Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 6 September 1937 — Page 4

*

else.

|

=:

Enjoy Life, ~ Jane Urges ~ Lonely Wife:

| Husbands Are Driven

Away by Heavy-Hearted Mates, She Says.

EAR JANE JORDAN— My husband has been gone for 15 months and we

. have grown apart. He seems

not to care for me any long-

er. I love him with all my heart and I have since 1 first met him. We are living with his folks at the present time. Don’t you think if we get away by ourselves and start all over, we can make a go of it? I am a Christian and do not care for worldly things any more, but he does. He says that I am not the same person I was when he left. I always used to be jolly and cutting up and I don't do that any more. I have worried over him so that I have grown sad and unhappy most, of the time. Please tell me some way I can win back my husband. Remembe¥ that I love him and won't give him up for someone PUZZLED WIFE,

ANSWER—No man likes a sad _ woman and will go miles to avoid" her. One of the bitterest come plaints husbands have made about marriage is that the zay young girls who won them turned out to be queens of tragedy after the ceremony, Radiant with smiles beforehand, soggy with tears afterward, light-hearted when single, heavy-hearted when married, these women wonder what has "happened to their husbands. A man married to a sad, unhappy woman sconer or later will seek one who can laugh, or turn to. his men friends for diversion. Why do most men like musical | comedies so much? Because they're filled with pretty girls who laugh and sing and drive dull care away. Because the plot is light and ridiculous and relieves the ordeal of living. Because the comedian slips on a banana peeling and every-

_ body bursts into laughter. Why do

they avoid the tear jerkers and _ tragedies? Because that’s what so many of them have at home. . I do not know why piely should be connected with gloom in so many minds. There is no reason why the good life should be the solemn life. I object to the doctrine that dubs man as depraved, and who must “atone for his load of guilt by giv.ing up every pleasure. Apparently your husband agrees with me. Please ‘do cheer up. Revive the cut-up in you, the cut-up who always was so jolly and gay. I know you don’t feel that way now that your husband is gone and you've renounced the world. Maybe, if you're honest, you can see that you were in part to blame and that your renunciation of pleasure is a means of retreating from life when it hurts you. Renounce every vile and ugly

_ thing you wish, renounce cruelty

and selfishness and the desire to revenge yourself on your husband (“I won't give him up for someone eise”), but don’t, for pity’s sake, let the joy of living go down with your . renunciations.

DEAR JANE JORDAN—T.ast year I fell in love with a girl and we planned to get married when I got ‘a better job. Then she started to tell ‘about all the swell cars some boys have. From then on everything was wrong. I kept on hoping she would remember how happy we had ‘been without a car to run around in. She quit me and later she ran from me whenever she saw me on the street. I have stayed away hoping get a good job and wonder-

ing what to do.

= EX-BCY FRIEND. -ANSWER—Don’t waste another minute thinking about her. Accept her “no” cheerfully and find another girl. JANE JORDAN.

¢Slow’ Children Need Individual School Traming

By MARJORIE VAN DE WATER ;

Science Service Writer

Thousands of children returning

to school | this month will look |!

forward to the adventure with happiness, for to $ham opment means achievement, progress! the opening of new woflds. To others, unfortunately, the outlook is not so cheerful. For them, school will mean failure, disappointment, disgrace. and ridicule. They are the backward children. . What is wrong with the backward ‘child? What is responsible, most often, for the heartaches that face parent and child alike whenothe little: one just can't make the grade? An investigation of systematic

.1+, thoroughness by a British psycholo-

gist, Dr. Cyril Burt, reveals that * the average backward child suffers from at least three adverse circumstances. As many as 60 distinguishable conditions may be at fault. With normal mental endowment, _ the child handicapped with poverty * in his home, lack of proper food. under-development, fects of hearing, speech, or vision, will overcome these obstacles. He not be able to do his best. But somehow he will get along. The child not so fortunate in mental gifts is in a more serious

i ate, Dr. Burt found. For him, the » fresh air, jopportunity

» should be smoothed. He needs jc: attention if necessary. Bo elpful play should be provided hove all, he needs special attention teacher who will study his

de-

Contract Problem ! (Solution in next issue) South’s contract “is six spades, East and West never having bid. The contract is safe if West holds the diamond queen or East thé club ace. What should South play if he wins the first trick in dummy? .&4K109 YVKQT74 ®AJTI»2 oh 5

N

Blind) (W _ El" (Bina)

Dealer

MAQJIB3 YAS ®K54 hK92

Duplicate—All vul. . Opener—A 7. L

Solution to Previous Problem By W. E. MKENNEY

American Bridge League Secretary

“CORRY, partner. I had to take J the spade finesse,” was the explanation of the South player, when he failed to fulfill his slam contract on today’s hand. As a matter of fact, finesse was not needed, after the opening lead, which gave to South all the time needed to fulfill his contract. The bidding was correct enough. South felt that after his partner declined to play the hand in three no trump, then it should play in a slam. As a mater of fact, three no trump could not. be made as the club suit would establish immediately and West's diamond ace was a sure entry. South won the opening lead with the ace, then led a trump, which was won by West, who exited with another: club and later South, when the spade finesse failed, made the Iament recorded in the opening paragraph. South should have taken advantage. of the fortunate opening lead to fulfill his contract.

A second cl should have been ruffed in dupnmy, then the king of

30

hearts cashed, and South’s third club ruffed. Now the ace and queen of hearts would ‘permit the

AK102 ¥i543

*A |»Qior2

Dealer AMAQIS YK d4KQJI74 A103 Duplicate—E. & W. vul. South West North Edst 1é Pass 19 Pass 16 Pass 36 Pass 2N.T. Pass 56 Pass ce Double Pass Pass

Opening lead—de Q.

30 |

of two of South’s spades. Dummy’s 1 heart would be ruffed with the seven or higher trump. West now would be thrown in with his diamond ace, and could make no return that would not permit South to fulfill his contract. If West had chosen a more fortunate opening lead, for instance the ace of diamonds, it would have prevented the throw in play outlined above.

Swimmers’ Frolic Awards Due Today

Club championships in the 3 to 16 age group are to be awarded today | in the swimme#s’ frolic at the Highland Golf and Country Club. + Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Medlicott are chairmen of the swimming committee. Assisting are Dr. and Mrs. William C. Hall, Miss Joan Fos W. H. Trimble and John Woolng.

3

Louise Consoer and Robert King Wed

Mr. and ‘Mrs. John Consoer announce the marriage of their daugh-

ter, Louise, to Robert King, son of |

Mrs. Jessie King. : . The marriage took place Friday evening in the North Methodist Church chapel. The Rev. Gi. A. McPheeters officiated. Mr. d Mrs.

‘, with great care.

Above, a floral motif and narrow borders of black sequins on a slim black crepe dress ‘for “don’t dress’ occasions. Leit, from top to bottom, an open crowned evening turban of red Gold sequin top with jeweled clip on a long black dinner dress with a slit skirt. Evening bag-diagonally striped in gold sequins;

sequins.

necklace and bracelet of square cut

a dinner jacket embroidered in green sequin scrolls and solid sequin lapels. : >

Gold and Green Sequins Tlluminate Mi

crystals and gold spangles. Finally,

| Now Is Time to Can Chicken; These Suggestions Will Help

By MRS. GAYNOR MADDOX

When the wintry winds rattle the pantry shelf, a plump September chicken should be ready to fly down into the pot. can those middle of September chickens. Select plump ones and use. 2Mature birds produce better meats. In dressing the chickens for canning, be careful not to break the

year-old hens for best results.

gall bladder in removing. Also remove lungs, kidneys and eggs Then cut the chicken into regular serving pieces.

| Separate the meaty pieces such as

breasts, thighs, legs and upper-wing joints from the bony pieces such as backs, wing, necks. Do not can livers, giblets, hearts and gizzards along with 'the chicken. They spoil the flavor. . Use the bony pieces for broth. Cover with lightly salted water

| and simmer until meat is tender.

Drain off broth and use for canning liquid. The meat from bony pieces should be stripped off and ‘used for canned sandwich spreads.

Precook Meat Before Packing

Precook! the meaty pieces in the oven for about 20 or 30 minutes. Use moderate temperature, about 350 degrees F. Then place at once in glass jars, fill with chicken stock. A few bony pieces might well be included in each jar, gs the bone %eems to improve flavor of finished product. Then process in the following way: Add salt to packed jars—: teaspoon for a pint, % teaspoon for a No. 2 can, 1 teaspoon for a quart jar or No. 3 can. When using tin cans, place salt in before meat to prevent salt causing lids to rust. Place jars or cans in guaranteed steam pressure canner. Follow this U. 8S. Government timetable: If you can chicken with bone, allow 55 minutes under 15 pounds pressure for No. 2 can, 65 minutes for, 14 can, 70 minutes for No. 3 can, utes for pint glass jar, 75 minutes for quart glass jar. If you can pieces of meaty chicken without bone, allow 85 minutes under 15 pounds pressure for No. 2 can, 110 minutes for No. 2% can, 120 minutes for No. 3 can, 85 minutes for pint glass jar, 120 minutes for quart glass jar.

Propylaeum Club to Hold Bridge Party

Members of the Propylaeum Club are to hold their monthly contract bridge party at the club at 10 a. m. Wednesday. : Mr8. Fred A. Sims is the general chairman, assisted by Mesdames James. H. Taylor, J. M. Williams

King are to be at home at . Iinois Sb. 3244 2

Now is the time to

‘Look Casual’ Is Fashion Slogan For Fall Season

being broadcast to women who are preoccupied with the question of what to wear for early fall.

Although both tailored tweeds and softly feminine garments will continue to be style-right for particular occasions, it’s the casual costume that is slated for high-style accep~ tance: : -— “ Suits are always an early-fall favorite but they were never better calculated to make women want to cast aside their summer clothes. Already the shops are to display scores of ‘casually cut models ranging from classic two-piece tweeds to sumptuous four-piece ensembles complete with blouse and topcoat or fur cape. Handbags, gloves, and shoes carry out the casual feeling. Cocktail and evening bags are subtly ornamented while the severity of many daytime bags is modified by saddle stitching eyelet lacing, and other trimming details inspired by the season’s smart: shoes.

Low Heels in Vogue

In footwear the casual note is ‘especially significant with goodlooking low-heeled footwear bridging the gap between strictly sports types and spike-heeled dress-up styles. Many heels on the new fall models are the nick-proof built-up kind. With their springy walkin surface and sleek, trim look the provide all the qualities . anyone could ask for in daytime shoes. Black still leads the color calendar in garments and shoes for all hours of the day, but delightful new spice tones such as ginger, cinnamon, and clove add zest to the style panorama. Claret red is due for an early

scheduled as a close runner-up. One of the latest fashion developments is the straight silhouette. Although spreading hemlines are by

“Look casual” is the latest slogan |.

fall flare-up with medium green |.

Child Errs

But Learns,

Writer Says

“Self Expression” Is Renounced as Creed By Columnist.

— ns mnt,

By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON

What does too much attention do to children? Plenty, if I am asked. If adults were given half as much attention as most children get, they would be bothered to death. Naturally, little folk in their tender years, need a great deal of

child needs some freedom. As for “self expression,” the term that almost wrecked the righteous, and ruined more youngsters than it helped, I renounce it as a creed. For any child to do what he wants any and all the time is fatal to discipline and gets nowhere. But he also needs to: feel that he can act without constant supervision, and a preconceived idea on his parent’s part, of what he should always be doing. For some children this relief is so needed that they stay away from home. It also accounts for much of the misbehavior that takes place the instant they are out of ear shot. i Nagging | Harmful

Children are people and react like people. If we : really are interested in the viewpoint of 2 child, all we have to do is to examine ourselves. Nothing irritates us, or so discourages us, as to have some one person perpetually dictating our movements. The feeling of freedom to a certain degree is every man’s right. The pursuit of happiness, that is it. : i “Wear your red socks,” says Johnny’s mother when he goes up to get dressed. Well, he intended to wear them anyway, but now he suddenly changes his mind and

hateful. And when he protests, which is natural enough, he is called contrary and defiant. Being anticipated in every move galls him sometimes to madness, yet he has no escape. Learn By Experience It is natural for mothers to repeat what a child already knows, certain warnings about danger and reminders of manners. “Precept upon precept and word with word” leaves a daily impression, and the child does profit by reminder, but when the glib phrase leaves the tongue too frequently and becomes a bromide to the hearer, then almost any child is justified in rebellion. : Let children make their mistakes. Let them learn some things by experience. Let them forge ahead on their own power without our walking the track ahead to flag the way. Over protection, like over oppression, can either break spirit or bottle it up for future explosion. The mysterious vapor of wanting to do things occasionally in one's own ‘way, must either be allowed to escape through a safety valve now and then, or get tighter and thicker, so that ome day there is a real blow off. This is better avoided.

Today’s Pattern

—

N

\

\ESERVING, indeed, is the popularity of the new princess house coats, so simple to make, so

pearance. The new flared fullness is simply irresistible. \ Send today for Pattern 8917, designed for sizes 14, 16, 18, 20, 32, 34, 36, 38 and 40. Size 16 requires six yards of 39-inch material. To obtain pattern and Step-by-Step Sewing Instructions inclose 13 cents in coin, together with the above pet number and your size, your name and address, and mail

signs now is ready. It’s 15 cents when purchased separately. Of, if you want to order it with the patSep above, send an additional 10 cen . : . . i

MERIT Shoes for the Family

118 E.

St. 832-334 W, he ash.

no means passe, there's new interest dramatically

in garments that are

t Ba ent Meregarts Bank Mee, and Wash.

looking after, but beyond this, every :

decides for some reason they are]

were no elephants.

easy to wear, and so smooth in ap-

to Pattern Editor, The Indianapolis Thnes, 214 W. Maryland St., Indian lapolie =; i} The fall selection of late dress de-

The engagement of Miss Dolores Knarzer to Vincent Roller is announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Charles Knarzer. The wedding is to take place Sept. 25 in the St. Anthony's Catholic Church.

Sea Food Aspic Most Favored In Hotel Salons

By GAIL GARNER Times Special Writer The weather certainly has a lot to do with our appetites, and, although we get almost as hungry on warm days as on cool days, we can't enjoy a heavy meal as well in-the summer. Frederic Guillot, who has been head chef at the Hotel Astor for fifteen years, advises housewives to specialize their summer menus along light, filling lines, with special emphasis on sea food, vegetables, salads and fowl. His most popular summer dish at the Astor is “aspic of sea food.” Put into a saucepan one quart of water, one pint of wine, two tablespoons vinegar, a bay leaf, a little thyme, a few peppercorns, two ounces of chopped onion and a dash of salt. While this ‘is boiling plunge in one raw lobster and two pounds of shrimps, all thoroughly washed. Boil twenty minutes and cool, ' Strain the fish stock and make the jelly aspic this way: Into one quart of strained fish stock stir two tablespoons of granulated gelatin that has been dissolved in a little cold water, the juice of a lemon and the white of an egg, stirring the white in very slowly and stirring constantly until the liquid boils; then lower the heat for 30 minutes. Strain through a fine strainer that has been lined with a double thick=ness of cheesecloth. Line. up 10 individual molds. Have the shrimps peeled, the lobster cut in 20 pieces, a peeled and parboiled cucumber cut in 10 pieces, also a tablespoon of chopped green pepper and two ounces of chopped celery. Place the molds in chopped jce. Into each pour a tablespoon of the liquid aspic jelly. Arrange four or five pieces of shrimp around the mold, put in some crab flakes, two pieces of lobster, some celery, chopped green pepper and one slice of cucumber. Add enough melted jelly to cover all the ingredients. Chill in refrigerator for six hours. When about to serve, dip the mold for a moment in a saucepan filled with hot water. Wipe it and turn out ihe aspic. Garnish with heart leaves of lettuce. With it serve a sauce made of wo-thirds mayonnaise and one-third catsup with chopped chives, tarragon leaves and season= ing.

Mo?

Teach Girls

5

To Rouge in’ Expert Way,

Smart Mothers, Says Miss Hart, Help Daughters Choose Cosmetics.

By ALICIA HART There’s not much percentage in sending daughter off to high school,’ junior college or boarding school, without makeup in her trunk or a practical knowledge of cosmetics and correct application of them. No matter how you feel about rouge, powder and lipstick on the faces of - very young girls, the chances are 10 to one that your child will use them anyway—or be utterly miserable if she doesn’t.

Therefore, you're a smart mamma

indeed if you help your daughter

choose appropriate, flattering cosmetics, then teach her to or have an expert teach her to get them on perfectly. Emphasize. the importance of nightly hair brushing, perfectly manicured nails, adequate sleep and exercise, a sensible diet and absolute cleanliness.

Match Powder

Talk to little daughter about pos= ture, keeping her clothes neat, clean and pressed, wearing fresh stockings each morning, taking a daily bath, scrubbing her elbows with a brush and using cream on her.face after skiing, skating or inter hiking party. Hee . In other’ words, help the child to realize that health is the founda=tion of true beauty and how ime portant good taste is. Set a shining example by being neat and tidy yourself and by standing, sitting, walking correctly. If her skin is sallow (adolescent skins are inclined to be), ask the family doctor about a proper diet,

If she wants to use rouge, help .

her select a cream variety which matches her natural blood tones and insist that she apply it sparingly and blend it artistically. Her powder ought to be of finest quality and match exactly or be one shade lighter than skin tones. Lipstick is most attractive when smoothed on dry lips, then blotted with cleansing tissue. The blotting sets the color and eliminates a caked, messy look. Mascara and eyeshadow are not in order. These and other types of eye makeup are not, for young girls.

Window Shades for Winter Suggested

Why not change your window shades when you ‘change your draperies? Or, better yet, have two sets of shades for your windows? Your summer shades softened the glare of the sun—winter shades should bring a warm glow indoors, Decorators are emphasizing this fall all tints of coral from pale pink to deep rose. : One manufacturer is featuring new window shades of a warm, rosy color which blends nicely with tones of blue, green, ecru and gold as well as the popular coral hues. The material is closely woven, unfilled, and may be washed with a damp cloth or a sponge, lukewarm water and a mild soap. Rain, snow or steam from bathroom and kitchen do not affect them and they do not develop those mad-

-~ 3

dening pinholes that make the

cheap shade look shoddy.

Information Desk at State F air Is In Need of Occult Powers “|

By KATHERINE CARTER A woman with an infant approached the

formation desk.

State Fairgrounds ine

“May I park baby here with you? I'd like to see around a little.”

The child howled. The man at Members of the

the desk was forced to refuse.

Junior Chamber of Commerce who presided over

the information desk yesterday said that they “were ageing fast” in an sttempt to answer the questions and meetp the demands of the public,

«please, mister, could we have a season ticket if we watered the elephants?” four small boys pleaded. They would not believe that there

«Ts it closer to walk to 42d St. or to ride a street car?” a local man panted as he dashed up to the desk. “Where can I find my husband?” demanded an Indianapolis .woman who evidently felt that the information desk possessed occult powers. A Lafayette man was in to inquire about his 12-year-old daughter.

“When we left the car, she shot | "| down the Midway like a streak of

lightning,” - he explained. Names of persons who had strayed from their party were referred to the local broadcasting system. The announcer, who could be heard for a great distance, at intervals, called ‘ah named a meeting place. A kalaideoscopic view of the Midway yesterday revealed a mixture of fall and summer clothing. Woolen suits walked side by side with voile dresses. Two girls in slacks walked about with a violent purple and red blanket around their shoulders. Ore of the smartest costumes seen was a simple daytime frock and loose two-third coat of wool jersey in gray mixture with gray Persian. lamb trimming, worn with blac - cessories. The wearer gained a striking color accent with the hot dog smothered in mustard she held in her hand. . “The Wearing of the Green” would have been an appropriate band number as the 4-H girls went on their afternoon parade. More

i i

than 150 young women In the green club uniforms added a note of color to the Midway. These daily tours, conducted by a 4-H staff assistant, include a 20-minute visit to each of the buildings. One Indianapolis 4-H member, Miss Margaret. Young, captured a red ribbon with her Room Improve= ment study unit depicting a corner of a girl’s bedroom. : The frame of the Girl Scout laws over the desk matches the walnut furniture. The blue lining of the walnut colored wastebasket is ac= cented by the blue desk blotter. Such is a panoramic view of the Indiana State Fair as seen by thousands of people from every corner of the state. The skies were cloudy, but they apparently did not notice. The odor of taffy, popcorn, catsup and peanuts permeated the air. One criticism marred the atmosphere of Hoosier good fellowship. A woman stood several minutes before the huge crimson replica of a tomato in the Purdue building before she spoke judiciously to -her companion: “If only they'd stick to reality,” she signed. “That apple’s far too

ROGRESS

Rinses, also, - in soft water.

- LAUNDRY |

Permanent For Only—

Welcome Visitors to State Fair! Visit Our . Modern Air-Cooled Shop for Comfort—

Special This Week—We Offer an Qil Croquignole

169 ‘Shampoo

Finger Wave

Includes

Tuesday and ‘Wednesday Shampoo.»Rinse and C Finger Wave, all for....

~ Open Every Thurs. and Sat. Night Until 9 o’Clock

SEARS, ROEBUCK and CO.

»

for

oll