Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 11 September 1937 — Page 4

ay Forget Old ~ Friendship,

Jane Urges|

Further Protestations of

Love Embarrassing, Girl Is Told.

Put your problems in a letter to Jane Jordan, who will answer your questions in this column cach day.

PEAR JANE JORDAN— ~— I went with a boy almost seven months, which was heaven for him and, for me. We planned to be married Christmas and he told everyone of his great love for me. Friends said that when we were together he watched me as if he worshiped me.

Then he found out that he was four years older than I. I am quite young and he isn't so old. From that time on we began drifting apart. I have written him. three heart-breaking letters bringing back "memories, but have had no reply. My whole summer has been miserable. I know if I could get him at my home alone where we could talk. ~ HEART-BROKEN.

ANSWER—There is nothing more painful thah a broken love affair when the one who is left still believds that he loves. You have my sympathy, but I am embarrassed for you that you wrote those letters. Nobody likes to be hounded with protestations of love after his own has cooled. Heart-breaking letters like yours make a man feel guilty and because the feeling is unpleasant he is quick to translate it into something else, such as scorn.

You think your boy friend's heart will be touched by your pitiful letters, that he will recall the feeling he once had for you and come rushing back. On the contrary, he will regard you as a little goof and complain that he can’t get rid of you. Can't you see that affection which is offered when it is not wanted puts an uncomfortable compulsion on the other fellow and that his only escape is to ridicule you? With that.curious blindness to the passage of time which characterize many persons trying to shut out a painful experience, you have stopped the clock at the point where the boy loved you and refused to recognize the changes in him which have occurred since then. Your cue is to catch up with time and deal with the situation as it exists now. Accept the fact that your lover is indifferent today. Let yesterday go and live for tomorrow. ” 2 » _ Dear Jane Jordan — I married young to get away from home, but marriage did not last. I started to go with the man who was to become my second husband. At the same time I met.a third fellow who liked me and I liked him, but my second husband-to-be made me promise not to go out with him any more. One morning the third fellow came, but I wouldn’t see him, and I know he wondered why. : He left a note and a present for me, saying that any time I wanted him, he would come. Well, I married my second husband, but I feel that I should apologize to the one whom I leff. Of course that has been seven years ago, and I'm afraid to write for fear thy husband would hear of it. I get to thinking of the other fellow although I know it is wrong and I would feel better if I could talk to him and tell him I'm sorry for the way I acted. LEOTA.

ANSWER—Another example of a lady who has stopped the clock in her own mind! Please accept the fact that seven years have passed and your apology is no longer timely

Tabernacle Presbyterian Church.

Mind Your Manners

Test your knowledge-of correct social usage by answering the following questions, then checking against the authoritative answers below: 1. Is it good taste for a business firm to use a letterhead printed in two colors? 2. If a typed letter is singlespaced should there be doublespacing between paragraphs? 3. May a letter of only two -or three lines be doublespaced? 4. When attaching enclosures to a business letter, is it better to clip them to the back or to the front of the letter? 5. Should one ever talk to his office associates about his personal troubles?

What would you do if— You are writing on business to a man you have never met or written to before. Would you address him as— : A. “Gentlemen:”? B. “Dear Mr. Jamison:”? C. “Dear Sir:”? # » ”

Answers

- 1. Yes. 2. Yes. 3. Yes. 4. To the back. 5. No.

Best ‘What Would You Do” soluation—A “Gentlemen” is correct when addressing a letter to a firm; B is not incorrect, but it is more appropriate for addressing a man you know or with whom you have had © previous correspondence.

Mr. and Mrs. Thomas a. Elder, 222 Blue Ridge nounced the engagement of their daughter Elizabeth Ann to Gordon F. Cantelon, son of Mr. and Mrs. H. L. Cantelon, St. Louis, formerly of this city. The wedding is to take place Oct. 22 in the McKee Chapel,

Mrs. Hattie Hopkins Luncheon Chairman

Mrs. Hattie Hopkins is luncheon chairman for the Past Presidents’ League, Maj. Robert Anderson Corps 44, The event is to be given Monday in the Hamilton Food Shop, 1319 N. Pennsylvania St. Mrs. Hopkins is to be assisted by Mesdames Leo Welling, Nell Pfeffer, Cora Summers and Gertrude McLean. A business meeting is to follow.

Miss Morrison to Speak’

“Mexico” is to be the subject of a talk by Miss Florence Morrison, Butler University, at a dinner given by the Martha M. Society of the United Lutheran Church, Tuesday

night. The event will be held in the

home of Mrs. J. R. Nadolny, 4967 W. 14th St. Mrs. Nadolny is to be

or necessary. JANE JORDAN.

assisted by Mrs. O. J. Breidenbaugh.

POWER IN RESPONSE BID

Contract Problem

(Solution in next issue)

East is playing a contract or three no trump. He clears the club suit on the second lead and South returns another heart., East’s contract is safe, but in duplicate every over=trick is important. With a heart return should he play his ace immediately?

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By W. E. MCKENNEY Secritary, American Bridge League

N MANY instances, in fact a great: I majority of hands, the same final contract will be reached using the T. N. T. system of bidding, as by following the precepts of one over one. However, as tournament players are meeting more and more users of this system, popular in New England, an explanation of their bid- ~ ding tactics should prove interest-

ing. ; . Today's hand {illustrates the manner in which [fairly strong hands respond to the opening forcing bid ~ of one no trump, leaving to the . opener, who is the “captain of the hand,” the decision as to where the

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A873, ¥vJi0817 QJ H8543 Duplicate—Neither vulnerable South West North" East Pass IN. T Pass 3h Pass 3M Pass 44 Pass Pass Pass Opener—é¢ K Ta i bid is based on exactly three and one-half honor tricks. East's response is in accordance with the system and does not give any information regarding the length of the club suit, which is the jump response. It does, however, guarantee two honor tricks, and at the same time tells partner that there is no five-card suit in the hand with the exception of clubs. : While it does not deny the possibility of playing the hand at no trump, the inference remains that there is a weak spot, which the opener should have protected. West, with this information, now bid three spades; and East naturally raised to four, In the play, two diamonds were the only tricks lost. The third diamond was ruffed with the nine spot. The last diamond was trumped with the jack, thus leaving the declarer with the 10 spot to

‘shand should play. West's opening

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pick up &he outstanding trump,

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Thyroid Gland Is Key Organism Of Human Body

By DR. MORRIS FISHBEIN Editor, American Medical Journal In the throat, in front on each side of the windpipe, there is the large gland known as the thyroid. Most pecple get concerned about their thyroid only when they have a goiter. The chief purpose of the thyroid gland is to increase chemical changes going on in the body, so that practically every activity of the body is influenced by this gland. The thyroid does not work all the time at a uniform rate — sometimes its activities are speeded up, at other times they are greatly slowed.

It has been called the key organ of the human body, since its effects are brought to bear on all tite other glands, on the nervous system, on the sex activities, and on many other important actions. In case the secretion of the thyroid is lacking, serious disturbances of the body appear. These disturbances are called myxedema and cretinism. Examples of the effects of lack of thyroid secretion are dwarfing of the body, loss of hair, thickening and dryness of the skin, and great loss of mental and physical vigor.

On the other hand, overactivity of. the gland is also manifested by exceedingly serious symptoms which will be discussed further. Among these effects are rapidity of the heart, excitability of the nervous system, tremendous loss of weight, and in late stages the condition called exophthalmos in which, the eyes bulge.

As has already bean pointed out in discussions of other glands, the thyroid is definitely related to all of them in its actions. If the thyroid gland is removed, the pituitary gland enlarges. During the periodic activities of women and during childbirth the thyroid gland c¢nlarges. Goiter also occurs more frequently at such times. This is believed to be related to the lack of iodine in the body. Animals with the thyroid gland removed are more sensitive to insulin than are normal animals, which reveals the relationship of the thyroid to the pancreas. Quite certainly there is a definite relationship between: the thyroid and the adrenal glands, and between the pituitary and the adrenal glands. - It is believed - that the adrenal glands, acting through the pituitary, exercise a regulatory con-

trol over the thyroid.

Bretzman Photo.

Miss ‘Martha Jane Baker's engagement to John W. Tyler has been announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Ernest Lindsay Baker, 5155 N. Capitol Ave. Mr. Tyler is the son of Mr. and Mrs. T. M. Tyler, Rich~ mond, Ind. The wedding is to take place Oct. 16 in the McKee Chapel.

hostess.

Carrollton, hostesses.

Salem, hostess. r 80 Schiller, hostesses.

hostess.

ington St.

Lavery in charge.

Buschmann, hostess.

Tues. night. Hotel Washington. States.

N. Illinois. Luncheon.

and Mrs. John Soltau, hostesses.

EVENTS

SORORITIES Alpha Pi Omega. 8 p. m. Wed. Miss Grace Gabriel, 1942 Holloway,

Phi Tau. 8:30 p. m. Tues. Misses Mildred and Mary Nagley, 2212

Alpha, Delta Theta Chi. 8 p. m. Mon. Lincoln Hotel. Indianapolis Associate Chapter, Tri Kappa O. Minnick, 6008 Michigan Road, hostess. Installation of officers. Delta Beta, Psi Iota Xi. 7 p. m. Mon, Mrs. A.

Alpha, Delta Phi Beta. 8 p. m. Mon. Misses Laura and Ophelia Otto, Delta Rho, Chi Pi Psi. Mon. night.

Kappa Phi Delta. 7:45 p. m. Mon. CARD PARTIES Ladies’ Auxiliary to Brotherhood of Locomotive Engineers. 2 p. m. - Tues. Castle Hall: 6 p. m. Tues. Food Craft Shop. Benefit. Dinner, Hoosier Club. 8:30 p. m. today. Trainmen’s Hall, 1002 E. WashLODGES Indiana Hive 206. Maccabees. 6:30 p. m. Wed. Foodcraft Shop. Dinner, card party. Mrs. Maud Sourwine, Mrs. Esther Adamson, Miss Alice Englewood Chapter 483. Mon. night. Pitchin dinner, birthday party for Mrs. Helen Frantz, worthy matron, BY CLUBS Australian Chapter, International Travel-Study Club. 12 noon. Tues. Mrs. Vaughn Cooke, 6040 E. St. Joe, hostess. Mrs. Grace C,

Board of Assistants, Society 6f Mayflower Deséendants. 12 noon Wed. | Dining room, ¥, W. C. A. Luncheon. : Eidelweiss-Alpine Chapter, International Travel-Study Club, Inc. Elsa Huebner Olson Club. 12 noon. Thurs. Mrs. J. W. Moore, 4901 Cervus Club 12:30 p. m. Mon. 1101 N. Delaware. Mrs. W. F. Eckhart

Brookside Women’s Club: 12 noon Tues. Brookside Community House.

. 1 p. m. Mon. Mrs. Ralph . LaFollette, 3524

Miss Helen Peck, 1205 N. Oxford,

Y. W. C. A. Election of officers.

Dinner, lecture on New England

Party Honors Future Bride

Misses Mary Corliss and Mary Agnes Roche and Mrs. Harry Russell were hostesses last night in the Roche home at a surprise miscellaneous - shower in honor of Miss Louise M. Fleischmann. Miss ‘Fleischmann is to be mar-

ried Oct. 5 in the Holy Cross Cath- |"

olic Church to Harry A. Grothe. Appointments at the party were in the bridal colors, blue and rust. Guests were Mesdames George Fleischmann Jr., Harold Fleischmann, Clyde Kroger, Kenneth Murdock and Margaret Rhees and Misses Jane Kelley, Nellie Retlly, Romain Salladay, Josephine Griffin, Catharine Griffin, Loretta and Irene Stucker, Irma Hartley and Helena Siebert. -

marriage this sugamer.

senior year.

Wis, and is

Added to Faculty at Tudor Hall

Miss Dorothy S. Fleer, Evanston, Ill, is to be the new third and fourth grade teacher at Tudor Hall this year. She will take the place of Mrs. T. Baxter Rogers, who was Miss Margaret Smart until her Miss Fleer is a @ lege of Education, where she won an honorary scholarship during her She has taught previously at the National College of Education, where she held an honorary teaching scholarship, and in’

uate of the National Cols

Flossmoor, Ill. She also has had experience at Camp Oak Openings, ally interested in dramatics and creative rhythms.

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Mr. and Mrs. Walter R. Shiel, 121] N. Alabami St., have announced the engagement of their daughter Mary Louise to Robert Browning Moynahan, son of Mr. and Mrs. Thonas A, Moynahan, 1426 N. Delaware St. The wedding date has no; been set. Miss Sheil attended

Butler University.

of officers and committee members for the coming year. Members of the executive board include Mrs. C. B. Sulivan, hongrary president; Mrs, John Loucks, ‘viee president; Mrs. Elwood Ramsey, secretary; Mrs. Clarence Tucker, recording secretary;- Mrs. Ira Swartz, corresponding secretary; Mrs. Joseph Conley, treasurer, and Mrs. William H. Swintz, director. Mrs. H. L. Sunderland is chairman of the ways and means committee and Mrs. Engle is to be cochairman. Other committee mem=bers include Mesdames Robert Elliott, Hugh $S. Thornburg, E. J. Hecker, H. M. Chadwick, Robert Endsley, C. E. Eickenberry, Elwood Ramsey, M. E. Elstien and Mrs. Loucks.

Mrs. William C. Smith is chairman of the welfare relief commitb assisted by Mesdames John Connor and Louis A. Fleury. Mrs.

for the group. She is to be assisted by Mrs. Russell Gilmore. The flower committee is headed by “Mrs. D. B. Sullivan and Mrs. M. E. Elstien is doll committee chairman. Mesdames John Engelke and Forest. Danner are to represent the club in the Seventh District Federation of Clubs.

| Linen, Should Harmonize

Table linens should harmonize with dishes and silver. Fér example, expensive, English china should not be placsi\on a Deasans linen cloth or one wi ored borders. And Mexican pottery, however attractive, loses. a good deal of its charm if set on a pretentious lace cloth. Use the lace cloth of your best linen with

.| your nicest china and silver.

P. R. Chevalier is to direct publicity with a full skirt and train.

Carnelian Club to Open Year With President's Day Sept. 20

A Presidents’ Day luncheon, Sep:. 20 at Cifaldi’s Villa Nova, is to open the year's activities of the Ca'melian Cluk, according to an announcement made today by Mrs. Frank M. Ebert, president. Mesdames William Engle and Joseph Conley are chairmen for the event. The annual benefit bridge is to be held on Feb. 5. Mrs. Ebert also announced names®-

Elizabeth Akin, George Horst Rites Tomorrow

Miss Elizabeth Akin and George W. Horst Jr. are to be married at 2:30 p. m, tomorrow in the Irvington Presbyterian Church. Miss Akin is a daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William S. Akin, 437 Bancroft- Ave. The Rev. John B. Ferguson is to read the ceremony before an altar banked with greenery and flanked by fapers in seven-branch

! candelabra.

The bride, who is to enter with her father, is to wear a family heirloom wedding gown of ivory satin with a fitted jacket and fashioned

Her lace handkerchief was carried by the mother of the bridegroom. Her fingertip veil is to fall from a Juliet cap of seed pearls. White roses and gardenias are to. be included in Ler colonial bouquet.

Miss Annette Akin, who is to be her sister’s maid of honor, is to wear eggshell satin cut on princess lines with a quilted satin jacket. She is to wear a clubonnet velvet halo and dubonnet sccessories. Her colonial bouquet is to be made up of roses and asters. - Miss Catherine Akin, bridesmaid, is to wear an ice-blue satin gown made like that of her sister with dubonnet accessories. She is to carry cream roses. Edmund C. Horst

II is to be his brother's best man, |

and John McCreary and Richard Mann are to usher, Bridal airs are

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Join Forces

To Put on Horse Show

Saddle Horse Group and Guild to Sponsor Roundup on Oct. 8,

The Indiana Saddle Horse Asso ciation and the Sunnyside Guild are to join forces this year in the sponsorship of the Association's fifth annual Roundup at Gregg Farm on Oct. 3.

Fair weather for Sunday, Oct. 3 is the hope of members and their riding guests.

The first joint committee meeting of the two organizations is to be held at 8 p. m. today at the Indianapolis Athletic Club.

Elmer F. Straub, Association president, is the general committee head with Russel S. Williams, Donald IL. Bose, Charles F. Gregg and Emory Sharp assisting. Mrs. Oscar Perine is general chairman for the % Guiid group and her cochairmen are Mrs. William T. Eisenlohr and Mrs. LeRoy Ford, “The twofold purpose of the roundup, which was originated five years ago as a picnic party, is to foster amateur riding and benefit charity at the same time,” explained Maurice L. Mendenhall, one of the founders of the Indiana Saddle Horse Association. Extensive preparations are being made to accommodate the crowds which are expected to spend the day at the Gregg Farm. Fifty more boxes have been added to the 200 which are already on the 80-acre grounds. Grandstand seats may be increased from 1800 to 7500 in case of necessity, Mr, Mendenhall said.

Plan Surprise Stunts

_ A program, with several surprise Stuns, is being planned by commitees. Valuable trophies and prizes are to be awarded individual winners and the winning clubs with the highest scores. : Sunnyside Guild members are to be in charge of seat and gate sales. Working crews are to begin active sales soon, it was announced: by Mrs. Chantilla E. White, publicity chairman. Committees which Mrs. Perine appointed follow: Reserve seats, Mrs. Floyd J. Mattice, chairman, assisted by Mrs, Theodore E. Root and Mesdames C. J. Bookwalter, Albert W. Claffey, Earl Cox, Harry Elwert, William Fround, Alvin Fernandos, John Garrett, J. Frank ‘Holmes, George Kohlstaedt, Mort Martin, Maxwell Lang, Edward A. Lawson, B. B. Pettijohn, Gaylord T. Rust, George Shaffer, Walter O. Webster, Lewis T. Ferguson and Miss Bertha Edwards. Mrs. Charles Renard is chairman of the gate committee. Her cochairman is Mrs. Howard Linkert assisted by Mesdames E, Park Akin, Myron J. Austin, Daniel L. Bower, Donald Brodie, Robert J. Clarke, Edward H. Hilgemeier, G. F. Kleder, W. O. McDaniel, Ralph IL. Martin, E. V. Mitchell, Gus Meyer, George Morrison, Rufus Mumford, John D. Pearson, C. W. Richardson, L. C, Burnett, James Seward, Maurice B. Thomas, Harold M. Trusler, Herbert C. Tyson, O. A. Chillson, G. W. Dunnington, William Durkin, William H. Hanning, Robert Sturm, Ferdinand Vander Veer, John Burke, Stowell Wasson and Chantilla White. Mrs| C. J. Bookwalter is box com= mittee chairman, assisted by Mrs. L. C. Burnett.

to be played by Mrs. James Loomis, organist, A reception is to follow the ceremony at the Akin home. Assisting Mrs. Akin are to be Mesdames Ralpn Husted, Howard G. Campbell, Clarence Wacker and Misses Wilma Aulenbacher, Louise Troy, Helen Carver, Lucille Morrison and Helen Chapman. Music is to be provided by the Continental Trio. After a motor trip through the East, the couple is to be at home on Oct. 1 at 1309 W. 35th St.

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