Indianapolis Times, Indianapolis, Marion County, 17 June 1937 — Page 14
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Girl Warned
Of Love for!
Older Man
Ideal Image Often Only “Her Defense, Says Jane Jordan. Jane Jordan will help you with your
problems by her answers to your letters in this column each day.
EAR JANE JORDAN—I | am a girl 18 years old. I||§ coming ||
finish school this year and.l am in love with a
man 35 years old. Of course || he doesn’t know it. I have :
known this man ever since I was . small, and I always loved him. He seems to like me a lot, but I think
he just looks on me as a child. He |
has his dates and I have mine, but I never really enjoy mine on account of thinking about him. Will I outgrow this? I really do not ’ think it is puppy love for I am not the kind of girl to fall for every boy who looks at me... Can you help me with this? D, n ” ” ANSWER—I haven't a doubt in ' the world that your feeling for the man is very real to you. I can’t of course tell you how to win him for I do not know, but perhaps I can help you to understand how it happens that you have fallen in love, temporarily I hope, with a man 17 years older than you are. In youth everyone builds up an ideal love image. It is made up of fragments of various people who appealed to the individual during childhood. If a girl had a father to whom she was devoted the image will resemble him. If she had no father, all the older men who influenced her will furnish characteristics for his ideal. She is not conscious of what she is doing at all, but one day she meets a man whom she identifies with her ideal and she thinks it is love. Sometimes it is. Sometimes she is mistaken. Since her ideal is largely composed of past affection for older men, it isn’t unusual for an older man to attract her first. When a young girl's first love is for a man nearly double her age she ought to question. herself carefully before she accepts it as permanent. Is her choice of one who obviously regards her as a child a dodge to avoid the effort of getting on with boys her own age? You'd be surprised how often a timid girl chooses a remote ideal to love. It gives her an outlet for her emotions and a real person to dream - about, but offers no challenge to her powers because her choice is not likely to make love to her. Thus girls fall in love with their school teachers, with movie stars, orchestra leaders, lecturers, or anyone in the environment who will not turn into a real lover. This dodge is pretty well aoncealed from the girl herself who fancies that nothing would so ~ closely resemble heaven on earth as to be loved by her ideal. Usually some daring young man breaks into her retreat and the dream goes up in smoke and is forgotten. No| doubt this is what will haBpen to you some day. As you grow older and gain in courage and self-esteem perhaps you won't need the protection which your dream represents. Once in a while a young girl does make a good match with an older man but not very often. Don’t close your eyes to the young men who cross your path. When you keep your mind on the older man it may be your defense against the younger one who represents a reality which you secretly dread.
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One, two, three, four little misses in a row. The
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tract Problem
ying a contract He must lose a t can still make by careful play, holds the club
Today’s Co North is pl of six spades. heart trick, by the contract even if East king. What is his play? AQU10854 YAS ¢ Ki Fo Af
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By WM. E. M'KENNEY American Bridge League Secretary ITH South's hand, and North's scattered
but important honors, the final | contract on today's hand is a fairly | Fulfillment of that | contract, after reaching it, did not |
obvious one.
seem nearly so easy as it seemed to be when the cards went down, and yet, any good bridge player, who applied to it the principles of play he had learned from books and experience, both splendid teachers, should solve the problem presented without the slightest difficulty.
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clubs adversely held were not all in one hand. If East held all four, he could
| still make his contract, provided he
tremendous |
planned his play carefully, while if | West held them all, then there was | no play in the entire club suit. North refused the “free” ‘heart
finesse, because he needed two entries to his hand to bring in the club suit. He went up with the ace, and let a low club from dummy. When West showed out, North's foresight was rewarded. He won with the queen and returned a club. East was forced to split his equals. Now the ace and king of spades were cashed, and the heart king, saved for that purpose, gave North ranother entry. A second club finesse
The principle of taking nothing | Was taken.
for granted, not even the favor-
| All 13 tricks were won because
able break of a suit of nine cards | North recognized the need of safe-
in the combined hands, including the three top honors, is the important one here. Obviously the entire club suit must be brought
in to bring the total of tricks to |
13, as at best there are only nine tricks available in the other three suits. East's opening lead was based on the probability that the lead of his long suit was least likely to lose a trick for the defense. When North saw his dummy, it was apparent that 13 tricks were a laydown if the
guarding the club situation by providing against the adverse distribution that actually existed. (Copyright, 1937, by United Press)
Bahai To S peak
Mrs. Xorol Oliver, traveling Bahai, Chicago, is to be guest speaker at the regular meeting of the In-
dianapolis Bahai Assembly at 8 p. m. tomorrow in the Spink Arms Hotel. Mrs. Oliver is to speak on “International Language.”
From Czechoslovakia comes the style on the far right.
Couple Leaves
On Motor Trip Through South
Mr. and Mrs. John Evans. have left for a motor trip through the South.
Their marriage took place at 8
La. m. yesterday in the SS. Peter and
Paul (Cathedral, with the Rev. Fr. George Dunn officiating.
Mrs. Evans was Miss Ruth Wagner, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Edward Wagner, 2439 Kenwood | Ave. Mr. Evans is the son of Mr. and Mrs. David Evans. The bride, who was given in marriage by her father, wore a white satin| gown with a train of point Venice lace. Her veil was fashioned in Madonna style with orange blossems., She carried a prayer book from which hung satin streamers and lilies of the valley. Miss Dorothy Wagner, her sister's maid of honor, wore a princess style turquoise blue mousseline de soie dress| with a halo of summer flowers. Miss Eloise: Evans, bridesmaid, wore a similarly styled gown of pink mousseline de soie. Both attendants carried colonial bouquets. William Fitzgerald was best man and the ushers were Robert Hanlon and Frank Widner Jr. A wedding breakfast was served at the bride's parents home following the ceremony. Mr. and Mrs. George Galloway, Crawfordsville, were among the out-of-town guests.
Watch for |. Honor Queen
High Blood Pressure
If it Is Detected Early ; Progress of Ailment ~ Can Be Checked.
| By DR. MORRIS FISHBEIN Editor American Medical Association Journal.
Hypertensive arterial disease is a slow and insidious condition. The person who first finds that he is beginning ‘to develop symptoms associated with high blood pressure should not immediately begin to worry. He should, however, take
warning from the change that has taken place in his blood pressure. If this condition is discovered in its early stages, a routine of life may be followed which may stop the progress of the condition and which certainly will help to alleviate the symptoms. These symptoms are definitely related to important organs and tissues of the body. Thus half of the people over 50 years of age who have incapacitated hearts have them as a result of high blood pressure. About one-fifth of all of those who -have high blood pressure die from a “stroke,” also called apoplexy or hemorrhage into the brain.
~ Symptoms Are Varied
The symptoms associated with high blood pressure vary a good deal with the different stages of the condition. Eventually the high blood pressure will bring about changes in in various organs of the body, particularly the kidneys the heart and the brain. Among the most common symptoms are dizziness, headache, pain over the heart, and symptoms affecting the nervous system. Because people may neglect measurement of their blood pressure until some occasions demands it, the medical profession has been trying for a long time to get them to go to their doctors at least once each year.for a complete physical examination. Because people are inclined to be sentimental in association with birthdays, it has been suggested that the examinatien take place each year on the birthday.
Complete Examination
The complete physical examination will include an examination of the heart and the chest, with the stethoscope. The doctor will also inspect the throat, nose and ears. With an ophthalmoscope, he will look at the retina at the back of the eye. Frequently the condition of the blood vessels in the retina is an indication of changes that are taking place throughout the body. It is customary, with scientific physicians, to make an examination of the blood pressure every time a patient comes for any condition which affects the body as a whole. This means not only the men and women over 40 years of age, but also young men and women entering college, young men and women about to be married, and women who are prospective mothers. | Examination of the blood pressure regularly in women who are prospective mothers may mean the difference between life and death. —_—
Mrs. Growns Hostess
Mrs. H. T. Growns was hostess today at a 1 o'clock luncheon for the members of Lambda Chapter, Alpha Omicron Alpha Sorority. It is to be held at the Colonial Tea Room, 1433 N. Pennsylvauia St.
1087" Voters Urge Support of Merit Basis
Letter Expresses Concern Over Legislation: Now Before Congress.
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THURSDAY, JUNE 17,
Support of the merit: system of appointment was urged in a letter sent today to Representatives Wil liam H. Larrabee, Louis Ludlow and Senators Sherman Minton : Frederick VanNuys by the Indian» apolis League |of Women Voters’ executive com The committee expressed concern over pending legislation to limit ap= pointments on p merit basis and te increase partisan appointments. Such proposals before Congress include an amendment to the Railroad Retirement Act providing that employees be appointed without regard to the Civil Service or Classifi« cation Act. Other trends include attempts to exempt civilian employees of the CCC from the Civil Service Act, ef= forts to defeat the purpose of the Ramspeck Postoffice Act by retain ing Senate confirmation of post master appointments. The letter said: “We see in these . proposals no evidence that Congress is following recommendations made last fall by President Roosevelt as a result of the Committee on Administrative Management = report, The recommendation was that the merit system be extended ‘upward, outward and downward.’ Congress alone can vitalize that principle. An awakening public opinion is demandihg that it become a reality.” _The letter "concluded with the statement that both Democratic and Republican platforms supported the extension of the merit system and a request for packing it.
Miss Maryellen Billeter is to be installed as Honor Quee». of Bethel No. 1, Job's Daughters Monday night.
Mind Your Manners
Test your knowledge of correct social usage by answering the following questions, then checking against the authoritative answers below: 1. How should corn on the cob be eaten? 2. Should ‘fried chicken be _eaten with the fingers? 3. Should a host in [offering to serve a guest at the table say, “May I give you some more meat?” 4. Should a hostess apolo-: gize to a guest if the service is poor? : 5. How does one refuse food when proffered by a servant?
What would you do if— You are eating in a restaurant and for the first time in your life are served an artichoke? You have no idea how to eat it. A. Wait to see how others at the table are eating them? B. Guess at how it is done. C. Say you have never eaten
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an artichoke and ask how to go about it.
” Answers
1. Hold cob by one hand, putting butter on only a small portion . at one time. Ears should be broken before being served at table. 2. In a small family group yes; otherwise, no. : 3. No, avoid term | “second helping” also. ; 4. No. i 5. Say, “No, thank you.”
Best “What Would You Do” solution—A, if it can be done easily. C, if you realize that
A will not work. (Copyright, 1937, by United Press)
Miss Bernice Silcox is to become the bride of Laroy FF. Newman at 8:30 p. m. today in the St. John's Evangelical Church. | The Rev. Ernst Piepenbrok is to
officiate at the ceremony. The bride, who is to be given in marriage by her brother, Harold Silcox, is to wear a white satin gown fashioned with a long train and lace yoke. Her tulle veil is made with lace inserts and her flowers will be brides roses and lilies of the valley. Miss Eileen Newman, the bride« groom’s sister, is to be the maid of honor. She will wear green taffeta| and is to carry yellow roses. Misses Goldiene Stringer |and Dorothy Carney. bridesmaids, are to wear mousseline de soie dresses. Walter Sinclair is to be best man, Earl Carney and Edward Horton will usher. i | ; A reception is to be held at the home of the bridegroom's parents, Mr. and Mrs. J. Harry Newman, following the ceremony. The couple will live in Indiane apolis. :
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Sorority Group To Meet Members of Delta Chapter, Alpha Omicron Alpha, are to be guests of Miss Phyllis Strong at a lunchenon at the Russian Tearoom tomorrow. Bridge will follow. .
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Miss Turner; daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Lee Turner, 4073 Graceland Ave., is to be married June 27 to L. Calvin Nelson at the Carrollton Avenue Reformed Church.
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