Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 7 July 1937 — Page 6

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Life-Long Romances

Held Rare

Yearnings for ‘New ad In Marriage Human, | Jane Declares. |

Bring vour problems to Jane Jordan, who will answer your letters in this |

column. | |

MARRIED woman with |

several children does not I

want her letter published for | fear it will be recognized. | Her mother, a woman of

doubtful reputation, left her | father when the daughter was a | child. He remarried a good and | upright woman who brought the | girl up according to accepted stand- | ards of conduct. Our correspond- | ent, who calls herself Puzzled, | looked like her mother, and the family was beset with the fear that she would turn out like her mother. This, however, was not the case. She married young and remained faithful to her husband in spite of the fact that he was not faithful to her. As the children came in rapid succession, both husband and wife worked harder and harder, quarreled more frequently, blamed each other for the difficulties of life, but stuck together. The husband works like a dog and is crazy about | his children. The wife still likes | him and appreciates his good | points, but romance is gone. Where | once the wife was thrilled by the | presence of the husband, she now is cold, even repelled. | The memory of harsh, unjust] words crowds out the tender feel- | ings she used to have. The hus-| band does not find his wife as in- | viting as formerly and avoids dec- |

his devotion. The wife is filled with longings for tenderness. She is shocked to | find that other men attract her. | Romantic scenes with other men which she would not permit in fact | trouble her dreams. Her fear is that after all she is like her moth- | er, that bad blood will tell. She | feels that the fault lies within | herself and asks for advice. This experience is more or less universal and has little to do with | the kind of mother the woman had. You could scarcely throw a stone without having it land before a home in which the same drama had been enacted in some degree. Romances simply will not survive the strains and struggles of years of marriage. Economic difficulties, child-bearing and rearing, quarrels and disappointments put thrills to flight. A good working agreement and a certain amount of mutual regard and consideration the most that can be hoped for in a long and arduous partnership. However, the craving for romance | practically never dies in the human | breast. One's mother may have | been a model of virtue who stuck to |

her post through thick and thin but | jn play concerns the finesse, the her children will still long for a purpose of which is to capture an

tender. all-forgiving, understanding | love and affection. Such a love is | bevond the capacity of most faulty human beings who wish to receive it but are incapable of giving it. Some marriages come cioser to the ideal than others, but few marriages are so satisfactory that neither partner ever yearns for a new deal. How else can we account for the popularity of the love theme in movies and literature except that it strikes a deep chord in the human soul and vicariously satisfies a need almost universally feli? To be sure some people have less need than others, depending upon how much devotion they have received, but almost no one has received as much love and tenderness from life as he wanted. Instead of feeling guilty about the vague yearnings and strivings which express themselves in dreams, the | average person simply puts them | aside during his work-a-day exist- | ence as something as far distant as the moon. He does not feel that life is empty because it contains no romance, and contents himself with the love stories on the screen or printed page. A partnership which has survived the trials and tribulations of existence has deeper values than a new romance even though excitement is missing. The only message I have for Puzzled is that she is not bad—only human. JANE JORDAN.

Robert J. Fletcher Weds Covington Girl

Mr. and Mrs. Asa Ware, Covington, announce the marriage of their daughter, Margaret Pauline, to Robert J. Fletcher, son of Mrs. Roy Svbert. The ceremony was read by the Rev. Thomas Paine at the Woodworth Etter Tabernacle. Mr. and

Mrs. Fletcher are at home at 2425 N. Pennsylvania St.

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| Madge Evans, Hollywood actress, is shown here | Jarations of love, feeling that his| applying a light coat of brown mascara to the | work for his family is proof enough | upper lashes only. The eyes never have a made-up |

appearance when this formula is followed and hot weather won't abuse make-up so easily if the lower lashes are left untouched.

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Today’s Contract Problem

North's contract is four hearts. He must lose one club ‘and one trump trick, but by careful management he can limit his further losses to one trick, even with the spade king unfavorably located. How does he play the hand so as to utilize the entries he needs to accomplish this result?

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By WM. E. MKENNEY American Bridge League Secretary HEN a beginner takes up bridge, one of his first lessons

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hands lost by needless finessing as by any other play. As a matter of fact a finesse should not be taken if the declarer, after study of his combined resources, can see a line of play by

which it can be avoided, with at| | least an equal chance of making

the contract. The opening lead of the heart queen was won at once, as with only two hearts in each hand there was nothing to be gained by =a holdup. The entire heart suit, wherever held, would be run when next the opponents gained the lead. South could see that he could make his contract, however, if he could bring in either clubs or diamonds without losing a trick. With

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nomer because very few irises are native to Germany and those few are not the parents of the great group we know by that name. On

Long Island the first to bloom is the old reliable deep purple, which is none the less desirable because it is persistent and easy to grow. The grayish white Florentina alba is early, too, and a companion planting of these two early kinds results in enhancing the beauties of both varieties. For convenience of description the Germanic group is generally divided into several sub-sections. The pallidas are in popular estimation the most beautiful of the bearded irises. They surpass in handsome long-stemmed, sweetscented, grayish blue to lavender flowers and beautiful wide glaucous foliage. Pallida dalmatica is to be found in many gardens.

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| most players the temptation to risk all on an immediate finesse in clubs or diamonds would be overwhelming. One player, however, found a much better line. He led the jack of diamonds, but played the ace and then the king, and when the queen dropped his troubles were over, as he was able to cash five diamonds, two spades, one heart and [one club. Had he finessed either clubs or diamonds, he would have

lost his contract. (Copyright, 1937, NEA Service, Inc.)

Reception to Fete | Wife of Governor

finesse is in gaining tricks, how-| FLORA, Ind, July 9.—Mrs. M. ever, there probably are as many | Clifford Townsend is to be honor

[guest at a reception given by the | Carroll County Women's Democratic Club tomorrow in Delphi Country Club. Mrs. Emory Scholl, Connersville, state vice chairman, jis to speak.

THE INDIANAPOLIS TIMES

Up Lashes for Hot Weather

Im proves Game, |

Golfers Learn

That golfers are becoming quite |

the selection of both Sammy Snead and Craig Wood, as the best dressed golfers.

“The use of business suits and | nondescript clothing on the golf course is not only bad from the point of view of looks, but causes | bad golf,” Snead said. “Golf is a game of ‘feel’ and when your clothes don’t feel right, they spoil your game.” The 10 top-flight tee stars of the Ryder Cup team are currently giving Britishers an eyeful of smart American styles. The team adopted a uniform consisting of white palm beach coat in a wide herringbone weave, with the embled of PGA on the breast pocket, and medium blue trousers of a new sun repellent cloth. The color scheme is accented by a blue and white striped palm beach tie.

Summer Blouses Go Completely Feminine

Blouses to wear with all types of suits are 100 per cent feminine this season. Crisp organdy numbers with pleated jabots, chiffon models with ruffled necklines, dotted Swiss ones with lace bosoms—all are more feminine than tailored. Even linen shirts have pleated bosoms and slightly larger ties. You can get very tailored blouses, of course, but the majority of fashionables are finding the dressier ones a welcome change after seasons of mannishness.

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First Dates

Are Crucial In Girl's Life

Be Frank and Up to Date, But Never Careless, Parents Advised.

By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON Are you having daughter trouble? By this I mean, is 15-year-old Anne insisting on being grown up, going out driving with Tom or Bill, and stopping at roadhouses to dance? And, if so, what are you doing about it? Telling her that she doesn’t know life and she must

Annes’ Age Isn't All Now Anne or Ruth or Sylvia is |

yours, and you know more about her than anyone else in the world knows. At 15 she may be as sure and level-headed as many a girl several years older. Or, on the contrary, she may be immature and too impressionable, too trustful of others, an entirely gullible, sweet child who must be guarded.

Age counted by strokes makes less | difference than we think. And char- | acter more. On the other hand, it is true that the middle adolescent needs protection in all cases. Now, more questions. Do you know Tom or Bill? Have they grown | up on your street, and are they en- | tirely trustworthy? If so, a little spin won’t hurt, but as for dronping in to strange refreshment halls for a turn and a possible drink, this is to be banned, definitely, no matter whom your daughter is with. Don't trust to experience to open | her eyes to the truth. Either tell | her all there is, or put some good | books into her hands. Her armor | must be supplied by vou, her moth-

ter. Trust her, but don’t risk her. |

What will she know of men, and the

lous, unless she is enlightened? Frankness Pays

I don’t like suspicion. There are too many splendid boys to unfairly class them with the birds of prey. But it is their misfortun~ to have to | come under the doubt, if they are entirely strange to vou, and their reputations unknown. We're raising our girls, or trying |

It’s all out, and the girls know it. |

So we must back our rigid rule with | Blanche Crubaugh, Columbus. Only | Thomas, : { reason today. It is a frank age, and | the immediate families were present | Mall, E. L. Finck, Anna McIntosh,

frankness is the only wav. If we] expect youth to be honest and | above board, we must be honest, | too. | Sixteen, 17, 18-vear-old girls must be given their facts, their values, and an ingrained pride

amounts to strict inhibition within | Toole and themselves. Without it they are al- | Macey have returned after a holi- | Beldon, Chaperons, after 'day trip to Cincinnatti.

most defenseless.

Florence Brill Plights Troth

Mr. and Louis F. Brill, Washington, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Florence Brill, to John €. Moriarty, son of Mrs. Maurice Moriarty. The wedding is to take place in Washington in the fall.

all, are only policemen, and as such | 1 ..' Ne almost useless. F I ends to Give Let Anne go out on a little ride | with Chuck or Jim or Bill, if she is| level-headed, and knows her business, and if you know her swain and like him. She should be home early. Her destination should be known to yOu. The minute you suspect that she is in doubtful company, it is best to | clamp down on permissions. She won't like it, but will thank you for it some day. The best date for Anne at 15 is a walk to the drug store for a soda, after a movie, maybe. Then home. Home is the place for any | 28 to James Marvin McIntosh in the

girl of 15 after 9:30 at night. [ St. Philip Neri Catholic Church. (Copyright, 1937, NEA Service, Ine.) |

Party Tonight For Miss Mars

Miss Margaret Mars is to be the honor guest tonight at a shower at | the home of Mrs, Catherine Heater, | 403 N. Grant St. Miss Mars is to be married July

i Table decorations are to be in yel[low and blue and garden flowers | are to be used throughout the rooms. Guests are to include Misses Margaret Orst, Helen Able, May Faulk-

Mullen-Crubaugh Wedding Private

Mr. and Mrs. William J. Mullen were at home in Huntington today

after their marriage Saturday night | Emma DeVersey, Emma

Margaret Brown, Mary

| Mock, Mary Dugan, Frances Dugan, Mrs. Mullen was formerly Miss | Marie Nugent, and Mesdames Cud Mary McMann, Joseph

ander,

for the ceremony which was read | Roland Emmel, Nick Emmel, Ruby the Rev. R. M. Dodrich. | dolph Doereing, James McNulty, "Mrs. Glass was matron of honor | Thomas Lenham, Moze Kennington, and Richard Mullen was best man. | Albert Alexander, Thomas J. Jones, | Gertrude Meyers, Clarence Mat- | thews, William and Margaret Ank-

Miss Peggy Corman, Miss Mar-

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WEDNESDAY, JULY 7, 1937

Add Weight By Proper Diet, Is Tip

Some Foods Better Than Others in Cases of Underweight, View.

By DR. MORRIS FISHBEIN Editor American Medical Association Journal. Sometimes failure to gain weight fs associated with excessive smoking, nervous exhaustion, lack of sleep or overacidity. All of these represent controllable factors. There are certain foods which are much more useful in adding weight than are others because they provide large amounts of food value without excessive bulk. Milk, cream, butter, bacon, breads and vegetables with a high carbohy= drate content provide large amounts of calories. Peas, lima beans, rice, macaroni and spaghetti are also useful substances in gaining weight. Furthermore, the diet may be enriched with malted milks, dried milks and olive oil. Meal Time Important

The patient who is underweight should not only eat three meals a day but should also eat at periods between meals such as at 10:30 in the morning, 4 o'clock in the after= noon and again just hefore going to bed.

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A certain amount of exercise is desirable in such cases as a means (of increasing the appetite. The | milder forms of exercise such as | golf and walking are preferable. { In the majority of cases of undernutrition, three good meals a day with an abundance of bread {and butter usually will help to build [up weight. | Breakfast may include some | orange juice, a darge helping of [Sera with cream and sugar, two | boiled eggs, two or three slices of | well-buttered toast, a little bacon, (and a cup of tea or coffee with | sugar and cream. Around 10 o'clock in the morning | two glasses of milk containing one[third or one-half cream may be | taken. The noon meal, instead of being a hastily snatched sandwich [and a cup of coffee, may include a | cream soup, some fat meat, chicken {or fish, potatoes, green vegetables | cooked with butter, some macaroni [or rice to which butter has been { added, and for dessert a large help-

{ing of pudding or stewed fruit. Milk Ts Advised

After this meal, also, one or | two glasses of milk may be swale | lowed. The evening meal will duplicate | the luncheon and it may be advise | able to take a large glass of milk before going to bed. Such a diet will include from four to five | thousand calories in 24 hours and [ will help to overcome undernutri- | tion. | A recent method for fattening | people rapidly involves the use of | insulin. A short time before each meal, the patient is given a small | dose of insulin and then a meal rich in carbohydrates follows.

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