Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 19 August 1937 — Page 18
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Wife Seeks
Advice on Flirtation
Married People Must Be Above School Level. Jane Warns.
Put your problems in a letter ton Jane Jordan, who will answer your questions in this column each day.
EAR JANE JORDAN-I am the mother of two sweet girls aged 2 and 8. 1 am 25 and my husband is 28. I am as deeply in love with him as ever, if not more so. We are a poor class of people but not a low class. I think my husband still loves me for he is not the type who would stick otherwise. But here is my trouble. When we go places for a good time hz wants another woman and is willing for me to go with another man. The four of us make a party and you would think it was a sweetheart party from the way Kisses are passed
By ALICE HART NEA Service Staff Writer Rex short coiffures, cut so you can rearrange the wide flat, waves with your own two hands and snap the curls back into place quickly after a swim or a game of tennis, are ideal this time of year. If she begins with a proper haircut and a permanent wave which makes ringlet ends stay in ringlets, any girl can look sleek and neat at any time throughout a week-end on the beach or in the country. The trick lies, of course, in getting the hairdresser who designs your utilitarian, vacation coiffure to give you a short lesson in caring for it yourself between visits to his salon. | Knowing how to brush up and back instead of down and forward and how to hold one wave between two fingers while you push the next one in place with a comb are half the battle. Ringlets require a bit of coaxing (and an unlimited supply of hairpins), but they are less difficult to fix than your probably imagine. When you get out of the water, with waves flat here and crooked there, and curls hanging in strings, dry your hair slightly, then get out a bottle of good hair tonic and a couple of cotton pads. Part hair in tiny sections and cover every inch of your scalp with tonic. Massage it in with fingertips. Then brush vigorously for a few minutes. Now mix equal parts of waveset lotion and warm water and
around. I put on a front and pretend to have a good time but | when T am at home alons my heart | all but breaks. It am nnt a bad | sport and could stand a ‘hing like | this once in a while, but it hap- | pens as often as twice in one week. | It would take more than I could | mail for 10 cents to tell vou enough so that you could decide what is! causing this action. I keep my- | self neat and I am not ugly. 1! make myself jolly even when I] am dead on my feet. If I shouid | refuse any such arrangement I would be left at home alone. Won't you please tell me some action to snap him oui of it? JEWELLIA.
ANSWER—I do nol believe it the flirtations in themselves which alarm you so much as the fear of what they may lead to. Of course vou’re right about it. It is at least! undignified for married people to paw other people as if they were high school kids out on a lark. Nobody was born monogamous. In | the last analysis monogamy repre- | sents a personal sacrifice for nearly | everyone. would not enjoy a change of partners now and then, even yourself, if you are honest enough to admit it. | Light flirtations which do not | proceed as far as Kissing are often a | safeguard rather than a threat to monogamy for they gratify in part the desire for variety. Heavy flirtations which include a lot of pawing are but a thinly veiléd | desire for other conquests and vou are right to regard them as dynaHowever, you can’t raise 00 much row about it without making them seem more desirable than ever, thereby encouraging your husband to pursue his outside lovemaking in secret. Your first task is to keep him emotionally satisfied at home by being as responsive as possible. Your second, to talk to him reasonably about your objections without rousing his antagonism. If he still loves you, your wishes will carry great weight with him. Keep your poise and don’t turn into a jealous, nagging wife. If won't do you one bit of good to brood and worry and lose weight. If you felt equal to the situation you wouldn't do this but you're afraid vou can't hold your own. I don’t know what I can do to raise your self-esteem in one letter. Try not to take it all so seriously. Doubtless vou already know some of the answers when vou say that it would fake 10 cents to mail the whole story.
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Dear Jane Jordan—I am 17 years old. I went with a boy 19 for four months. Because I was not demonstrative enough he thought I didn’t love him. I thought just going with him was proof enough that I loved him. Maybe I should have petted him more, but why does a girl have to pet so much to prove to a boy she loves him? I don’t care for any
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moisten your hair with the liquid. Do Waves First
Do the waves first, placing the comb where vou want the first one to be, then pulling it toward the back of your head. Hold this upper half of a wave in place while you remove the comb and insert it quite far below. The waves done, then come the curls, To make nice soft ringlets, e the ends into tiny strands, wrap each around a finger, turn the curl over and pin it flat against your head. Put on a hair
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Suited especially to crownless hats is the coiffure with a triple row of curls all the way around and no waves at all. It's easy to keep neat on the beach.
net. When all curls are dry, brush
Short Coiffures Are Ideal
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Charmingly youthful and easy
| a romp on the beach is this variation of the Page Boy coiffure. ! | front of the hair is swept smoothly back from the brow, then finish- |
ed with a halo roll. turned under.
junder at the back, giving a trim,
them into soft, thick curls. If a short haircut, however curled or waved, makes your face or neck too long, or is otherwise unsuitable,
consider variations of the Page Boy coiffure. This is longer and curls
Gloves and Bag Match m Novel | Paris Costumes
By DOROTHY CAREW United Press Staff Correspondent PARIS, Aug. 19.—Gloves have taken a decorative turn and instead of being a last-minute item to top off a costume, they may be | the inspiration of an entire en- | semble. The individual print glove and bag combinations of matching material and design are the most novel of elaborate designs and are a simple and very effective means of setting off a dark afternoon frock to | advantage, Heavily - embroidered turnedback cuffs repeat the motif of designs on black bags embroidered in rich colors. Circlets of dainty embroidered flowers sprinkle the backs of attractive doeskin gauntlets. Colorful sprays of blossoms run from the knuckles to the top of the cuffs for afternoon wear and brightcolored gloves are being worn to highlight individual tones of print dresses. Gold Kid Used
Gold kid gloves, bag and belt are interesting accessories for smart evening wear, and equally effective is a glove and belt combination aecenting the gold kid trim of a for-
other boys. What would you ad-| vise? PERPLEXED SALLY. { ANSWER—I would advise finding another boy friend. Bear in mind | that most men like demonstrative | women. Of course it can be over-| done, particularly in public, but in private a man likes to be told that he excels all others. make him think so, others will. Reserve is a fine quality, but each man likes to feel that he alone is able to break through it—at times. JANE JORDAN.
Cold-Storage Eggs May Be Best Buy
Do you know your eggs? There are two broad designations: Fresh eggs and refrigerator eggs. But the
term “fresh” merely indicates eggs |
never placed in cold storage. Fresh eggs may be “held-fresh,” which have been some time coming to the market, or “fresh-gathered”’ eggs, which go on sale without being held. Cold-storage eggs are
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new gloves which achieve distinction through the materials chosen. Lizards and serpents with kid palms also are decidedly new in red or black, and dull greens, deep reds, | natural pigskin and rich browns are | favored colors for sports. Tailored blacks, browns and navy | blues for practical everyday wear | follow the trend conservatively, with novelty stitching to vary the tra- ! ditional effect.
‘Sports Clothing Defies Weather
The waterproofing of lightweight fabrics, such as silk, has reached la stage of perfection where it is
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smooth line across the crown of a well-shaped head. Sides can be fixed in neat little ringlets or softly waved
about forehead and ears. One unusually smart variation, created by a woman expert in a re-
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Remove the ornament and the smart evening coiffure (below) becomes a practical daytime hairstyle (above). Notice how the curls start low on the neck, follow the naturl hair line upward and end in a coronet effect above the forehead.
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|iable Fifth Ave. salon, has =a halo roll across the front and soft waves down the back. Ends are turned under. This is especially | youthful, perfect for one with a long, thin neck and conclusive proof that women still have an important place in the beauty shop picture.
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American Bridge League Secretary SUALLY a player likes to have at least eight of the 13 trumps in the combined hands. With that ‘many cards he has some insurance
not crumble up. However, Geoffrey Mott-Smith of New York, one of the tournament directors of the American Bridge League, recently demonstrated that one could get along quite well with a bare majority of the trumps, if full use was made of every element of favorable distribution, and the play of each card was properly timed. Mott-Smith, sitting North, was playing in a duplicate game at the Cavendish Club, New York, which attracts one of the strongest fields in the entire United States. The bidding was very good. MottSmith showed his spade suit, because, despite his two ace-king combinations, he was not sure, with la partner who had passed originally, who would play the hand, and if he became a defender he wanted a suit led in which he held tops. His partner's rise to four, after he had bid two suits, was sound. East’s opening lead of the heart three gave the declarer an immediate problem, which he solved by playing the five from dummy, and ruffing the trick, reducing his holding to three trumps. The ace of
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hearts had a more important function to perform. North next led a low diamond, and when East played low, went up with the king in dummy, which held the trick. Now a club finessee was taken, the jack winning. The ace of clubs was cashed, then the ace and king of spades, The declarer’s next play was the king of clubs. Hast refused to ruff, discarding a heart, so the declarer followed with a low diamond. East and West were helpless. If
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Window Shades Easily Cleaned
The season of open windows is always hard on window shades but that’s no great tragedy if you've learned how easy it is to keep them clean. Some of the new window shades are treated with pyroxylin and similar substances to make them easily washable with a soapy cloth or sponge, and even ordinary run-of-the-mill window shades can be rid of disfiguring soil spots if you wash them the right way. _ Prepare a thick soap jelly by pouring a little boiling water over mild soap scraps or packaged soap; then let the mixture stand overnight in the refrigerator so that it forms a solid mass with practically all of the water evaporated. Have ready a good supply of clean, soft cloths. You'll need them for washing and drying. Place the shade on a flat work table, wipe off the dust, and you're set to begin. The trick is to work on only a small portion at a time. Apply the soap jelly to about six square inches, then rinse with a cloth wrung out of clear water and wipe immediately with a dry cloth. Follow this procedure until you have covered the entire surface.
Suggests Method
Before putting away your glazed chintz covers and curtains for the winter, be sure that they are well cleaned. Soil that is allowed to set in a material is harder to remove. It is safer, of course, to have them cleaned by a reliable dry cleaner, However, if you prefer to do the job at home, simply spread on a flat, firm surface and wipe gently with a warm, soapy cloth. Sponge rapidly with warm, clear water and dry with a clean cloth, Never use very hot water or a strong alkaline soap and do not submerge glazed chintz in water. 1t will destroy the bright, shiny
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Good Speech Is Necessity To Children
Strangers Judge Us By Grammar and . . | Diction. |
By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON When our children grow up, we want them to be able to hold their own with the best, and to take their place in any social stratum, comfortably and easily. This is not being snobbish, but | merely honest, because the world
always has heen and always will be discriminating. There is that subtle something about a person that tickets him instantly regardless of money, or “background.” Good manners are part of it, and personality, but the stranger will identify the gentleman first of all by his speech, the lady by hers. That time is past or slang and pert expressions, which developed into a perfect orgy for some years after the World War. Besides, during the heyday of Capone and his kind, a modified gangster lingo <col- | ored our tongue. { Slang Became Gibberish Added to our already mixed Amer- | icanese, it was not helpful, and five years ago, te hear a crowd of young people rolling off their pet expressions was too much for the layman to understand at all. There is still slang, which is even | included in the dictionary. The very | best authorities admit that it adds | salt to expression and there are] times when no other word will fit. | Certain slang terms are therefore | permissible, but once slang inter- | feres with good English, it ceases to be useful. Too many people resort to ready-made expressions rather than sort out their thoughts and put them into concise words. But slovenly speech does not de- | pend upon slang to give it its name. There is, for instance, the small |
item of grammar.
Mother Can Help Schools do what they can, A mother can teach a child to speak correctly even though she never saw a grammar. | She can show him enough basic rules about tenses and relative pro- | nouns in a few weeks to make him | a fundamentally correct talker. Children often balk at the technical | side of grammar and make a mental hazard of it. The other way, then, | is to teach by ear, so to speak, and make things so simple that Johnny will grasp the idea. Let him study this sentence: “The waves swept him and her out of the | boat.” It sounds crude but it is cor- | rect. Cover one pronoun with a fin- | ger and Johnny will see the reason
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at once, Or “Everyone ate his lunch,” not “their lunch,” as “every - one” is singular. So is “everybody.” Another shortcoming of children is the tendency to drop he. The word is “coming,” not “comin’. Use Dictionary Pronunciation is important. The dictionary habit is excellent for the | whole family. What is the right way to pronounce “cemetery”? Or “tomato”? Look both of them up, as well as all other words you are not | sure of. Decide while you are at it | about “either” and “neither.” : More than ever today, in this ra-dio-movie-speechmaking era, is it necessary for young people to learn diction and grammar. Even stores today train their employees to speak correctly in modulated voices. We,
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at home, can give the children their start. What an asset it will be for | them later, in every way.
‘Sunshine Club Arranging for Hospital Picnic
Children of Sunnyside Hospital| are to be guests at the annual pic- | nic to be given at 3 p. m. Satur-|
day by the Children’s Sunshine |
Club. Saturday marks the close of the
craft work and vocational school which has been directed by Jack Jones. The year’s work is to be displayed and awards are to be given for the best handiwork. Mrs, R. C. Griswold, club president, and Miss Helen Ripberger, cntertainment committee chairman are in charge of the program. They are to be assisted by Mesdames Alva Cradick, August Soutter, W. J. Overnmire, George Newton, David Jolly, T. G. Evard, Roscoe Butner, Curtis Burke, Lynn Adams, W. R. Beck, Clifford Richter, E. J. Ripperberger, Charles L. Bogert, Miss Margaret Murray and Miss Alice Murray. The Sunshine Club entertained with a benefit luncheon bridge in Ayres’ tearoom yesterday. Proceeds are to be used for welfare work among patients, Mrs, Cradick, chairman, was assisted by Mesdames Ure M. Frazer, Clifford Richter, Roscoe Butner, Frederic W. Wager, B. M. Howell and Bogert.
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By MRS. GAYNOR MADDOX NEA Service Staff Writer
They are shiny, luscious, brilliant in a dark and flashing way why blackberries are such good friends to the young bride who wants to | prove herself an ambitious cook. These recipes, selected hecause they | are no strain on the June bride’s August cooking, should be
growing day-by-day “How to Keep Your Husband” cook book. Blackberry Toast (4 to 6 servings) Grand for that surprise dinner when he brings home some of his
| college firends without warning.
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JOMETHING with a sash is every growing girl’s idea of a really smart school frock, and this design, pattern 8900, meets her ideas in
other ways, too. The short puffed sleeves, the cunning Peter Pan collar, the panel back and front—all these are details that school girls adore. A fabric whose popularity goes on undimmed is challis—try this dress in this lovely fabric for fresh charm. Later have it in a pretty plaid for school and in taffeta for dancing school and parties. A contrasting ribbon sash adds to its festive air. Pattern 8900 is designed for sizes 6, 8, 10, 12 and 14 years. Size 8 requires 17% yards of 39-inch material, Plus 1; yard of contrasting. To obtain and pattern and Step-by-Step Sewing Instructions inclose 15 cents in coin together with the above pattern number and your size, your name and address and mail to Pattern Editor, The Indianapolis Times, 214 W. Maryland St., Indianapolis. The fall selection of late dress designs now is ready. It's 15 cents when purchased separately. Or, if you want to order it with the pattern above, send an additional 10 cents.
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Slowiy bring to boiling point. Slowly— that's important, Pour over hot strips of buttered toast and fleck with cold whipped cream. Blackberry Bavarian Cream (4 to 6 servings) | One cup freshly pressed black- | berry juice, 1 tablespoon clear gela- | tin, 2 egg yolks, % cup sugar, % | teaspoon salt, 12 cup cream, 1 tea- | spoon grenadine syrup. | Press fat berries through a sieve
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Heat gently and add gelatin. egg yolks slightly, not verv much. Add sugar and continue to beat. | Add salt. Te this egg mixture, add | the dark purple blackberry mixture, | stirring without repose. Return to | top of double boiler and cook over | hot water until it coats the spoon | Keep stirring right to the end. | Beat egg whites very stiff. Then | strain this mixture over egg whites. | When mixture begins to thicken, (fold in ; cup cream, well beaten. | Add grenadine, stir and turn into mold. Chill in refrigerator, but do | not freeze. Remove from mold and | garnish with shining blackberries
Aid in Fight On Asthma
Affliction Often Begins As Cold; Food Can Cause Reaction,
By DR. MORRIS FISHBEIN Editor, American Medical Journal By making a careful study of the physical condition of the patient, the doctor may be able to modify some factor in his physical condi« tion which will raise the threshold of sensitivity to the irritating sube stance,
For example, if the patient has a low basal metabolism and a lessened action of the thyroid, modification of this factor sometimes will change the character of the asthma. If the patient has difficulty in breathing, plus some disturbance in the nose, surgical attention to the nose may raise the threshold of sen sitivity. If the patient is run down and asthmatic, an improvement in {his general health and hygiene may lessen the number of attacks. Skin tests already described in re. lationship to the diagnosis of hay fever are made. If the patient {proves to be absolutely sensitive to | certain substances, and if these ares {eliminated from his environment or his diet, the asthma may improve immediately
May Begin With Cold In certain the asthma [seems to begin with a cold. People (thus affected should avoid exposure [and changes in climate which seem
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0 be factors in the onset of the fcold. The commercial foods that | cause reactions are wheat, egg volk, | beans, potato and pork. Diets have been developed by which it is possible to determine whether the patient is sensitive to | certain foods through trial of these foods on the patient. In other | words, the patient begins with one {or two simple foods and gradually | eats one item at a time until he is able to determine which item it is that makes him feel worse or which induces an acute attack Unfortunately, foods go in groups exactly as do the various pollens {of plants, and a patient who is sen- | sitive to one food substance may be | sensitive to all of the family of that food. It has been suggested that when a person is sensitive to any [food that he may become desensi- | tized by taking gradually increasing [amounts of that food.
Cooking Changes Action
Furthermore, boiling, heating or otherwise treating foods sometimes changes their nature so that they will not thereafter produce an ate tack of hypersensitivity. During an acute attack of asthina it may be necessary to treat the patient with certain drugs. Since all of these drugs are potent remedies, they should not be taken except under the advice of a doctor and in the exact amounts which he decides are desirable, At the same time, sprays for the nose and throat, the inhalation of steam, and similar methods of treatment may be helpful.
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