Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 3 July 1937 — Page 4

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Woman, 45, Fails to Hold Mate, 26, Despite Moneys; Seeks Advice From Jane

Wife Who Says She Can't Live Without ‘Despicable’

Husband May Be Seeking Punishment, Theory; Renewal of Love Seen Unlikely.

Jane Jordan will help you with your problems by her answers to your Tetters in this column axily. * ® WW » EAR JANE JORDAN--1 am the victim of & cruel, horrid, contemptible, despicable husband. 1 am 45 and he is 26. He is ashamed of me although my friends tell me 1 could pass for 30 for 1 have platinum hair and do everything to keep up with the styles. 1 have inherited a large amount of money on which we live, He does not work. Do vou think that the difference in our ages causes the trouble? Dd you think he is taking advantage of me? 1 am ready to end it all. How can 1 hold my than? I could live comfortably on my income but could not live without him. I am desperate X. XY. 2. ANSWER--Ih one breath vou say vour husband is cruel, horrid, contemptible and despicadle. Th the next you say you can't live without hith, What does this mean excedt that you feel the need of punishment? You have inherited some money on which you could live in vet vou support a disagreeable young man and take his abuse. Could it be that vou secretly feel uhworthy of the money you inherited andl won't lot yourself enjoy it? What were the circum stances whder which vou inherited it? Did it perhaps come from parents who had slaved andl done without to save it? 1 believe that something has made you feel guilty and in heed of punish. ment but 1 do not know what it is. At any rate it is hot love which holds the two of you together, but some unhappy quirk inh your natures which makes one of you like beat and one to be beaten, I speak symbolically, of course. The satise faction vou receive from this man is not the happy satisfaction of love. You've reversed evervthing., You're older than your husband. You're 150 the provider instead of him. Neither af you ragpect the other in How can vou axpect to hold your man?

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yr WW 1 EAR JANE JORDAN--I read Patty's letter of June 25 at 17 her parents won't let her have dates). 1 wonder if I ¢ah he of any assistance. When I was 18 my parents still refused to let me have 1. tod. had an older sister but she started having dates when she quite 14. She was given complete freedom and abused it] so they tried the opposite oh me. 1 slipped out one night for a date and mv father was waiting for me when I returned. 1 shan't go intd details but it wasn't very pleasant. The subject was dropped the next morning. 1 waited two months and then asked my mother (the boss) if T could have a date for a high school basketball game. The answer, 1 was very careful not to abuse my privileges and so was permitted to have more dates. I am hot advising these tactics for Patty for that must depend on the family. 1 am merely offering the above to show how one girl was permittdd to have MARY. And very pood tactics they are, tod, Steady, reasohable JANE JORDAN,

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Give Home Resort Air on Hot Days at Small Cost

NEW YORK, July 8. (NEA)=I{ you have to spend the summer--or the greater part of it—-at home, why hot prepare to enjoy yourself to the fullest With a great deal of interest, some time and thought and very little money, there are endless ways to take away the drab, wintry look Elizabeth Peacock, an expert New York interior decorator, gives some excellent hints for turning & winter house into a summer one,

Men's Caps Are

Bright and Cool |

Hat makers are seeing to it that men’s caps are light and cool for hot | | weather wear, now that this con. |

Modern ‘Pigtail Pi

illustrations in the McGuftey Readers, iheludes a checked gingham suh suit, ahd a chambray pinatore, trimmed in check gingham, that but tons dowh the back.

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THE TNDIANAPOLIS "TIMES

nafore’ Makes Pretty Outfit

SATURDAY, JULY 3, 1087 |

By GERTRUDE BAYLEY

Ohne @ay a little girl went to play ih the suh ahd she wore her checked gingham sunsuit. Wheh she oahe nto the house her mother said, “Nancy, vou have had ehough Suh how. You ust be careful hot tO get purned.” Nauhey did hot want to stay ihddors. Her Thother warned, “Only if vou will put dh your sunbonnet ahd pihafore may you go out fh the suh again.” :

At frst the little girl rebelled, but when she saw that the pinafore mother wanted her to wear matehed the color of her sunsuit, and that ft, tod, Was trithmed with checked ginghath, she was happy to wear it for all the neighbor children to see. Her mother tied bright silk vib bons on the little girl's pigtails. Nancy buttonad the sunbonnet and

away she skipped.

It althost always happens #0, for ‘wheh children are provided with attractive clothes they like to wear them, Besides, mothers who Teason with their children ihstead of commanding thet do hot way something for which they are very sorry afterward, “Violent anger is wicked and makes a person appear very ferocious.”

This is the story of the “Pigtail Pinafore” as it tight have been told in MeGuffey's Second Reader, year 1836. Now there's a vevival of the early American fabrics, chambray and gingham, and a modern ihterpretation of the quaint little pinafore-—for today's little girls.

Olothes Mreedom, such as our grandmothers never enjoyed when they were young, is the moral of the fashion revival, A one-piece sun= suit in old-fashiond lavender, blue or red is worn with or without the pinafore made of old-fashioned chambray and trimmed in checked gingham. The pinafore, which buttons down the back, is cut with just the top yoke buttons fastened, so that the skirt flies out, showing the checked panties.

More Menus Designed To Keep Diet at Desired 1400-Calorie Level Listed

Meat, Fruit, Vegetables, Milk, Coffee and Desserts, Principal Entrees of Meals Suggested to Meet Requirements of Health, BY DR. MORRIS FINWBLIN ¥aitor, American Medical Journal Here are (wo Wore daily diets Which indicate how a day's vation may be kept to less than 1200 and 1400 calories: pinhu hydrate Hh

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Grapefruit one=halD) ... Oodoked whole-wheat cereal Whole milk (% cupful) Bacon, orp (two SHHIPs) .... Whole milk (8 dunoes) Ooffee

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; Dinner Fresh=fruit cocktail .. IRIN Orange sections (six) III Giapefiuit sections (Thee) wuivwvsnsssanaaaes Melon balls (three) Bprig of MINE (DNB) . ...vvvsssvsissssassns Ment 10af @Verage Blt) w.viviiviiisississien As Tagus tips (three) PHRRRH ARRAS THER DERNS led Spanish onion (ONe=halD) Lwsievinn Romaine salad (Average serving)

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‘give the rooms a Spacious, airy look by taking out any furniture not needed. Store away all extra knickknacks, too, because the same accessories that made your home cozy in the winter, will make it luttered and hot in the summer.” Mrs. Peacock continues With # warning about furniture placement She advises as wide a spacing as possible, putting nd two pieces close together. People just can’t be comfortable if they have to sit in chairs all bunched up in one place. Strive for an unstudied, caressly smart air

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your house, and make it as delight ‘First of all,” says Mrs. Peacock, ©

fully s ; as ) PesOrt. fully Hs FRY Yo hn venient form of headgear is making a comeback among active sports. men. d Thi v One of the newest air-cooled mod- ; Y ay 18 Year els uses a wide ventilating screen of An AW . [open mesh in the peak. Another The smartest spring coiffures | innovation this summer will slant upward. Have your curls and | featherweight seersucker oaps to swirls and Tolls brushed ‘even [match patterns of summer suits of farther upward and away from your brow and ears. Otherwise, see that there is a bit of fluffiness just behind the ears Ntherwise, your jawline is likely to 'ook hard. Also, there ought to be & sugges-

Coiffures Swing Up

that material,

Soothe ‘Nerves’ by Changing

in the arrangement of furniture,

Pick Cool Colors

tion of fullness Jow at the back of vour head. This makes a shallow

1 ~ + 4 “Blues, greens, and soft yellows hat more flattering,

with a touch of green in them are the coolest colors, so be sure that they are used wherever possible But don't use these colors in a conglomerate scheme, or your room will still look stuff Choose, two, and work around them and their variants.” Going on, the decorator suggests changes in draperies, and new slip covers as the next items for consideration. Unlined draperies are best because they are cooler, vet let in enough sun to bring out the design in the material, and make the room cheery. ‘Theatrical gauze is pare ticularly good for downstairs rooms It is breezy, flimsy, can be draped in many different ways—and, best of ail, it is very inexpensive. You can pink ruffies at the edges if you'd rather have them plain, Then there is & handsome celanese ninon in novelty designs of | plaids, stripes and diagonal patterns, | : ! Or the new and interesting cello- - § q | phane material in white, or colors ; with a pure cellophane ruffle, make handsome draperies, For bed room curtains, embroidered voiles and batistes are lovely. Flowered cohintz is good, todo—in fact. any summer material that is dainty, soft and feminine. “Herringbone is an excellent material for covering living room furniture,” says Mrs, Peacock, “Tt| comes in soft colors, but doesn't soil easily. Novelty cottons in stripes are smart, too. Dainty figured

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cottons and flowered chintz would be my choice for a bed room.” | The decorator gives a few more miscellaneous hints, Always use | white shades at the windows— | green ones look heavy, and cream ones invariably appear dirty. Bam- 3 boo shades that roll up are cheaper than Venetian blinds, and just as effective, 1f vour room is smali, it will seem ¥ much larger by placing a mirrored & screen at each end. Stay away from white in & small oom. becuse it OR running to the store in the WiLL only wr mv morning, for a comfortable afte ht a final word, Mrs. Peacock says, ernoon on the porch-this dress «you will of Sours a (8863) with its tabbed jabot will . home. e careful of the . : " y ranigement—adon' make it studied, Io Hed Nil HW. os In ress just free and casual. White YOU'll enjoy wearing whether you but Just ¢ b are a size 36 or a size 52. flowers are the smartest because Available 1 i 36. 38 40 they are cool and blend with any “ = iD & eh sizes 36, 38, 40, 42, + in the room.” | 44, 46, 48, 50 and 52. Size 4 reOE I ost [quires 41, yards of 35-inch material . [plus % yard contrasting. Former Resident | To obtain a pattern and STEPAra “ " |BY-STEP SEWING INSTRUCWed in New Jersey TIONS inclose 15 cents in coin toi i gether with the above pattern numMiss Elizabeth Smith, daughter per ana your size, your name &nd of Mr, and Mrs. Herbert C, Smith, | gqdress, and mail to Pattern Editor, springfield, Ill, formerly of Indian- The Indianapolis Times. 214 W. apolis, became the bride today of Maryland St. Indianapolis, Riley R. Stevens, Englewood, N. J.| The summer selection of late Mr. Stevens is & son of Mr, and | dress designs now is ready. It's 15 Mrs. David Stevens, Portland, | cents when purchased separately. Ore. The ceremony took place in | Of, if you want to order it with the Englewood, where the couple is to | pattern above, send an additional live. 110 cengg. | \

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Your Routine, Is Suggestion

By OLIVE ROBERTS Are you physically tired, or nervously JUSt nervously tired,” because and there is nothing counterfeit about the B They ares

than to say

ut what are nerves? S06 many things, it is impossible to answer, for only our Maker Knows the truth, They help us to see, hear, and move our muscles, of course, and to sense heat, cold, pleasanthess and unpleasantness. If this were all, the definition would be easily settled, but alas, it is not even a beginning. Perhaps after this, “nerves” become the “soul’-~because now we get into ‘‘feelings,” the emotions that make or run us-love, hate; peace, worry; interest versus mons otony, and a thousand others. Nerve fatigue is a result of men- | tal strain. Just what strain, is your | problem. Perhaps longings that cannot come true, perhaps mon. otony that palls, or work that is you have to fight yourself every day anew to get at it. Relief Must Come From Self

result you are tired, oh so And you are very thin and! losing weight, Headaches,

As & still

As genuine are these afflictions as if

you were carrying ounces of infec- the good vitamin and the mineral others, the bridge player will use

tion in your blood stream. You cannot analyze yourself, Yet | no one can really help you but yourself, because all the words in the world and rll the medicine will neither remove your problems nor change your feelings. But you can do this. Shut out the thought of tomorrow with all your might, and live on 24 hours | today. . Step Out of Routine

If monotony palls, and half the time in the case of busy women this is the case, you might do a few courageous things to break the jinx. If it’s going to be a relief for a day or two, change the whole house around, cook unbelievable things, and get away from & set routine. Routine is excellent, and planning is the father of efficiency, but when they get too deadly, take a vacation and let efficiency slide for awhile, Try, if possible, to get & new slant on everything and everybody. Make an effort to cultivate people you dislike. Ask more people to come in, When vou are talking to others you {are not thinking, or brooding.

Make Game of ‘Cure’

Can you sing? No? That's fine, { Then sing. Don't hum, but learn | the words to a tune or (wo you like and let it go. Whistle, if it suits you, Tt keeps up coursge, Don't take yourself too seriously. Say, “I need to forget it all and laugh more.” You might surprise yourself, Nerve fatigug results irom so

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BARTON tired, mother? I know better it implies omething spurious, weariness of nerve fatigue,

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things that we could control, tried very, very hard, But don’t work at “trying.” Make it a game. Try new roads, Get out of the rut of vour feelings, Work may not be easier but it may wear a pleasanter face. It never hurts change, (Copyright, 198%, NEA Rerviee, he)

to risk a little

Bumper Crop of Beans and Peas | Aid Chald Health

Ry MRS, GAYNOR MADDOX

(NEA Service Stat Writer)

BEANS and peas are big news | estimated at

now, The snap bean erdp is | 67 per cent greater | than last year's and the June pea

poor digestion, and even aches and | TOP is rated at 71 per cent higher, (pains in your hands and feet,

To that good news add this little fact—these vegetables are among |

Rroup. Snap beans are rich in oalcium and vitamin A, a good source

and a fair source of vitamin B. CAS are a rich source for pellagrapreventing factors, If you don't fully realize how important. these seemingly dull facts are, look at children who do not get the necessary elements in their diet, Human misery is more than dra-

matic—it is tragic. Watch your vi tamins and minerals if you must feed children along the way to sturdy and happy man and womans hood, Select only snap beans with pods of uniform size, They will cook evenly, Get pods that are fresh, bright green, clean and free from blights, Avoid dull, wilted looking beans. Tf the pods snap easily, they are good buys, Avoid the crooked ones and those too sharply pointed. Peas should have bright green pods, be velvety and fresh looking. Flat, dark green pods mean old ones. Yellow is the color of age in R PCR tod, Peas, remember, deteri-

| orate faster than snap berns be-

CRUSe of their sugar content, The SURRr changes rapidly ‘into starch And the delicate pea flavor is then lost. Sb if the peas must be kept sometime before cooking, keep them in & cool place, so as to slow Shis suger change as much as pos. Follow these four rules for cooking both beans and peas if you want to get all their flavor wnd value, First, cook in a minimum of ‘water,

FINESSE WOULD HAVE LOST

Today’s Contract Problem

South is playing the contract at seven spades, When dummy is exposed, a casual survey shows one diamond later. Can South ih any way avoid the logs of this trick? AQI09S PAI

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Solution to Previous Problem | By W. E. M'KENNEY AWeriean Bridge League Neeretnvy

HETHER to play for a finesse |

or a squeeze is a frequent |

problem at the bridge table, The | finesse offers an exactly even | chance to win or lose, but sometimes |

the play or discards of an opponent |

clearly show that a finesse would | be a loser,

In that case, as well as many

the squeeze in preference. Today's hand, played by Barl 8. Oobey, of Rochester, N. Y, Who

will be one of the prominent players at the Adirondack American Bridge League Ohamponship Tour= nament to be held at Eagle Bay Hotel, Fourth Lake, N. Y, July 9, 10 and 11, was taken from the open air championship last year. It seemed | to present unusual difficulties to all | of the players after the dummy was | faced, although all had reached the | same contract. But those who pinned their hopes on a club finesse, or a diamond break, went down, Mr. Oobey, however, saw another line of play after four spade tricks were cashed by Bast and West, and made his contract. On the fourth spade Cobey discarded a club from

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80 as to keep them gresh. Third, have the water slightly salted, boiling boisterously, when you put vegetables in, so as to cut down cooking time. Fourth, consider the vegetable cooked when there is still some body firmness to it. The average cook overcooks both peas and beans, Remember this—after going into the boiling water there is a difference in cooking method for each—peas should be simmered, beans boiled. It you are canning either peas or snap beans, the pressure cooker should be used, for both these vege. tables are in the nonarcid group for which any other type of canning is downright dangerous, according to

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dummy and his own hand, Bast also | disearding the club eight, West now shifted to his singleton club. The nce was played from tummy and when East played the | six of olubs, declarer abandoned the | hope of an extra club trick. He cashed the king of clubs, West

dropping a small heart, South now | led the ace of diamonds and took | a second round of diamonds, winning with the queen. The play of the king of diamonds now squeezed Bast, who held four hearts and the queen of olubs, He had to give up a heart, which gave the rest of the tricks to the declarer, (Copyright, 1937, NEA Service, Ine.)

Big Straw Hats In Style Picture

Reverberations of the formality and entertaining in England have already reached these shores. Garden parties and receptions are in order and even in the country & pair of slacks won't do--and you will not want them to after you've sesh the clothes that ‘make practionlly anyone a glamour girl, You can have your choloe betwaen being very wide-eyed and young or nophisticated and slightly Spanish Rhumba, The hats to make you a girl again nre huge rough straws or bakuse turned up off the face with bands

and long streamers of velvet, some of these even to the hemline in back, More tallored hats also appear with short, perky streamers or bound in velvet and with velvet bows parked here or there, For those who love the calm cools ness of black and white, there 1s a huge white, rough straw oartwheel with a black velvet crown and nar-

Onloriex saunl 292 plus 400.5 plus 638 or 13175,

Mind Your Manners

EST your knowledge of correct wmocial usage by answering the following gues=

tions, then checking against the authoritative answers be= low; 1. Should persons driving to a beach or swimming pool

Proper Coiffure Requires Study And Expert Aid -»

WEEE SST Te By ALTCA HART NEA Stal Writer When, regardless of your own fea tures, hair, disposition and type, yon Copy a #®oreen star's hairdress, a society woman's makeup or your best

a report from the U, 8, Department cook in wh uncovered pan [of Agriculture, |

row band under the brim which outlines your

\ ; friend's mannerisms, you are paying a bathing suits in | yourselt A pretty sad ey ™ 9. Should men playing on | Spite of hints to the contrary, the public tennis courts feel free | way to make the most of your to pull off their shirts ih OF | 'haputy fx to dramatize your best

. t sun=tanned? Be “ AY ood mannery for | points, play down the less attraos wR : [tive ones==and be yourself!

persons waiting on A tennis 4 court to eomment on the play || _ Nothing looks willier than =a that Is ROIAE ON. | Garbo haireut on a short, rather 4, In ix poor taste for a plump little thing who is the exact woman Who ix wearing street opposite of sophisticated, Or very clothes to go bare-legged? | painted lips, in the Joan Orawford 5, Are sleeveless dresses || manner, on a tiny womah wWhoxn suitable for street wear? [features are dainty and finely | ehiseled, | Marlene Districh may look too, | too lovely in flonting tea gownasha [Wears oh the screen, but that doesn't make trailing tea gowns guite right | for the woman who 2odoks the dinw= I'ner with her own two hands and | serves it to her guests, Misk Dietrich | does not dress that way herself un | Tons she 18 playing a part, A pracs [ tieal viewpoint 18 a good thing $n (have, and there are hostess gowns | and hostess gowns,

Let Expert Help |

If you are having ooiffure probw lems, do go to AR expert hairs [dresser at least ones, then work with him, submitting your own idens, considering his, finally com» bining both and ending up with a hairdress which flatters you and ia in keaping with your mode of life,

No matter how much she dotes on intricate swirls and curls, a busy housewife who shampoos and sets her own hair simply will not find them satisfactory, There are many hairstyles which are easy to oars for at home, but you have to have patience to locate one, With an equal amount of patience you oan figure out ways and means to apply makeup to emphasize the beauty of your eyes, make your mouth seem pretéier than it is or your chin line ‘more perfectly formed, Tf you have not done any real experimenting with cosmetios in more years than you care to admit, got busy with all the rouge, lipstick, mascara and powder samples you oan collect and seriovsly go about the business of glorifying yourself,

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Mr. and Mrs, Walter r, Delbrook, 5288 Oollege Ave, left recently for a tour of the West,

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You Aare driving Across eauntry to visit with friends, The trip will thke several days and vou cannot know exactly when you will arrives (A) Write your hostess when you are leaving home and let her defide when to expect you? Write her that you will arrive oh A certain day? Write her that you will arrive in the morning, afternoon or night of A certain day and oall her from nearby town or the outskirts of the eity in Which she lives?

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Answers

1. Not ‘unless they beach robes over them, 2. No,

3. No. 4, Yes, 5. No.

Bost "What Would You Do" solution=(Q), (Copyright, 1937, NEA Service, ne)

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Men's Evening Shoe Dates to Edward VII

The patent leather evening pump for ‘men seems like one of those things that, like the poor, we've always had with us, However, it is said to date only sinoe its introduc. tion for formal evening wear by King Bdward VII, grandfather of that other royal sartorialist, the Duke of Windsor, For nonstate affairs Edward VII liked the patent pump better than the buckled one prescribed by court custom, ‘The 1 whim started a vogue which lasted until about 12 years ago, when the patent leather oxford omptured style leadership, Recently the evening pump has shown lively signs of a comeback.

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