best recipe.

Kappa Alpha Theta To Meet Tomorrow

Mrs. €. B. Dyer. 525 Blue Ridge Rd., is to be hostess at 2:30 p. m. tomorrow to the Indianapolis chap- | ter, Kappa Alpha Theta Sorority. Mrs. C. Severin Buschmann is to b~ speaker. Mrs. F. E. Glass is hostess chairman.

| Moscow as

| vesterday,

|teacher develops character. careful not to instill into his pupil a

| lights.

Mme. Lea Luboshutz carefully

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handles the famous “Nightingale”

Stradivarius violin made in 1717 which she acquired five years ago. It had been on display for many years in a British museum. Mme. Luboshutz is to be soloist this afternoon and tomorrow night with the Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra.

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Marriage Essential to Women

In Music, Says S Mme. [_uboshutz,

By KATHERINE CARTER

You are a voung woman living

in Indianapolis

| ately to be a good musician. You want recognition.

But you are discouraged. Your struggle seems futile.

This afternoon or tomorrow night®——

{you will go to the Indianapolis Mme. Lea Luboshutz, soloist, play Concerto in G Minor by Max Bruch. Mme. Luboshutz is one of the

world's foremost woman violinists. |

with your progress when you hear | her play. Listen then to her words. speaking. v0 you: “Indianapolis tomorrow may pro- | duce r great artist. Why not? They | don’t come from the huge cities.”

: Eves Shine as She Talks

Today Mme. Luboshutz named | |worlu famous musicians who came | |from cities smalle* than Indianlapulis. She was born in Odessa, Russia, which in size compares to | Indianapolis to New |

She is|

York. She sat quietly in her hotel suite | her hands clasped in her | lap. By her side was the fa.nous| Nightingale” Stradivarius violin made in 1717. Her eyes shine when |she talks. “Fight! Never be disappointed,” “The moment you are satisfied, you are lost. Fight to your dying breath.” Talent is the first essential to success, Mme. Luboshutz believes. A good teacher is second. A good He is

feeling of inferiority. A musician with an inferiority {complex can never become great, she believes, because he has not the personality, a third essential, to grip his audience across the foot-

“T have 4 9-vear- old pupil,” she said. “As badly as he may play, I say: ‘That is fine. But, my dear, let us look at this passage together.'”

Luck

Luck has no place in the musical world, Mme. Luboshutz believes. Success is achieved only through | character and hard work, she believes. “It is not ‘luck’ if you meet an important person who furthers your career,” she said. “The secret is that

Discounts

‘you have fought to gain the capa-

Guests to Be Enicrizined

By Epsilon

Epsilon Sigma Omicron, national honorary education sorority, is to eaters guests with a program at 2 p. m. Tuesday in the L. S. Ayres |

& Co. auditorium. Mrs. William L. Sharp, seventh district chairman, is arrangements | chairman, assisted by Mrs. Clarence J. Finch, vice chairman. | The Rev, Ellis Hay, who is to dis- | cuss “Man and His Books,” is to be | introduced by Mrs. Felix T. Mec-| Whirter. Several musical selections | arranged by Mrs. Harry Beebe and | original poems read by Mrs. E. H. | Ratterhenry, Martinsville, are to be | included on the program. Hostesses during the afternoon | are to be group presidents and sponsors. They are: Mesdames W | D. Keenan, George C. Bolsley, Fred

L. Pettijhon, Basil E. Vaught, filbert |

H. Off, William H. Polk, C. L. Stubbs

Sigma Omicron

Josephine Adams, Noblesville, and Mrs. Charles Symons, Plainfield. Ushers are to be Mesdames Jerauld McDermott, Paul V. Wycoff and Herman Kortepeter. All federated club women inter-

| ested in the sorority’s study course

have been invited to attend. Special

| guests are to be Mrs. Quincy Myers,

Perryville, Epsilon Sigma Omicron founder; Mrs. Edwin I. Poston, Martinsville, Indiana Federation of Clubs | president; Mrs. Frederick Balz, gen- | eral federation director; Mrs. W. D. | Keenan, Seventh District Federa- | tion of Clubs president; Mrs. Robert E. Burke, Bloomington, and all state officers of the sorority. They are: Mrs. Fred Bell, Rushville, president; Mrs. Sam Matthews, Tipton; Mrs. Pettijohn, Indianapolis; Mrs. R. L. McIntosh, Washington, and Mrs. Off, Indianapolis.

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Mme. Luboshutz expressed clearly her philosophy of marriage. “A woman cannot be a great [artists unless she has lived to its full her life as a woman, with marriage and children.,” she said. There have been no great women

| composers and Mme. Luboshutz be-

lieves the reason is that no woman can live in the isolation necessary

| for composition of music and retain | her qualities of greatness.

Mme. Luboshutz has two grandchildren. She says that observa- | tion of one of them, a 7-months-old child. helped her understand the sweetness and simplicity of Mozart's musiz. After listening yesterday | Indianapolis Symphony

to the

“I predict that this symphony orchestra will become one of greatest in the country. Mr. Sevitzky has done distinguished work during his few weeks here.”

You want desper- |

Orchestra | | rehearse for the concert this week- | | end, Mme. Luboshutz said:

the |

Tangerines Excellent as

Jam, Salad

Bright Color Adds Zest To Table But Season Is Very Short.

By MRS. GAYNOR MADDOX The tangerine peels as easily as it eats, and that is far from all It has the bright color needed for the party season, and like the last cose of summer, it won't be here long. Better make the most of it now.

Tangerine Jam

Two cups tangerine, pulp and juice, 1 teaspoon grated tangerine rind, 1 lemon, pulp and juice, 1!2 cups sugar. Peel tangerines, separate into sections and remove seeds. Cut sections into halves, working over a bowl in order to catch all juice. Measure two cups (pulp and juice) and combine with other ingredients. Boil rapidly in enamel or glass saucepan for about 10 minutes, until clear and syrupy. Pour hot into sterilized jars and seal with paraffin, The above never made a meat course unhappy, and as filling for nut bread sandwiches, it's a riot. For ladies at tea, however, better serve a salad—a very ladylike salad, of course. Tangerine Salad

(Serves 4 to 6)

One pear, fresh or canned, 1 cup seeded grapes, !%o grapefruit, 2 tangerines, 4 tablespoons olive oil, 1 tablespoon lemon juice, 1 tahlespoon lime juice, 12 teaspoon salt, pinch of cayenne, shake of paprika, and honey cream dressing. Dice pears, seed grapes, peel tangerines and tear into sections, remove sections from grapefruit. Combine oil, lemon juice, lime juice, salt and spices. Pour over mixed frnit and place in refrigerator until chilled. Arrange a bed of pale green watercress. Place the marinated fruit on this garden. Serve { with the honey cream dressing and | listen to the ladies “Ah!” Honey Cream Dressing Two egg yolks, 'i; cup strained honey, 2 tablespoons olive oil, 2 tablespoons lime juice, shake paprika, pinch salt, 2 cup slightly sour cream. Beat yolks. Heat honey over hot water. Combine honey and yolks in top of double boiler. Beat until thickened, then slowly fold in oil, juices and seasoning. Beat sour cream stiff, then fold into other mixture. Chill, then serve.

puslliny Members Wi

auxiliary of the Mcllvaine-Kothe

informal dinner in their home, 625 E. 59th St., at 6 p. m. tonight. Mrs. George Clark is to assist { her daughters and Miss Martha Poole is to preside at the busin~ss meeting. Other officers include Miss | Norma Coulon, vice president: Miss | Joan Robinson, secretary, and Miss | Jean Kline, treasurer.

Women Believe Magazine PHILADELPHIA, Jan.

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Miss Katherine and Miss Margery | Clark are to entertain the junior |

Post of the American Legion at an |

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Survey Indicates

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cent of the

nation’s women favor uniform divorce laws and 69 per cent believe in | the institution of divorce, according to a survey published today by the

Ladies’ Home Journal. A cross section of America’s 37,000,000 women felt that money was the principal cause of friction in marriage: that relatives cause little trouble = between husbands and wives, and that adultery, desertion, habitual drunkenness, failure to provide, venereal disease con-

tracted before marriage, and drug dope habits should be grounds |

[or for divorce, the Journal said. Women under 30 form the largest | group believing in divorce, and wealth and that belief increase in a direct ratio, the Journal found. The magazine said 73 per cent of the Protestant women and 39 per cent of the Catholics believe in the institution. The percentage of farm women who believe in divorce is smaller than that of those who live in cities. In answer to a question whether “most marriages fail because of unhappy sex relationships between husband and wife,” 44 per cent answerea “yes.” However, 68 per cent of the divorced women interviewed by the Journal felt that sex prob-

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lems caused most failures in marriage. Eighty-five per cent of the women

marriage, that the home, rather than the classroom, was the proper place to give such instruction, the magazine. “Kindness and consideration” are | the qualities in a necessary for a happy marriage, in the opinion of 49 per cent. disposition” was second, provide” rated third, and “faithfulness” fourth.

Bruce Gould, Journal editor, said the report was based on facts, and did noi reflect the magazine's editorial opinion. He said a new survey would id be made e¢ made each month.

For a gay winter centerpiece for your dining room table, fill a pottery bowl with the small, brightly painted Mexican gourds that are usually strung together for fireside hangings.

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Planned Program Is Better Than Strenuous Diet

By ALICIA HART

Weighing several pounds too

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