Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 13 July 1937 — Page 8

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Stop Finding Fault With Friend, Woman Worried Over Jealousy Is Advised

Chances for Couple’s Happiness Are Slim Unless Feeling Is Conquered, Jane Says; Inferiority Complex Seen,

Put your problems in a letter to Jane Jordan who will answer your questions in this column daily.

EAR JANE JORDAN-—I am a woman 37 years old, married when 1 was between 14 and 15. 1 lived with my husband 18 years with grief. 1 have three living children between 12 and 20. I have been divorced for five years and get no support. I have been going with a man for the last three years. He is 18 years older than I am, has been married and has children, all grown. 1 am in love with him but we have split up three or four times because we are so jealous of each other. When we split up he doesn’t seem to want to go with anybody else. I go out with a few men not because I want to but because 1 want him to see me, and because 1 hate to sit

home by myself and have no money to go out with. I make every man I'm with mad by talking about the one I love. I let the world know I'm crazy about him. I'll tell anybody. I don’t care if they like it or not. It is just that we are both so jealous. We can't trust each other yet we never see anything out of he way. I know I am true, but I don't want anything put over on me. Sometimes I think he is the same way. He says he'll never marry because no woman is true, but he likes a home and so do I. I would love to work with him and share a home "and help him to save so that he will have something in later life. I'm willing to try anything. V.P. ANSWER—The chances for happiness between two jealous people are slim. There are two kinds of jealousy, one founded on fact and the other on fancy. Of the two the latter is to be feared the most because it indicates that the partners suffer from an underlying feeling of inferioriy, Your statement “we can't trust each other yet we never see anything out of the way,” suggests that you invent your own reasons for

jealousy. You say youre true, but don't want anything put over on

you. > Surely such a statement comes not so much from distrust of the man as distrust of yourself. Is it that when you view yourself through his eyes you can’t imagine why he finds you attractive? Or do you feel that if yop were a man, subjected to the same temptations from other women that beset him, you feel certain you would not be able to be faithful? Since there is no apparent cause for your jealousy except your own unfounded suspicions, it must arise from an unhappy inner doubt of your own attractiveness. Now let us consider the man. He says he'll never marry because no woman is true. This is a sweeping statement and of course it is false. Many woman are true and no logical person believes that all women lack integrity because of the deception of a few. Why then does he make such a statement? Is it, perhaps, a dodge, an excuse for not engaging in lasting, responsible ties. Or does he feel that women may be true to other men but none would be true to him? Again this indicates a basic lack of self-esteem which he projects onto women. He who doubts his own worth is most apt to doubt the worth of others. What each of you need to do is to stop picking faults in each other and correct wrong attitudes in yourselves, A person who respects himself is not so touchy about the behavior of others. He weeds out the unfit from his list of friends and trusts the few without forever searching for evidence of betrayal. JANE JORDAN.

Yes, Mister, T m Only : a . New SIC, But I Can Hold My Temper

By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON Harry leaned against the wind, holding tightly to his papers so they wouldn't blow away. Every once in awhile he pulled one from the protecting cover and folded it for throwing. He was adept at this, being able to judge the distance from walk to porch or doorstep to a T. When he reached a customer's ae house he barely stopped. A whirl, a hitch to the shoulder strap and he was on his way. Rain mixed with snow made the going hard. But Harry was used to weather, this was nothing. Zero mornings when he was only half awake were the worst. But being a phiiosopher, he didn’t think too much about that either.

At the Smiths something went wrong with his aim. The wind cdight the missile, and it hit the front door with a bang. Before Harry was off the pavement the door shot open and Mr. Smith shouted, “Hey there, young fellow, come here.”

Harry went back. “Are you the regular boy on this | street?” Mr. Smith's voice invited | instant defense. “Yeah,” said Harry. | Back-chat Draws Fire

“Well, don’t dare bang the paper on the door again. If vou do, I'll report you.” Aw, it’s only paper,” said Harry. | “It ain't hurtin’ nothing.” “Impudent, eh?”

Harry turned to leave, but Mr. Smith handed him the object of contention and told him to go out and do it over again. The boy took the paper and did as he was told. He had no more time to waste. People would be out looking for him.

On he went. It was not the first time he had been called down for things he couldn't help. Just one more crank, he thought to himself.

Today’s Pattern

Half a block down the street lived the Millers, Mr. Miller was waiting. Harry, with his wad. handed it to him at the door, but Mr. Miller refused it. “I wish you would give me an unfolded paper each night, kid,” he grumbled. “It takes me an hour to untangle it.” This touched a vulnerable spot. Harry flattered himself that his trick of folding took only one good shake and there you were. He answered, “Gee, mister, some people live way back. I'd never get their papers there on time. Kids would be out yelling the next edition.” In High Dudgeon

“Hold your tongue and do what I tell you. I'll stop the paper if I can’t get it flat off the press.” At the Joneses, what with sleet in his eyes and a long way still to go, Harry missed again. He did not see the paper fall under the shrubbery but Mr. Jones did. “I'm not expected to go out in this weather and hunt for something I pay for,” said Mr. Jones. Harry went up the walk and retrieved it. Harry did not feel sorry for himself. Papers were part of life just as they were part of Jim's and Bob's and Chick's. He would get a hot supper and maybe go to see a dime's worth of that sea show. i The very men who had bawled him out would be there too, probably, ready to jump at Capt. Bligh's throat. It would have shocked them out of their seats if a voice had slyly whispered, “About one-fourth of your own blood, sirs, is pure Bligh, no more and no less.”

HIS frock looks as smart on a size 50 as It does on a size 36. The slim, slightly fitted lines of Pattern 8015 are flattering to wear and

easy to sew. The low V neckline, outlined with collar in contrasting fabric, is becoming and gives a tailored trimness to the frock that you are sure to enjex. The puffed short sleeves emphasize the shoulder in a manner that gives slenderness to the hips. For immediate wear, this dress is cool and trim made up in cotton broadcloth, linen or pique. For early fall, the same design in sheer wool would be lovely. Available in sizes 36, 38, 40, 42, 44, 46, 48 and 50. Size 38 requires £% yards of 35 or 39-inch material, plus 2; yard of contrasting fabric. To obtain a pattern and STEP-BY-STEP SEWING INSTRUCTIONS inclose 15 cents in coin together with the above pattern number and your size, your name and address, and mail to Pattern Editor, The Indianapolis Times, 214 W. Maryland St., Indianapolis. The summer selection of late dress designs now is ready. It's 15 cents when purchased separately. Or, if you want to order it with the pattern above, send an additional 10 cents.

THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES

Gingham and Sateen Shirts Make Dude Ranch Real

Melon Used in New Recipe tor Fruit Cocktail

By MRS. GAYNOR MADDOX NEA Service Staff Writer

Looking for a new fruit cocktail? Here's one:

Cantaloupe Cocktail (1 serving)

Two tablespoons grenadine syrup or port wine, 8 to 10 small canta-

loupe balls, 4 or 5 sections grape- |

fruit, 1 cherry.

Half fill grapefruit glasses with grapefruit sections, pour over grenadine syrup or port wine, fill glass with cantaloupe balls and top with cherry. Serve ice cold. Arizona may be a hot state, but it has a cool suggestion for summer salad fans.

Arizona Svinshine Salad

(4 servings) Four around pineapple. of melon in center. fresh mint or watercress. Serve with French dressing made of lemon juice and olive oil.

These fruit and melon combinations have become a regular part of the diet of the slender and active stars of Hollywood. For warm weather luncheons, yes, dinners, too. they supply enough food to keep the body in motion, yet not enough to make it heavy and dull.

Persian Fruit Plate

(6 servings)

One large Persian pound small red cherries, bananas, 1 fresh pineapple, 11 cups strawberries or blackberries, 1 package cream cheese, 1 tablespoon mint leaves, 1 cup salad dressing, 1 teaSpoon plain gelatin, 1 tablespoon cold water, Pit cherries, stuff with cream cheese. Cut Persian melon into small balls. (Three medium cantaloupes may be used in place of Persian melon if preferred.) Combine balls with cherries. Arrange these in lettuce cups, allowing one cup for each serving. Peel bananas, roll in lemon juice. Cut in half and place half banana on each lettuce cup. Combine the pineapple and strawberries or blackberries and arrange in lettuce cups. Sprinkle with cut mint leaves. Dissolve gelatin in cold water, then mix with salad dressing, Pour into individual molds. Chill until firm. Unmold. Serve one mold with each lettuce cup.

Pink Wins Favor in

Dresses and Blouses

Fashion designers like pink this season. They put touches of it on navy and black dresses, suggest pink blouses with black, navy and gray suits, make entire hats in deeper tones of pink. One especially attractive outfit consists of light gray flannel suit. pale pink georgette blouse, anklelength gloves in deeper pink suede, black patent pumps and bag, black hat of shiny straw with a small pink box.

Joseph Clark Wallace has returned to Indianapolis after a visit with Miss Helen Shepard and Mr. and Mrs. Frank Shepard at Palisades Park, Mich.

slices pineapple, 1 orange, | Pile small balls | Garnish with |

melon, 1, 3 small |

Synthetic Cowgirls Turn to Neckerchiet and Dungarees

What with these colorful outfits, no wonder women decide in favor |

of the dude ranch!

Against a skyblue background are painted bucking bronchoes and |

attractive lettering, “Yippee, Ride "Em, Cewboy!” Then there is the bandana hand-®————

kerchief for real use, hoisted out of the rear pocket of loose brown whipcord frontier pants. A gingham shirt in yellow, red, black and green plaid, with yellow

| pearl buttons, buttoning from left

to right, like a man's shirt, with a soft, turned-back collar to add femininity. Over this goes a brown suede bolero which laces up in front. It's nothing to get into and fits the form with curve and grace. A red shirt is finished in red

pearl buttons. To go with it are! smart dungarees stitched in red to |

match the shirt with fancy stitch- |

ing design all over the pockets.

The rawhide belt is studded in sil- |

ver knobs. A suede and horsehide vest has brown leather buttons, To top the outfit is a 10-gallon hat that the average girl would consider becoming in a cowboy’s world —a hat to lug out West to a real | dude ranch.

PLAYS FOR ONLY BREAK

Today’s Contract Problem

West and East are ccnfronted with a bidding problem. Should West first bid spades or clubs? If West bids a club, should East overcall with spades or hearts?

All vulnerable.

Solution in next issue. 6

Solution to Previous Problem By WILLIAM E. M'KENNEY American Bridge League Secretary . 8. EMRICH of Cleveland is known among his associates as an optimist in bidding. “Emrich optimism” in Cleveland is a synonym for overbidding. Perhaps he can justify it by his accurate play of the dummy, and his ability to see any possible break that will give him a practically impossible contract. Today's hand was played in the recent Ohio State championship tournament, where Emrich and his teammates won the team-of-four championship. Most players bid the hand to three, and ware content to make three. Emrich, however, had reached game, and then had to justify his optimism by making it. Emrich, North, reasoned that his partner was not “signing off” after his original pass, when he could bid two suits, and that he had at least a mild fit in spades; otherwise, South would have dropped at two spades rather than bid three clubs.

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Emrich won the first trick with the ace of diamonds, and when he surveyed his resources, saw that he had only one chance to make the hand. That rested on finding East with either the king-10 or queen-10 of trumps, with no others.

As this chance was worth praying for, he laid down the spade three, and East, with only two cards in the suit, was on the spot. Naturally he played the king, and cashed two diamonds.

Then he shifted to a heart. This |

was won in dummy, and the jack of spades was led. West refused to cover, but Emrich let it ride, and made the contract. (Copyright, 1937, NEA Service, Inc.) Miss Prudence Brown, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Eugene H. Brown, 3055 N. Meridian St., is visiting in Dayton, O., this week. Mr. and Mrs. Joseph F. Thoman have just returned from a wedding trip and are at home at 781 E. Mc-

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Left— A gingham shirt in gay plaids contrasts brightly with brown suede bolero and frontier pants of brown whipcord—all supposed to harmonize with a brownish broncho. Right— A loud red sateen shirt just the thing to gn with dude ranch blue denim dungarees, stitched in matching red, ", and a brown vest of suede and » horsehide. “Ride "Em Cowboy,” says the hanky.

Towel Shower Is to Honor Girl ToBe WedSoon

Miss

S| | cowboys carrying vivid yellow ropes to lasso. That's for your neckerchief, | whose which ties around the throat carelessly, but not too carelessly to display Wright is to take place at 3 p. m.

Elizabeth Jane Kaylor, marriage to John Harold

| Saturday at the Irvington Presby- ~ | terian Church, is to be feted with 'a towel shower and bridge party | tonight.

| Miss Dorothy Aldag is to entertain at her home, 5740 Pleasant Run | Blvd. Appointments will be carried out in the bridal colors of pink and blue and garden flowers are to form | the table decorations.

The shower gifts are to be presented to Miss Kaylor in a treasure | hunt, following the bridge party. | Ms. and Mrs. Thomas N. Kaylor, 233 Downey Ave. are to give a bridal supper Friday night at their home to honor their daughter and the bridegroom-to-be.

Miss Ruth Beckman is to leave Thursday for Chicago. After a few days visit there she is to go to Colorado Springs, Colo., where she will Ie the guest of her sister, Mrs. Louis B. Maytag, and Mr. Maytag. Dr. and Mrs. Harry W. Phillip, | 310 N. Alabama St., left recently for la trip to Los Angeles, San Diego {and Hollywood, Cal.

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Proper Girdle Assures Fit to

Summer Dress

BY ALICIA HART NEA Staff Writer

Summer dresses should fit as

fully chosen accessories and over underwear that fis

figure is slender and lovely if you

gets twisted when you walk and

makes wrinkles under your dress. With the exception of exquisitely

12 or 14, everyone requires some kind of foundation garment. Experts agree that all-in-ones are best for very large figures and that simple little girdles, made of

without hones, are for the slender. Watch Your Corset

Remember, necessarily tight corset is just as bad as a loose one which offers no support at all. The ideal procadure is to go to a reliable corset department and be measured and advised. Incidentally, the more a foundation garment is washed, the better it fits and the longer it wears. Buy slips that are the right size and you won't have to worry about sliding shoulder straps or wrinkles under your dresses. If you do not have to wear a girdle, get a garter belt for stocking support. Round garters are likely to spoil the shape of the legs just above the knee and they do not keep stockings straight and smooth as regular supporters.

Stockings which are too large never look sleek and trim. Neither do they make for foot comfort. Too short ones are apt tobe even more uncomfortable and look just as untidy when they slide down and wrinkle about the heel. Do make sure that the stockings you buy are not too large or too small, then keep them up with proper garters.

Mrs. P. T. Williams and Miss Dorothea Williams are guests at | Hotel Traymore, Atlantic City.

perfectly as your winter suits and | woolen frocks, be worn with care- |

smooth and | trim. There's not much sense in | exercising and dieting until your |

are going to cover it up with a | badly fitted girdle and a slip which |

proportioned girls who wear sizes

two-way stretch elastic fabrics and |

of course, that an un- |

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TUESDAY, JULY 8, 87 Presence of Albumin in

Body Waste Is Warning Sign of Kidney Ailment

Poisoning, Inflammation and Infections Are Among Typical Troubles Revealed by Chemical Tests; Study Needed to

Plan Treatment.

By DR. MORRIS FISHBEIN Editor American Medical Journal, There are various tests for finding out whether The simplest test is chemical. come into contact with concentrated nitric acid, and if albumin is present, a white ring forms where the fluid is in contact with the acid. Even this simple test is not be performed by the average person with the idea that he can tell anything about it. In cold weather when there may be cloudiness of the urine, cloudiness is usually due to the fact that certain salts which are held in solution

there is albumin The urine is allowed to

that

in warm urine are precipitated out in cold urine. In such cases warming the fluid artificially or adding a little acetie acid will cause a clear appearance in the fluid. This clear appears | ance will not present itself if the | cloudiness is due to albumin.

When there is inflammation of the kidney with damage to the | structure, albumin also appears in the urine.

Inflammation Classified

Any inflammation of the kidney fs called nephritis. There are, however, many different types of nephritis. It may be present in an acute form due to the action of some poison, due to the results of bacterial infection or due to the damage to the tissues that may be brought about by fever.

It may be due to a gradual breakdown of the tissues as a result of

| old age and inability of the tissues here and there

to repair themselves, Albuminuria is just a signpost | indicating that something is wrong. | Tt ie the easiest detected of all the symptoms that may occur.

Study Is Required

Albumin when taken into a healthy body, is used by the tissues | for repair and for tissue growth, | Digested foods contain proteins | which are taken up by the blood and are carried to various portions of the body. A healthy kidney will not allow food albumin to pass out and be lost. | On the other hand, there are some proteins which represent broken-down tissues and wastage from the body. A healthy kidney purposefully eliminates this kind {of albumin. Healthy urine is | practically always free from al- | bumin. Whenever it is found, therefore, the patient and the doctor should co-operate in obtaining the scientific study necessary to determine exactly what is wrong and thus to develop the right treatment lead ing toward a cure,

Pleats Will Flourish On Fall Season Skirts

Pleats distinguish the skirts which manufacturers are talking about for fall. It will be a saeson to wear box-pleated numbers with builtup waistlines, and the newest manner of raising a waistline is to build the skirt up at sides only. College girls will like 15-gore models of dark wool jersey, boxpleated numbers in Scotch plaids {and diminutive checks. Some of | these are finished with leather | bands which look especially nice "over sweater blouses,

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