Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 20 August 1937 — Page 18

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Other Side Of Parental

Tiff Heard

Distance Between Two Families Still Cure, Jane Holds.

Note—The letter today refers to one signed “Disheartened” who claims that her husband always sides with his family instead of her. I advised her to influence her husband to move far away.

DEAR JANE JORDAN — Why is it that when people write to vou they seldom tell the truth? I am a friend of the husband of “Disheartened,” and I've known his family for years. When my friend married “Disheartened” he was very much in love with her, far more in love with her than she was with him. She married him for a home because she could net hold a job anywhere for more than a week or two. She does not tell you that she is bossy, overbearing, and says cruel, cutting things in public. She doesn’t treat his friends or his family as if they were human. He | owes his family a and they | have done more for him than they could afford. Tt is rather funny for vou to advise “Disheartened” to get her husband interested in Florida or California to get awav from his

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troublesome family. Gosh, his family would move in a hurry to get away from her if they could find a house, I don't say my friend is perfect. He does sulk since he married but if I were in his shoes I'd probably

5 » ANSWER-I realize perfectly well |

that I hear only one side of the |

story and that a much more intelli-

gent answer could be given if the |

other side was known. It is human

nature for “Disheartened” to pre- |

sent only her view, as blind to her in-laws’ side as they are to hers. | Nevertheless, in this instance, if I had heard the whole story first, the

answer would have been the same: | These two families should separate |

for both their sakes. Occasionally

wife. This is a very happy Situa- | tion which brings out the best in a | woman. Disapproval is a more common occurence. It starts with little unspoken criticisms which eventually grow bigger and more vocal. Where the families live close together and the wife can be observed day by day, her mistakes are more easily noted. Of course a man’s family knows him better than his new wife, who is bound to blunder, but they do not regard her mistakes with tolerance. This attitude brings out the worst in a wife and inspires more of the conduct which caused the trouble. Do not think that I do not understand the family’s suffering. When the newly married couple are in difficulties parents fly to the rescue, often making severe personal sacrifices to help. Instead of appreciating financial aid and sage advice, the wife feels inferior and defends her position. The family is hurt and criticism increases. And so the vicious circle continues. Encourage your friend's family to move away as far as possible and to shed their feeling of responsibility for his welfare. Let him stand on his own two feet and give his wife a chance. Perhaps when the rivalry of his family is removed she will have a better disposition. Who knows? And don’t you take sides, either. JANE JORDAN.

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Mrs. Clyde P. Miller and her |

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Miss Thompson is to be married | Aug. 29 to Thomas Horrall Williams in the North Methodist Church. Guests included Mesdames Irwin L. Thompson, O. K. Mannon, William F. Hendren, Daniel C. Talbott, Clarence Alexander, Ernest Thompson and Misses Ellen Robinson, Vivian Cutshaw, Marian Jones, Sammy Hines, LaDora Smith, Dorothy Dauner, Eleanor Hess, Helen Bradley, Betty Howard, Margaret Jones, Virginia Craig and Dorothy Krish.

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FRIDAY, AUG. 20, 1937 ,

Obedience Is! Not Always Easy Course

Parents Need to Know Natural Instincts Of Child.

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By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON

What exactly is the basis for obedience? Why do some children learn it as easily as they breathe, almost, while others seem to regard it as something entirely apart from all their behavior? There are many answers, one of which is the difference in the children themselves. But there is more, First of all, parents are apt to think of children as belongings, which they are, of course, in a sense. But they are the only possessions we have who can think as well as we can; in some cases better. Each child is a force, but not something to be turned off at our bidding like an electirc current. He is a persistent force, too. Nature has given him some self control and will give him more as he gets older, but nature has not an-| ticipated houses with fine furniture, [clothes to be spoiled, manners |

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Mrs. Herman L. Ridenour and | Mrs, Carl Wickliss are to entertain | this evening at the Ridenour home | for Miss Miriam Ridenour, | Miss Ridenour

| Centenary Christian Church. Guests are | E. J. Keithley, Oscar Brown, R. O. [ Jefferson, Ray Keithley, Carl Keithley, Philip Jones, C. B. Ridenour, Maxwell Hamilton, Elmer Wright and Misses Martin,

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Parents will always have to recognize the fact that in child nature | % they are dealing with elements as HE natural as fire and water. You must handle fire according to the laws of | | fire, water according to its own rules | of flow. And we must deal with children likewise, not according to our rules, but in a way their makeup will accept and absorb. Let us go on a little, Take animals. We cannot give a cat ‘he as a dog, or expect a horse to vegetate as com= pletely as a contented cow. 80 here is another reason why the child is something else than a mechanical robot. He has the instincts of species. He may conform nicely to re- | SY striction, but if not, he is merely | Grea d being a closer child of nature, that ; is all, There is little refinement in | nature herself. Her dictates are im- | mediate and normally violent.

Getting Them on Your Side I believe that many parents would | Three cups milk, 1 cup cooked be more successful in getting obedi- | cucumbers, 12 slices onion, 1 tealence if they would take some of Spoon chopped parsiey, 2 tables these facts into consideration. To |Spoons butter, 2 tablespoons flour, | have the boy feel that you under=- salt, pepper, pinch nutmeg.

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Mr. and Mrs. Albert Thomas are cochairmen of the outing to be held Sunday by the Young Married People's Class of the First Baptist Church at Driftwood Camp near Edinburg. Dr. J. B. Carr is to be guest | speaker at the Sunday School ses= | sion in the morning. A picnic dinner at noon is to be followed by an afternoon of games.

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