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Bride, Left

By Husband,

Held Lucky

Children Complicate Trouble, View. Feel Tree to comment an all the prob

Temas which you read in this column, The best letters will he published.

EAR JANE JORDAN—I would like to send a message to the bride of eight

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months who save her husband |

wants a divorce,

Please tell |

her to thank her God that she | found out before it is too late that | §

her husband is tired of her. I have been married over

18 |

vears and have three fine healthy |

children. My of all of us and walked out. He wants voung, pretty girls who ave

not

are full of flattery for him and

husband grew tired |»

tired with baby tending, who |

who tell him how wonderful he is. | He thinks we are all so much dead weight on his hands and the sooner |§ he gets rid of us the better off he |

will be, a person can stand to be cast aside

I know that it is about ali |

after sO many vears in double har- |. ness, but it is hardest for the chii- |

dren who are bewildered and do not know what it is all about. They mderstand why their father left them and with other women. The young brine does not have to see three little

cannot

has

children go to bed at night, CYVINg | a father who does not remem- |

for ber that they exist.

A FORSAKEN WIFE,

» ANSWER—I hope you will not think me unsympathetic when I urge you not to dwell on the pathos of vour situation, particularly in the presence of your children. They know their father is gone, of course, It necessary for them to know seen with other women and they won't know unless misguided adults tell them.

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but me

that he is

A mother can do a great deal to minimize the shock of a father's departure by not taiking against him to the children. It is natural for her to want the children on her side and to value their partisanship, but surely she can get all the sympathy she needs from adults. Try to cheer the children up and retain as much of their respect for their father as you can, even if you have to fib a little in his favor.

My motive in suggesting this is not pious but practical. You have a right to be angry and outraged, but it is a shame to let children know any more about grown-up conflicts than they have to. The more emotional ther get aver your separation now the more trouble vou will have in bringing them up to be normal men and women. Besides, your husband mav come back tangent after years of married life. Whether or not he gets over it depends somewhat on the way his wife reacts to his behavior. If she does not widen the breach by telling him and everybody else what a wretch he is, she leaves the path open for him to come home if he wants to. A very smart wife won't hesitate {0 assume some of the guilt in any quarrel whether it belongs to her or It makes it easier for her to reason with her husband. It is less difficult for injured party make a generous gesture because he doesnt feel guilty and consequently isnt on the defensive. JANE JORDAN.

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THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES

938° Show a ‘Dream of a Dress’

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A “dream of a dress” are well-merited words when applied to this

‘Coeds Can Save [Punish Child According to

At August Sales,

Wiriter Advise

By ALICIA HART

NEA Service Staf®® Writer

Girls who are going off to college within a few weeks ought to take advantage of midsummer beauty preparation sales and lav in a supply of necessary cosmetics. aressing table accessories and such. If the meticulous wav vou brushed your shining tresses last vear quite wore out the hair brush, by all means get a new one. Scrimp on other items if vou must, but do not think for a moment that you can | get along even for a few weeks without a hair brush. On it depends the health of your scalp and the beauty of vour hair. While at the brush counter, do look over the new nail brushes which are decorative as well as important in daily cleansing routines. If the budget doesnt allow for a long-handled bath brush, rearrange it somehow, or else tell dear Aunt Mary and a few other relatives that vou need one Keep a hawk-like watch for specials on powder, lipstick. mascara and other makeup. Don't wait unfil the last minute to decide what shades vou will need. Get a few samples from vour favorite store. try these for a week or two before vou buy large containers Powder, of course, should match | exactly or be one shade lighter than your complexion. So take your summer makeup to wear until your | suntan disappears. The minute your skin is again pearly white, put away the summer tones and begin | to use the light winter ones. Unless you are trving to be rightfully

gown. Ruth Martin, well-known model, wears it 1938." Tt is styled with voluminous ankle-length skirt, with jagged

| in children.

in the “Vogues of

By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON

[dren in the large cities of the Unit-

Ultraviolet Rays Enemy Of Rickets

ma OF : ils Children in Big Cities Susceptible to Disease.

By DR. MORRIS FISHBEIN Editor, American Medical Journal Most authorities are now con vineed that at least half of the chil-

ed States and Great Britain have

R | sor-e symptoms of rickets.

| Almost everyone now knows that { [this disease is definitely related to |

an absence of ultraviolet rays in “he |

§ human body. |

f | world,

hemline and camisole bodice outlined with flufty bows dropping {rom

the decolette to the hemime in silver mauve and darker hue

i We should try, if possible, to avoid instilling a sense of chronic guilt

| Keep this in mind.

exotic (generally speaking, such at- |

| tempts are not satisfactory for the | Average girl), never use powder

which is several shades darker than

your skin.

Announce Betrothal Mr. and Mrs. Luther H. Manlev. 535 N. Kealing Ave, announce the engagement of their daughter. Naomi. to Edwin A. Woods, son of Mr. and

Mrs. Merrill J. Woods, 345 N. Camp- |

Ave

Church

JUMP TRUMP TO SLAM

Today’s Contract Problem

South's contract is six spades. With the heart finesse wrong,

apparently he must lose a diamond and one heart, although

The wedding is to take | | place Sept. 7 in the Irvington M. E. |

To feel guilty when one is guilty be aware of his failure.

realize that one has misbehaved is all there is to conscience | chronic guilt is a different thing

It means that the person who possesses |

When correction or criticism is required, the parent should

is normal, and the misereant should

After all, repentance is good for the soul and to

However,

this feeling has lost complete self-respect.

He may be a rather qutiful per-* son, at that, but will suffer constantly in his conscience, for things that he cannot help, or that worked out wrong when he had the highest motives in acting as he did. I believe that no one suffers more terribly in this world than the man, | woman or child who cannot tell the difference between his mistakes and his sins, and carries about with him all the hangovers of a lifetime. So, armed with this knowledge, the parent is in a position to deal with “mistakes” more intelligently. First, it is important to look into a child's motives or reasons for what he's done, Was he subjected to a temptation bevond his strength to resist? There is such a thing, you know. The baby will want to pull at the tablecloth much more than 4-vear-old Charles, who. in tum. will want te pull the flowers. Six- | vear Anna wants to pull them. too, but she is schooled in better control, and can master temptation to a

Todav’s Pattern . |

| Many of the things children do,

| to a Kite.

| that when accused.

greater degree. Tt goes on this wav, all along the line. Second, childhood is impulsive and curious. It is the “find-out” time.

have the same motives behind them as Franklin had when he tied a kev

Third, when a child has really misbehaved and his action can only be put down to willful defiance, his |

| punishment should be suitable to his |

crime, but it should end there with- | out further reference and shame. | The sensitive child will reaet to slight punishment, usually He already punished bv his conscience although he mav conceal the fact with his verv life, Any being with a perpetually sick | conscience is not only miserable, | but he loses normal fighting strength for the battle of life. He is self-conscious and fearful of do- |

1s |

| Ing even the slightest things wrong. | | Tt is so easy to confuse with inferilority complex that most of the time

It gets so bad though inno-

it goes unsuspected.

| cent, such a child thinks he must

[ be wrong, anyway.

He lives in mor- |

| tal terror of what people are think- | ing of him, rather than what he is. |

| Terre Haute,

Legion Auxihary Names Othicers | And 3 Delegates

Mesdames Donald I. Smith, Clarence Knipp and Frank Coliman are | to represent the Bruce P. Robison Auxiliary, American Legion, at the State convention Aug. 21-24 in|

Mesdames F. ©. Hasselbring, Ralph Webster and H. Ellis Me-

foursquare attitude toward

1 he is not,

ONLY

The fabric 1s a pale blue organza striped

life, | [not as a eringing, fearful person | who looks guilty and feels guilty

Degree of Guilt, Parents Told =

DORIAN MODEL

| Rickets suddenly appeared. or at | least appeared with such freque ey | at first to be noticed in the 17th | Century. Rickets was exceedingly | infrequent until after the discovery of window glass, which does not | permit the ultraviolet rays of the sun to pass, | The disease became fairly frequent | |among childrem who were housed without benefit of sunshine. Today, in most of the large cities of the enough sunshine comes | through only for two hours in the {day three months of the vear to be of any real value in preventing rickets,

Common in Fall Because it is so linked with ahsence of sunshine, rickets begins to increase in the fall, becomes worse in the winter and reaches its peak in March, Then the condition steadily declines in frequency and severity, and new cases rarely develop after June until the fall, The Italian and Negro babies in the

large cities seem more frequently (o

be affected by this disease, Until it was definitely determined that sunlight was the important faetor, rickets generally was ascribed simply to bad hygiene, Now we know that rather than fresh air, exercise, cleanliness or any similar factor, is most important, Moreover, we have learned that it |

sunshine, |

Betrothed

Miss Alberta Tex's engagement to Ralph Carnine, son of Mr, and Mrs, Fesler Carnine, Ladoga, has been announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs, D. A. Tex. Southport. The wedding is to take place Aug. 29 in the Southport Methodist Church,

is possible to substitute for the sunshine by directly giving the child the necessary vitamin which fails to develop in its body in the absence of sunshine, This substance is developed when the sun acts on the ergosterol in the

| skin,

There are various stages of rick ets, be simple restlessness, irritability and head sweating, with certain changes going on in the bones not visible except by use of the X-ray. In the most advanced cases ihe head is square, the chest is deformed, the belly is large and nrotuberant, giving the appearance known as “pot<bellv.” Furthermore, since the long bones do not develop properly, the legs become bowed or severely knockkneed., It is hard for rickety children to be adequately nourished, so that they fail to gain either in weight or in length, NEXT: Prevention and treatment of rickets,

In the early forms there may |

WEDNESDAY, AUG. 4, 1937

Breakfast Sets Mood For All Day

Extra Moments Given te Cooking Meal Are Worth While.

By MRS, GAYNOR MADDOX (NEA Service Staff Writer)

O day is ever better breakfast. Not nature. but A burned muffin will explain many A grumpy man. So give intelligent thought to your breakfast rest of the day will merrily, We hear a lot about Angerican | breakfasts IT you don't understand | what they mean, try eating in a tiny | breakfast room in a dark hotel in | some European city, Our tall glasses [of fresh fruit juices, our hot eggs (and our clear, strong ™flee will | make any continental breakfast look to some wandering

than its

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{like a handout | tramp. | Time is an element in any proper { breakfast. A few extra minutes in | bed are not half so restful as a dee { liberately enjoyed mess of rice gride dle cakes, Especially when served | with a slightly sweetened syrup made of fresh garden berries Ham Biscuits (About 1

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