Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 24 June 1937 — Page 14

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‘Widow, 35, Asks Help From Jane

Son of Fiance Opposes New Marriage She Explains.

Jane Jordan will help you with your problems by her answers to your questions in this column each day.

EAR JANE JORDAN—I

am a divorced widow of 35. I met a man just a short time after my. separation from my husband and 1 believe we were really in love with each other, We are both divorced and both have children. He wanted me to get a divorce from 1930 up until I did get it in September of 1936. Now somehow things are different. Most of his work is out of town which covers the state of Indiana. It seems like he has met other women although he always says he loves me. The main problem is his son who is 15 years of age. He neither likes me nor my daughter Betty. Nothing but jealousy causes it. We don't see much of him. Why should children interfere when two people have meant so much to each other at one time? Other than Jack, no man interests me one bit. Maybe I have been: too kind to both father and son, and believed everything they told me, because I loved too much. I truly hope he can read your answer to my problem. MARGE. ” a ” ANSWER—Children often are intensely jealous of their flesh and blood parents. They want to be the center of attraction themselves and resent the father’s love of the mother and vice versa. After they have had one parent to themselves for a while, their jealousy is something to cope with when the beloved parent marries again. Such situations can be and have been handled by sympathetic people: who understood the child’s problem. If the boy could be made to feel that he would gain something by his father’s marrizge his opposition would lessen. Your job is to win his confidence and a difficult job it is. As things stand now I wonder you have the courage to want a marriage which would present you with a hostile stepson. He cannot be brushed aside with “why do children interfere?” They do, and it is unavoidable. If the boy succeeded in making your daughter unhappy, for example, you would side with. her and the father would side with his son. The potentialities for trouble all the way around are very great. More serious than the problem of the boy is the waning of his father’s interest in you. He is not the ardent suitor that he was. With the granting of your divorce which made you available, he became noncommital. Then there are the other women he sees. It is easy for him to say, “I love you,” but more difficult for him tc prove it. Perhaps he sees the dangers of the situation more clearly than you do. At any rate, his desfre for you isn’t strong enough to make him take the risk. In your place I should hesitate to urge him. JANE JORDAN.

Ticket Group to Meet Members of the ticket committee of the Indiana State Symphony Society are to meet at 11 a. m. Friday a the home of Mrs. P. R. Mallory, 4310 N. Meridian St. Plans for the selling of tickets to the Friday and Saturday series for the

coming symphony season are to be discussed.

Mind Your Manners

Test your knowledge of correct social usage by answering the following questions, then checking against the authoritative answers below: 1. In arranging a few flowers, is it preferable to have an uneven number? 2. Should one use an ornamental vase. for flowers? 3. Is it good taste to put a bow of tulle on a basket of flowers? : 4. What is the conventional ° flower used as a boutonniere for ushers at weddings? 5. Is it permissible to put a small flower or two in a finger bowl?

What would you do if— You were enclosing your - personal card with flowers and wished to write a message such as, “With my best ' wishes”? Should you then— A. Leave the title as it was engraved? ; B. Cross out “Mr.” or “Miss” on the card? C. Omit the massage?

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Answers 1. Yes. 2. No. Use vase simple in cutline and without design. 3. No! 4. White or red carnation. 5. Yes.

Best “What Would You Do” solution—B. When message is written make name same as signature. Married woman would cross out all but last name and write her first name,

to make it interesting again. The at left is double. Black ribbon con

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Today’s Pattern

OUR youngest will adore the little two-piece sun ensemble (8993)—and you’ll thank us, too, for the design which is so very easy to make and even more easy to' take care of. The little pinafore buttons straight down the back, is as easy to take off as a coat and as| easy to iron as a handkerchief, |

The little romper that goes with it has a high. bib in front and crossed suspenders at the back to permit all the air and sunshine to reach busy little backs. The scallops of the sleeve and hem of the pinafore are very simple to make; you merely edge them in a contrasting braid or binding. Buttons are smartly used as trimming. Be sure and use a sunfast cotton for this little suit and make your summer really carefree. 1 Designed tor sizes 2, 3, 4, 5 and 6. Size 3 requires 13 yards of 35-inch material for the dress and 1 yard of 35-inch material for the rompers. To trim as pictured, youll use 7 yards of binding. ! To obtain a pattern and STEP-BRY-STEP SEWING INSTRUC-

The sailor sails back into the fashion picture with enough changes

slightly rolled brim of the model trasts attractively with the natural

straw. Note the amusing little ribbon fans at the four major points of

No matter whether you're 14 or

THE IND'ANAPOLIS TIMES Straw Makes Attractive Summer Models

40, a turban of natural straw (peek

at this one above) will be becoming when you set out to go places before dark. Natural tuscan straw makes the little model that's held by a band at back. A stiff black veil and black picot-straw flowers relieve

its geometrical simplicity.

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Solution to Previous Problem.

RS. LOTTIE ZETOSH of New York brought in her small

‘|siam contract. on today’s hand.

East’s jump to three spades after Mrs. Zetosh, West, had opened, was natural. Four clubs was a cue bid. After that East felt that no further bidding was needed to assure a cmall slam, and so took the burden off partner by bidding it at once. North's opening lead of the heart nine was designed to save his own probable club trick, and at the same time not hurt his partner's hand. Declarer won the first trick with the king of hearts, drew two rounds of trumps and then cashed the remaining tricks in the hegrt suit. If South held the club king, then it was possible to make seven on the Land, provided the location of the

Sorority to Install ~

Cfficers at Dinner

Officers of Alpha Chapter, Chi Sigma Phi, are to be installed at the annual Founder's Day dinner tomorrow night at the Silver Cup. They are: Miss Alice Yates, president; Miss May Wotherspoon, vice president; Mrs. Lois Burks, secretary; Mrs. Edna Tritch, treasurer, and Miss Ruth Singers, historian. Miss Helen Rosenbaum is to be formally initiated.

gether with the above pattern number and your size, your name and address, and mail to Pattern Editor, The Indidnapolis Times, 214 W. Maryland St., Indianapolis. The summer selection of late dress designs now is ready. It’s 15 cents when purchased separatelv. Or, if you want to order it with the pattern above, scnd in an additional

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Mildred Halbig Becomes Bride

Of E. G. Green

The marriage of Miss Mildred Kalbig, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John F. Halbig, ‘Haubstadt, to Edward G. Greene, son of Mrs. Anna F. Greene, took place Monday at SS. Peter and Paul Church in Haubstadt. The Rev. Carl Kunkler, cousin of the bride, officiated. Miss “Ann Kunkler, organist, played bridal airs. The bride wore white alecon lace over satin, princess style with a train. A fingerprint double tier veil descended from a halo of orange blossoms. She carried bride's roses and lilies of the valley. Miss Irma Halbig, sister of the bride, was maid of honor. Bridesmaids were Misses -Alberta and Otilda Halbig. Rita Ann Halbig was junior bridesmaid. Larry Huck, ‘Indianapolis, was best man and ushers were James McGovern, Indianapolis, and Edwin J. Karges, Chicago. “An all-day reception was held at the home of the bride with dancing at the- Green Lantern Ballroom in the evening. After an extended trip through the East, Mr. and Mrs. Greene are to be at home ‘in Indianapolis.

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Delta Chi Sigma Group to Attend Detroit Parley

Miss Margaret Cunningham, international treasurer, and eight members: of the Indianapolis chapter are to attend the 11th annual convention of Delta Chi Sigma at

the Statler Hotel, Detroit, Mich, Friday through Sunday. Those representing Phi chapter are to be Misses Myrtle Miller, May Ruth Beirre, Mary Sullivan, Louise Pike, Janet ‘'Flaskamp, Wahneta Tewell and Mrs. Betty Anderson. Miss Tewell, president, is to act as business delegate and Miss Anderson as social delegate. The hostess chapter has planned an elaborate pragram to be climaxed on Saturday night with a dinner dance.

Delta Zeta Tau To Fete Pledges

Initiation of neophytes into Epsilom Pi chapter, Delta Zeta Tau Sorority, is to take place at a banquet meeting at 7:30 p. m. today in the Harrison Room, Columbia Club. Tables are to be decorated with white roses and olive green candles. Initiates are to be given corsages. Neophytes are Misses Elizabeth Asher, Rita Withem and Helen Hankemeier. Honor guests are to be Mrs. Imogene Redell, national vice president, and Mrs. Philene Argo.

Warm Meal Is Suggested

For Picnics

Girl Scout Wisdom Is Called Best In Outdoor Dish Preparation.

By MRS. GAYNOR MADDOX NEA Service Staff Writer -

Life in the op has its points.

Still there's nothing so nice as

a hot dinner plate. When the gang packs up for an all-day picnic, don’t let the great open spaces leave ‘empty spots in the stomach. - Listen to the seasoned wisdom of the Girl Scouts outfit. When the June breeze sings through the woods, its voice will be sweeter for a mess of dried beef chow.

Dried Beef Chow on Toast

One pound dried ‘beef, 4 teaspoons melted fat, 1 pint tomato pulp, 5 eggs, 1 teaspoon paprika, 1, teaspoon dry mustard, 2 cups grated cheese, toast. Cut the dried beef into bits, turn into hot fat in camp frying pan. Add the tomato pulp, paprika and mustard. Stir while the chow is getting piping hot. Beat the eggs lustily. Add cheese and eggs to pan and stir intensely. When your chow is as thick as cream, make toast, butter it, cover with the sauce and sound the mess call. - “Pancakes,” of course, is the middle name of all campers. Add eggplant and that name becomes quite distinguished.

Eggplant Pancakes

Two medium eggplants, 4 cups boiling water, 3 teaspoons salt, pinch cayenne pepper, 2 eggs, 2 teaspoons baking powder, 4 teaspoons melted butter, 2 cups flour, % cup milk. Pare eggplant, cut in pieces, cook in boiling water with 2 teaspoons salt added, until tender, about 20 minutes. Mash, but do not drain off liquid. To this pulp, add milk, eggs well-beaten, melted butter. Sift flour, 1 teaspoon salt, cayenne pepper and baking' powder. Mix well and fry like pancakes. Serve with tomato sauce. The Girl Scouts recommend pea sauce, too, but I just can’t. If you belong to the up-before-dawn clan of eating-in-the-woods-ers, at least have a good breakfast, when you get there.

Green Apple Omlet

Ten large sour apples, 4 teaspoons butter, 2 cups sugar, 2 teaSpoons cinnamon or nutmeg, 8 eggs. Core, part and steam apples until tender and soft. Mash free from lumps. While warm, add butter and sugar mixed with spices. Beat eggs to a heavy froth and fold into apples. Grease shallow pan, pour In your omelet and bake. Serve with crisp bacon. Then go climb those trees.

McGinty Reunion Set The centennial of the settlement of the McGinty family in Jennings County is to be observed: Sunday with a family reunion at Muscatatuck State Park. All known de-

:scendants are- invited to bring din-

ners and attend.

Mrs. Morris to Read

Mrs. Irvin Morris is to read a paper entitled “National Parks” at a meeting of the Spade and Trowel Garden Club tomorrow in the home

of Mrs. Lee Fox, 6102 Bellefontaine St. ;

Camp Director

Mrs. Jasper P. Scott is chairman of the Y. W. C. A. camp committee arranging for outings of ¥. W. C. A. members at Camp Friendly in McCormick’s Creek State Park. The Senior High School Leadership Camp opened Sunday and is to continue until July 3. Other groups are scheduled for outings throughout the summer.

Neighborly Family Aids Child Mood

By OLIVE ROBERTS BARTON

Be neighborly. There is no influence more powerful in a child's life than the kindly give and take of his family with those who live

near. It fixes the feeling of good will and permanency, and sends down roots long to be remembered. Never feel that anything is too small to be appreciated in the way of attention. The bunch of flowers you send across to Mrs. Smith may be identical with those growing in her own garden, but she won't care. It won't be the petunias and verbenas she will appreciate, but your gesture to friendliness.

Gestures With Big Meaning

The quarter of a cake you send across the hall to old Mr. Scrooge or young Miss Holliday may only be a mouthful, gone with the next meal, but both: of them in their fashion will remember warmly that someone thought of them in their loneliness, or in their busy!lives, as the case may be. Children love to give, and to know that we give. There is a. peculiar psychology about the generous gesture, and this is the warmth it gives both the giver and those near him. Put the thought away that generosities of this kind look like truckling for favor, or set up a feeling of magnificence in the donor. If we're the right sort, nothing of the kind motivates us. And if we're not, we’d feel that way, anyway. The world has gotten too far away from these good old-fashioned attentions. And too far removed from simplicity. - Don’t feel that small attentions will be scorned. All children adore their parents being generous and good mixers. And speaking of generosity, here is

grows. Boys and girls brought up in an atmosphere of consideration and kindness to strangers as well as friends, will develop a richness of character of their own, and parents will reap, some day, an abundant harvest of their own.

(Copyright, 1937, NEA Service, Inc.)

an object lesson that takes root and

THURSDAY, JUNE 24, 1937 |

Hardening Of Arteries Age Disease

Trouble Is Often Linked To Gout, Diabetes And Diet.

~ By DR. MORRIS FISHBEIN Editor American Medical Association Journal. One of the degenerative diseases of advanced years is called arterie osclerosis or hardening of the arteries. It probably is not a disease in itself, but a change in the blood vessels usually associated with long continued intoxication and infec tions, old age and high blood pres= sure. : There seems to be some argument about high blood pressure and hardening of the arteries, as in the question of which came first, the hen or the egg. Sir William Osler felt that changes which take place in the blood vessels are controlled by the heredity of the person concerned or, in other words, that the quality of the tubing with which one is born is the essential factor in the occurrence and severity of hardening of the arteries. ; Frequently this condition is asso= ciated with gout, diabetes or Bright's disease and there are some: who feel that diet is an essential factor.

Not Linked to Tobacco

Physicians used to argue that the use of tea, coffee, tobacco and alco= hol was a primary factor, but nowadays it is not considered to be es tablished. There seems to be no evidence that there is more arterio=sclerosis among those who use alcohol and tobacco than among those who do not. The chief feature of this disease is the loss of elastic tissue in tha walls of the blood vessels so that they become hard, rigid and tortuous. This naturally interferes serie ously with the circulation of the blood and is usually associated with a rise in the blood pressure. The symptoms depend on the exten: to which the circulation of the blood is interfered with. While the condition may affect all of the tissues of the body, it becomes especially serious when it interferes with the circulation of a vital organ such as the brain, the kidney or the heart.

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Disease Comes on Slowly

Hardening of the arteries comes on insidiously and seldom is discovered until attention is attracted by some serious symptoms associated with the organs that have been mentioned. The individual whose circulation is beginning to fail finds that he gets tired easily and. cannot concentrate as well as he used to. His memory fails, particularly for recent events. He is likely to become emotionally unstable. ~ Cramps in the muscles occur after exercise; the skin becomes dry, thin and wrinkled and the thickened, twisted, hardened arteries may frequently be seen, particularly on the temples and skull of men who have lost their hair. Obviously, there may be headaches and dizziness associated with the disturbances of circulation in the brain.

Mrs. Thomas V. Chappell, 3510 N, Pennsylvania St., is staying at Chalfonte-Haddon Hall, Atlantie City. Miss Sue Manning is staying at the Hotel New Weston, New York,

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