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~~ FRIDAY, AUG. 13, 1087

Wife Needs Diplomacy, Jane States

Taking Some Blame Quarrel Is Held Smart Move.

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Jane Jordan will study your problems

and help you solve them by her answers to your letters in this column.

DEAR JANE JORDAN— We have been married | several years and my hus- | band always has ‘taken up for | his people instead of me, re- | gardless of how right I might | be or how wrong they might be, | They are the kind whe take all | and give nothing. Some of them | told lies about what I was supposed | to have said about the rest of | them and when I fried to bring | them face to face there wasn't any- | thing doing. When we are not friendly my husband isn’t «0 nice to me and will do more for them. No matter how they treat me, my hus- | band doesn't think [ should ever | get offended. He is co busy looking | out for their feelings that he never has time to consider mine. Lately | he has developed a hostile attitude | toward me and for months he has barely grunted when I said anything to him. Then he will be O. | K. for a time, then sulk again for | months. I have done a little sulk- | ing myself and he quickly notices | it! I love to be nice to him as| there are just the two of us and | life is short; but I am getting tired of some of the things he does and would rather be away from him | when he isn't nice to me. He doesn’t realize or doesn't care that he is killing what love I have for him. He has some good qualities. Otherwise I wouldn't be with him now. DISHEARTENED.,

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ANSWER--Since your husband | has so many good qualities I should | think your marriage would be worth saving. To go on alone after you | have been accustomed to sharing | vour life with somebody else isn't so | pleasant, either. Many a lonely di- | vorced woman can look back and see where she could have made certain concessions which would have saved the day if she hadn't been so set on | strict justice for herself in every disagreement. It is hard for a wife to realize the | strength of the infantile ties which bind a man to his family. Of course | the ideal solution is for you and your husband to move far away, out of reach of his troublesome family. Can’t you interest him in the California climate or Florida winters to | the point where he will strive to.| make business connections as far | away as possible? If this isn't fea- | sible, then you will have to make the | best of it here and you may as well face the fact that it won't be easy. | To wean a man from his family al woman has to be as shrewd as & | serpent and as deft as a d'plomat. | Never, never, never put yourself in a position where he can line up with them against you. A man’s family has a perfect genius for putting his wife in the wrong. Don’t let them | get you on the defensive. ever. If you can catch them imposing on him, | it will be smart of you to take his | part, to consider his comfort where | they do not, to sympathize with him | so lavishly that he gets to feeling a | little abused by his kin. It is far | wiser to admire his loyalty and de- | votion than to condemn him for it. The minute you put him in the wrong he'll feel obliged to justify himself. You respond with anger and he sulks like a child. A superior woman never is afraid | to assume some of the guilt in a quarrel, even though it doesn’t belong | to her. Only those who doubt their |

worth and skill guard their rights!

to the death and refuse to surrender | one bit of pride. You'll be amazed |

what this simple device will do in | a marriage and how many points |

you can drive home when you re- | lieve a man of his secret load of | guilt. Concession at the psychologi- | cal moment need not mean that you | are a martyr to & cause but only | that ‘you are an expert at getting vour own way without appearing to! do so. JANE JORDAN,

High Heels Approved, But Caution Advised

Trailer Wardrobe Has Three Dresses in One|

A trailer wardrobe is even more | compact and just as full of surprises as a trailer kitchenette, combining | three costumes in one. A silk crepe dress in three shades | of blue with a brief bolero and sep- | arate skirt of royal red suede make up one ensemble. Jacket and skirt | can be worn over the striped dress for semiformal occasions. The dress | can be worn separately or with jacket only for sports or street.

Men's Fancy Cotton Hose

Assorted Colors Sizes

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KINNEY SHOE STORE 138 East Washington Street

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For early fall, smart coats will slightly resemble dresses. Marsha Hunt, film player, has chosen this grav tweed coat with interesting, square, patched pockets and & chic, beltless line. A black felt beret

cut-out admirable

Government Gives Recipe For Canning of Sweet Corn

By MRS. GAYNOR MADDOX NEA Service Staff Writer This vear is to have a bumper corn crop. So make “hay” while the August sun shines and can as much corn as you will need during the white months. The advice reprinted here is from an invaluable guide prepared by the U. S. Department of Agriculture. Better direct to Washington, D. C., asking for a copy of Farmers’ Bulletin No. 1762 if you haven't one. = : te - Use only tender, freshly gathered Shuck, silk and clean

using glass containers, heat juice to Just

Popular Fall Coats Resemble Dresses

worn well back nn the head, black suede shoes with motif and black gloves and bag serve as accessories. terrier fits smartly with the color scheme.

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THE INDIANAPOLIS 1IMES Lost Chance Held Aid to

en a —————

What Might Have Been Serves as Bulwark To Self-Respact.

By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON

Doris’ eyes were stormy. “All those other girls made good in the movies, in spite of people telling them they couldn't get in,” she declared. “They had nerve, and so have I. I'm going [to study dramatic art this winter, mother, no matter what you =ay. | And then I'm going to Hollywood.” “Why do you want | actress?” asked her mother. “Just why, Doris? I really want to know.” “Why does anyone want to do things? Because and rich. Besides I like to act. I'm not interested in anything else, I'm [not good at humdrum stuff like other girls. And I've got a good camera face, evervbody says so. My voice is good, too.” One in a Thousand “You don't want us to try to protest vou from yourself any longer, do vou? That's all we've been attempting, my dear. To save you heartache and discouragement. You | may go to the academy this year. | But remember, you will have to be | very good, as there are possibly 50,000 giris as well equipped as you, [saving the very things you are say- | ing today. And there isn't room for more than one out of avery | thousand, for ‘even the tiniest [ erumbs.” | Doris was jubilant. She scarcely | heard the last words. At last she | was going to get the break she had longed for.

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Girl's Pride.

to be an!

she gets famous

It was the details that irked Doris

| about a workaday life. They hams | pered you, nagged and kept you [ down, such as keeping bureau drawers straightened and your | shoes treed in vour closet. The big | life was different. You worked then [at important things, keeping your (eyes always on a target at the end [of the range. Let others do the little | tricks. Third-raters, Doris dubbed them, easily satisfied souls who | stopped to pick daisies instead of roses, and were careful of every little thing.

ndon Originates a Q 1 | Upstairs she flew t t her Men S Styles, Claim My She ust eo id wil her

By United Press { friends the good news, HOLLYWOOD, Aug. 13.—Despite | Wor Gavshes Civ all the claims by American tailors, | heer Nyon oN x Michael Bartlett, reputedly one of | wanted it. The room was a litter, Hollywood's best-dressed bachelors, but she jerked up covers and argues that London originates fash- | clothes in her hurry ad left them | where they fell. {a jersey on the floor and she was [flung forward against | A corner tore through her cheek and chin and made a rageed gash that would faintly remain a scar, |s0 the doctor said. Doris was inconsolable, but

Marsha's prize Bedlington

ions for men. Mr. Bartlett came back from England with an assortment of new ideas on clothes that has all the other so-called “hest dressed” men eager to copy him,

hat, |

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Her heel caught in |

the bureau. |

her

{ minimum of hulls,

carefully. You can can sweet corn two ways — wholegrain or cream stvle. For wholegrain style, cut corn from cob without scraping. Give corn for creaming a more shallow cut and scrape the cobs. For wholegrain pack, gather corn three or four days earlier than for creampack, The wholegrain product retains the appearance and flavor of fresh

corn more nearly than the cream |

style. It also has less tendency to discolor when packed in plain tin cans than does creamstvle corn. For both types of corn, however, the C enamel cans give better results. Cut Grains Deeply

For whole-grain style corn,

move most of kernels without objec- |

Add of

Do not scrape. to each quart

tionable hulls, 1 teaspoon salt

corn and half as much boiling water |

Heat to boiling in containers immediately.

as corn by weight. point and pack once. Process

pressure. 70 minutes. For No. 2 tin cans, proc-

ess 50 minutes, for No. 3 tin cans, process 65 minutes.

For cream style corn, with a sharp |

knife cut off tops of kernels, and with back of knife, scrape out the pulp. This gives creamy mass and Add 1 teaspoon salt to each quart, and half as much boiling water as corn by weight.

Heat to boiling point and fill con- |

tainers at once. Process immediate ly, using steam pressure canner at 15 pounds pressure. For pint glass jar, process T™ minutes. For No. 2 tin cans, process 70 minutes. Tomato Juice Healthful Tomato juice for almost meal has become a American habit Home-canned tomato juice is therefore one of the “musts” of the canning season. Try this guaranteed process. Use only stainless steel and avoid utensils of copper, brass or iron in preparation. Use only fully ripe, firm tomatoes with bright red color and as freshly picked from vines as pos= sible. Discard any green, or decaved portions Skins may or may not be removed. Handle tomatoes in quantities of one to

every

Knives

| two gallons and avoid any delay at |

any stage of procedure. Precook tomatoes at simmer until ened. Avoid boiling. Put ened tomatoes, hot, sieve at once. If juice is for infant or invalid use, omit salt. Add one-half teaspoon salt to each quart. Do not spice; it tends to discolor. Reheat juice at once. If

soft

FOR Delicious

Make Them With

Just the right size and slice wiches.

| If tin cans are used, heat juice |line. mixtures

Rough wool

‘ake Choice in Coat Lines | Coats for fall and winter have two | silhouettes—the fitted and the BOX | pay frustration, thinking always of

: : | and | what she might | to simmering, pour into cans, seal (weeds are belted and have huge ina, being disillusioned by time?” |

mother was wonderful. She kept her counsel with these thoughts; Would not Doris be happier, even in

have been, rather

and process in boiling water bath | collars of badger or lynx. Silver foX | ghe knew that her daughter's very

3 ‘can.

| immediately after processing. land evening.

SOUEEZE WINS TOP SCORE

| success is more apt to welcome the [ plodder than the dreamer of great things. Life Ts Wailed Doris: { ruined.” But her mother answered crvpt-

Ruined’ “My whole life is

Mrs. Francis B. Barnes was Miss Patsy Fagan, daughter of Mr. | not Mrs, John B. Fagan, before her recent | Barnes in the St. Philip Neri Catholic Church.

and

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‘New Fox Furs Have Two Tails

By a (special process a silver fox pelt is split from neek to spot where tail joins the body.

| Silver fox swirls are new,

half, which then is tailless, er words,

and only one head. Your head goes

| through the middle, and vou look as |

[if you were wearing two scarfs instead of one, | These can and help vou to change the appears

lance of spring suit or reaingote

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Bride of Francis B. Barnes

A white-tipped tail is added to the |

lcmmm— FRIDAYS RUG. 13, 198¢ | ‘Hay Fever [rritants Numerous

Most Patients Sensitive To More Than One Substance,

By DR. MORRIS FISHBEIN ¥ditor, American Medical Journu)

Symptoms hay fever definitely associated with the ? | actions of the tissues to the pol | fons or protein substance

4 | cerned. . | It has been customary to des g§ | scribe the various forms of hay fever according to the season: in which they occur--namely, spring, | summer or fall types, and thas | perennial type which occurs at any | time, When the substances get inta [the nose, the mucous membranes ! | swell, the eves become irritated and red, the throat becomes infhimed, There are some people whose | noses seem to be sensitive but, not their eves; others in whom the | eves are much more disturbed than the nose, and still others in whom | one eye is involved and the other | is not at all sensitive In many instances, there is itehs ing of the nose and of the skin over the nose Sometimes thers [ 8 severe itching in the ears, the roof of the mouth and the throat,

i Many Tests Advised

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| Unfortunately, more than ones

| half of those who have hay fever

| are sensitive to more than ons

| substance, For this very reason it | Becomes neeessary to make tests | with all of the pollens to find ont ¢ | which ones bring on the attack, Cirasses have been divided hy the botanists into groups or classes land it is frequently found that if | A person Is sensitive to one of these pollens, he will be sensitive , | to all in the group. Far instanca, [if a person is sensitive to ond | variety of ragweed respond with hypersensitivity to the athers, On the other hand, thers has been a similar uniformity of reaction to the pollens of the tpees, Th the perennial types of hay fever, the person Is sensitive ‘6 proteins of other varieties than those of the pollens, The most ims | portant excitants are those which [are abrorbed bv inhaling and which

he may

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marriage to Francis B,

Frequent Mopping | Prevents Stooping

| Rais [ include the dandruffs of hotses, Wash the kitchen floor every day | dogs, goats, cows, cats, rabbits,

and you'll never need to get down 10 | guinea pigs, ducks, geese and chicks it on hands and knees, If the floor ons, is linoleum-covered, a coat of wax | will make it easy to clean with a | a . of | mop which has been wrung out of | VARS JEN or “he eae thick lather of lukewarm soapsuds

Powders Also Trritants

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In oth- | each swirl has two tails!

be worn several ways |

bean: the dust of hay and straw, A pail with a mechanical wringer attachment will save extra bending | Tiled or should be scrubbed with a longhandled brush, Use plenty of soap and change the water often. You can't expect [to get good results after tha soap- | suds becomes loaded down with dirt.

unfinished wood floors | quently as an

house dust, or orris root, { Orris root once was used res ingredient of face | powders used by women Nowadays | leading cosmetic manufacturers | have eliminated it | Tn other instances | may be sensitive to | teins taken into the body

the person various pros by way

without much trouble and at no add- | As soon as the suds become soiled, | of the stomach as parts of the food,

ed expense,

| tate has mistreated them, and what | potentially, |

great people they are, [they are miserable indeed. Faith in

| [celf lies so often in the chances we |

| work up a fresh lather before going { ahead with the job,

Prevents Skidding A folded towel or pot holder uns

[ These include beans, eggs, fish, nuts, milk, chocolate, coffee, celery and similar products, and also the sensitivities to various drugs such as quinine, aspirin, lodine and | similar preparations

cut | corn from cob deeply enough to re- |

Contract Problem (Solution in next issue) Worth is playing a contract of three no trump. Should he

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Solution to Previous Problem By WILLIAM E. M'KENNEY

American Bridge Leagwe Secretary

UPLICATE bridge places emphasis on the extra trick. In | rubber bridge it is merely an addi- | tional 20 or 30 points. | Arthur S. Goldsmith of Cleveland is one of that city's rising stars at | the bridge table. Together with | Mark J. Nagusky, Alvin Landy and others, he has been doing much to regain Cleveland's former pre-emi- | nence in the play of the cards. In today’s hand, Goldsmith, by a very pretty squeeze, won an absoJute top over a strong field in the | Canadian-American pair championship at Niagara Falls, which was won by him with Nagusky as his | partner. Four no trump was in the bag, as | there were seven solid diamond tricks, and three other aces, but | Goldsmith, who sat North, saw that | to make only four would produce | an average score, and he wanted a ! top. | The jack of hearts was played

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from dummy to the first trick, and | West played the queen which held the trick, He returned the king

| which held, Now West was com- | Pelled to shift, as another heart leac would give North two heart | tricks. West returned the spade jack. This was won in dummy and then | seven diamonds run. The last four cards in dummy were the diamond eight, the queen and nine of clubs and the eight of spades. West, who had to discard on the last diamond, was down to the nine and five of hearts, and the King and ten of clubs. He dropped a heart, and North, who had the ace and eight of hearts and the ace and three of clubs. discarded the club three and won the rest of the tricks. (Copyright, 1037, NEA Service, Inc.)

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If he has, you know how delicious those toasted rice bubbles tasted . . . how erisp and crunchy they were . . . how they actually

on milk or cream.

Weren't the children thrilled!

You can get the regular-size packages of Rice Krispies at your grocer’s. They're so inexpensive that many people buy several packages at a time — then they always have this delicious cereal on hand, and the WAXTITE inner bag keeps Rice Krispies oven-fresh.

for this breakfast

treat—and they'll find that Rice Krispies make perfect “after-school” and “before. bedtime” snacks. Rice Krispies never inter.

There's a Mother Goose Comic Strip printed on every package. Rice Krispies are made by Kellogg in Battle Creek. Quality guaranteed.

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